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3/12/10-The man accused of the crimes has been identified as Aswad Ayinde, a director who directed the video for “Killing Me Softly” by the Fugees. From The New York Daily News

An award-winning video director was unmasked Thursday as a brutal, bizarre serial breeder who repeatedly raped his daughters to create a “pure” bloodline.

Aswad Ayinde, who won an MTV award for directing The Fugees’ “Killing Me Softly,” fathered six kids with his daughters from the mid-1980s to 2002 – and delivered the babies himself, New Jersey prosecutors said.

Ayinde, 51, who most recently lived in Paterson, N.J., also had nine kids with his ex-wife, Beverly, and at least three more with two other women in Brooklyn, court records show.

3/11/10

PATERSON, N.J. – A New Jersey man with apocalyptic visions is accused of years of terrorizing his family, raping his five daughters and impregnating three, beating his children with wooden boards and even moving at one point to avoid child welfare investigators.

The nightmarish picture of a family subjected to more than a decade of threats and violence and largely cut off from the outside world is emerging in a state courthouse where prosecutors are preparing to have the man stand trial five times, one per child victim.

As the first case nears trial, questions have been raised about whether state authorities could have put a stop to the abuse sooner. Some of the crimes are alleged to have occurred while the family was under scrutiny by the state child welfare agency, and after the father had been arrested and pleaded guilty to assault and child endangerment.

At a hearing last week, the 51-year-old man’s former wife described in a calm voice her marriage to a man whose visions she said drove him to try to create “pure” family bloodlines by impregnating several of his teenager daughters.

“He said the world was going to end and it was just going to be him and his offspring and that he was chosen,” the woman testified.

Arrested in 2006, he stands accused of raping five of his daughters, three of whom are believed to have given birth to a total of six children. He is being held on $1 million bond.

Having been ruled competent to stand trial earlier this year, he faces 27 charges including aggravated sexual assault, sexual assault, lewdness, child endangerment, aggravated criminal sexual contact and criminal sexual contact.

“We plan to proceed with all five trials if necessary,” said Lisa Squitieri, the Passaic County prosecutor handling the case.

The Associated Press generally doesn’t identify victims of sexual crimes and is not reporting the names of the husband and wife to protect the identities of their children, now all over 18 years of age.

Authorities say the assaults began in the mid-1980s and lasted until 2002, when the parents separated, and occurred at residences in Paterson, East Orange, Orange and Eatontown. The time period overlaps with the family’s coming to the attention of the state’s child welfare agency.

According to court records and published reports, the girls’ father was arrested in 2000 and charged with kidnapping for allegedly trying to take three of his children from state custody at a Monmouth County medical center. He posted bail and later pleaded guilty to assault and child endangerment and was sentenced to a year’s probation.

Prosecutors in Passaic County say one of the daughters, then in her early teens, was raped as late as January 2002.

New Jersey’s Division of Youth and Family Services declined to comment, citing confidentiality requirements.

But the man’s wife and one of his daughters testified that the agency had indeed removed at least one of the children from the family’s home, and that the family had temporarily moved, first to Jersey City and then to Florida, to avoid the agency’s investigation.

Prosecutors in Monmouth County, where the charges in the kidnapping case were brought, did not return phone messages.

In her testimony, his daughter described experiencing and witnessing beatings administered with wooden boards and steel-toed boots. She said minor transgressions often were punished by the withholding of food.

The girl’s mother testified some of the babies were delivered at home and never received birth certificates, and said in at least two instances babies who died in the home were buried without authorities being notified.

The children were home-schooled, she said, and were discouraged from interacting with other kids.

“No one really asked questions of each other because somebody would tell on somebody and somebody would get in trouble,” she said.

Even after she became aware of sexual abuse, she said she was too frightened to confront him.

“I was afraid to ever accuse him of being demented, or being a pedophile. I knew the word but I wouldn’t dare use it because it would result in a beating,” she said. “I’m sure my not standing up to him didn’t help the kids. They felt disempowered also. There was just a lot of fear. Everybody was threatened.”

Daryl Pennington, an attorney representing the defendant, did not return messages seeking comment.

Attorneys are scheduled back in court on Friday, when state Superior Court Judge Raymond Reddin is to rule on the admissibility of the wife’s testimony. The first trial is scheduled to begin in April.

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/I_Jus_B_Blaz_n/ I_Jus_B_Blaz_n

    damn!!!.not jerzee again~

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Splash_Waters253/ Splash_Waters253

    F/ucking unbelieveable. That is some sick, evil s/hit!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/thewunyouneed/ thewunyouneed

    SO LET ME GET THIS RIGHT.. YOU DON’T STOP YOU HUSBAND FROM RAPING YOUR DAUGHTERS..HIS DAUGHTERS B’CUS YOUR AFRAID OF A DAMN BEATING? WTF? I HAVE KIDS AND I HAVE BEEN ABUSED BUT I DONT CARE WHAT A MAN DOES TO YOU, THERE IS NO XCUSE NOT EVEN DEATH TO ALLOW HIM TO RAPE YOUR KIDS!!!! AT SOME POINT HER ASS HAD A CHANCE TO GET HER KIDS AWAY. THOSE GIRLS ARE RUINED FOR LIFE!!! AND WHAT ABOUT THOSE BABIES CONCEIVED IN SUCH A HORRIBLE AND SICK WAY… WOW!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/NiceGuy180/ NiceGuy180

    @thewunyouneed

    I agree! She’s almost as disgusting as the man himself. She should’ve been ready to die for her children, but she allowed them to be molested, beaten and impregnated by a maniac because she was afraid of a beating. IMO she should be prosecuted as well. Seems that because she didn’t do all she could to save her children that makes her an accessory to the crime.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Skittlez_N_VodKa/ Skittlez_N_VodKa

    The girl’s mother testified some of the babies were delivered at home and never received birth certificates, and said in at least two instances babies who died in the home were buried without authorities being notified.

    –WTF….. THESE PEOPLE ARE SICK!!!!!! SO SAD.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/littlebabymia/ littlebabymia

    Both parents need to be killed. These young women will need serious serious serious help in order to live anything close to a normal life. This is why some people don’t need to have or deserve children.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/phazex_female/ phazex_female

    Fast FORWARD for BOTH of the parents——>trial over, LETHAL INJECTION for BOTH. For all of the naysayers, these people forfeited the “right” to live. Keeping them alive would be akin to a long vacation at Club Med. I hope that they are “fattened up” on death row for the next 20 or 25 years while us tax-payers foot the bill. Reminds me of another couple in New Jersey? that had natural and foster children and from a physical stand-point the foster children very extremely malnourished and did not look at all like their chronological ages. Yet these fat-ass foster parents were “chowing down on steak and ish. And these children were discovered by neighbors that sighted them eating out of trash cans. Injection!

    ALL of these peopel are WORSE than heinous…they are “evil” at it’s base form.

    I shudder in having thoughts of the repercussions that their children will “see” (mentally) for the rest of their lives.

    Sign. More dysfunctional/mentally “damaged” children. Some people should have the right to “breed” totally taken away. I don’t give a damn if it is a form of genocide.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/chanell_on_fire/ chanell_on_fire

    @phazex_female u are so right
    now days u need liscence to have kids people are sick as hell
    the mother is guilty as much as her husband wtf u didnt help your kids cuz u were scared to be beaten up?
    they are damn kids i would jump for any kid on the street in this situation f#ck that sh!t no child should go through that in his life
    and for my own kids i would gladly be beaten up get shot and what not if i know thats gon save my babies lives and i know they would be safe from sick minded ppl like that
    sick world i say electric chair for the dad life time for the mom so she would live n suffer for the rest of her life just like her daughters for what they been through!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/ProBlackfist/ ProBlackfist

    Let me tell you how crazy this really is ? All these sorry sell-out
    black men who have been brainwashed, beatdown and driven insane by racism,white supremacy and then have the nerve to be some god,religous
    program. Just brainwashed and crazy. Why don’t black women stop messing with
    all these sorry,sell-out pimps,players and homothugs.
    They either spreading aids,hiv or making some babies that they expect
    some white man to to take care of.
    Wake up black america !!
    Reclaim your true positive,powerful legacy and forget all this racist,
    amerikkkanized madness.
    Intergration was and still is a massive trick to steal your soul
    and get a black person lost in this racist system.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/shyshy804/ shyshy804

    4real wat haz diz world come to…..smh….it makes me sad !!!!! humanz sometymez can be the nastiest creationz god has ever made….i cant believe anyone in der rite state of mind would rape der own kidz && get them pregant….smh….it makes me want to throw up….and for the mother i dont give a DAM how scared she waz i know my azz iz killin him in hiz sleep real talk. all i can do is pray for them kids because to them there really isnt a real world out there…smh….i jus feel so sorry for them words cant explain – shy

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/tsmonie1/ tsmonie1

    You sound ridicously bitter and you know who you are.Everyone is speaking on the subject and you went into a whole bit about homothugs and diseases are you serious??This man is crazy and his wife is too.What you are sTating has nothing to do with the issue at hand.I’m so tired of BLACK PEOPLE when everytime something go wrong ya’ll are so quick to run to the HOMOSEXUAL bit.Let that sh** go and start looking at the facts.We choose our on destiny if you have ignorant people in this world that choose to put themselves in this situation they deserve what happens to them. My heart goes out to the children because now they are scarred for life because once again like you black people always screamed the BIBLE and the world is coming to an end.Look where this got this FOOL.NO you need to wake up and stop being A TYPICAL bitter N**** and do your part without blaming issues like this on HOMOSEXUAL PEOPLE.WE have our own issues.Have you noticed recently how many black men has ben let out of PRISON for wrongful conviction.You feel sorryfor them but, look what your backwards a** is doing.Yeah the Civil Rights movement goes hand and hand with the GAY rights movement.You just proved our point.I’m so disgusted in you.It came up with the BLACK WOMEN HERPES topic and now this…You people are driving yourselves crazy.NEXT THING YOU KNOW YOU’LL BE SITTING IN A ROOM WITH A BLOODY KNIFE AND A DEAD BODY SAYING THE HOMOSEXUALS,BICSEXUAL MEN,HOMOTHUGS MADE ME DO IT.They both need the death penalty the father for being sick and disgusting uuggghhh and the mother for just being so damn stupid. CASE CLOSED.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/_MissTasha/ _MissTasha

    Mama ain’t got no excuse. When it comes to your kids, you can’t be so selfish to let your kids remain in danger just because you don’t wanna be beat. Pick up a gun and aim hunny. You got knives, hammers and other household objects, you ain’t gotta be nobody’s victim if you don’t want to. After all, everybody gotta sleep.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/somethnspecial68/ somethnspecial68

    At least i can say the man is crazy… he’s got at least a reason… his wife though??… i don’t care what someone did to me… or threatened to do to me… i would loose limbs … eyes.. or my life protecting my daughter. That woman basically looked at her husbands fist… and said .. “no no.. rape our babies instead!!” I just can’t wrap my mind around it.. how could she let that happen.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/shango24/ shango24

    ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh christinaity rears its ugly head once again

    if depopulated half the afrakan continent and selling off us afrakans to south american,americana nd the islands and europe and destroying the so called natvie americans

    now this?

    is not a surprise

    this is christianity for ya folks

    it creates child molestors serial killers and other sick os and weirdos

    he jim browns of the world love this

    this is excatly why i left the chruch years ago and found peace and family in afrakan spirtuality.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/shango24/ shango24

    tsmonie1

    yep i blame it on all u homosexual sellout down low and out right open homosexals that this kind of madness happens as well as i blame some of my fellow pan afrakan folk who dont shoot first ask questions later.

    p.s

    u aint no transexal nothen u a damm punk brotha who wants to live as a woman

    ehhhhhhhhh

    id sick my pitbulls on youuuuuuuuuuu and watch u scream as they tear into ur flesh

    phaggot go somewhere with ur anti afrakan anti nay-cha sick backwards roman greek behavior

    its a sad day in afrakan hell when a afrakan man rather bend over for another man

    sick

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/msveevee1/ msveevee1

    @shango24…it’s not christianity that caused this. It’s the devil overpowering the weak-minded. That’s it. That’s all.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/4JESUS_SATANCRUSHER/ 4JESUS_SATANCRUSHER

    FIRST OF ALL THIS ARTICLE NEVER SAID THESE PEOPLE WERE LIVING A CHRISTIAN LIFE AND EVEN IF THEY SAID THEY WERE…THIS MAN’S ACTIONS ARE THE RESULT OF EVIL AND DEMON-POSSESSION SO PLZ IGNORE THAT EXTREMELY IGNORANT COMMENT BY SHANGO24 WHO IS SADLY BLINDED TO THE TRUTH. SECONDLY, THERE ARE SO MANY LIARS IN THE WORLD THAT IT ISN’T EVEN FUNNY. I BELIEVE THIS MOTHER CONSENTED WITH HIM..NOT OUT OF FEAR..BUT OUT OF HER OWN MENTALLY/SPIRITUALLY IMPAIRED SELF OR EITHER A DESIRE TO KEEP HIM. SAD!!! JESUS PLEASE SAVE THESE CORRUPTED SOULS!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Jamil12345/ Jamil12345

    thats a motherf**king shame he needs the gas chamber b***h make me sick on my stomach :((((

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/WarriorGoddess81/ WarriorGoddess81

    ProBlack – Do you even know what the f**k you’re talking about? Are you seriously so into your political agenda that you can’t see the forest through the proverbial trees? Integration and “Amerikkkanization” have ZERO to do with the fact that this man clearly has some form of psychosis and did some sick s**t to his family. You essentially claiming that this man was driven psychotic by racism does such a disservice to your race and to all people of any color that suffer from mental illness. While it’s true that mental illness is partially derivative of environmental factors, the type of psychosis this man has is clearly either substance-induced or organic more than a product of societal factors.
    And how the F**K you managed to bring “homothugs” into your biased and off-base argument is beyond me. As tsmonie indirectly pointed out in his response to you, gay equality a civil right just as race equality is a civil right. To blame white people for homosexuality is even more f**king stupid than blaming white people for mental illness. All the DL action and black men giving AIDS to their wives and children and all that s**t you mentioned is directly the result of black men not wanting to acknowledge their sexuality because for the most part they are not welcomed as such in their families, churches, and communities. So if you’re about black empowerment you should be about empowerment for other so-called minorities within and without the black community as well. Do some damn research before you get on your soap box, you just made a whole jackass out of yourself.

    And for all the people that are talking about how the wife is just as crazy as the husband and she deserves to die – SHAME ON YOU. I’m sure at least one person who posted on this thread has been personally affected by domestic violence, and that s**t is NO JOKE. He probably had that woman’s head so f**ked up she really was rendered unable to help her babies. And clearly Children and Youth f**ked up or they woulda taken all those girls and the grandbabies out immediately after investigating. If there’s anyone to be really pissed at (other than the father) in this whole scenario, it’s the Children’s Services people. They dropped the ball so bad they allowed years of abuse and degradation to continue. Now, THAT’S sick.

    P.S. Shy, I don’t know if you’re 14 years old and it’s cute amongst your friends to type like that, but it makes you seem completely inarticulate and stupid. Stop that. Speaking of empowerment, you do yourself and others a HUGE disservice when you consciously decide to live the ridiculous stereotypes ignorant and uninformed people have of you. Do yourself and everyone else a favor and speak/type like you have some damn sense. Sheesh.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/sabreenas1st/ sabreenas1st

    i think the father and the mother need to be locked up,i would do whatever to protect my kids from harms wAy!!!!shame on the both of them!!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/G-WIN/ G-WIN

    ok see the movie push is a reality show

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/keytoharp/ keytoharp

    shango shango,, why do ppl waste their breath this is a true nigga ha ha ha every time he comment i laugh yall should to this nigga is a imbreeded jack ass that dont know s**t , he prolly pickin his ass like the monkey he is,,and smelling his fingers, only thing he is worthy of is get cracked on forreal and even that is a waste of time but i got time to waste.. i need a break from school work …. shango the jungle bunny shango the ass puppet shango the dirt digglier lol that nigga aint s**t or the flys around it lol

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/keytoharp/ keytoharp

    now on the subject it’s really messed up and i told my boyfriend lastnight , that no many what ppl say or think these things happen every where and its sad, very sad there is not much u can do.. because we all know we dont wanna be in every ones business but i say if something dont look right it aint right and thats the time to be in the business, we cant sit back and let ppl do this to kids, we are messing thier heads up and making them a static of this country… it dont hurt sometimes to be noisy when it ppl getting hurt and abused,, u might save a life or help some one in need

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/ComeRealPlease/ ComeRealPlease

    This is a sad story and unfortunately happens everyday. I work for CPS in Texas and some of the things i see make me want to beat these people’s ass. Shango24 there is no one to blame other than there are some f**ked up people in the world. It is very ignorant to blame homosexuality (where ever you got that from), in fact your whole statement is off.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Pocahontas_/ Pocahontas_

    Very, very sad story.. SMH

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Jazzy-KD/ Jazzy-KD

    prime example of a true worthless piece of S**T…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/NetteDaPoet/ NetteDaPoet

    This story is so reminisce of the MARCUS WESSON STORY here in Fresno, However the babies were sparred thier life, only to be subjected to the HORRORS of the CRIME for the rest of thier PRECIOUS LIVES…if it was me..I would have been in jail awaiting trial for the MURDER of this sick MONSTER!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/BossLady001/ BossLady001

    This is Sad, Ludicrous, Sickening, and all of the above. My prayers goes out to the daughters that encountered the vicious acts and I hope that the father get his just deserved.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/chocolatekisses2109/ chocolatekisses2109

    Who does that to their children sickening

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/AsileeDotCom/ AsileeDotCom

    choclatekisses2109, apparently this man does. I hate when simpletons ask that dumb a.ss question.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/sexy_man_mixed/ sexy_man_mixed

    So am I to assume that the movie Precious’ theme, is based on a milder version of this occurrence?
    Or is it safer to assume that Precious was merely used, based on its recent soar in popularity; as a marketing reel-in to attract readers to this dreadful story, where its themed tie-in is a far-stretched morsel at best?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/divacocobrown/ divacocobrown

    How is this a marketing reel?!? The movie Precious was based on a book called “Push” that was written years ago. Too many women especially black women had their first sexual experience similar to this as some perverted/demented relative or family friend used them for their own evil/selfish appetites. These types of stories are common in EVERY community and should not be ignored just because it’s not “pleasant” to read about.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/suchafnlady1/ suchafnlady1

    wow this guy is from my town…..such a sad case

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/ihateinteracial/ ihateinteracial

    msveevee1

    there is no devil unless u talken about the set in you and if u dont know about asaru and set then i cannot help you overstand.

    4JESUS_SATANCRUSHER

    i read ur page and know plenty of women who still do many of the things u claim are bad when in fact it was only bad because u lost controll of yourself the women i know like me have money,friends,allys and most important a connection with the earth and the anscetors and orishas and Ntchers which are beings far more powerful then the fake deity pale man greek thing u believe in.

    WarriorGoddess81

    ur skin is pink u have no say so in matters involving my afrakan people

    keytoharp

    coming from a half breed who is the visble product of two mentally ill parents or the granddaughter or a rape victem lol what u say has as much bearing as ur mother trying to convinve the police officors that selling you to men was indeed only to put food on the table and was just.

    dum half breed!!!!!!!!! ugly with a fat fat face my gosh ur mama must be u.g.l.y!!!! ur skin complexion is disgusting!!!!!!!!!

    ComeRealPlease

    ur kids wont be where my kids will be ur a slave and dont even know it so when ur out numberd by men uu just pray and be submissve and weak and continue to work at ole wal mart

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/simplymo09/ simplymo09

    This is crazy and scary but it is a reality. Things like this occur everywhere in the country and have been for a while. With the release of the move Precious, reporting on cases such as these are more interesting and concerning to the general public. It is hard to believe that a woman allowed this to continue without contacting the proper authorities but I do understand not speaking directly to him about it. I hope that this man is rightfully tried in court and that the children can learn to heal one day.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/tinkalove69/ tinkalove69

    they should give u the chair u need it that’s f**k u u is less than a man and why u are in jail somebody in there should rape and beat the hell out of u and f**k u up the ass 5 f**ken times u is a f**k up man that should not live

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/2bthebestprofile/ 2bthebestprofile

    i would have died for my kids for sure…i dont care how afraid i would be..my love for what i made would have pushed me over the edge..i would have slipped something real nice in his drink and waited til he fell asleep..when he awoke he would be tied to the bed and i would have took a razor and slowly put slits in his di**..turned him on his side after that and ramed a hot ass curling iron up is anus..very hard fast and voilently..then took some deisel gas and poured on the cuts in his di** and took a match to it..and we all know deisel burns slowly..

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/taleeah_maure06/ taleeah_maure06

    if you think this story is bad, then you need to google “Marcus Wesson” now that there is a sickening story… You wish things like this were just fiction, but its not… People are sick! But its a sign that the end is coming near… Watch how society is just progressively getting worse! Jesus’ return is near… for those who don’t believe just watch and see

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/i_gOt_tHat_gOOd_sHt/ i_gOt_tHat_gOOd_sHt

    Nette I was about to say the same thing….google Marcus Wesson….that dude was just as sick as him…but lucky for these girls they lived unlike Marcus Wessons family

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Champ8905/ Champ8905

    i was trying to tell all those people who said that Mo’nique doesnt deserve an oscar because this stuff doesnt really happen!…i told them they need to stop running from reality and that we need more movies dealing with the rawness of whats going on!…i find it very ironic that this story poppep up especially after all those ignorant people who dont understand that what appears to be stupid to them, could very well be a life saver for someone else!..shout out to all those who understand the tru meaning of PRECIOUS and that the end results represented “light at the end of the tunnel”!..i pray for those girls cuz them too can be healed! GOD BLESS!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/masculine31/ masculine31

    It happens in every family. The mother is at fault here tho…WHY STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE AND U KNOW THEY RETARDED? On top of it, have kids one after the other, by the same retard. BLACK FOLK MUST DO BETTER.

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Sunshyne_defined/ Sunshyne_defined

    I actually am more disgusted by the mother, than the father. His actions were atrocious, but, her standing by watching for all these years makes her the worst kind of monster, in my opinion. B***h, he sleeps, doesn’t he? He’d wake up f**ked up, (IF he woke up EVER again, he should become a TRUE believer in God, cause somehow, he must have intervened to save his ass) with the police on the way. F**k a beating, you’d have to KILL me to allow some bulls**t such as this to start (let alone CONTINUE) with my kids, cause unless there’s absolutely NO breath left in my body, there’s no justification for allowing this to continue. I hope she is charged as an accessory, cause when she learned of the terrorism her children were being subjected to, and continued to do NOTHING, this stupid trick became worst than the horror causing them the pain. Now, they’re stuck living with this for their life cause you were afraid of a BEATING. Stupid s**t. A mother’s FIRST priority is the welfare of her kids above all else. You brought them here, and its YOUR job to protect and guide them, and if you can’t do that, find someone who can!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SexyMoneyMaker/ SexyMoneyMaker

    Horrible horrible story, why not just attempt to go to the police? you already being investigated so there’s you chance for freedom from this nightmare. Some women see these things happening and still stay around as far as a “pure” bloodline wtf so thats just great he wanted to create even more sick and twisted individuals so they can pass on his reign of terror.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/ericvj17/ ericvj17

    I keep up with my hometown of Paterson,N.J. and what’s going on. This just makes me so sick to my stomach that this “PIECE OF TRASH” who has a total of 17 KIDS from several different women impregnate his own daughters. If Gov. Christie has any brains; He should re-instate the DEATH PENALTY in New Jersey. This SICK PERVERT should be executed and castrated at the same time. If not in N.J.; Then send him down to Virginia where they will fry him quickly. This trash should be put UNDER the jail!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/chriskofi/ chriskofi

    Ayo…F@#k this dude…i wanna personally see this sick phyco worn quashed and burnt..but the hard already done….people like that way too weak to live…i blame the mother…sick wman..how can u stand by and watch some stranger as a husband do this to your..she should be the 1st to be put on death row..i hate the system of capital punishment but she should had gotten abused and dided for standing up instead of this hrible thang has happened..a omen..neighbours better be ware of people like that and oh yes i do encourage capitol punishment for anyone who hurts my babies and women…God take care of all angels…check out Qofi’s new single ANGEL.youtube link is http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uwjkAHl0Lok..dedicated to all the truest sisters that keep supporting brothers..

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/upnorthdude09/ upnorthdude09

    f**k@d up! He should die a slow painful death!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Gail_Brooks/ Gail_Brooks

    you know what? i knew that ‘precious’ crap was going to come up…are you serious? there were cases like this that were reported well before that movie was released!!! don’t act like this happens to most black women…this is not the majority of black women’s first sexual experience!!! this is an isolated case this does not happen to 1 in 3 black women or black men…i mean don’t people remember antowne fisher? people act like they are now just being ‘made aware’ of sexual abuse since precious!!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Gail_Brooks/ Gail_Brooks

    you can’t blame Christianity, a race of people or homosexuality (i’m really confused about how one could link homosexuality to this case) :{ to what this one sick individual did….he was just psychotic…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Day-Dreamer1/ Day-Dreamer1

    why did they link this to Precious.. the man was arrested in 2006

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/ashantimr/ ashantimr

    They need to burn his ass

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Kashi101/ Kashi101

    horrible that sick woman to sit there and let this happen to her children.
    i had a friend who was repeatedly sexually assaulted by her grandfather and her uncle. needless to say, she is now a walking talking mental case herself w/ so many scars and issues that i couldn’t remain friends w/ her. she attends ga state university and is majoring in psychology where damned near everybody in those classes has been abused for those of you who say “Precious” was garbage.

    this happens. it’s real and it’s in our community. it is next door and down the block. so many sick people out here. you have to be careful to care for your own children. never trust anyone, especially relatives. that’s who most children are abused by. we’re too busy looking for pedophiles and kidnappers in the street when it’s our brothers and uncles sometimes our own husbands and sons and don’t forget women are just as capable of being predators too
    women need to perform background checks and get to know these men they are befriending and bedding, moving in. they have got to start making smarter decisions.

    i honestly don’t know what can be done for these people who suffer from pedophilia but i know there are ways OUR children don’t have to be subjected to it

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Chris_Harris_313/ Chris_Harris_313

    you spoke very effectively, i feel for these people and your ex-friend, all of whom never had a chance and may never physically, mentally, emotionally or socially recover from the selfsih acts of a few people. We obviously cannot do anything to prevent some human beings from developing in this way but we need to do all we can to protect the people that are around them, by choice or by chance.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/ronicajaz/ ronicajaz

    I could have not siad it better u hit it right on the nail!! The mother needs to be charged to, she let the abuse happen!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/maddox2u2/ maddox2u2

    If I were married to him, I would have been charged with premeditated murder. His azz would have been long gone.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Anvy69/ Anvy69

    I have to agree. She sat there and allowed it to happen. Send her a** to jail right along with him.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/quinn927/ quinn927

    SMH..THAT IS SO SICK!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Take_it_all/ Take_it_all

    This is very sickening but there are a lot of black women who are in similar situations that refuse to leave or get help until it’s too late. Many of these women either know or suspect that their daughters are being sexually abused but they act like they don’t want to know. Stand up black woman.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DelVontae10/ DelVontae10

    take_it_all dont say black women only, because women of all races go through this…anywho they both need to be in jail how can you be afraid to protect your own daughters from this sick fu*k? They need to be up under the jail house this is ridiculous and this isnt even his first run in with the law he should have been in prison a long time ago ugh im disgusted

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/2koolT/ 2koolT

    SMH. Some people don’t deserve to live. He needs to die. I can say that the mother should have reported it, but I think she was probably scared to death. Just reading this story pisses me off to know that another human
    being can be that sick and twisted. I’d like to put a cap in his azz myself.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/smittytva/ smittytva

    what a sick twist, solitary cofinment for life, a sorry piece of s**t

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/colts30/ colts30

    Some people are just SICK… What’s up with our people??

    http://www.ThyBlackMan.com – Brotherhood at it’s best…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Bornn2winn/ Bornn2winn

    The mother’s claims to being scared are inexcusable. She stood by for over a quarter of a century while her children were being tortured and violated. Sad.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/taurus216/ taurus216

    Typical black

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Peter_Black/ Peter_Black

    One hoe @ss nigga.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/simplysweetya/ simplysweetya

    this is sick, but how is it typical black @ taurus216. i hope by saying black, you are referring to something dark and not his ethnicity…otherwise, very ignorant response to say the least…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/afromatic/ afromatic

    This s**t is crazy as hell. i wonder how are the girls doing.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Ramses_NY/ Ramses_NY

    @taurus216, You sound like the typical self loathing idiot, which the de-educational system churns out. How is this typical black? Warron Jeff, and those other crackers have dozens of kids with there daughters, and claim the same things.

    Sickness is universal, its not regulated to any one race or age.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/ms_real2008/ ms_real2008

    this is just sick… how could somebody do this to a child, especially their own children? I think i just threw up in my mouth. I hope the girls are ok and that the father gets what he derserves

    @ Day-Dreamer1: someone probably linked this to the movie Precious because of the sexual abuse that both victims faced by a parental figure and NOT because of the time that Mr. Ayinde was charged.

    @taurus216: I have the same response as simplysweetya, but if you meant it in a streotypical way then I feel the same as Ramses_NY in saying that abuse of any kind is universial, regardless of race or age

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Real_bumbleclot/ Real_bumbleclot

    Some of yal saying he needs to die, but putting him to death is to easy cause we all gonna die and he gonna face death anyway. You want him to be tortured? Hell give him life without the possiblity of parole in solitary confindment. Spending the rest of your life by yourself without sun light and fresh air is way worst than death.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/mesearching4ago2girl/ mesearching4ago2girl

    WTF? Dude must be from another country

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Gatekeepa/ Gatekeepa

    ..another demon controlled Godless person..seeking to devourer, destory and kill lives.. its real folks ..and as God’s Grace slowly diminshes away from the age of TIME we are about to enter..more earthquakes, increase famine, Floods, disaster after disaster.. and the insane..deranged and IMHO the GODLESS will be made MORE apparent amongst the living..for their behaviour without question will be heinous..

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MsD_SilkyMe/ MsD_SilkyMe

    mesearching4ago2girl…. this happens in america too.

    and gatekeepa… stop being so f**king crazy please, your religious fanatacism is the same as mr ayinde’s, just to a different degree. this man was following the law of the bible, as a matter of fact. in the bible it says they repopulated the earth by having children with their own family members. like i said, no one on this earth can condemn anyone else to hell and you arent any better than anyone else. and if you read the bible that you seem to be making your predictions from, you would see that theres some crazy, immoral, inhumane shyt done in there contstantly…

    now i am NOT saying this man is right, clearly what he did was evil and inexcusable, i was just kickin gatekeepa off his pedistool

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/taurus216/ taurus216

    Self loathing? wh what when where why? i dont have any ties to dude i dont even know him but it is pretty typical occurance in the ghetto has nothin to do with me atall

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/taurus216/ taurus216

    yes it is typical for black people the black dark colored people from africa that call thereselfs african americans who eat talk walk yell and scream like animals and carry there self as animals i see it from the outside and i am able to see the flaws which means im not 1, one thing blacks cant do is accept the truth well i do

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/dob48/ dob48

    this is more wuidespread than you would have thought i know of a family who use to ;live here in nj it happen to.The stepfather a self odained minster father children with the wife and sister of the wife children

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Gatekeepa/ Gatekeepa

    @MsD-SilkyMe.. (laughing ) you don’t have to read my comments and pass over them.. as noted by your cookie cutter response..

    ..and NO I’m not going to stop.. so get over it and get past it..

    and you got the nerve to challenge me about the history of the bible? and I’m Crazy? What this demon controlled man did was immoral and insanity..

    so now you are saying INCREST was necessary? and granted from the beginning of time INCREST HAPPENED.. we know KNOW that happened and FOUND it was not a GOOD THING..

    . And you tell me where I said I was better than anyone else? (only in your mind) IS it because I’m not raping the females in my family? ANd because I denounce the tragedy in our communities? So which is it?..

    ..if you KNOw anything about the HISTORY of the judea-christian bible as in Judea LAW -morals as created..speaks against INCREST ..so you are WRONG..

    .. and baby girl I’m not on any high and mighty head trip.. if any thing I’m awareness to the time and era we live in.. and we don’t have to be subject to these type of tragedy actions as such in our communities ..if we educate ourselves and recognize issues that CRIPPLE our communities..and so we speak AGAINST them.. THEN just maybe as a community WE won’t have these tragedies..

    ..and furthermore I’m not condeming anyone to hell.. those who go against the sake of humanity as planned..will condem them elves to HELL.. so don’t get it TWISTED..

    Your faith is your faith belief.. I’m a Christian..and have B.A. in Christian studies(which is geared to the historic view of the bible).. for the purpose of my design to enlightened.. if you don’t want to read it> is your choice.. which is not going to STOP me FIGHTING against the injustice on all levels of unrighteousness.. no I’m not preacher.. nor do I desire to be..and I would be remissed to not be true to what I believe..

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CamuiMS/ CamuiMS

    OMG Gatekeepa, youre argument totally when down the drain, seeing how in your world INCEST is spelled increst. honestly dude, and in all caps.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CamuiMS/ CamuiMS

    haha just defeated myself. **your not youre.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CAROLINAGIRLSRDABEST/ CAROLINAGIRLSRDABEST

    Thats sick-can’t even picture being in her shoes because the story would have been I killed his a$$.(JMO)

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Gatekeepa/ Gatekeepa

    @ CamuiMS..

    You can shot the messenger, but the message will prevail.

    My grammar (at times as well as all of us when it comes to grammar) could be improved.

    I’am not here to be popular, I’m here to share my thoughts and receive in return the thoughts of those who share theirs respectfully..

    Generally, I don’t respond to those who in response to me> use profanity.(Ms. Silly-whatever her tag name). As for me, those who use profanity as a woman/man aren’t REAL women or men..and don’t deserve a response from me. However, I did..for the simple fact that I believe in my morals and values -THOUGHT by example from a family structure who KNEW the true value of RESPECT. There are those who have no ideal what respect is.. and it is my position to make my position CLEAR and not be misunderstood. I’am a representation of my belief system, with respect to morals and value and I would be REMISSED, if I didn’t STAND STRONG on my principle foundation given to me.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Pinkii13/ Pinkii13

    Kashi101@3-12-2010 11:43 am — you are so right, every line you wrote.

    taurus216@3-13-2010 12:01 “yes it is typical for black people the black dark colored people from africa that call thereselfs african americans who eat talk walk yell and scream like animals and carry there self as animals i see it from the outside and i am able to see the flaws which means im not 1, one thing blacks cant do is accept the truth well i do”

    I often believe there are infiltrators that go into forums such as this one from other ethnic groups or as as self-hater trying to take subjects off balance. I believe taurus216 is an infiltrator. OR…maybe he had the same experiences as the unfortunate daughters in the article.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/BabyPhat236/ BabyPhat236

    See s**t like that is the reason why my mother didn’t let no man be alone with me and my sister not even a relative and the mother of the girls is just like Nancy Garrido, wife of Jaycee Dugard’s kidnapper Philip Garrido, weak!, they knew those men were sick but yet one lets her husband rape and impregnant her daughters while the other allows and helps hers to kidnap, rape and impregnant a child that ISN’T THEIRS but anyway at least Nancy is in prison and I don’t see why they don’t lock the mother up for neglect and by the way incest goes way back to the egyptians. Brothers and sisters of egyptian pharoahs and queens until Cleopatra VII weren’t allow to marry or have children unless it was a relative of theirs but I hope this man gets life in prison cause this don’t make no sense

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/GiGi_Ambition/ GiGi_Ambition

    I just want to know when he will be stoned to death in the middle of the town?! Glad to see so many people know the Bible.

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Or1ana/ Or1ana

    Being at one time a victim of Insect it is truly frightening to see that not much has changed in the way things are handled! My abuser is still living life everyday like nothing ever happened and was able to tell CYF that i was lying and crazy and basically got away with doing what he did! I went through yaers of being molested,beat,and for lack of a better word raped and no support after their was a report made to an agency, no arrest, no nothing! I would have hoped things would have changed by now! I think that there should b stronger punishments for sexual abusers and their enablers! If even one of those girls ever see this comment I hope they understand he was wrong and not them! there is no excuse for ruining someones childhood and know that you can come back from it! May God Bless and keep you!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Or1ana/ Or1ana

    Sorry for the Grammatical error….Incest is what I meant o spell….but yu all know what I meant anyway!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Or1ana/ Or1ana

    I also agree with BabyPhat 326, I believe that the mother should b held just as accountable as the father because we are supposed to protect our children at all cost and to know that he was raping your daughters and not do anything up to and including chopping his d**k off then you are just as guilty! I used to make excuses for the mothers….but after strong consideration of my own mother I believe they are just as guilty…to know,suspect,think that any man especially the father is doing something to your child and not do anything is unexcusable!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Thed_msp/ Thed_msp

    And everybody had what to say about the movie “Precious”? I’m sorry I can’t hear you? What was that? Oh I thought so….because now “Precious” to the fifth power is in your face with this situation. To every last one of yall that had all that crapt to say a few weeks ago when that movie was an issue…..guess what? Shhhhhhhh, that’s the sound of nobody caring what you think!!!! BOOM!

    And if you have never been in such a situation to all of you talking about the mother, you need to hush. Period. Cause you don’t know what you would have done after he got finished wearing yo behind out with a board or boot. Fear is a mutha! Stop a casting judgement when you are not wearing the shoes.

    Tell all that flack you had to say about “Precious” to the children that suffered in this situation, and seek ye first the kingdom of God before you pass judgement.

    Monique and Gabourey…..the Oscar goes to you for having the courage to touch on a dark subject.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/BlackMiss62/ BlackMiss62

    LOL@clapping LOUDLY for Thed_msp!!! There you go!!! There you go!!! Thank you!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/najaca/ najaca

    WTF. Paterson people can be azz-backwards. Something weird about that city. I try to avoid meeting guys from there, bc, it’s a different way of thinking and living that comes out of that city.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SheFly69/ SheFly69

    Things like this happens all the time. This one just came to light. Haven’t you noticed all the confused women in the world? Most of this comes from a man. Women go to the Church for help and get screwed over and used there. And don’t forget, boys are raped also. Look at Todd Bridges. These men give good Black men the label of dogs. This man is worst than a dog.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/ddfordhame/ ddfordhame

    I can not believe this. What Mother would just sit back and allow this? I think she should be given the same fate the Father receives. How in the World does a Woman at not time at least try to defend her Children. They could have ganged up on him if nothing else.How they could just not take a chance for Freedom I do not know,It just seems if a Stranger came in an attacked the Family someone would respond with ” the boards” or anything that could hurt and take a person down. I do not know why this was allowed to go on. A woman who fears for her life will as the cat “come out of the corner” so to speak. A woman who fears for the lives of her Children will find Strength to do away with a man of this caliber.If she was not afraid to help birth and bury Children she should not have been afraid to do the right thing and protect her Children. By any means necessary.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Anxiouslove/ Anxiouslove

    I second that Blackmiss62 @ Thed_msp… you get a standing ovation!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/fatbabyceesay/ fatbabyceesay

    Dysfunction cannot be justified or rationalized. This man was mentally and emotionally unstable and should have been revealed years ago. Now his children and grandchildren have to live with the shame and guilt of his actions for the rest of their lives… TRAGIC… and yes… I too agree that the Mother although she may have lived in fear and been emotionally abused, should be charged with being an accomplice because she was fully aware of the situation and it’s harmful effects on those girls. Cmon… do you really think she NEVER had the chance to turn this monster in and get protection for her and her children? There comes a time in everyone’s life when you need to grow some balls and ‘man up.’I am not judging but by the same token I am not co-signing her s**t either. She was just as wrong and guilty as he was.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/BabyPhat236/ BabyPhat236

    Thank you for agreeing with me Or1ana and I also like to agree with Thed_msp on the movie Precious I haven’t seen it yet but I agree with him that everybody didn’t expect incest happening to girls in REAL LIFE until this came out but like I said I hope they put the mother away for allowing this and no mother should allow s**t like this to happen to her child or children.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/chocaulit/ chocaulit

    the mother didnt step forward bc she had battered woman’s syndrome . add to tht the fact tht shes been brain washed by the husband and its all she wrote.dont even think tht i condone her behavior bc i dont but as a nurse and also a child of a woman who has battered woman’s syndrome i can somewhat understand.in my family there are many people who should be in jail for all kinds of deviant behavior including the incest of an 8 year old child. but my mother refused to acknowledge bc it was ” the safer easier way out” needless to say the whole family is dysfunctional. anyway if all the perverted acts committed by the male members in my family had been reported to the cops at least 5 of em would be in jail. and yes tht includes uncles brothers and step fathers . so there you have it. the sad thing is that no justice was received for the kids and yet their still expected today to bow n curtsy grin and smile and act as if these things have never happened. i dont know im just saying . just a little personal hands on experience with this dark topic. also as a nurse ive seen many patients admitted with mental illness and drug abuse problems and their history usually states a history of sexual abuse.and yes it is sometimes by the dad or uncle and most times by someone they knew. the stats are that 91% of our children have been in some way or form sexually abused. so it is here to stay until we can educate people to protect our kids better.the welfare system also needs to be up hauled they are over worked and under paid and if someone has a slight knowledge of the law its easy to avoid detection and/or charges.usually tho i find that the avoidance of such dark acts begins at home with a vigilant protective mother and a smart child who knows he can trust his mom in moments of tribulation. if i was u guys i wouldnt leave my young kids alone with not even their brothers if i can help it until they can be quite vocal bc tht is where a lot of the incest i have seen stemmed from. it would also help if we didnt treat the victims like they were the perpetrators of the crime, tht just makes them less likely to come forward. incest is like hiv theres a stigma that a victim cant ever really shake, hence the high rate of drug abuse and sexual promiscuity. like i said iono im just sayin

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/demoshe/ demoshe

    What a sick man!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Angilix/ Angilix

    Happens all over the world. Usually the kids don’t turn out right genetically.
    A British man was jailed Tuesday for raping two of his daughters and fathering nine children over 27 years, a case with echoes of Austria’s Josef Fritzl.

    The two daughters were made pregnant 19 times; there were nine births, five miscarriages and five terminations. Seven of the children are alive but suffer genetic deformities.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/loverofthegoddess1/ loverofthegoddess1

    Yeah stories like this are bad but u cant take them to the extreme and be like no man can be around my kids because women do the same exact things they’re just vastly under reported. And the stigma isn’t the same. Men are always villainized in this society. But yeah nearly everyone in the states has been sexually molested at one point by siblings/adults/other kids/etc. Anwyays if i have kids i wont leave them with a baby sitter or anything because men/women family members molest kids alot. Especially boys. Boys seem to get molested more than girls in sheer number. I don’t know why.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/mandingolicious/ mandingolicious

    Kill… him….

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/kraycarr/ kraycarr

    How can your p***s even get aroused by lookin at your own kids in a sexual manner!!!! I wouldn’t let that niggra direct my video!..nasty mothaf**ka

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/hera12/ hera12

    Kraycarr: Good point–most animals, including humans, are “programmed” to be repelled by the action of incest. It’s a biological necessity to diversify our genes to avoid birth defects and behavioral problems in our children.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/hera12/ hera12

    chocaulit:

    You shared some very good points about BWS and your own family history. That said, it infuriates me to no end that woman allow themselves to be abused the way this woman has. I understand that this type of passiveness or behavior can be generational, but what is it that drives some women who are abused to fight back at the first punch and some others to let it go on for years?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/hera12/ hera12

    I don’t know why these women didn’t gang up on this mutha f***a and whip on his ass.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/TOTALBODYIMAGE/ TOTALBODYIMAGE

    That mf had to sleep sometime didnt he? I would have sent that mf back to his maker.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MiSz_PiNk_DiamOnd/ MiSz_PiNk_DiamOnd

    The wife did nothing?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/goldenlady01/ goldenlady01

    Monster!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/TheMsmother/ TheMsmother

    He might as well walk in prison with his pants down.

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