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From NYTimes.com:

The golfers lamenting Tiger Woods’s indefinite leave from the PGA Tour because he is their cash cow are out of bounds. Only two people are truly dependent on Woods, and earlier this year, he could not stop smiling when he talked about them. His 2-year-old daughter, Sam, and 10-month-old son, Charlie, brought out Woods’s softer side in interviews. When I covered Woods early in his career, the only warmth he exuded in news conferences came from the vibrant reds of his signature Sunday shirts.

This year was different. Returning to competitive golf in late February after a nine-month injury-induced absence, Woods drew me in with a smile that started in his eyes when he talked about his children. When he was asked about the birth of Charlie or how he occupied himself while recovering from knee surgery, his eyes grew moony and his voice was lilting — a marked departure from his monotone.

He talked about cutting practice short to spend time with Charlie. He expressed delight in the rapid development of Sam. “I didn’t realize how much I loved being home,” he said.

This melting glacier of a golfer was so much more interesting, and likable, than the ice man who had won 14 major titles. Woods’s global warming required further examination, so I tracked him around the course in a kind of scavenger hunt in the first months of his six-win campaign. I was searching for more clues to flesh out the Clark Kent alter ego of golf’s Superman, and I collected enough material to write two articles. After a late-night accident last month and Woods’s subsequent admission of infidelity, the headlines of those articles read like punch lines: “The Family Guy Is Back on the Course” and “All Eyes Are on Tiger, the Father.”

Woods’s parenting role model was his father, Earl, who was committed to rearing him after having two sons and a daughter in a failed first marriage. Earl, a retired Army officer, attributed the divorce to military obligations that took him away from the family. Asked how he would manage to be there for his children when golf takes him away from home so much, Woods told me, “It’s going to be a lot more difficult, there’s no doubt.”

Maybe it is impossible. Perhaps Woods was destined to be like his father, only not in the way he had hoped. Over lunch on the veranda at the Masters one year, Earl Woods said, “I’ve told Tiger that marriage is unnecessary in a mobile society like ours.”

The way Woods talked about his children, I was sure he was going to prove his father wrong.

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CaliFemme23/ CaliFemme23

    Hmmmmm, Im not sure that I think marriage is uneccessary..BUT I do think that YOUNG athletes need not get married so young nor should they at the height of their careers because that is when temptation (i.e. pu$$y), is MOST tantamount. Not everyone is going to run around with/behind/in front of/on the side of her athlete husband looking like an idiot as the one Mrs. Jackie Christie did,(wife of Sacramento Kings Doug Christie). When you get married, if you have to keep the man on a leash, then that means he’s NOT ready to be married. I do kind of agree with what his father said…Tiger should have listened…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/blksxylady46/ blksxylady46

    Wooo Wee@ Cali! Gurrrrl…you is battin’ a THOUSAND with all these common sense posts you’re making! You are just making TOO much sense! So–Preach own girl….preeeach owwwwwn!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MzBadAzzitGets/ MzBadAzzitGets

    ummm tiger woods is white as hell he got dogs by he newborn baby and s**t…family pictures with the dogs..smh

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SirMoonlite2/ SirMoonlite2

    @ CaliFemme23…..Copy that Wing Leader!!!!
    hope the rest of you …young “millionaires” are listening…..The Lady is RIGHT!!!

    KIRK OUT!!!

  • http://iamdomo.com/2009/12/29/tiger-woods-dad-to-tiger-marriage-is-unnecessary-in-a-mobile-society/ Tiger Wood’s Dad to Tiger: “Marriage is Unnecessary in a Mobile Society” «

    [...] Tiger Woods view of marriage can be connected with the ideas of his father who tells the New York Post that he does not think marriage is “neccesary.” To be specific, Earl Woodssaid; “I’ve told Tiger that marriage is unnecessary in a mobile society like ours.” (Source) [...]

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/BreBuffalo/ BreBuffalo

    Gotta go with Califemme too.
    Now,fist off,I do admire the Christie’s for wanting to make it work and keeping communication open,etc., but the on court signals when he was working and had enough signals from coaches,fellow coworkers,etc,and her following the team on the road to babysit him was a bit much.

    Too bad Earl Woods,Tiger’s Dad and mentor,did not live long enough. He was was really tyring to hang in there when Tiger married.

    Earl was right for people like Tiger. I like, believe in , and need marriage, but I am not a several 100 x’s millionaire like Tiger.
    I think Earl meant Tiger should not marry young during the prime of his career. He should wait to the end of it and or, in his mid 30′s. Give age and maturity some sometime to set in.

    The whole situation is really sad.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/iamtruelove1111/ iamtruelove1111

    F$%k tiger don’t nobody care fo that dude.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/letzbehonest/ letzbehonest

    Cali firel is rite as hell. i feel the exact same way that she does

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/JazzyCreations/ JazzyCreations

    His father is absolutely right. Also, Tiger knew this as well. Marriage was just a formality for him. He’s been this way pretty much all his adult life. No way his wife was gonna keep him from doing what he did. It was natural for him. Anyway..now is the true test. He’s out in the public so if he’s going to settle down again, he’ll probably do it the right way. I say enjoy your money and forget marriage. If it aint for you. It aint for you.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/shoot4damoon/ shoot4damoon

    Marriage is unnecessary in a mobile society,lol. I feel like this is an “I get around” video, wth? LMao, seriously, I often believe celebrities are followers. They get married because it makes their image looks good, or, they get married because they are delusional thinking they want to be in love and have someone raise their kids like society tells them. i.e. They get married, impregnate the woman, and while she is distracted with with the kids at home the male is out mixing work with play. Most successful men do this and it is the oldest game in town.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Toni_Anthony/ Toni_Anthony

    WHY $BUY$ THE COW’S WHEN THE MILK CAN BE free? Marriage is NOT Necessary BUT Fronting off via an Illusion of WHAT’S considered PERFECT IS! I got while Mr. Colored Tiger did what he did, because ALL Races 1 way or the other is doing it as well?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Cmoore_78/ Cmoore_78

    So Tiger has two brothers and a sister?!! I wonder where are they and if they are close to Tiger at all. I wondered if he had any siblings. I have NEVER seen them. That is interesting.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Eolufemi/ Eolufemi

    Father knows best…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/catgirlTX/ catgirlTX

    TIGER WOOS IS LOOKIN FOR SOMETHING IN THOSE CAVE WOMEN HE WILL NEVER. FIND AND THAT IS AA SPIRITUAL CONNECTION. HE WILL GO THROUGH 50 MORE JUST THE SAME AND STILL NEVER FILL COMPLETE. THOSE WHO ARE CONSCIOUSS KNOW WHAT IM TALKING ABOUT. AND YEAH HIS DADDY WAS RIGHT IN SOMEWAY, MARRIAGE IS NOTHING BUT A PIECE OF PAPER IF ONE DOESNT HONOR THE VOWS.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/HandsomeNegro2/ HandsomeNegro2

    Tiger’s dad was a playa too. The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CaliFemme23/ CaliFemme23

    catgirlTX…Damn, she said ‘cave women’….lol

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Virtuous14U1/ Virtuous14U1

    BROTHERS!!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/ladyt183/ ladyt183

    Marriage now these days are for the birds. weather the man is black or white or whatever they just get marry to cheat. that why im happy to be free and single and living a celebate life, maybe tiger woods should take a vow of celibacy lol

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/TonyaMcmahan401/ TonyaMcmahan401

    Now we know why tiger is acting a fool!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/monhol/ monhol

    well now we know.. his dad told him marriage was not needed. i always said that some of these parents are the cause of their sons messing up their relATIONSHIPS. i knew a man who didn’t do a thing for his child because his mother told him he didn’t have too.. sad but true..

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/TakenStepsForward/ TakenStepsForward

    SAD BUT TRUE!! People are blinded by fame and it sad to say that the famous people are just as dumb!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/sbufford/ sbufford

    tiger wanted it all

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