YO…THAT’S CRAZY …RJ, WTF BIG HOMIE!

BYTCH THOUGHT SHE WAS GONNA GET PAID….

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

lol run while u still can!!! lol

People take time off from there job to make it a wedding and you are a no-show. If RJ knew he wasn’t ready, he should of been honest with his woman. That was a waste of people’s time!

Guess he wasn’t confident in the prenup holding up so he said hold up – and he was out no doubt. What up SA, enjoy RJ ’cause the Nets and owner Bruce Ratner are among the worst franchises in professional sports (2nd to last in ownership rankings)…word.

Ultimate Standings 2009: No. 111 (Ownership – #121)
New Jersey Nets

By Morty Ain
ESPN The Magazine

Last Year’s Rank: 100
Title Track: 100
Ownership: 121
Coaching: 108
Players: 102
Fan Relations: 88
Affordability: 65
Stadium Experience: 119
Bang for the Buck: 99

Developer Bruce Ratner is starting to resemble that college friend who just wasn’t ready to move on after graduation. Hey, Jersey, we’re hitting snafus with that planned move to Brooklyn, so, ummm, ya mind if I crash here a while longer? “I’d like to say we have the most hated owner in sports, but of course that’s not possible,” says Mike from Joenetsfan.com, “because a) Al Davis is still around, and b) Nets fans can’t work up enough contempt to get stoic, let alone angry.” You have to figure that with tickets about $16 cheaper on average than what the Knicks peddle, fans can’t feel like they’re being totally hustled, right? Anyway, can you really put a price tag on the chance to feign excitement for a squad that has outperformed a big-city neighbor in each of the past eight seasons? Well, maybe. “I happen to have the cheapest season tickets in the NBA, at $199 for the season,” says Netincome of Netsdaily.com. “But to get to my seats requires a StairMaster-like climb of nearly 100 steps.” The single packed-to-the-gills concourse doesn’t help win raves, nor do the envy-inducing smells and sounds of construction that emanate from the new Jets/Giants stadium being raised just yards away. In the end, though, the poor-relation expectations that have taken hold west of the Hudson may be a blessing in disguise. “Hey, it’s Jersey, baby,” says Netincome. “No fuss, no bother, no pretense.” Who can blame Ratner for wanting to squat with guys like that?

oh well ones less “dancer” gettin a handout

smart man

ha ha ha ha lmao. finally somebody not being stupid

NOtice how all the wives are Light skinned and over half are not African-American Women…..Guess the Phat N Sassy (fiesty) isnt a good look for a man w/ some stature about himself.

thats bogus, yal dont even know the story between them 2 and because she’s less fortunate than he is, she gotta be a charity case? …so if any of yal females on here were to pull a man with bank then he should leave yal cuz then he would be giving yal handouts……lmao i swear thats why i dont have very many female friends, b***hes be hatin tooo hard on each other lol…………..but i hope she dont turn bitter

WHAT THE F**K THAT GOTTA DO WITH BANK DUMBASSES DAMN ALWAYS THINKING A BLACK WOMAN WANT SUM MONEY DAMN ITS OK IF A WHITE WOMEN GET THAT CAKE THOUGH I HAVE MY OWN BUSSINESS MAKE MY OWN MONEY AND YES I WANT A MAN THAT CAN ATLEAST TAKE CARE OF HIMSELF S**T I WANNA KNOW WHAT IT FEEL LIKE 2 BE CARED 4 S**T I’LL COOK I’LL CLEAN KEEP THE HOUSE CLEAN I’M NOT 2 INDEPENDANT 4 THAT BUT I CANT DO IT ALL IF BLACK MEN DO WHAT THEY SUPPOSE U SAY U THE HEAD BE THE HEAD I’M QUIT SURE WE WOULD FALL IN LINE QICK 2 A WHITE WOMAN KNOW HER PLACE BULLS**T U JUST WANT A DO NOT REALIZING THEY ALL BOUT MONEY

i hope the people who think this is funny get stood up on their wedding day. see how lmao that would be. you don’t know this girl to assume she was a gold digger. No one deserves to be treated like this. That’s simply not the way a GROWN ADULT MAN behaves, running away at the last minute like a child. Calling it off 11 hrs before they were to be wed with people there and everything paid for, seriously? what a king douche.

Good move…wrong way to do it…..he was about to marry a gold digger….if a lot of females didn’t make their lives out to be about money and other shallow, artificial, superficial, material means….rj probably would have never skipped…make it about the guy and not about what the guy has….with that being said…..he should have told her…..even if she is the wrong type of girl…still should have did it like a man….

them ugly niggas cheat any way

Well marriage isn’t for everyone. Maybe he thought it over at the last minute. I’m going to marry this woman if we get divorced she is going to get half of everything I worked hard for. Richard Jefferson your wrong for taking the punk way out. The next time you ask the next woman to marry you, make sure you tell her she is going to be left at the alter like the first woman you asked to marry you. You are so wrong.

omg! she look like…this is my man. and hes like ya shes some chick. I just dont see any chemisty in the pic. An she also looks plastic. Hes not all that cute either. Id rather had a football player! I have my own money…take care of the biz….but its nothing lke a big sexy man laying next to me!

He probably had intensions on being a cheater like the rest of his fellow athletes and based on the latest news, decided it would be safer to stay a bachelor rather than cheat and end up 6 feet under. Better safe than sorry. To bad for the girl, she probably is better off with out him anyway.

Oh well. You never know what was goin on behind closed doors and what was the deciding factor. Just only if this decision came jus a lil sooner, i feel sorry for the guest

Something is fishy here. The article says that she’s doing fine……how fine can u be after being left at the alter? I mean it’s not like the dude got hit my car..he told her in the worst way possible that he didn’t want to marry her. She’ll probably go back to him. But I hope not.

Yall stop gossipping and get a life. His decision has no bearing on your lives so stay outta his and hers!

Damn! there are emotions involved in all of this – on both sides people! Ok – the manner in which it was allegedly done wasn’t the most gentlemanly, however, he had to be true to himself for whatever the reason. We will never know the self-actualisation of either party – but have some compassion, pain is pain, irrespective of whether its the heart, head or a wound its pain, and if truth be told NO ONE LIKES IT! Furthermore it’s none of our business but theirs!

its best not 2 get married until ur ready…. he just probably had second thoughts……….. marriage is too much a fantasy for women ever since they are little girls……………

when girls are 2nd grade they are talking marriage and who they wanna marry…lol not boys..
we just dont think like that .. its not in our DNA……. it is what it is. women have to be realistic when it comes 2 marriage..

studies have shown its best for men to marry in their 40s and women in their 30s…. kids are overrated.

…how many people do u know wish they didnt have kids or waited ’til later??? hmm??

and the only reason to get married is to have kids in my opinion and to start a family…

its best for a man to stay single and mingle as long as he can.. i feel most guys are pressured into marriage by society, family, friends, etc etc… because “its the right thing to do”…. according to whom???

guys know in their heart when its the right time or when they wanna have kids and a family and that might not be until they are in their 30s or 40s…..

women just need to stop with this marriage nonsense. when a guy is ready he will ask u…….guys dont like pressure and if we have too much pressure on us we will bail……

when guys get 2gether with other guys we rarely or ever talk abt marriage among us.

we talk abt sex, women, sports and other things but not marriage and we dont look at those bridal magazines either……..lol

KG’s wife is fine. Go head KG

He must have found out about some scandelous happenings that he couldn’t just look over.

well it is what it is…

That bro was smart. The marriage life is over-rated it aint what its all cracked up to be. Dude was smart bottom line.

i agree with you easye, women do try to pressure men into marriage it happened to me a few times and boy i would stall on going to the jewelry shop lol but yeah he aboviously wasnt ready and thaty being forever talk probably spoook him lol

HE DID A SMART THING! YOU ARE A BBALL PLAYER, HAVE FUN!

yeah kg got the best lookn wife lol daym

life is life i guess…smh…lol

good job she probably was out for your money Rich good job

Sounds like males who aren’t ready for such a commitment, should open their mouth and say so. No one can make you do anything you don’t wanna do, and if you don’t wanna be married, look for women who feel the same way. Common sense. Stop thinking with your ***** and use your brain.

Immature behavior by a grown man.
Although probably for the best. For the most part professional sports cheerleaders don’t make the best wives.

It seems to me that RJ wanted to stick it to her for some reason. Maybe things weren’t all rosey.

Also, I am a Spurs fan, and now he can concentrate on helping Timmy D get another ring.

As the old saying goes..there are plenty of fish in the sea.

I’m pretty sure that RJ isn’t going to be shedding many tears.

Hey, I applaude his decision. Women can be the most forceful beings on the planet. If you are a man and worth something especially financially, it’s kinda hard to pull the claws out. Run niga, Run!

Hey, UnFknStpbl1, if it’s none of our business then why did you click on the link?

GAY..IT LOOKS THAT WAY TO ME

As a San Antonio Spurs fan, I could care less about if Richard weds or doesn’t. Just help bring us another NBA Championship.

oh well…better now than later…he could have went about it in a different manner but what’s done is done…

you know she afta that cat money he is not a looker been bald since high school what happened was he took a good long look at his self and said if i was broke would she give me the time of day? and there was his reason I don’t blame him some females are looking for that security and a two to four year tryst with a rich successful man means nothing they will do it and get paid and be out some find anotha to keep playing the game it is terrible these are the types of women our daughters have to see in the spotlight

Look man I will never understand why these cats want to get married during their playing days anyway. Too much temptation, too much p***y for any man too turn down.

You may think you want to settle down but s**t…then that one night comes lol

If I was a star I wouldnt get married during my playing days.

TRIFLIN THE WAY HE WENT ABOUT IT, BUT I AIN’T MAD HE DUMPED HER, AT LEAST HE DID IT NOW RATHER THAN LATER, BUT HE COULD HAVE DONE IT IN A WAY THAT SHOWS HE HAS SOME KINDA DAM HOME TRAININ…HAHA, BUT I CAN’T RECOVER FROM SEEIN TIM DUNCAN’S COUNTRY ASS WIFE, BUT THE REST OF THE NBA WIVES LOOK BEAUTIFUL & ON POINT TO ME…

nd I think the person who posted before me about it bein too much p***y is exactly right, whoooo chile I think it’s hard to be faithful when you are famous….

I don’t blame him not one bit! Women throw p***y like frisbies at these NBA players everywhere they go. Not only that, he has to worry about if something is going on whenever he’s on a road trip. If I had that kind of money, I’d stay single for a LONG time. A f**king cheerleader?!?! You know she just wanna get in his pockets anyway. Marriage for 5-10 years and then BAM half of his money into her account. And most of you, mainly women, would say that she deserves it. But for what? He was rich long before he met this chic. She didn’t help him build those riches. F**k that RJ stay single my nig lol.

He found out she was money hungry grub looking to hook a basketball player i hope the other men take a lesson on this stop looking for trophy wives and start looking for love

Though it was so abrupt and last minute at least he made a final decision. So many of these athletes marry for the wrong damn reasons. ( Trophy Wife) Nothing wrong with someone, looking good, but LOOKING and BEING are 2 totally different subjects.

This is crazy…but hey it’s not the first time. There’s always a reason for everything.

wow bet shes PISSEDDDDDDDD LMAO

wow thats mug!!! another broken hearted girl ahhhhh guys piss me off

He probably got a taste of what San Antonio has to offer, as far as women goes.I live hear in San Antonio and I can’t B.S. with anybody about this..As far as women, San Antonio has some winners.Right now it’s hot as hell but believe me,when I’m out and about somebody is putting a smile on my face and a nasty thought in my mind “IT’S NOT JUST THE TACOS”.I love the ladies,can’t help it…Duncan’s girl doesn’t count. :)

trophy is what they all look like

Allen Iverson’s wife is fugly!

Typical blackman ! run from commitment, makin promises and babys and dip. Unwed mothers don’t bother talkin s**t same for yal niggas with kids who not married.

yea…most of the wives are hi yella and almost vanilla

I know one thing, Allen Iverson got MAD LOVE for his wife! She look like she got down syndrome. Must be the ass!!!! Whoa!

I just don’t get it, if he had an issue he should have told her his feelings up front before it got so cloe to the wedding date. Jefferson loses kudos points in my eyes for this stunt.
This is a question that’s been on my mind.
Why is it when some or most black men become successful, they need to marry a white or a light skinned woman as a token or to show that they made it?
***This is based on the majority of celebrities who we all see that are usually dating a white or light skinned woman. Also, look at the slide show.***

wow…

wow

LMAO @ NtelligentlyInclined with that comment

But Richard Jefferson is cold-blooded for that move lol

Its good her bailed out before, instead of after. Cuz the way I see it, he was going to bail anyway…

If I had money like that and had to pick a lady in that lifestyle I would never get married if I had to wait on a black woman especially the ones who dont let their actions speak for them I dunno what happend in his case but some decisions are made for a reason hell everything happens for a reason

Good move Jefferson… some of these broads need s**t like this.

This is just so MEAN! Why couldn’t he have bailed out way before the wedding date? This is so crazy!

From reading the comments, it’s really sad how many black men have been programmed to hate marriage, or anything involving commitment. It really shows in the black community. And yes, most of the trophy wives were white or light skinned. He was a coon anyway, just like the majority of famous black people.

Despite what females might argue men aint afraid of commitment were just afraid of committing to the wrong one point blank period…
Being a mans not easy its a life long task but a woman can destroy that in as much time as it take her to put on sum stiletto pumps.
Male or female were all the same

look, she may not have won the prize but an engagement ring is a promissory note and she will get PAID !! and yeah, black men have a problem with commitment just as much as women have a problem with listening to their broke a$$ lonely friends and letting their men be a man ! no matter how christian she may claim to be. when we date you, we’re your man, when we marry you we become your sons !

This is funny!

alot of women in here are saying what he did was mean. I dont really see as such. Sure its hurtful, but if you realize that this aint the one for you, its better to leave before you make vows to God that you;re gonna stay with this person no matter what.

Reading this blog is fun… I had a rough day today… but this blog right here got me smilling…

as a black man I can understand why dark skin girl be hating on light skin girls… if you take a close look at all the so call ballers and celebrities none of them have a dark skin girl. all their girls are either white or light skin… is there something wrong with dark skin girl/woman? some body answer me please…

Bad Timing..but a good move

I read earlier today that he gave his AMEX black card to a friend for the guest to have a good time without him meaning this was probably premaeditated ( on his part) but hey at lease he broke the truth. So many people get married for the wrong damn reasons this day and age. One less disaster marraige. These 2 definitely werent made for each other.

yuyevonxxx, i agree. yeah, it’s painful and doesn’t seem right. however, it was best that he didn’t go through with the marriage. if he had and started cheating, people would be talking about how she should’ve never got married.

cold feet my ass,the nigga woak up and saw his s**t bout to go down the drain.and knowing he could get more coochie why would he marry some clown and end up pissed and miserable for the rest oif his live.

See. Spoken like a slave.

WELL IM GLAD HE DIDNT MARRIED THAT CHICK. ONE SHE AINT ALL THAT. HE CAN DO MUCH,MUCH BETTER. NOW THAT RICHARD IS SINGLE ENJOY BEING SINGLE BOO.

all i can say is lmao@ stfu_dot_com.. this is silly and its sad that people are on here pouring their heart and feelings out in comments about how she a gold digger and he a lame or punk for bailing out.. who the f**k cares. she’s gonna find another rich man to take care of her and he’ll still gettin that paypa like he been doing… i like readin these stories and being online but damn people get a f**king life.. s**t is sad.. i read every comment on here and i see some people got some serious color, race, and gender issues.. have a drink, smoke a blunt, light a newport.. do something and get a f**king life… lol

no don’t do it/ reconsider…

oh yes this is funny lmao!!!

Dark and brown-skinned brothers hate on light-skinned dudes, so sisters aren’t the only ones who go through this dilemna. I understand dude’s comment and the question. I have to ask the same question, about what’s wrong with the brown and dark-skinned brothers just like the brown and dark-skinned sisters? As for RJ, that’s a good move but he could’ve sat down with old girl way before the wedding. He didn’t just walk out on her, because there had to be a reason. It could’ve been he paid too much for this wedding, he might’ve thought was he going support her lavish lifestyle, or he took his parents’ advice about her not being good for him, or he found she was seeing someone else, or she was a gold digger, or all of the above. Do it now, or pay for it in the divorce settlement. In the words of Keith Sweat, “Something Just Ain’t Right.”

Hey whoever that was that said “Typical Black Man” comment, F**K YOU!!! Don’t label black men that way just because some nigga dropped yo ass. I hate that kinda s**t for real. Same goes for black men labeling black women for some s**t that happened to them. Go get one of them pasty white people and see if they do the same s**t a “Nigga” would. Get ya s**t together and wake the f**k up!!

S**t happens

I just pray that GOD brings peace to both parties involved! GOD knows best so maybe it just wasn’t their time!

LOL, I guess she thought she had trapped a baller, sorry try again. No this not a Typical Black Man Thing, It’s A Smart Man Thing, Im not mad at cha!!!!

He got a booty alert. I came to realize all the booty he would miss out on had he got married. haha

Let’s not judge. Just because the wedding plans were abruptly cut off doesn’t mean that anything is wrong with their personalities. Sometimes, people postpone weddings and sometimes they are just terminated. No one knows why it happened and no one can be the judge. Who is to say that they won’t go forth with the wedding later on. It’s a smart move to cut things off before you make the final leap and kids come into the picture. Even if it means you lose some money on deposits or things you have purchased, it’s no big deal compared to the pain and sorrow of a divorce. Just because he’s wealthy doesn’t mean she was a gold digger or he had his own personal agenda.

allen iversons wife is hideous…for the record

I’m reading some of these comment and WOW, are you people serious why does everything have to be about race or she has to be a gold digger he took the b***h way out. He knew how he felt days before the wedding, he just didn’t make up his mind in the last 11hrs he was dead F’ing wrong, and people are people you will never know who is a gold digger or who really loves you for you, so you small minted individuals who say if you was white it would have happened or it’s ok for a white women to take money .You need to grow up it’s not your color/race that makes your character or you fall in love with someone!!!!!!!!

S**T AVE YALL EVER ONCE THOUGHT THAT THE NIGGA MIGHT B ON THE DOWN LOW OR GAY OR SUM S**T. ITS A REASON FOR EVERYTHING BUT S**T LIKE THAT JUST DONT HAPPEN OVA NIGHT I WOUNDER WHATS THE REAL REASON

LMAO at first i thought that said Jason Kidd wit ex wife Juwanna man LOLS

RJ, smart move dude, smart move. and to all who feel sorry for ms dance alot, don’t, she’s pretty, she’ll “hook” baller…

ewwwwwwww allen iverson wife mane he coulda done better yo wtf

KEVIN GARNETT WIFE IS PRETTY AND EVA IS AND JASON KIDD EX-WIFE BUT SHE WAS ABUSIVE LOL

THAT WAS COLD BLOODED WHAT HE DID, BUT I GUESS HE HAD GOOD REASON..BUT WHO CARES?

hahahahaha thats what u get when u wanna marry a bball playa.

that niggah R.J. he on a good team now, so he knew bettah… fucc a b***h over before she fuccs u over, an they all do, ask Jordan

Well, I don’t know why pro-athletes bother to get married… know full well they arent gonna be faithful. Just stay single and enjoy the waves of wayward women.

p.s. and then you marrying a got damn professional pom-pom girl? Seriously? Atleast marry a woman that brings something more than a cheer to the table.

Jason Kidd’s lil boy has a really big head.

Smart Guy! Better now than be sorry later with money out the window. I don’t get some of these guys, it seems as if they can’t resist marrying the first thing flying at ‘em. An average Joe is understandable, but a guy with millions should watch his bucks!

PS: These chickens are just waiting to hatch an egg so that you an be a farmer forever!

i’ve always thought Jefferson was a little fruity anyway. I heard plenty of times about him and some dude. Him and luke walton use to “share” a house together too lol

Nothing wrong with backing out if hes not sure…..but an email….thats a punk ass move…I don’t care what was going on…..be a man…..I was with my first love for almost seven years……he ended it in person, it was not easy for either of us but he handled his business like a man….and I will love and RESPECT him for the rest of his life because of it…..Shug

what i dont understand is how a lot of yal turned this into a light skin dark skin thing? We all get sick, bleed and die. IF you dont like your skin, go bleach yourself otherwise shut the hell up, stop worrying about what these celebs do and be happy that you have that someone in your life that loves YOU 4 YOU! IF you single, then u that much closer to finding that 1 (unless you’re a bitter person lol) why would u want someone who thinks skin tone defines beauty?
and LMAO @ BrudeWayne2001

yal should really see that movie Diary of a Tired Black Man

PEOPLE FORGET THAT THEY BEEN TOGETHER FOR FIVE YEARS HE COULD HAVE DID A BETTER JOB THEN THE WAY HE DID IT BEST FRIENDS THAT WHAT HE SAID NO THINK NOT.

Cold feet or not,it’s better to bail out now than to get 5 years into a marriage and realize you shouldn’t have gotten married in the first place.Pity on the fiance, but the big picture says it is the right thing to do… er,ah except for the email.

It’s all fun and games…

until someone gets married

http://www.TEACHBLACKHISTORY.com

These real-deal bytche ass ni99as(all you socalled men tryna comment.Thats why I treat em’ like tha bytches they really are because they so quick to wanna try and f**k us over all cuz we women(females) and this ni99as who claim to love p***y so much sometimes make me think they love other men.So quick to call us bytches and hoes and f**k her and leave,thats their motto…well let me tell yall something,i gotta trick for all you slick homo asses.Ni99as jus scared thats all,i can’t blame them i guess.Because what happened to Steve McNair and that boxer guy(both murdered their woman)it can and will happen if you hoe ass,blowpop weak bytch dyckinthabooty as boys keep playin like we jus good for a nut or whateva,ya got anotha thing comin.So get it together b4 its too late and if he jus dumped shawty cuz of cold feet and not for being a golddigger or something,then he’ll reap what he sows.Because thats selfish and thinkin about himself,that bytch ni99a had tha whole engagement to call it off,shyt is stupid.He didn’t think about her and at least try to talk it out like grown folks.Real folks talkin it out if they expextin to get married,he a sucker,plan and simple.F**k’em,Shoot’em

This is an example of a very WEAK, inconsiderate man. All I can say is girl be glad you didn’t marry him and MOVE ON. Just a WEAK JELLYBACK NEGRO.

better to bail out of the marraige, than get shot in ya sleep……LMAO!………chick looks like she just wanted the spotlight anyway, good for u Rich, go to Spurs and get a ring

I thought Dwayne Wade was divorced they need to update their info on here.

Atleast she got some money out of the deal. Maybe she can find another baller to latch on to.

man you a punk. that’s all i gotta say about that.

SHE will definately be suing him for “HUMILIATION-MENTAL & EMOTIONAL STRESS” and sorry to say this, but SHE WILL WIN IN COURT

big whoop de doo millions are dumped daily better to end it before than regret it. both would have been miserable had it happened

I respect that he decided not to marry better now than later. One day she will be able to say Thanks

Wowwwww RJ ur further implicatin my allegations that u r gay, u talk like a white boy, and now u dump a FINE ass woman like that at the alter… yea signs point to GAY, I wish I would have a fiance’ that fine and dump her b4 we sposed to get married, imagine me doin sumthin like that to Milena or Raven Symone’, pssssshhhh somebody plzzzz come shoot me in the head, both of them, if I ever do sumthin that retarded, yea RJ u r THE BAMA OF THE WEEK 4 THAT…

R.C. The Matrix… Signin Off!!!

Good that he deicded not to go throught but there is a way to handle thing, and he did it wrong.

It WAS NOT what he did! It’s how he did it! But in the long runn for himself, he did the right thing!!! In life! We must learn to do the right thing(s) as painlessly as possible!

A 2Mil. wedding had to be working everybody’s nerves in preparation for ‘da Day’. What we haven’t heard is why he broke it off. Did he get new information that was going to make this a no go? Did she become Bridezilla? If it’s Bridezilla going in she’ll be come the Raptor divorcee going out. I hope he’s not dumpin her for another. Hate to see him go out like McNair. Women go crazy over this kinda sh*t.

What these dumb ass ball players should do is stay with the girl that liked you in highschool fool.Every woman after that is on your money and learn to love your ass.A dancer for the team.She would have dated anybody on the team.

Via email huh? So would snail mail been any better? lol

He earns the bamma of the week award!

He did it right, no confrontations if you will.

WHY BUY THE MILK WHEN U CAN HAVE THE WHOLE COW FOR FREE.SMART MOVE,IF HE WAS WORKING AT THE LOCAL FACTORY THAT CHIC WOULD NOT HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH HIM.A GOOD MOVE NOW U R MACIN SON BELIEVE THAT!

GOOD! and I hope he come to understand that she’s just in it for the money, travel and fame …

LMAO @ all these hoes(not women) in this forum mad.
one less golddiggin hoe to worry about. i wouldn’t sent that b***h S**T! let her find out AT the LAST minute……AT the wedding!

Eeww, was that Allen Iverson’s wife or was someone playing a joke? They say that love is blind but DAMN! In that case I would recommend some glasses, because she looks like she fell out the ugly tree and hit every branch on her way down, before the tree fell on her.

WOW, that was tacky and classless act.

A true man would have went to her in person and told his family.

He took the cowards way out. I am by no way mad I just think right is right.

For all of you calling her a golddigger you don’t know that for sure. Even if that is true it is not a reason to be disrespectful and tacky.

I hope that the young woman will heal and grow from this.

Instead of throwing stones throw love and encouragement her way.

one love

yea thats fine that stupid ass black man should’t started to date that nasty ass b***h in the first place all of those gold digging white ass b***hes are set ups anyway when black men are you going to get a clue they don’t want or will they ever love you yea they love you because got money and when the money runs out they will too, why isn’t that a black man when he has money can’t even consider to date a real black and beautiful women whats wrong with your stupid asses do you know what they say behind your back stop thinking with your dicks and think with you heart and eyes to wants going in this united states that black slaves helped built and see what they are doing to black american, a black man suppose to be the back bone of the black family but instead it takes a good black women to be everyone say that love sees no color but why is it that all of the black stupid ass men see is white or half white or some other color and hope that all of you will wake up a smell whats going on in this american because it won’t get not better if you close your eyes believe me you or any of you can and will be the next micheal vick , remember him the one that the courts striped of everything and that was only done for one reason no matter what they say because he is black, see it doesn’t mean anything if you are married outside of your race they still will get you so keep on being stupid and passing up all of these beautiful and education black women

Honestly…thats some f**k boy s**t…Eye dont care what race soioeconomic status or what…that was just plain cowardice…ususally when a dude do some s**t like that at the last minute somebody is in his ear or he plans on being with another person…whatever the reason is it was still a cowardly act on his part…no class or tact…

I had a white gf and she loved my s**tty drawers

Well, if it’s not working then why get married? What sense does that make? So you can end up getting a divorce in like two months…come on now!

N.S. Ugezene

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its about time one of these ballers realized that u cant get married when u rich the hoes only in it for the money is he was working a 9 to 5 she wouldnt have given him the time of day so its good he kicked her to the curve from one baller to another when u rich and dating women use a condom or if u get married make her ass sign a prenup cuz if she wont sign a prenup thats a tell tell sign of why she really in this relationship

geminicoco
7-20-2009 7:30 pm
yea thats fine that stupid ass black man should’t started to date that nasty ass b***h in the first place all of those gold digging white ass b***hes are set ups anyway when black men are you going to get a clue they don’t want or will they ever love you yea they love you because got money and when the money runs out they will too, why isn’t that a black man when he has money can’t even consider to date a real black and beautiful women whats wrong with your stupid asses do you know what they say behind your back stop thinking with your dicks and think with you heart and eyes to wants going in this united states that black slaves helped built and see what they are doing to black american, a black man suppose to be the back bone of the black family but instead it takes a good black women to be everyone say that love sees no color but why is it that all of the black stupid ass men see is white or half white or some other color and hope that all of you will wake up a smell whats going on in this american because it won’t get not better if you close your eyes believe me you or any of you can and will be the next micheal vick , remember him the one that the courts striped of everything and that was only done for one reason no matter what they say because he is black, see it doesn’t mean anything if you are married outside of your race they still will get you so keep on being stupid and passing up all of these beautiful and education black women

uhhhh some black women are Gold Diggers too. Just because she’s White does not mean she’s a gold digger. Black Women go after ball players more than whites.

Why should it matter if the person you are in love with is Black. I know some Black man and Black woman that don’t need to be together.

Vick was hit with Kingpin charges for gambling and not paying taxes. Lucky he got off with less than 20 months. A white man in Louisiana fighting dogs got Life in prison.

Maybe the reason why “some” beautiful educated black women sometimes are being passed up because of.

1. S**tty Attitudes
2. Super Ego
3. Impossible set of standards in a man
4. Acceptance of Bi-Sexual Black Men who are killing Black women as we speak.
5. Racial attitudes towards non-black women who date black men, (White, Asian, Hispanic, etc.)

Sorry Gemini Coco, I have to disagree on your views. I’m beyond race. I look at true love and not skin color.

IT REALLY IS NOT ANY OF OUR BUSINESS WHO MARRIES WHO EVEN THOUGH I WOULD LIKE TO SEE MORE BLACK BROTHERS WITH BLACK SISTAHS AND VICE VERSA.

Some people are stupid a*****es love dont have a color you date and fall in love with who you want to.Don’t let nobody tell you otherwise.Richard Jefferson did some sucka s**t what kind of man tells his finance that its over in a e-mail thats a straight b***h move.Sound like Rich Jeff is a b***h ass nigga

ok. I see alot of angry black women downing a black man as usual. First, that’s why we date outside the race. No one wants to put up with alot of anger EVERYDAY! Second, I’m glad he left her ass at the altar and not at the BANK. Brothas, WE ARE KINGS AND UNTIL WOMEN (BLACK, WHITE, GREEN, OR YELLOW CAN SEE THAT THEN….). The owner of the gold rules the KINGDOM. He ownes HIS KINGDOM (NOT HER) SO HE CAN SET THE RULES!!! click clack

WAAAAIIIIIIITTTTTTT!!!!!! HE PAID HER ASS OFF!!!!!!!!!! I’M SURE THAT SHE DIDN’T COMPLAIN. QUIT WAGGING YOUR TAIL AND GET BACK TO THE DANCE STUDIO

well at least he was honest! and he prob figured out, wait a min, this chick aint makin money so i better drop her ass n find somebody on my level! lol and wow all the wives look the same. iversons wife will always be a mystery to me, she is the most hideous chick ive ever seen.

Let the man dump his girl the way he wants to. Maybe he feared the situation would have excalated if it was done in person…………..some women(black/white/hispanic/asian/mixed/other) do have tempers with gigantic egos and can get physical…………..As a Man with something to lose that can be a problem because as a man you do not want to be attacked(because you will retaliate). For all wmn(all races) think he was a punk for doing it………examine yourself how many of you rejected men through your friends……text messages……..phone calls…….emails……….Thank God he said the truth(which is really hard to do for a male/female). The only persons who should be mad are the guests who flew in……….. I think as men we need to be more forward about intentions and if we are not feeling the chick we need to say that. Even if that means that she would be hurt “her feelings” or how she will feel about men……………. As Men we are expected to “move on”. I suggest GROWN INDEPENDENT WOMEN do the same. I have no problems with women being financially independent then they need walk the walk and deal with the REALITY od failure or rejection much better.

I think of course the timing was bad, but if it wasn’t what he wanted to do, then he probably did her a favor. Plus, imagine if he changed his mind at the ceremony, all the backlash he would have got. I personally find it hard to feel sorry for black women who make it their business to date only high profile brothers anyway, you always pass up the average guy who will genuinely love and care about you for the one with the Bentley. It’s what your asses get.

f**k black women they aint s**t.im into white women period.

i dont give a f**k about yall.

when im with my white girl.im kissing her on the lips so they can see.

i love it whne they flip.

stupid hoe,s

yes im a hater i hate black women including my mom.

but why are you black women looking at ballplayers shouldnt yall be looking for the thugs and gangstas

Damn, a lot of this mess just sounds dumb! Why should anybody care if black men ain’t checking for black women? I could care less!There are plenty of other guys to choose from.I could care even less if you hate black women, so what?(I am not gonna loose any sleep)
You should be kissing your white girl because you love her,and not because you trying to make black women mad.
Women please quit tripping over this loss cause!I’m not hating on black men,but I am saying that I just don’t give a damn about what or who you into period.(that’s your business)Pass up? I say pass on by,have a nice day,goodbye.:D

VANESSA BRYANT….SHE’S F**KING GORGEOUS.

Gott luv those spoof posters who come on here with i hate black women bs @poster 9:30am poster so you hate keep it moving all i do at you is feel sorry for u and lol…

I never knew that there was a certain plateform that has to used for dumping somebody. Whether in person, phone, fax, letter, or e-mail; they still get dumped so it really doesn’t matter.

@Rene2009
Ya momz made ya black @ss. So why should a black woman give 2fu^ks about u?
Bacause u are black.

I dont care about u or any black man who are exclusively into white women(wut eva floats ya boat)
But remember th sword cuts both ways B!tch-Made N!gga, i bet u have a white girl that ONLY dates black men…what sense does that make.

And u shouldn’t be on blackplanet… so go home and kiss yo black momma and thank her for the dumbest sh!t she ova done: Gave Birth to u.

Its a celebration b!tches.

lol… that was funny… I hope not serious, but it was funny…lol

KMLAY rene2009) And I got to AGREE WITH YOU SheShe88 WELL PUT-this HOUSE N!GGER HAS LOST-WHAT WAS LEFT OF HIS PEA WEE SLAVE MIND. I can’t even get mad at this IGNORANT A$$ FOOL,HE IS IN A PRISON OF HIS OWN SLAVE MIND AND HADN”T LOST HIS MASTERS RACIST WAYS.

And to the comment about-the NBA player and what he did its going to come back on him and when it do he is not going to be able to handle it-because payback is a MUTHERFU*CKER.

Rene2009, got quite a few black women saved to his friends list, he can’t be serious.

Next time do it through text message lmao

I hope that this p***k gets an e-mail from his coach that says that he’s been dumped from his team… and replaced by her NEW husband.

This guy didn’t bail because of problems, he bailed because he started thinking about all that new p***y he’d be losing out on if he got married. NEXT ARTICLE!

Who is this guy anyway, Blax Headroom??? Big light bulb head mofo. LOL!

RICHARD JEFFERSON IS GAY, THAT WAS WRONG HOW HE DID THAT GIRL..WITH HIS UGLY ASS.

some people deserve a break up via text or email. i dont see what is so wrong with the situation. ive personally done it. sometimes you meet someone you are completely not compatible with so why waste the time, energy and potential confrontation.

Get married for what? So they can divorce a year or two later, and then he’s gotta pay her ass fat ass alimony so that she can live like a queen off his money?

You can have millions and you still can’t buy class.

I know she was devastated but she’d better thank God. If he’s this immature, this thoughtless, this much of a coward, marriage to him would have been a nightmare. There will be a better one to come along. Money is one thing. REAL love is altogether something else.

i think its good that he didn’t get married because y after she cheated on him with another man no thank u dats not the business so good thinkin richard jefferson

If he know it’s going to be huge argument and some other s**t along with the breakup, the smart way is to do a text or email. NEXT ARTICLE…

\i once mutally called it quits instant messaging just ended it right there i does feel like things are not final but that was a yr ago oh well.

Some guys are so dumb that they would continue along with the wedding just to save face. But, it’s always good when a man can foresee a situation and act accordingly but some of these women are so unsatable and full of deception.

Good move Rich Jef…………some of these women are worst than the niggaz who got kids n dont play their role………Marry em n after a yr all s**t breaks loose, headaches all day n night, arguments n fights…….Next thing, these b***hes asking for a divorce and half of your life’s hard earned money………go find a broke nigga n marry him (bet she wont)