al green

i just knew she was from louisiana,watching too much madea probabaly lol

lol @ butteryfly_145

What really got me was the fact that, not only did they get into an argument, which happens, but he told her that he was breaking up with her, and instead of leaving, he goes to bed IN THE SAME HOUSE! That was just dumb on his part. I don’t think he deserved the hot grits, but why argue with a person, then break up with him/her, and go to sleep while they’re in VERY close proximity of you?! Maybe another reader can explain.

Damn 3iiiE beat me to it…had she poured those grits down his throat he wouldn’t be saying shi to the cops

Where is the outrage and indignation? People were so fast to drag Chris Brown through the mud. If a woman had done that to me, I would be in jail for attempted murder (or manslaughter).

I just need to know why this woman isn’t in jail? I watched a friend go back to the pen just for looking pissed at his woman and she gets to bathe her man in hot grits? It’s make it really hard to step in to help real victims. Since we’re on th subject, why did Rhiana confess to violence and nobody said boo? What Chris did was not right, but what she did wasn’t either and they both should have been booked.

The only thing that’s wrong here is he broke up with her and went to bed. Sounds like the woman was crazy. Jamie 135, you are so right. I think that Rhianna is milking the whole Chris Brown abuse situation for all it’s worth.

Now, this poor man needs a skin graft, and Chris Brown is fighting for his career because stores aren’t stocking his album. People don’t understand that abuse goes both ways. Women hit men too. I don’t condone it on either end. No one stops to remember that Rhianna hit Chris in the face while he was driving. She endangered both of their lives, and all they can see is that he hit her. She scratched the hell out of him. Nobody sees that. As a woman, i teach my son that it is wrong to hit women, but if a woman feels the need to attack you, forget she is a woman, and fight her like the person she thought she was when she tried to harm you.

The law always leans in favor of women, which is why the term domestic violence wasnt used in this article. There are alot of men in abusive relationships with unstable, emotional, mental women. That verbally, physically and even financially abuse men. Whether by force, words, or using a mans children against him, alot of women are out of control!

Even though I’d never break up with a woman, than lay down afterward. He cant be knocked for that, he just got off work, and was most likely tired as hell. After a long day of dealing with bs at the job, most men cant even get the big piece of chicken. Now we gotta worried about be scalded too.

She needs to be put behind bars. If it was a man that did this, he’d be locked up without question.

HEEEELLLLOOOOO, 1.) THIS HAS NOTHING 2 DO WITH CHRIS BROWN, ITS BETWEEN THE WOMAN AND THE MAN SHE BURNED WITH THE GRITS! 2.) LAST SENTENCE OF THE PARAGRAPH, THE WOMAN WAS ARRESTED AND BOOKED!

Remember John Bobbitt
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_and_Lorena_Bobbitt
There are worse things than hot grits she could have done to him.

ITS ABOUT TIME THEY SPEAK UP AND SAY THAT IS BOTH MAN AND WOMEN WHO THROW PUNCHES. BUT WHAT ABOUT THE WOMEN WHO LIKE TO GET HIT AND BEAT. THOSE WOMEN WHO DO EVERYTHING IN THEIR POWER TO PROVOKE A MAN TO HIT THEM. WHAT ABOUT THOSE WOMEN I KNOW A FEW LIKE THAT. MY LIL BOY’S MOMMA IS ONE. SHE TIRED TO GET ME TO HIT HER. I COULD HAVE LAYED HER BEHIND OUT A FEW TIMES. AFTER WHAT SHE LEFT ON MY VOICE MALL. THE KNIFES SHE PULLED ON ME TALKING ABOUT SHE WAS GOING TO KILL. I TOLD HER I WASNT GOING TO HURT HER AND I WASNT GOING TO LET HER HURT ME.

He came home from work and got into an argument with her. He told her that he was breaking up with her and then went to bed. Hitting the buzzer, Innnn! Was it her spot? He laid down and closed his eye after say vhe was through with her, how many times had they had this issue? Wrong!!! As Charlie Murphy would say. Time to leave. Hell has no fury like a woman scorned they say.

LOL!!! Ahhhhh……….how u just gonna break up with somebody and then go to bed like you just told her u paid the phone bill….he deserved that shyt just for bein so nonchalant! Ha, lol…

Um.. I cut my husband and I went to jail so what’s the difference here???? This is crazy.. but he was stupid for going to sleep.. I’m not getting that part.

P.S. Too much Madea…LOL

Ok, to EVERYONE that said you cant have an arguement then go lay down afterwards…Ummmm WHY NOT?! We dont know the particulars…but IF this man came HOME he had every right to say what he wanted to say and lay down. Thats why women get away with SO MUCH! Because society tells men to tip-toe hop and skip around these crazy bytches instead of treating them like ADULTS. Now I could see if the man had BEAT her or something of that magnitude, but all they did was argue and he broke up with her. So you mean to tell me this man’s looks, skin have been changed for the rest of his life because this crazy MF’in woman couldnt handle rejection?? SMMFH! And I bet she was the main chick talkin bout she cant find a good man! It’s always the crazy ones that f*uck it up for us normal ones…

@ TiredMan -> I HEAR YA, my Man!! I would’ve Chris Brown’d or even O.J.’d her @$$!! I got two words for Women like THAT!-> Nicole Brown!! (Google it) ;-)

Yes, way to much madea. Of course their two sides to every story, they trying to paint her as the bad person cause she scalded his ass with hot grits. Maybe she had a motive other than, he’s breaking up with her. She probably know he’s been cheating andim sure they probably had a fight before he went to lay down. I then cut up clothes, broke X Boxes, busted windows and I had a f**king motive. We got into a argument and a fight,so after i busted his ass in the mouth, he lfet and i went to tearing s**t up and I felt good after it. So does that make me a “CRAZY BYTHCHHHHH?” I think not, just mad at the time!! lol I’m on her side!!

@TakenStepsForward_ See thats the kind of behavior that sets black women back. When you act a fool and then glorify it. I debate with my male friends damn near every time we all get together about how upstanding and strong and intelligent black women are and here you go with this…SMH. There is NO motive or justification great enough for hurting someone..Cheating is not great enough. You be a real woman about yours and keep it pushin. She is the bad person because she has done permanent damage to him and we dont even know both sides. I think you need to re-assess your screen name…What you said here is NOT the picture of ‘taken steps forward’.

My opinion is my opinion Mrs. Califemme. Who says my motive was for chating, sisn’t i say we had a “fight” which means he had the nerve to put his hands on me, baby now if thats not a motive then what is. Thats you’re perogative if you a man put his hand on you and walk away but baby clear as day, you’re you and im me!! And as I can recall I’m one black women out of thousands so im setting noone back, my actions don’t determine don’t determine if another black woman is strong. As for ur “black male” friends I think yoou need to adjust who you hang with if their downing their own race and if their not black, well thats you letting them bash your race! Ummmmmmmmm and now my screen everything I consider myself doing know is TakenStepsForward from what I have done in the “PAST.” So the whole tearing his s**t up thing was in the past and I felt like bringing this situation up in the=is particular blog. So therefore im not gloating about the situation im just speaking on it!!Like I said he got what he deserved. Most of these blogs are one-sided and I’m sure theres more on her end of the story!! She just received the short end of the stick!!

cheating, didn’t i say (typo)

if you let a man

dont determine (only once) lol guess i should have checked before

doing now

butterfly u beat me to that comment this girl watched too many tyler perry /madea plays and movies apparently. but honestly there is a double standard tho when it comes to abuse . had he threw hot grits on her he wouldnt see the light of day but since she did it its hilarious . me personally that was a good waste of grits.

Ok@takensteps….First of all im not a ‘Mrs’ and second, I’m not retracting…I still think it’s silly, childish and belittling for GROWN men and women to fight like common heathens…Still a person cheating is not cause to literally fight..argue yeah, but physical fight/harm…no. But your stance is your stance and I respect that I suppose…I dont need to adjust my friends at all, we are ALL intelligent people who have the very same discussions that take place in these forums..someone is bound to disagree with someone else simply put. And since it took me way too long to decipher what you ‘tpyed’ anyway….We can just respectfully agree to disagree on this one….Deuces

i’m the one of the easiest guys to get a long with and have never put hands and feet on a woman. but, i’d have to do my Ni99A ACT on the following 3 broads: KP_2G, sexynickey and TakenStepsForward!

that sh it is just ridiculous and uncalled for!

He told her he was goin break up with her, then went to bed.lol! Stupid mistake.
Hope he gets better.

Ouch! The mathematics of love seldom adds up. Hate is but love in reverse and Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. Empires have fallen by bedroom politics. I wonder which is really the weaker sex?

jack_stephen1….THANK YOU! I guess I must be the ONE female on this site that thinks SHE was wrong for scalding this man..Im the ONE person on this site that feels like he had every right to say what he wanted to say then take his tired azz to sleep for the night…MAYBE if her triflin azz would have been coming home from a hard days work as well, she wouldnt have had so much energy to WASTE perfectly good grits! This one ladies of blackplanet I just DO NOT agree with. I wonder…if any of you had broken up with your man…would you feel he was totally validated if he threw some hot azz grits at you as well! Hmmmm, let that one marinate!

Damn, at least when Al Green was attacked with hot grits, he was in the shower.

@ CALIFEMME,,, I LIKE YOUR THOUGHTS, ITS REAL,,, A WOMAN WOULD’NE LIKE THAT IF IT WERE THE OTHER WAY AROUND,, I FEEL IT’S ALL GAME,, THAT’S SOME SAD $HIT,, MAYBE IF SHE HAD A JOB, JUST LIKE YOU SAY, OR LET THE MAN SLEEP, SHE GO TO BED, AND WHEN THEY GET UP THE NEXT DAY, IT’LL BE SOMTHING IN THE PASS!!

PEOPLE AND THEY $HIT………..

see now, the wrong women are getting their azzes beat smh

OF COURSE PEOPLE WOULD CONTINUE TO COMMENT ON MY COMMENT! AT JACK_STEPHENS YOU BETTER MAKE SURE YOUR HANDS AND FEET ARE CONCRETE BECAUSE U WOULDNT HAVE ANY HANDS OR FEET AFTER YOU DECIDE TO PUT THEM ON ME, TRUST. YOU PEOPLE GET ON HERE AND TYPE FAKE ASS S**T, S**T YOU WOULD THINK SOMEONE WOULD LIKE OR GIVE YOU PRAISE FOR IT!! GET OF THE DUMB FAKE S**T, CAUSE IM GOING TO POST WHAT I FEEL LIKE POSTING,AND NOT WHAT SOMEONE WANTS ME TO POST, THANKS!! CALIFEMME, IF YOU COULD NOT UNDERSTAND WHAT I TYPED WITH THE TYPOS THEN YOU’RE SLOW, SORRY. OBVIOUSLY YOU HAD NO PROBLEM READING MY FIRST POST TO COMMENT ON IT, WHICH IN RETURN CAUSED YOU TO RECEIVE THE SECOND AND THIS THIRD COMMENT FROM ME! AND ANOTHER THING WHY WHERE YOU VISITING MY PAGE ANYWAY, HMMMMMMMM!!! DOES THE FEMME MEAN YOU’RE A HOMOSEXUAL, JUST THE FEMME ONE INSTEAD OF THE BUTCH!LMAO! COME ON PEOPLE THIS IS THE INTERNET AND A BLOG SITE, GET OVER IT!!!

TakenStepsForward….Good grief..here we go with the screen name thing..’ahem’..Let me start by saying that I am in no way a lesbian or bi-sexual woman by any stretch of the word…The word ‘femme’ is the french word for female..hopefully dear, if you read better than you type you’ll find that one out.

Second..There are plenty of women who go to other women’s pages on these blogs just to get a look at or ‘feel’ for who’s doing the ‘talking’ in the forums. I have had just about every ‘regular’ female that blogs on the same subjects as I do come to my page,as well as some of the men. Many have added me to their friends list, especially if we are in agreement in topics. I myself do the same. I only went to your page to SEE, or read your personal message because we were in disagreement on this topic…It made me say ‘Let me go to her page, see who she is”…thats it.

And last but damn sure not least…You have Taken a HUGE grand canyon sized LEAP BACKWARDS if you THINK that even if I was a ‘homo’ that I would have any interest in YOU! No offense, but I’ve seen your pictures babe and there ‘aint’ enough alcohol to blame that shyt on..period. Don’t EVER flatter yourself like that again..It would do you no good cuz i’ll only take more pleasure in shootin you down AGAIN.

And by the way Since you’re ‘takenstepsforward’in your life how bout you take a few more steps into the nearest 24HR FITNESS..I bet you post on this topic so much because of that big, steamin, tasty lookin, buttery bowl of grits in the above picture huh? feel free to respond back however you see fit…but before you do, take some steps UP as well to truly be on my level.. ;-)

Too easy…NEXT!!!!

Lmao at u califemme! hahahah ahhhhhhhhhhh haha!! U know i had to go to ur page right? hmmmmmmmmmmm where to start?? Since you want to bring up the looks department! why don’t you exactly have a face shot, or look exactly into the camera? Whats the glasses for and is that weave? Another thing, i hope you don’t think ur shape is tight, lol its kinda made wrong! I could go on an on but i’ll stop there. WHo actually gets online and show pictures of their breast and still doesn’t get comments! As for the screen name, who gives a f**k, you commented on my screen name so i decided to come back in the second comment and comment on yours just foe the fun of it. Grits, nah my thing is oatmeal! So please come with another fat joke!!! lol:) Go comment on another yound lady pics and maybe she’ll be offended, cause i can’t stop laughing!As for the homo thing we’re not going to go there. So did you get the “feel” of who i am from reading my page? Probably not cause as you can see I rather not put a short essay about me cause it’s not that serious! So before u decided to critcize me, “monkey lady” look in the mirrror. I wonder why you so hard on that “black vs.white” female thing, look at you!!!((lmao))Level??? What level are u supposly suppose to be on?? As far as I can see not above anyone whose posting to these forums! You’re a character, “pikachu!”

Like u said next………… cause i will be back to reply to whatever u have to say missy! :p

takensteps…before I say what I planned on sayin to your response..Ill answer your questions first…No, I dont have a weave, there are black women with REAL hair these days…plenty of us at that. I could go back and comment on SHAPES but I wont, I just disagree, my ‘shape’ is not made wrong..God didnt make mistakes with with this body..sorry. “pikachu”? I dont even have anything to say to that one…I’ll pass.

Now,on to what I really wanted to say….Earlier when I sent that last post I made to you on here, a very good friend of mine was at my house and read what I posted…He then said ‘Damn, why you gotta be so mean, if what she said about you ISNT true, why even respond? YOU know you aren’t a ‘homo’don’t even trip on what someone that doesnt know you has to say about you”. I AGREE totally with him. He brought me back to myself. So with that said…I retract anything I said that may have offended you because I personally do not know you nor do you know me. Throwing the ‘youre ugly’ comments back and forth…beneath me, pointless because neither one of us believes what the other says anyway. He also made a good point in saying A LOT of the debates on here are groundless and or uneccessary. Again, I agree with him…I have enough intelligent debate with people I know in real time and we dont get disrespectful as some do on here.
I’ve only been doing this blog thing for about a month anyway so it hasnt turned into a ‘must have’ for me. A LOT of the topics are wishy washy, nit picky and just not on the caliber most of the time. I have NEVER spent this much time in OTHER people’s business…lol..not my style…So with that said…Im out…my blog days are over…yall be good…DEUCES!

Well………….. I posted before but not as many post that i have now. I just rejoined bp like 3 days ago so that speaks for itself! On all the rest of the things you stated, agreeded! You do not need to stop blogging cause majority of your comments on the blogs thats relavent made real good sense, you and a couple others who got the point. For some reasons on this particular blog we just have different view, I have my reasons! lol, others peoples business could be interesting, especially when you have nothing to do at the time! okie dokie then, you have a nice one if you decide to leave!

RICHARDMANN-
Subject: U IZ A FAYKE!!!
DUDE, u iz a str8 fraud! My aunt iz naymed Tanya but er’bodee kall her coco…she wuz fukkin roun wit da REEL Richard Mann lyke YESTERDAY yo! I saw dis fayke azz page a week ago an asked him if it waz him…HE SED HELL NAW! U frontin’ my nygga! u need 2 uze yo own ugly azz picz an stop tryna steel REEL nyggaz shyne!!!

DIS A FAYKE AZZ NYGGA RYTE HERE! ON HERE TAWKIN ALL DIZ SHYT TO ALL DEEZ BLAKK WOMEN,TAWKIN SHYT BOUT EM!TRYNA REP 4 BLAKK MEN, NEVA DAT! MY PEEPS BEEN FUKKIN WIT DA REEL RICAHRD MANN FO YEARZ NOW…HE AINT EVEN ON DIS BP SHYT!! HE’Z A FUKKIN WEEK AZZ POZER YO!! GET CHO OWN REEL UGLY AZZ PICZ AND REP YOSELF!! KLOWN AZZ NYGGA!! I HPE DA WOMEN DONT EVEN BALEEVE DIS NYGGA! HE’Z A FAYKE!!

IM NEW 2 DIS SHYT…BUT TAKENSTEPZ I KNOE U AINT TAWKIN BOUT NOBODY SHAPE WIT CHO BUZTED AZZ PIKTURE! I CHEKKED YO SHYT IT SAY U 21 YRZ OLD LOOKIN LYKE U 35 WIT DEM BUZTED AZZ BOOTS ON LOOKIN TWO DEAD HUSKIES RAPPED AROUN YO THIKK AZZ ANKLEZ…ITS CHIKKS LIKE U THAT MAKE DUDES FADE DAT WIG BAKK! TAWKIN BOUT U BUSTED SOMEBODY MOUTH…STOP LYIN! AINT NO MAN LET U BUST DEM IN DA MOUTH! TAWKIN BOUT SOMEBODY WEARIN SHADEZ IN A PIK, YO AZZ SHULD HAVE PUT ON A BLANKET 2 COVER DAT UP! CALI U AINT GOT 2 LEEVE CUZ U 31 SHE 21 AND U LOOK 10X BETTA DEN DAT! YO SHAPE IZ ON POINT! I BEEN READIN BLOG POSTS FOR WHILE SINCE I JOINED DIS SHYT AN U ARE EDUCATED, U MAKE REEL RESPECFULL DEBATE, HALF OF WHAT DAT CHIKK BE SAYIN U CANT EVEN UNDASTAND!

HOTLICKS, LMAO AT U? R U MAD AT SOMETHING, BECAUSE U HAVE TO BE! OBVIOUSLY, I LOOK 35 WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YOU’RE NOT HAPPY WITH YOURSELF! BUSTED BOOTS, LOL U BUSTED PERIOD I CAN SEE THIERS NO RICHARDMANN WHO POSTED TO THIS BLOG SO ONE WORD…………….”HATER” TO BAD UR NOT AN EDUCATED ONE! SPELL UR WORDS HOW THEY GO LOSER! i CAN GO ON AND ON BUT I’LL STOP HERE!!

Im not even going to come back to this blog and entertain u or anyone else who has something to say about me or my comment! sorry but the internet beef is kinda old! So u keep on loser, u have a good day, no a blessed day! tootles

TAKENSEPZ…GOOD! IM GLAD YO AZZ AINT KOMIN BAKK. IF CALI LEFT CUZ OF SHYT LIKE U, THEN ITZ ONLY RYTE DAT U LEEVE CUZ OF A REEL NYGGA LYKE ME! AND DONT WALK AWAY…U NEED TO RUN SUM OF DAT WEIGHT OFF!! SO YEAH, RUN AWAY…LOL

U DIDN’T REALLY THINK I WAS GOING TO GO DID YOU???? SORRY I DONT BACK DOWN THAT EASY! CALIFEMME ITS SAD HOW U HAVE TO MAKE ANOTHER PAGE JUST TO VOICE HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT ME. IS IT THAT SERIOUS? AND WHO BROUGHT UP THE LOOKS DEPARTMENT IN THE FIRST PLACE? AND IF THIS ISN’T CALI, BRAVO CAPTAIN SAVE A HO! WHY DOES MY WEIGHT OFFEND U? R U SECRETLY MADE CAUSE MY “FAT ASS” LOOKS BETTER THAN YOU OR YOUR FRIEND. WELL BABY, YOU GONNA HAVE TO SUCK THAT UP, BECAUSE IT IS WHAT IT IS AND IM SURE THEIR OR OTHERS ON THIS SITE AS WELL! SO MAN WHOEVER YOU ARE, PLEASEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE SHOW YOURSELF! I HOPE THATS NOT YOU ON THAT FAKE PGAE, A DUD WITH MUSCLES? LMAO BABY AND IF SHE LEFT ITS BY CHOICE, WOW SOMEONE LEASVING A DAMN BLOG SITE BECAUSE OF COMMENTS, THATS KINDA INSANE, DON’T U THINK? TO YOU YOU ALL ARE IN YOUR 30′S, I BROUGHT THE B***H ASS KID OUT OF YOU!! LOL, LOVE IT!! MUST WE GO ON…………….

LOL, I HOPE YOU REALIZED YOU WAS ON HER PAGE, IF YOU DIDNT NOTICE BEFORE POSTING…………….LMAO!! THEIR IS NO OTHER PERSON!! JUST A FEMALE WITH TWO PAGES…………. ONE TO VOICE THE WANNA BE GOOD SIDE AND THE OTHER TO LET OUT HER RAGE!! HERES A LITTLE ADVICE, STOP BEING FAKE, ITS JUST THE INTERNET!!!!

What a waste! Those grits look sooo good too.

Wonder if he will ever eat grits again?????????

That’s very sad that the young lady only got three years of probations,and 100 hundred hours of community service.Also where is the justice at for the man family members!I feel she had gotten some jail time she knew what she was doing she still committed a crime.

ok when you break up with some one Leave. Don’t go to sleep. :)

Uh I think this lady needs to get a peace order cause that may be a cause for tit for tat.

someone has been watching MADEA! hot grits? yeah thats MADEA alright. lol

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