After watching numerous brain scans, researchers found that for those men who were given oxytocin, the pleasure and desire regions of their brain lit up intensely upon seeing their significant others. But when the men saw casual acquaintances or strangers, these areas either lit up far less or were not activated at all.
“Once men receive oxytocin, the attractiveness of the partner increases compared to the attractiveness value recorded for other females,” said Rene Hurlemann, MD, PhD, a professor of psychiatry at Germany’s University of Bonn, and the study’s lead author. In that way, the hormone creates unconscious biases that may indirectly cause a man to favor one woman above all others.
In the scientific community, oxytocin is known as the “cuddle chemical” because it is released in the brain when couples kiss and hug, as well as during orgasms and other intimate activities. Studies also show that the more of these moments a couple has, the more oxytocin is released and stored in the body.
The research also backs up a previous study on oxytocin that showed men in long-term relationships who were given the hormone actually kept a greater physical distance from an attractive research associate as compared with single men.