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OPINION: When Is Kinky Sex Just Too Much?

Written by RK Byers on June 9, 2009 4:13 pm

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Now, I’ve done some things (hey! hey!). I’ve known some things (hey! hey!). But if a woman were to have ever pulled out a rope on me, I’d have been like, “Wait a minute, wait a minute… you do realize that there’s a history…?”

Same thing with handcuffs, I’d have had to explain that I don’t like the cops. Leather, I think, is too fine a material to ruin with bodily fluids. And whips and chains are for cattle and dogs respectively.

I tried the candle wax thing once and only once because they were scented candles and, well, the reality was that I didn’t like having the smell of apricots burned into my skin.

When I watch porn I’m usually equal parts turned on and horrified. As guys, I think we like to imagine ourselves in the role of the guy in the scene but quite honestly, sometimes I wouldn’t even wanna be the cameraman. I’m also not a big fan of lesbian onscreen sex. I think there should be a guy there if only to hold a glass of wine and talk trash. That’d be me.

Writing all this has led me to understand that I’m probably a bit of a prude! This means that there is absolutely no way that I would have been found dead like the late actor David Carradine.

Carradine, 72, star of TV’s “Kung Fu” and much more recently the movies both of the “Kill Bill” movies was found in a Bangkok motel room this past Thursday hanging naked with ropes tied around his neck, genitals and wrists.

Now, two of his ex-wives have already gone on record as saying that Carradine had a thing for kinky sex. It was probably their secret up until now. Also, some pictures of Carradine’s grisly demise have supposedly leaked—although I haven’t seen them and unlike Cassie and Rihanna’s joints, I’m NOT looking for them.

The general consensus so far is that Carradine’s case is one of auto-erotic asphyxiation, which means that while masturbating, he hung himself.

Be careful, folks.

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/AfricaDarkestDiamond/ AfricaDarkestDiamond

    Rest in peace…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/tallerthanyou/ tallerthanyou

    you too old to be a freak you didnt learn 50 years ago? you gotta be a freak to move to thailand- home of the perverts

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Wolfi_G/ Wolfi_G

    Poor guy. . . at least he died doing something he loved.

    Let’s respect Carradine though. We might not all be kinks, but we all do things we’re publicly ashamed of.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DRACATTACK/ DRACATTACK

    Being a “big ol’ freak” has nothing to do with “age.” We all like what we like & hell, if its that damn good (and hopefully safe) then go for it & “gitcho freak on!!”

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/my_brooks_7204/ my_brooks_7204

    to each his own…. and yeah u r a prude. u act like a woman’s gonna read u ur rights after she handcuffs u. get with the times, missionary is not the only way anymore. explore new things.u’ll never kno if u don’t try….

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SassyBoo/ SassyBoo

    u mean he put himself in the rope and while masturbating..that would be a lot of work, aint it….damn!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/top5most/ top5most

    well i hope he reached his goal, at least. RIP Grasshopper

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Rudy836/ Rudy836

    I know this is off the topic.Carradine was a good actor,but do yall know they wouldnt let Bruce Lee play the role for the legend of Kung Fu because he was supposedly to Asain.I was kind of pissed off when I heard that.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/COOL_BENTLEY/ COOL_BENTLEY

    WOW KUNG FU GUY WAS A FREAKY
    PERSON

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DvnmsLT/ DvnmsLT

    Hey Rick,

    Good article. I agree with quite a few of the things you’ve stated. I must, however, raise a few questions about some of what you said.

    First of all…

    …this incident is STILL under investigation. Based on the way Mr. Carradine’s body was found, there is NO WAY he could have don this to himself, which is why his family has asked the U.S. Government to get involved. I mean, think about it, rope around his neck, genitals, and his wrists… Who do YOU know that can pleasure themselves with their wrists tied??? Seriously???

    Now, to the topic of the article…

    Kinky sex is “too much” when one party is no longer enjoying themselves. If BOTH people are in agreement with that’s going on, the they’re good-to-go.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/vexedbella76/ vexedbella76

    i figured that…
    damn…i wonder what his conversation at the gate is gonna be like…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/shoot4damoon/ shoot4damoon

    kinky sex is too much when you accidently can hang yourself obviously.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/soul_rebel_408/ soul_rebel_408

    Rudy: Bruce Lee was supposedly Asian? I’ve never heard of any doubts about whether or not he was Asian.. please fill us all in on that.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/YOURNAWTEEGIRL/ YOURNAWTEEGIRL

    PORN IS THE ISH
    LOL

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/nicole1239/ nicole1239

    Kinky sex is just too much when you start talking about pissing and sh*tting on each other. That is just a bit across the line. It makes no sense what so ever. How does that mess turn you on????

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/ISSA152/ ISSA152

    It’s too much when the ambulance needs to be called!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/mzamaretto/ mzamaretto

    Naw something is wrong with this picture,….How the hell did he get all BOUND up and HUNG up without some ASSISTANCE! Now do I think there was some lil Thai boy in the room with him and got scared,..OF COURSE I DO (prolly a he-she) but you know what I mean. Problem for me is, what do you say to PETER when you hit them gates,….? “ahm I didnt realize I was on my way here,..”

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/benz178/ benz178

    I down for kinny sex. Just no do-do or blood. And nothing can go in my ass but I’m down for what eva. I like kinky sex!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/LaDawnThEGreaT1/ LaDawnThEGreaT1

    that must have been a good ass nut..

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/-HatedOnMostly-/ -HatedOnMostly-

    touch me tease me lick me kiss me and do me good and i’m happy…i’m down for sex just about any time any place but i can’t stand when the guy wants me to talk dirty the entire time…a few things here and there is ok but it’s like if the act itself and my moaning ain’t good enough you need to get with someone else cuz i ain’t tryin 2 do all that talking…but this dude here, i wouldn’t even go there…all that s&m dominatrix or whatever stuff is so not my cup of tea…YIKES!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/TyshellShawntea/ TyshellShawntea

    its racist and somehow whiteys fault

    cry

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/tharealpopdaddy/ tharealpopdaddy

    there is nothing too kinky! what you want do another muthaf**ka will do it! and do it well

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/2good2bsingle/ 2good2bsingle

    ONLY life-threatening sex is a No-No for me! lol There are LOTS of things that I used to say that I’d ‘Never Do’, but.. As I got older, MANY THINGS have evolved!! ;-) If I’m with a woman that I really dig.. Virtually NOTHING is ‘Out of Bounds’! Name calling (not TOO derogatory), Pulling Hair (not TOO roughly), Ass Slapping, Candle Wax, Ice Cubes, Whipped Cream, etc. The list is ENDLESS!! I DON’T however, believe that objects in a Man’s rectum is fair game!! That stuff is for sexual extremists only!! Oh! Also.. Of course a little Role Play is ALWAYS a good thing!! lol Holla if ya hear me!! ;-)

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