Comments on: OPINION: If RiRi Was Your Daughter, What Would You Do?

By: saimderrrty

saimderrrty — Sun, 12 Apr 2009 22:45:33 +0000

both have a blame in this. so both are learning a lesson. to convict him and say he will do it again is not right. what would do if you was in his position. for one you werent there and dont know what it is he experiencd nor her. you dont know if she actually provoked him. regardless if you did or didnt there was a problem with respect on both parts. Riahna isnt a valey girl. give her credit, she might have took his nuts and grinded them ntil it hurt so bad that he snapped. Man both of em stressed and gained more than you or I. Lets do them some respect and not even talk about it any more and let them get over this how ever they choose.

By: Ayiti_Quisqueya88

Ayiti_Quisqueya88 — Sat, 21 Mar 2009 02:00:50 +0000

if she was my daughter she would have never gotten beaten by no dude… but ugh since shes not my kid or my family or my friend its none of my business

By: SWANKness

SWANKness — Fri, 20 Mar 2009 22:34:03 +0000

is she was my daughter, i’d tell her the truth. people always show you they real self, and chris brown happened to do just that, if he hit you once, he’ll do it again. I’d make her watch what’s love got to do with it over and over again, the color purple, and see how those women said enough is enough. I’d also beat thee s**t outta chris brown, and they’d have no communication, i dont care how old she is. If she wanna see 22, she might not wanna go back to him.

By: ice_angel_140

ice_angel_140 — Fri, 20 Mar 2009 17:01:01 +0000

ok if i had a daughter in a relationshi like that id do everything in my power to keep her away from him. but in this situation i think there are more then meets the eye. i dont think she was as innocent as she is portraying herself to be. it wouldnt surprise me if she put hands on him before and if thats the case being the fact that i do have a little boy id tell him to never put his hands on a woman like that but if she trying to come at you than you need to defend yourself. so many women put themselves in a mans position and try to lay hands on a dude and expect them not to retaliate. in this day and age if you want to act like a man you deserve to be treated like one. no i know people are not going to like what i said but please try to remember that this is just my opinion

By: ms_real2008

ms_real2008 — Wed, 18 Mar 2009 22:42:15 +0000

* would
Corrected spelling. Sorry, i was typing so fast.

By: ms_real2008

ms_real2008 — Wed, 18 Mar 2009 22:39:52 +0000

Well the point is, she’s not my daughter, so i can’t tell you what i’ll do (and i won’t imagine either). She has parents who are suppporting their daughter and she left him for good anyway.
I wish everyone whould shut up about rihanna and chris brown. How would you feel if your personal business was out there and everyone was giving you advice you don’t want to hear or asked for? I bet you wouldn’t like to be critized because no one does. People are giving their advice, but no ones’s realizing that the last decision is hers and it is a choice she made on her own.

By: battletactics

battletactics — Wed, 18 Mar 2009 16:33:17 +0000

If he puts his hands on my daughter…It’d be HARD for me not to go to jail. So hard. Because, I dont care WHY….This is my daughter. I have no remorse for men like this. But I dont expect everyone to think like me.

But I always explain to my son THIS is why you dont hit women. Because her father and brothers, might think like ME…..So dont put your hands on a woman.

By: Deacon_John

Deacon_John — Wed, 18 Mar 2009 08:29:38 +0000

As there are many facets to every man, so there are many answers.

Animal Instinct-immediate and vengeful retribution

Religious-seek understanding and repentance

Protectionist-whisk her away, never to return

Enabler-asks what did she do to upset you

Punk-what do you want me to do about it?

Indecisive-is, of course, indecisive

Politician/Interjector-tries to solve the problem for them

Which am I? It depends on the phase of the moon, the solar angle, the tilt of the earth, and the lunar phase. I am, as are we all…one or more of these at different times. Most of all I would hope that my child would never be in that position (that is escapist)

By: EFEEZEE

EFEEZEE — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 18:40:25 +0000

Aren’t you guys tired of this circus yet lol. Lets move on in life and quit dwelling on this issue that does not affect any of us cause we’re not Chris or Ri lol! Just let it go!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

By: djazz58

djazz58 — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 13:31:52 +0000

I wouldnt have Killed him. but he would have prayed for death when i got thru…and then i would take her for some phyciatric help .because, of the way i would have raised her,she would have been school on those type of men/BOY…

men please..Take your daughters out on a date
so they will know how a man is suppose to treat them.

By: rocksteady562

rocksteady562 — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 13:21:11 +0000

i’d die for my fam and go to prison for them. So you already know what i’d do for my daughter.

the question should be!.. what would you do to your son? what would you do…or “say”?..if anything

By: Keeda84

Keeda84 — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 13:20:12 +0000

I MEAN I WOULD HAVE TO NO ALL OF WHAT HAD HAPPENED AND WHY IT HAPPENED. THEN AFTER THEN YOU NO I WOULD GIVE HER MY OPINION AND ITS LEAVE IT UP TO HER. THE CHOICE WOULD NEVER BE MINES ITS GOING TO BE HERS CAUSE SHE IS A GROWN WOMAN AND SHE MAKES HER OWN CHOICES IN LIFE. NO ONE CAN STOP HER FROM DOING HER AND THAT IS HOW I FEEL

By: South_Paw1

South_Paw1 — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 13:14:46 +0000

i wuda lef dat nigga stankn wit da fleaz

By: Blackbird16

Blackbird16 — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 13:08:12 +0000

First i would have to know the whole story if i don’t know then she should tell me but she shouldn’t leave nothing out so we could get to the bottom of it. Then we would have a long talk and tell her to stay away from him because the next time you just might not be that lucky,and get back on track it’s going to take some time but all wounds will heal.

By: RevolutionaryDeicide

RevolutionaryDeicide — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 13:02:22 +0000

After I kick his natural A**

By: RevolutionaryDeicide

RevolutionaryDeicide — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 12:55:07 +0000

Trech from Naughty by Nature beat Peppa from Salta and peppa?
I did not know that did yall?

By: NoExtras

NoExtras — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 12:48:54 +0000

Its not a question of what you would do, this is the outcome of young people playing grown just not very mature in there decission making ot thinking.Onr thing bout being in love it is often void seeing what is really there.

By: hot_ma81

hot_ma81 — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 12:43:46 +0000

people seem to be forgetting the rihanna was beating on him too i don’t get it why is it okay for her and not him!!! i have been in an abusive relationship a true one where i wasn’t beating on him. i think she is just as wrong as him !!

By: GGGIAN1

GGGIAN1 — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 11:39:31 +0000

WE WOULD HAVE TO SIT DOWN AND TALK.

By: TheEbonyPrince

TheEbonyPrince — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 11:21:52 +0000

I would take her and continue to love her, and allow her to be the 21 year old woman she is. I’d tell her that in time beauty fades, but how you treat people remains for ever. Don’t put your hands on another person except to defend yourself! A man should never hit a woman even if provoked. Daddy will always love you inspite of what you do. Daddy will always be here for you.

By: Alyazone

Alyazone — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 10:50:54 +0000

Well for one I have no respect for Mr Brown. In If Rihanna Was my lil girl In she was over 18. In She decided she wanted to go back to this boy. Then She would have to learn the hard way. But Knowing me in my blood. In she was my Daughter. Oh I would have it paid under the table in I would act nice to Mr Chris Brown In about a 6 months to A year. He would be Knock off. That is me if I had a Man beat my baby girl like that. Yes I would have a hit put out on him. In Chris would know that the Mother is the Best. So he don’t want to even go there with me. But I Believe he did Because Rihanna was looking good on all the make up adds. In I believe he wanted to f**k up her life. Look at that thing his Manger he have been screwing. That thing is ugly. In He pick that over Rihanna That is why if I ever got famous. No one the Media or anything would know Who im dating. Until Im getting married. In if he acts like he will put his hands on me. His Momma will wear that Black dress. In that is real No to Abuse. Only if you are having sex…lol But not the face just the middle. That it bye now…lol //.\\

By: nudae

nudae — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 09:37:19 +0000

for everyone reading this pay close attention……..baby girl listen mommy loves u ur dady loves u but ur father knows best…..if u want him forgive him move on and don’t hold it to him…..if u cant forgive him love him enough to let him go…..remember we all have something going on that is displeasing to our father. Y u r picking the toothpick out of someone else’s eye don’t forget about the bark in urs…….remember chris is a child……what if he was ur son……god will continue the work that he started until the day of his return……..the are reactions to every action….stop trying to crucify the young man JESUS died a LONNNNNNNg time ago……..great thing though is that he rose and is at the right side of GOD at this very moment…..he died for ri ri chris u and me COMPASSION n u guys want change?

By: STL2THICK1

STL2THICK1 — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 08:56:15 +0000

We as parents try 2 do everything we can 2 teach our children 2 make the rite decisions n life.And we hope they use that n the long run.She has 2 learn that sumthings r gud 4 u & sumthing arent gud 4 u.No matter how much we tell her not 2 go back 2 him who’s 2 say she gon listen 2 wat we say.That will only drive her closer 2 him she went back she feels its rite & stand by her man no matter wat the world opinion is.So we just have 2 keep her n our prayers & hope they both come 2 terms n wat desicions they make n life & deal wit them responsibly & like adults..Its never 2 late 2 search 4 guidance & intervention.(WE HAVE 2 REMEMBER SHE IS AN ADULT WE ONLY RESPONDING CAUSE THE MEDIA IS BLOWING IT 2 THE LIMIT WIT THIS & WE ALWAYS N SUMBODIES ELSES BUSINESS INSTEAD OF LOOKIN @ OUR OWN LIFE FIRST)Stop blaming it on the way she was raised, & all that other BS she human we all make bad, decisons,mistakes,or judgements.So show me a perfect person besides OUR GOD..

By: honeybelow

honeybelow — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 08:27:20 +0000

I’d support her….and not judge her…and console her….and advise her…if another hits her…I’ll defend her….and destroy him! lol

By: YOURNAWTEEGIRL

YOURNAWTEEGIRL — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 06:22:33 +0000

WOW I HAVE NO IDEA…CUZ I WOULD TRULY BE LIVID…IT WOULD TAKE EVERYTHING IN ME TO BE ABLE TO FORGIVE SOMETHING LIKE THAT…BUT THERE IS NO WAY IN HELL I WOULD ALLOW HER TO GO BACK TO HIM REGARDLESS…I WOULD TELL HER TO LOVE AND RESPECT HERSELF I WOULD TELL HER THAT SHE’S BETTER THAN THAT…THAT SHE CAN AND WILL FIND A MAN THAT’S GOING TO TRULY LOVE HER AND WOULD NEVER EVER HARM HER SOMEONE THAT INSTEAD WILL PROTECT HER AND NEVER LET ANYTHING BAD HAPPEN TO HER…I WOULD TELL HER THAT CHRIS NEEDS TO GROW UP..AND THAT SHE NEEDS A REAL MAN IN HER LIFE…I WOULD TELL HER THAT HE’S NOT WORTH IT…THAT HE MAY DO EVEN WORSE TO HER NEXT TIME AND THAT SHE NEEDS TO BE A GOOD EXAMPLE FOR ALL THE YOUNG GIRLS OUT THERE THAT LOOK UP TO HER…BE STRONG…I WOULD TELL HER TO KEEP ME IN MIND AND THINK OF WHAT IT WOULD DO TO ME IF I LOST MY DAUGHTER OVER THIS STUPID S**T..I WOULD TELL HER SHE DESERVES HAPPINESS NOT BRUISES CUTS AND BLEEDING…LOVE DOESN’T LEAVE BRUSIES ON YOUR FACE

By: uwillluvwhatucnme

uwillluvwhatucnme — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 05:51:12 +0000

If Ri was my daughter I would have taught her that his di@@ beaters belong on his side or in his pocket. I for one I was hit one time by my BD and it was a wrap and we are still friends but never can be lovers. I dont judge him I know how I did take some situations to the extreme and it is not ok to hit but I put myself in a mans shoes before and it is not what I bargained for.Shame on him.If he or her was not famous this wouldnt be an issue. Now Robin Tyra and all the other victims are coming out.WE GIVE ALL THESE ARTIST AND ACTRESS TALK SHOW HOST TOO MUCH ATTENTION. OPRAH CANT HELP US PEOPLE THAT WRITE TO HER SHOW BUT SHE CAN COMMENT ON THIS SITUATION. NO WONDER SHE HAS NO RING THAT SHE DID NOT PAY FOR.

By: X-TORTION

X-TORTION — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 05:49:14 +0000

Beside what i wrote earlier, i’d sit her down with and explain to her that if a man put his hands on you like that cannot…CANNOT possibly “love you”…not even the least bit. I’ve raised you to be strong and to know how to get yourself away from danger. I am your father and i will burn in hell so you may fly in heaven and i will burn a million times worse if you’re in heaven BEFORE your time. Leave this BOY where he is and NEVER look back!

By: C_BUGGIE918

C_BUGGIE918 — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 05:47:13 +0000

If the situation was on me, and that was mine daughter. I Only if my daughter had of told me that. NOT THE MEDIA!!! People want to hear what you would had done, but who knows the truth? Oh, course I would F**KED HIM UP for that, hold him down, and let my daughter have her way with him. BUT, god & them only knows the truth… I don’t think he really beat her like that. I think it’s more to the story!!!!

By: Tiger153

Tiger153 — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 05:44:31 +0000

If I were Rihanna’s father and he hit her, I hit HIM, a whole LOT of times! What Dr. King said about violence was fine but it wasn’t his daughter that got beaten up.

By: wht4blk25

wht4blk25 — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 05:43:27 +0000

I ain’t gonna blame it all on Chris, but I have been in that situation before.. Rihanna you need to find another umberella and run like hell.. Some people do change but not over night.. you need more time and chris needs help.. He told me he would never hit me again and 3 years later he was still doin it, so it was my fault after the first time.. Until I got pregnant with our son I was dumb, but once I found out I moved to a different state, didn’t talk to old friends nothin.. just give it time both yall.. if she was my daughter I’d be in jail… best luck to both of ya’ll.

By: cosmicdance

cosmicdance — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 05:16:33 +0000

One more thing from this grandmother.By my desk I have this quote by Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Remember him? If there ever was a time that we need to heed his words, it’s now.We are becoming a society that feeds on violence, and it serves no one. Dr King reminds us with this quote: “Returning violence for violence multiplies violence, adding deeper darkeness to a night already devoid of stars. Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.”

By: Mizta_Tito

Mizta_Tito — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 05:10:42 +0000

id be the most hated nigga in america in females eyes. plus i probably wouldnt be on bp anymore because ol chris brown would be 12 ft in the dirt for good measure and id be in jail with no regrets.

By: Azadex

Azadex — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 05:06:35 +0000

I would tell her, how the hell you get a std in the first place?

By: sexicherre

sexicherre — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 05:05:26 +0000

IF RIHANNA WERE MY DAUGHTER I WOULD BE THERE FOR HER 100% AND LET HER KNOW THAT EVERYONE GO THROUGH SOMETHING IN LIFE I WOULD TELL HER TO PRAY AND ASK GOD TO GIVE HER THE STREGHT EACH DAY BECAUSE SHE’S GONNA PASS THIS AND THIS IS TEMP AND IT WILL END ONE DAY THAT’S A MUST I WOULD LET HER KNOW THAT I LOVE HER AND I’M THERE FOR HER NO MATTER I WOULD TELL HER TO GIVE HER SELF SOME TIME TO HER SELF AND TO JUST GIVE HER SELF A BREAK FROM CHRIS JUST TO MAKE SURE SHE KNOWS WHAT SHE REALLY WANT DEEP DOWN INSIDE….NO ONE KNOWS WHAT GOOD FOR THE BOTH OF THEM BUT GOD AND NO ONE SHOULD NOT BE JUDGING ANY OF THEM AT ALL PEOPLE GO THROUGH THINGS EVERYDAY SO INSTEAD OF ANY OF US JUDGING THEM WE MUST BE JUDGE BY GOD……SO ON THAT I LOVE BOTH CHRIS & RIHANA

By: cosmicdance

cosmicdance — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 05:01:41 +0000

Rihanna would be my granddaughter,my g’daughter is also twenty one. I’m sixty four and have accrued some wisdom along the way. I would tell Rihanna that I remember how it was to be in love, deep in love with my man. I would also tell her that when we are young and in love, emotions can play a big part in our relationship and sometimes our emotions drive us to do crazy things. Jealousy, anger, fear, hurt, they all come out and they weaken us and cause us to act on impulse rather that maturity. My young man,the one I was in love with hit me too. I let it go the first time, and then, later,it happened again and I knew I had to leave him or risk something terrible happening. This is not about Rihanna provoking or even reacting to the circ**stances. This is about a young man who choose violence over non violence.We need to separate ourselves from the trappings of this incident and look at the truth of the matter. No man, or no woman has the right to put their hands on another, to batter/assault another without the other person’s permission. A professional boxer like Ali would have that right, but not an ordinary person. If we do we are breaking the law and with that we have to accept the consequences. If Rihanna was my g’daughter I’d take her in my arms and tell her that life will be very hard at times,and to never allow anyone to ever put their hands on her in a violent way, no matter what.

By: isseymiyake

isseymiyake — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 04:52:57 +0000

if she was my daughter, she would defend herself and know better……

By: 0VancouverHurts

0VancouverHurts — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 04:52:38 +0000

If Rihanna was my daughter, I would tell her as long as you are giving me money I don’t care if you choose to stay with him or not as long as I am getting paper ya dig!

By: jazzluvr22

jazzluvr22 — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 04:52:19 +0000

I would whoop his ass just like he whooped her. Then I would try to talk some sense into her concerning having some self respect for herself and not to ever let a man beat you like a junk yard dog and still think that he loves you.

By: addictive4_08

addictive4_08 — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 04:37:11 +0000

As humans our inclination is to beat the living day lights out of him.Although he would deserve it.But I would hope I have instilled enough self love and integrity in my daughter to know that if someone put their hands on you in a way that could possibly be fatal…flee and dont look back because then it will start to become good to him and it most definitely will happen again.Also I would make sure she go through the necessary legal actions to make him pay for the crime he committed.I would hope she would do that for her own well being.Chris Brown has some serious problems that needs not anger management but a phsyciatrist to get to the root of his issues,because the next time around if he hits another woman it may be his last time.

By: blakpoet_1

blakpoet_1 — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 04:30:36 +0000

i would pray for her. i would talk to her and try to talk some sense into her but all in all i would just put her in God’s hands.