Oh man….Im just gonna wait to see the arguements and comments ROLL IN on this one! Should be interesting…

Ok, These ‘numbers’ are killin me. They dont speak for everyone which is what bothers me. Numbers also say that due to where im from, where I grew up Im supposed to have about 4 kids, probably be on drugs and have ran a stint or two in jail by now…I digress..I havent done any of those things. What these studies dont show is how white men REALLY see black women. I have spoken to, been approached by white men and they treat us like science projects. “Uh yeah, so umm what do ya wanna be called? black or negro or african american?”, “I love dating black women cuz you guys have such big butts YEAH BUDDY!”, “I’ve always wanted to TRY a black woman because I hear you guys are better in bed!”…And the BULLSHYT goes on and on. I think A LOT of black women are hangin in there for that black man because we want a sense of relativity. Someone who can relate to us as people..Not someone we have to teach everything to, have them get used to us like we just adopted them from the ‘pound’. Bottomline, white men are weak for the most part. No no NO im not looking for a thug or someone who cant put a sentence together. Just would like to know that the person is on my ‘level’. And I say they are weak because they have never had to be strong people as a whole.
They dont know the experience I know, they have never been seen under the scope that I have. Nevermind the fact that people are people and all are liable to fukk up, be abusive, sorry, lazy, etc…What does hunting for a white man have to do with it as far as finding a difference? I personally dont think I can go out and get with a white guy until I have understanding of my own folks first. Being is that white people have NEVER had to struggle or go through anything really, they tend to CRACK THE FUKK UP under pressures that black people deal with, solute and get over. They lose their jobs, they go off and kill er’body, the kids get bullied, they kill er’body, the women cant stand the child crying, they drown em all. Since the onset of the bad economy..I have heard more stories of white people above all jumping off bridges and commiting suicide. They just arent strong enough.
And last, maybe a bit superficial…But black women usually dont tend to find white men all that attractive, not compared to black men. It’s just something about black men that no other race has…(yes black men, that is a compliment to you all)…..But again before all of you hit me with the name calling and other raucious tags..this is JUST MY OPINION

MY god…. the white man is throwing all types of dyck at the black woman…which is funny as hell…well make sure he really respects you…because he might just want to fugg you but not have any nigga babies…Good luck with your search for a true love!!!

Don’t believe the hype! Women there is not a shortage of black men if you realistic about who really is willing to marry you. The assumption that black women are using is flawed. The assumption is that there is a limited amount of men because of Jail, lack of education ….. and all of the single black women are marriage material. LMAO. Ladies your competition and the odds of getting married are not that great if you honestly look at the numbers. How many of your sisters are fat, how many are morbidly obese, how many have a child and how many have multiple kids by multiple baby daddies, how many of them are uneducated and talk like they are a runaway slave, how many of them are selfish drama queens really incapable of forming an adult relationship with any man, how many have a v****a that is so big that it is difficult for a man to have an orgasim [yeah brothers also talk about size :) ], how many…… You get the point. When you eliminate the sisters with major baggage/issues/problem and you are mature and realistic in the understanding that you have to love the person who loves you. Your chances of getting married are very good.

i was visitng a married couple (blk m/wht w and child) in the Bay area. they were playfully arguing and she said she’ll leave him and take their daughter. he replied, “good luck out there to you and yo blk baby!” and laughed.

women better make every effort to make sure it’s the right “trans-racial” guy especially if she plans to have a child. if it the interracial relationship doesn’t work out, it’s not likely the woman will be able to return to her people w/ a bi-racial child and find a mate. you might get a date and can give up some tail but that’s about it. it is what it is!

Thats what im talking about jack_Stephen1, White guys want to ‘hit’ and thats about it…Most of the time they just want to know if the ‘myth’s’ and whatnot are true…just like white girls feel about black guys…

All this is is a divide and conquer tactic. Sisters and brothers stay strong.

I think black women should date who ever they want! I think that most black women are unrealistic with their requirements. I also think that most black women do not like educated black men because they know that educated black men have the upper hand, that they dont need to kow tow or kiss her her behind! And I think that if they date an educated white man they will have the same problem… so the problem is with them!

How is this a diviede and conquer tacti?. This woman didn’t say : “Sisters, drop all the black men and run to the white man.” She said keep your options open. There is nothing wrong with that. I know most black women are attracted to black men but the ones acting like dating out is turning their back on blk men is just silly. A good number of black men won’t mind dating a good woman no matter what color she is and the same blk women that see it stand in the background with their lips poked out refusing to ever do the same. If you don’t agree with dating out then don’t but don’t complain when you see open minded black men keeping their optins open. I will date a good man despite his color and I have dated many races without a problem. Some Black women just kill me acting like the damn black race will dissapear if we date what they call “The white devil” SMH.

HERE WE GO AGAIN!

NO ONE needs to BE TOLD WHO TO FALL IN LOVE WITH! IF sisters don’t want to date White men then LEAVE US THE HELL ALONE!

What WE NEED to do is concentrate on OURSELVES.

Don’t be fooled by this publicity STUNT they are shoving down our throats!

WE WILL NOT fall for the divide and conquer BS they keep promoting.

They want us JUST LIKE THEY HAVE CONVINCED SO MANY OF OUR BROTHERS that we must SPECIFICALLY GO after and date WHITE MEN… MAKES YOU GO hmmmmmmm……

WHY NOT Hispanic men??? Or Asian MEN…or Indian MEN… BUT JUST WHITE MEN?

I don’t see sisters running out and rushing to date ANY OTHER race of man but her own yet SOMEHOW the WHITE MAN is the focus?

IF THIS IS NOT AT THE CUSP OF A HIDDEN AGENDA… You think about that.. WHY only White men?

There is an entire ZEITGEIST being created ALL AROUND YOU… You had better find your CONSCIOUSNESS and FIND IT NOW.

Sister’s please beware of what these fools are trying to do. Right in front of your eyes. These people have so much hate for the black man. Just beware of dating white men.

IR relationships are funny. When people are around different races they adjust their attitude. You might have a black man that is unpleasant to BW but pleasant to Non-BW. U might have a BW that is fast to catch an attitude on a BM but not fast to catch an attitude on a Non-BM.

Like at my job there’s an Asian woman who smiles when she’s around Black and white men but when she’s around Asian men she frowns.

OMG!

I am bookmarking this blog…because this is going to be a goody!

News One! .. you all are a MESS… just plain ole’ MESSY!

In competition, the first thing a shrewd opponent does it cut off the “head”. USA, a patriarchal society (men are head of families, politics, etc.), is grounded in competition between Whites and people of color. Since Black people were the strongest and the most intimidating to Whites, they became their choice of main opponent. Whites had a difficult time winning — even while we were in slavery. In today’s time, sadly, they are winning by leaps and bounds due to successfully cutting off the head of our community; the Black man. I don’t know where it began in the timeline — I’m guessing –early 1980s — but, “letting” the Black man put on a suit, on the court, field, stage or corporations have giving Black men the delusion he is ONLY 100% whole when he becomes successful if he dates and or marry White women. It is an “epidemic” created by design. Brothers walking around like some stupid dust has been sprinkled in the air just for them. Many of them coming up with illogical reasonings as to why countless of them should leave or have left the Black community with their gold to place in the lap of women who are descendants of women who had their male ancestors killed just for looking at her or fraudulently claiming some kind of “assault”.
In the words of one of Spike Lee’s movies, “WAKE UP!!” It’s not cute.

To each is own…Wat eva floats your boat..lol…im not going to knock interracial dating…I say what ever make you happy..Love is Love what’s the son Micheal Jackson made..IT DON’T MATTER IF YOUR BLACK OR WHITE…ENJOY LIFE, LIVE FREE, DO WORRY, BE HAPPY CUS WE ONLY GET ONE… NOW, IF THERE ANY SINGLE GOOD LOOKING BLACK OR WHITE MEN OUT THERE!!IN THE TRI STATE AREA (PHILLY, JERSEY & DELAWARE) SINGLE WITH NOT STRINGS ATTACHED/DRAMA AND FOOLISHNESS!!! AND YOUR ABOUT SOMETHING YOU MUST HAVE A JOB CUS WE CAN DO THIS THING TOGETHER!!! HOLLA AT ME!!! :)

It’s a shame so many of the opinions expressed incite hate. Medical Science shows us we’re all human. There’s more difference between a man and a woman then between people of varied melanin content. [Note: I'm not now, nor have I ever suggested that in the interest of similarity homosexuality should be preferred - don't get it twisted, but feel free to embrace the idea of tolerance.]

I’ll quote from His Imperial Majesty, Haile Selassie I’s famous speech to the United Nations, General Assembly:
“Until the philosophy which holds one race superior and another inferior is finally and permanently discredited and abandoned, everywhere is war and until there are no longer first-class and second-class citizens of any nation, until the color of a man’s skin is of no more significance than the color of his eyes. And until the basic human rights are equally guaranteed to all without regard to race, there is war. And until that day, the dream of lasting peace, world citizenship, rule of international morality, will remain but a fleeting illusion to be pursued, but never attained… now everywhere is war.”

I think the author of this book is simply expressing her opinion that we all have more options then we realize sometimes. Yes men are men and many of us enjoy sex quite a bit, but that hardly differentiates who is or will be a good father based upon the color of their skin. It’s funny sometimes hearing discussions about Black people, White people, or any other color of people – a premise is often suggested that people with the same or similar melanin content all think, act or speak the same way; but the reality is we clearly don’t – I could elaborate about the differences in cultures from one part of the US to another or compare those cultures to cultures from beyond our borders, but what is clear is that generalizing about people generally only serves to denigrate connections that we all have as human beings with an ability to love and empathize.

C’Mon BLACKWOMAN.. Dont you know that the WHITEMAN has always wanted the blackwoman! He raped her daily and mixed his wicked seed in her on the plantation. Blackwomen HATED the sight of the WHITEMAN. The blackman had NO POWER to stop his open enemy from taking his wife, daughter. If those of our foreparents could be alive to see Blackwomen giving themselves to whitemen, they would cry out from the grave kill us all GOD for we dont deserve to live. How could you blackwoman after 400 years of toture from whites, and the raping, robbing, murders, burning at the stake? The whiteman used to ram hot pokers into the blackwomans v****a killing her and her baby. The WHITEMAN would hang a pregnant blackwoman up and cut her baby out, let it fall to the ground, then stomp the head. All infront of the WHOLE town, while they took pictures, and cut off ears, toes, fingers.
If Ms TUBMAN could see (US) marrying, and sweethearting our OPEN enemies she would have tried to kill all of us herself. The BIGGEST TRICK the WHITEMAN used on (US) was to give us THE WHITEWOMAN. To make us think that our 400 year old enemy had changed, so we would’nt want to go completely free. NOW They hit us over the head with OBAMA, and he aint paying no attention to (US) but we think we overcame…GREAT SCAM!!!
ONEDAY SOON BLACKWOMAN and WOMAN we will be forced to EXCEPT YOUR OWN and BE YOURSELF. For OUR Former slavemaster and his children still HATE you and plan daily on our demise. And will KILL his own to get rid of the FUTURE..THE BLACKMAN and WOMAN.

FOR ONE BLACKWOMEN IS NOT REALLY IN TO WHITE GUYS THEY ARE TO PALE!!

SECOND I GET TIRED OF HEARING ;THERE ARE SO MANY FAT BLACKWOMEN THATS WHY NO ONE WANTS THEM. WHY IN THE HELL DO I SEE SO MANY FAT WHITE AN LATINOS WOMEN!!
FOR EVERY FA BLACKWOMEN YOU CAN MATCH WITH A NONBLACK WOMEN. WHY DO PEOPLE SEE THE FAT BLACKWOMEN BUT DONT SEE THE FAT WHITEWOMEN , AN THEY ARE EVERY WERE WITH BLACK MEN WITH THEM..

THEY TRY TO DO WHAT EVER THE CAN TO PUT BLACK WOMEN DOWN.I SEE BLACKWOMEN IN ALL SIZES, SO MANY MEN LIKE BIG WOMEN, SOME LIKE SMALL WOMEN.AN THEM BIG
WOMEN BE HAVING MEN..I SEE FAT BLACKMEN DAILY. SO ITS NOT THE SIZE IS WHY BLACK WOMEN ARE SINGLE ITS OTHER ISSUES.BUT I SEE MORE AN MORE BWS WITH NONBLACK MEN.

I am dating my first white guy and I am loving it. I love the way he makes me feel, i feel wanted and special when i am with him. I love spending time with him and I would do anything for him (almost anything, ex.cook, wash clothes, etc.) For some reason black successful men like white women so I have been forced to day white men and i love it.

im not going to lie ive been with a whte guy before, it was okay, but me personally i LOVe my black men! i feel like if u want to date outside of ur race, heather its black, white, asian, indian etc then do so! you hear alot of wemon say its hard to find a good BLACK man….NEW FLASHH!!!! its hard to find a good man period, so if you find one and he is not ur race, try it bc in the end it could be the best decision youve ever made!!! not syaing marry a white man, just explore…believe me you could learn alot more about urself! maybe thts why ur single..bc u dont really know who u r?! i mean idk but just try, so tht then u can really state pross and cons about it

Dating someone of another race is not the answer! Interracial couples have high divorce rates, since many married for the wrong reason. The answer really lies in the choices you make. I know of many black woman who can’t find a good guy because they are actually attracted to black guys who will give them nothing but drama. They will never admit it, but it’s the truth! Many black women are attracted to the ‘bad guys’ and think the good guys are not their cup of tea or ‘boring’. In addition to that, black women are very picky!

Example: I look at hispanic couples, where I see chubby or overweight husbands/boyfriends with pretty and fine petite girlfriends/wives. Hispanic women, like any other race, usually stick to their own and end up with a guy that’s hard working and can help support them. Pan over to black women and they don’t want the chubby/overweight guy that has money and will treat them well. They would would rather date bad guys with the same traits up until their mid-thirties before they finally give a less preferable guy a chance.

Oh and there are educated brothers out there, like myself, who get looked over for the ‘hip and happening’ guy that ‘keeps it real’ or ‘straight thuggin’. I mean I’ve had women shorter than me say they couldn’t get with me because I’m only 5’7–without considering the fact they continually end up with the same game with the same traits: trouble and nothing going. Ok go ahead and have his tall azz and all the mishaps that come with him…lol.

I just look at women of other races and I see women who are not that picky about the physical traits of their men. Yes they are less likely to date outside of their race compared to black women who do so, but at least when they stick to their own–they grow out of the ‘boo hoo he so fine’ state of mind very quickly. If black women were attracted to white men, then they would’ve been more open to them, like black men are to white women. However, black women in general prefer their own…it’s just that by the time they get out of the physical looks stage, they think all black men are the same and will settle for something that didn’t attract them initially–a white man. All this while ignoring the black man that didn’t attract them, because they came to think the black man in general is no good. Sistas can be real shallow, but I still love my black women! (this doesn’t mean I don’t date outside my race–I’m a brotha!)

I’m not saying you should date someone you have absolutely no attraction to, but at least give the ones you are up against the wall about a try.

girl aint that the truth..these black men get these white women with the gut over the pus.sy then they have the nerve to come back over the color line and call us fat….WTF…he dont even know if he is fugging her fat or her coochie…lmao!!!

This is propaganda but hey if all the forced Rapes and all the racism I received in College being a black male, I came to the conclusion that racism still strong so if a black woman wants to go deal with the White man I dont Care I know im not gonna deal with no White woman period F*ck that, My culture is strong within me and im not selling out for a Date,

lol at some of the comments by blackmen. Notice how theyre quick to speak against a BW being with a WhiteMan, Yet and still, they have no problem walking out in public with a WhiteWoman on their shoulders. LMAO! F**king HYPOCRITES! Your turning your backs on BlackWoman and grinning about it. So dont stop grinning when you see more and more BW dating outside their race. Its mostly your doing. Now let the tables turn and see how it feels. BlackWomen feel free to do the same thing that Blackmen are doing, Date whoever you want and feel good about it!

What kills me, is whenever the subject of Black men and White women is brought up, certain people suddenly become un-stereotypically philosophical, loving for all human…blah…blah…blah.If evrything is beautiful in it’s own way…why are countless Black men becoming blind and intolerant to Black women as an option to love, marry and take care of?

I LOVE MY BLK MEN AND I WILL CONTINUE TO DATE BLK MEN

Riochet80 — are you kidding about Black women looking at physical traits when looking for men? I guess you never heard nor witnessed a Black man turning away women who do not fit their strict list of beauty traits. SMH and LMAO!

This is so so sad. People, when are we going to learn and give each other a try. I am not against interacial dating, but I find it sickening that it seems like a first choice when a black man or woman goes through relationship issues with each other. You will have relationship issues with a white man, hispanic man, and whatever other man. Why do black women think that white men are the answer for your emotional issues and not having a man. You ever think sometimes, it’s how you come at brothas? Or what your expectations are? Or just your selfish and inability to bend sometimes and be flexible? You don’t see articles aboute White Men, why not give Black women a try? Or White man, take the black woman home to meet your family? Brothas we have to get ourselves together, but doesn’t the white man as well, or because of his lack of color, he is the perfect specimen of a man? (Being sarcastic). White men are perfect, they don’t harm or beat their women, they don’t call their women the “B’ word, they don’t kill their women either, or try to buy their affections with gifts which they cheat on you with another woman…(REALLY BEING SARCASTIC).

Please, white men do negative things to their women and in my opinion worse than black men. However, with the mindset of some of these enslaved black women who think their jobs and education makes them so much better, but lack romance, sweetness, and substance, they belittle black men for having the smallest flaw nowadays. I had this one sistah tell me, I talk too much because I was asking her questions trying to get to know her..WTF?? I would like to challenge the author of this book seriously because this is why black men and black women are divided. It’s funny how no other race is telling their women to go date outside their own race…that’s because they are unified and proud of who they are regardless of education background.

Sometimes, there are ignorant and trifling brothas that don’t want to work and want to get a woman pregnant. Maybe my black queens, if you treat the black man like you would the good old black man, then maybe we will treat you better. To 03BRWNSUGAR, I wonder, have you ever talked down to a brotha before? Or wave your finger in his way, or call him out of his name? Do you do these negative gestures to your white boyfriend, I bet you don’t do you? That’s the problem…

Stop picking men based on just education and jobs along, look into his heart , personality who he is. I am a educated brotha about to earn my Masters in three months, and working full time as well, with nice benefits. However, if that’s all you want out of me, you might as well be a w***e on the street corner because that isn’t what a relationship is based on, money, education, and sex…That’s why black couples don’t last in our generation too long. We are focused too much on what can you do for me, instead of what can I bring to the table? How can I make this man or woman happy?

Again, we need to take the shackles from around our brains, and stop thinking the white man is the answer for everything. What is wrong with you black women today? No sense of cultural or heritage pride. Some of you don’t even allow yourself to love yourselves, but you want to love a white man. Help my race of people because we are being brainwashed everyday. (Shaking My Head). You have so many educated, single, no kids having brothas like myself out there, but you belittle us, whwn we talk to you, you get angry because we have our own mindset, what you call us being conceited and arrogant, you don’t call the white man, he is confident and proud, and in most black women’s eyes the greatest creation. But I am suppose to be passive and bow to my Queen, but she is suppose to put her heel in my back and disrespect us educated brothas who has careers and know how to treat a black woman…Help Us God!!

yall forgot to add to your list Heidi Klum and Seal

I agree Pinkii, but it’s the way that black women reject a brotha is he doesn’t fit her Taye Diggs or Shamar Moore physical test. You all act like we are super ugly or something, when we are handsome. Black women, tell me this, are you at peace with yourself? Are you even worth a black man turning his head toward? Why because you have big breasts, butt, thick, volumptious, whatever the case might be…Black women, nowadays, besides a brotha having some sort of education, a job, and independent, the rest of your perfect expectations are bogus and unrealistic. Black women act as though they are perfect, and they carry no flaws..You ever thought that it’s not about there being no good black men, maybe you are a no good woman who has bad taste in men and then when it doesn’t work out for you, you want to blame me and the millions of other brothas out there who didn’t do anything to you?? WAKE UP BLACK WOMEN, FIX YOURSELVES BEFORE YOU PICK THE WHITE MAN AS YOUR SAVIOR. MAYBE IF YOU GIVE GOD A CHANCE AND A REAL BLACK MAN A CHANCE FIRST, YOU WILL GET SOMEWHERE.

Dark_Zero, really? How ’bout changing your message to address your fellow brothers who have been perpetrating what you are describing Sistahs do in your post — for decades.

THERES NOT ALOT OF BLACK WOMEN LEFT… JUST ALOT OF LITTLE BLACK GIRLS THAT THINK THEY ARE WOMEN BECAUSE OF THEIR AGE. LATE 20′ AND 30′S AND STILL HAVENT HIT MATURITY.

@ MZMONA904. They also forgot to add Rapper Paul Wall who is married to a black woman.

Dark_Zero, seriously — reading your post I think you are playing some reverse psychology. How many Sistahs do you see walking around with White men or men of any other ethnic group?

@ashley118059
Both black men and black women r hypocrites when it comes to IR relationships.

There are going for the white men because the black men have not hit maturity yet they still playing games and going to the club and stupid stuff like that lmbo go for it if he make you happy shoot lol

don’t try to say that black women only look for men with good looks and etc.Because what i see day to day on talk shows and in everyday life a beautiful black woman with a not so attractive black male. It seems to me that it is the other way around that some black men tend to be more superficial than we are. And that is why i think that some black men tend to date outside of their race because they don’t find the everyday black woman attractive.And another thing is, is that some of us as black women go through a lot with some of you and still stick by you, even when times are rough and then you still go off and do your own thing with whomever. I mean to each it’s own,I am not against interracial dating. people date whoever u want to date. But don’t try to use the black woman as an excuse to date outside of your race.

this is garbage…straight up. how bout giving a good brotha a try

Dark_Zero (and other men):

It’s unfortunate that you have run into black women who are that specific about their physical requirements for a man…there are a lot of us, however, who are not so hung up. However, ask yourselves if you haven’t been just as picky when it comes to choosing a woman? There are a lot of black men who complain that black women want a man who is over 6 ft tall, very muscular, etc., and complain that these women do not want an “average brother”; yet, many of you want a big booty or big breasts (or both), small waist, under 130 lbs, and who is around 5’4 with a certain skin color. Now, is that fair?

We black women do not act as if we are perfect. Most of us are very realistic about what we want; we just want someone who is perfect for us. If I have an education and possess certain values, why wouldn’t I want someone to have these same qualities? It’s called being equally matched. If that means falling in love with someone who is not black, so be it. I myself have dated men from all races, socio-economic backgrounds and religious backgrounds, including men who were recent transplants from different countries (and yes–they had valid Visas!). I had more in common with these men than some black men simply because these other men shared a lot of the same values as I and their personalities were compatible with mine. That said, I do not discount black men–I discount men based on compatibility. It doesn’t mean that these men are bad human beings; they are just not right for me.

Two of the ugliest people I’ve seen in a picture. One white,the other black. If she is happy looking into that mug every morning more power to her. I certainly didn’t find her appealing. Besides, what do black women have to offer besides getting the nails done and some fake weave. Anything?

so are you saying once you expand your vision that the waiting period will be a lot shorter? PLEEEEEEEEEEASE……..

Azrael3 and Luscious_Lips32, I agree with both of your posts 100%!

In my opinion, I don’t see anything wrong with a black woman dating a white man. In my younger days, I was totally against dating a white man and I’m from a very small town where there were only a select few black people in general. My cousins had white boyfriends all throughout highschool. I always told them, why would I date a white man when I could date a brother that has it all? I realized then that i was placing limitations on the available men, but as i grew older and moved to ATL i realized something. I realized that despite the race, love knows no boundaries. Who am I to set limitations on who God has created for me? I think that we all just need to be open to whomever God puts in our lives, regardless of race, religion, education, job status, or whatever. I have recently found myself at least attracted to a few white men, but I still love my black men. I just don’t put myself in a box anymore.

I also guess the criteria for being a good man has to do with what you can do financially for a black woman and having a college education. Keep living in your fantasy world. Not all black women have that. Once again, what do you bring to the table that a man can say he has a good woman?

@ PEEZHEAD. How is that? You dont see alot of blackwomen walking around with whiteman, then talking bad about blackmen doing the same. But blackmen on the other hand have that bad.

I wasn’t raised as a bigot. So, seeing inter-racial couples never really cross my mind as something bad. I only date black women, because that’s what i like. So, if a sistah wasn’t interested in me, because she like white guys. So be it! I wouldn’t be bothered by that. THERE SOMEONE FOR EVERYONE!

Well we all know this will never ever happen. I can only picture a small amout of black woman trying anything else besides black guys.

joshua_eliezer, the tired quote, “…what do you have to bring to the table…” I believe had to be started by the White men at the proverbial chess board. Because you Black men that thought you had it made started that nonsense you have taken your degree, $50,000 a year and got the “big-headed”. The downfall of Black love. Suddenly a Sistah wasn’t good enough. But, here’s the joke. There are so many White girls in this country from welathy families. Which one can you name is married to a Brotha who has less than her or her family? Yet, you Brothas who need something at the table will go hook up with a White girl and bring her up with what you have to offer. Tiger Woods is not the only Brotha with that practice.

i agree…just not with the first picture posted under this article title.

lol

Sub-Negro, a dream most Brothas have…that Sistahs do not cross over. LOL

Finally an author who agrees with me! I’ve been trying to encourage black women to think outside the box and give men of other races, especially white men, a second look! Black men don’t sit patiently and wait only for black women so why should they do the same. Bravo to the author and black women open your minds and your eyes your soul mate may not be a soulman! (That was a little joke @ the end.)

moniQTee, PLESE TELL IT!! *APPLAUSE*

And to ALL of you moronic men who think that ALL black women date according to ‘looks’, get that mirror brothas! Black men are THEE PICKIEST kats on the planet! “Her azz isnt fat enough, her breasts are too small, I dont like her hair, look at her stomach” etcetera ETCETERA! YOU guys tend to want the Kim K’s and Amber Rose’s of the world, i.e. fake, plastic and phoney. Look at all the video vixens and celebs you guys salivate over…You dont know if they are home grown or cultured in a laboratory. But yet you point the finger and say we do it. Nah, bottomline black men have gotten WEAK. And I dont care what you say…other races of women are WEAKER and easier to lead than we are and that is what you guys look for. You never hear of black women praising and worshipping Johnny Depp, Mark Wahlberg or some Jonas Brother..BUT black men LOVE the kardashians, jessica alba, and that wh0re cocoa. I have read MANY posts from black men on here that simply say..”Yeah, Cocoa, Ice-T’s wife..SHE COULD GET IT!” yall need to get the hell outta here with this trying to flip the shyt on US…We stick by yall no matter what, if we have a hundred bad relationships with you all we STILL can find the good in another black man, you guys dont give us that same respect or chance…This isnt a divide and conquer tactic at all…This is some TRUTH!

You know. Im starting to talk to a lot more White guys now then i did before. Im not saying that I dont want a Black guy but im sick of niggas come sideways…. yes im 21 but im not ur adv. 21 year old, im a single mother, working and going to school FULL TIME ! i have a child to raise and i be damned if im going to raise a grown a man ! sorry but thats been comin my way. I know that there r some good guys out there , but at the end of the day WE as sista’s know what we will deal with and what we wont deal with. SO YES , WE AS SISTA’S R TIRED OF THE DISRESPECT, THE RUDENESS, and i refuse to put up with that.alot of guys feel as if you can have ur cake and eat it to.. .. naw thats not how it goes !
All im sayin is that no matter how many times a brother messes up a sista will find someone who will treat her better, and if its not a brother , then o well so be it. yes we as women mature faster then a guy but at the sametime thats not a EXCUSE for a guy to sit on his ass and not do anything or to just wait for a hand out.

@ CaliFemme23
I feel ya . but whats crazy is that when a black guy see’s a sista on a white guys arm , its like all hell breaks ! i mean we are Queen’s and our own black men dont treat us like the Queen’s that we r. its a shame that white guys r sizing these guys up… GET IT TOGETHER

I hope these 5,000 articles of advise for Black women to step into 2010 finally sink in….at least eventually.

Black men have learned A LONG TIME ago what I have…life is much better when you open your heart and mind to all types of races/cultures. AKA: Variety is the spice of life, kids! LMAO

To all the narrow minded Black women, you can keep waiting home at alone for Mr. Tall-Dark-Handsome if you want. But you’ll be only haggered old broad :)

*one haggered old broad

smh… we aint goin to ever a agree on the issue or convice the other side of your own opinions… the only thing to do is focus on yourself and your own relationships and see within yourself that you are doing all you can to make a relationship work, whether you with a white man or woman and black man or woman. if you r in a successful relationship u cant worry bout other people and their negative thoughts they mad cuz they can’t have what you do, so just find a person that makes u happy damn

I’m not a fan of it myself but if black chicks wanna date white boys then let em. Now personally i avoid chicks who have dated whites in the past. I feel that if they dated whites or any other race then they must feel that black men are not good enough for them, and if they feel black men are not good enough them then she is not good enough for me.

So the second a chick tells me she has dated other races in the past I just tell em it was nice to meet then and i move on to the next black chick who actually likes black men.

Wow….the insecure, hyprocritical Black men are attracted to these topics like moths to a flame. Hilarious!

Said the chick who ALSO took the time to read and comment on this article.

@ StarrSantiago. I KNOW RIGHT!!

WOW homie ur such a ass !! wonder if u do have healthy relationships with people

A store has opened that will offer free husbands. When women go to choose a husband, they have to follow the instructions at the entrance:

“You may visit this store ONLY ONCE! There are 6 floors to choose from. You may choose any item from a particular floor, or may choose to go up to the next floor, but you CANNOT go back down except to exit the building!

So, a woman goes to the store to find a husband. On the 1st floor the sign on the door reads: Floor 1 – These men Have Jobs

The 2nd floor sign reads: Floor 2 – These men Have Jobs and Love Kids.

The 3rd floor sign reads: Floor 3 – These men Have Jobs, Love Kids and are extremely Good Looking.

“Wow,” she thinks, but feels compelled to keep going. She goes to the 4th floor and sign reads:
Floor 4 – These men Have Jobs, Love Kids, are Drop-dead Good Looking and Help With Housework.

“Oh, mercy me!” she exclaims. “I can hardly stand it!” Still, she goes to the 5th floor and sign reads:
Floor 5 – These men Have Jobs, Love Kids, are Drop-dead Gorgeous, help with Housework and Have a Strong Romantic Streak.

She is so tempted to stay, but she goes to the 6th floor and the Sign reads:
Floor 6 – You are visitor 71,456,012 to this floor. There are no men on this floor. This floor exists solely as proof that you are impossible to please.
Thank you for shopping at the Husband Store.

AND YOU ASK, “WHERE ARE ALL THE GOOD MEN?” LOL

To avoid gender bias charges, the store’s owner opened a Wife Store just across the street.

The 1st first floor has wives that love sex.

The 2nd floor has wives that love sex and like to cook.

The 3rd through 6th floors have never been visited….

IS IT A MATTER OF RACE OR IS IT “YOU” THAT’S THE MATTER??

bill-danze1 , u have some issues… happiness has NO COLOR but to u it does and ur lame for that s**t ! ull never find happiness being that way.. its funny that guys act this way and they wonder y the chick they do have is grimmy as hell.. YOUR MISSING OUT ON THE GOOD ONES , so i guess thats what u get for not thinking outside that damn box… lmfao at you lames

What ever happen to a sista just loving a regular type of brotha. He may not have a college education, but he may cherrish the ground you walk on. So stop trying to give a brotha a hard time just because you feel he’s not right for you because you think he’s a thugg or less educated. Give a black man a chance. Most brotha’s out here that are in the streets will not cheat on you, will not break yo heart, might treat you like a queen with all the love and respect you deserve. SO dead that s**t about a educated sista can’t find a good black man, LOWER YOUR STANDARDS and stop looking for how much $, instead of looking into his heart and soul. We need to get back to supporting our on people and go throw-back 70′s love and what ever happen to loving the brotha with the bus pass?

like really , who wants a guy with just a 10th grade education. Education is very important. for 1 COMMUNICATION !!

Wellllllll.. lol.. Why not ladies? Most of the black men dont prefer us anyway.. I myself prefer black men.. but what good does it do me if they dont prefer me?..I use to knock black women when I saw them with white men. NOT ANYMORE!!!!! I say.. if it works for you..go for it!

CALIFEMME you speak the truth! I have to totally agree. They can be pickie but as soon as we do they have a problem with it and want to throw in our faces..”Thats why you are alone now.. you too damn pickie.” Lol..with their double standard behinds.. Lol

LOL this thread is classic!

I’ve known many beautiful black women over the years and they all had the same thing to say about “brutha’s” which was basically, why bother?

Why predjudiced yourself to ONE race because you share a shade of melanin…

To all the brutha’s out there… don’t fret, there are plenty of fat white trash women you can get with. LOL

Sub-Negro,

Your last comment came off as a tad arrogant. With all due respect, don’t be quick to be so smug. I think you will find a change in the wind in time. With more black men being locked up and with the female-to-male ratio being so unbalanced (within the black community), I think dating outside one’s race will be the next logical step many African-american women will take. Many of us want children, a secure family life and future–just like our male counterparts. If we cannot get it from you, we will get it from someone else. It’s about survival; we need to procreate to perpetuate our DNA just as much as men do.

I live in a suburb of Detroit where I have seen more WM/BW relationships than ever–and these are couples who are married, have children together and seem to be well matched. Added to that, more and more other cultures are being introduced to us. True, some of these cultures are not familiar with black culture (except for what they may see on t.v.), but I–and many of my black female friends–have met many foreign men who were very open to dating us. It went beyond sheer curiosity for some of these men as well; one of my sisters married a man from the mediterranean and a friend of mine married a guy from India, despite his family’s protests. Also, two of my cousins married men from Central Asia; one was from Pakistan and the other was from Turkey.

True, the number of black men who date non-black women is double that of black women who date non-black men, but the numbers ARE increasing–and I don’t have just anecdotes to support my claim; you can check several websites including some sub-topics on MSNBC.

Azrael,
the real issue is brutha’s want to believe they got the sistas under complete control…

Clearly they don’t and personally I thank god for that!

it seems like a lot of people on here share the same ideas with the crakkkas they despise. they have done a great job at manipulating ignorant american minds both blk n wht. that im not anti any race but im pro black movement is the same thing that the kkk and nazis have on their websites, instead they say they are not anti any race just pro white. the pro blks and pro whts need to get together and develop their ideas so to better achieve the results they both want. too bad they both hate each other to the point that they actually dont see how similar their ideology is.

@Pinkii13
What makes a sista good enough? Will being with a black woman enhance me as a man? Will I truly be able to say I have a good woman and be honest about it? Certainly a lot of black women have perfected the art of laying on their backs thinking that’s the only thing they have to do. Then they go live off the state and try to collect child support from their many baby’s daddies.

IT DONT MATTER WHAT RACE A MAN IS, I HAVE DATED DIFFERENT RACE OF MEN AND ONE THING I HAVE LEARNED IS THAT MEN ARE MEN…………MOST OF THEM AND I SAID MOST OF THE MEN READ FROM THE SAME BOOK ITS JUST GOT DIFFERENT COVERS……

To bostonslvboy…why are you even here!? How can you possibly have such a biased opinion concerning this issue!? It’s obvious that the so called “beautiful” black women that you have spoken to regarding this issue have some self hate issues, and were only trying to impress you with their mindless banter! There’s bad in every race, and I take offense at that “brothers can have the fat white trash” comment you made…Nobody wants to date your relatives!! I’ve seen many brothers with beautiful black, & WHITE women…so don’t act like we can only have the white man’s leftovers! I myself have dated some beautiful white women.(makes you mad doesn’t it!?)

I totally agree with this author. I hav been ready to cross-over. Clearly….our BLACK “Prince Charming” is becoming more out-of-reach with each passing moment. I gave up on that dream about 5 yrs ago. I love my bruthas but I can’t think of ONE I know that I’d consider marrying. (This is after being engaged twice and calling both weddings off bec of the usual “brutha drama”).

Now while I realize that all men are just men and none are above fault, it’s my personal belief that if you have the goods to back up your faults, we sistas will put up with a lil more and not feel that we’ve wasted our time after the smoke clears. Most of these “white chocolate bruthas” are on top of their game, holding down awesome jobs, don’t have baby mama drama, aren’t caught up in the system, are educated, respectful and ready to settle down.

So….let’s get it girls! It’s definitely worth a try.

This is the biggest crock of crap! I don’t percieve anyone has to have someone tell them to date out-side their race. If you gonna do it you gonna do it.
-Whatchu gonna do follow ppl around and make sure they don’t hook-up. If that person wasn’t with that person of another race the chances they would be with “you” are small,…so why care. It’s not your business. Do what “you”, want with “your” life. A person is a person, and “EVERY” race has attractive ppl. All ppl need to get over themselves!

Bostonslvby,

The issue is that black men and black women are working disparately rather than together.

One thing that I have noticed that if a black man says he cannot find a good black woman, it’s because he’s out there at the clubs, the bars, the ti tty joints and selecting women who are running amuck. The same with black women; if you are digging around in trash cans, you’re bound to pick out shyt. It’s as simple as that. At the same time, if you are the loud, brash, confrontational, drama-entrenched type, who are you to say you deserve a man like Blair Underwood or Morris Chestnut when you can’t even form a grammatically correct sentence or are always hanging out with “Pookie ‘N’ nem” (who gonna check me, boo?). You have to put shyt in perspective.

As for myself, I find a lot of black men who pass me by because I don’t look like a glamour puss; I don’t wear BabyPhat or other urban gear (I dress pretty conservatively) and I don’t have weave down my back or gobs of make-up on. I’m not boogie, but I am light-years away from being ghetto, and because of this, I’m like a fish out of water relative to the types of blacks in my area. Therefore, it’s hard for me to meet someone who is similar to me–which is fine: I am too damn old (35ish) to change for anyone. Yet, this is also why I date non-black men.

umm joshua_eliezer,
ima tell ya this. comin from a single mother CHILD SUPPORT AINT S**T !! what u get for that isnt enough to pay for damn daycare hun !! GET THAT RIGHT , and all of us to lay on or backs to keep a man.. if MEN was doing what they r expected to do which is if U MAKE A CHILD TAKE CARE OF THAT CHILD … well to bad its a DAMN BROTHER who runs away from there responsiblity .. THATS NOT A MAN… A MAN TAKES CARE OF HIS OWN ! REMEMBER THAT HOMIE

they got us already were they wanted.Put our black brothers there in jail and letting a house- sold out self hatred negress tell Black Queens to try white. My Black Queens sistas open your eyes to see what is going on here.It is a conspiracy against your black race.It is the same thing that ‘s been going on for centuries.Divide and conquer.Divide the black famliy and then destroy them.Why continue making the same mistake over and over again. They have tried so many ways to destroy us,it didn’t work, now this. Sistas remember one thing:There are BLACK BROTHERS all over the world; Cariibean,Africa,South America, Europe,even your Dravidian brother(a group often overlooked).So dont lock yourself in there9USA) look overseas. And don’t think that the Brothers are looking for green card(ok some) no. We might not be as rich as your country but for example instead of getting foodstamps we produce our food ourself.Because also with your food overthere there is being tampered with. So my BLACK QUEENS in america don’t fall in this trap.About me i live in the Netherlands but i’m from Suriname (South America).At the moment i’m single. A lot of white girls throws themself for me, but i rather die single then live with a white woman. No i’m not a racist but the love for my BLACK QUEENS is so strong that i can never do that even if they dissapoint me sometimes with some stupid thing they are doing.FOR ME THRE IS NO OTHER WOMAN ABOVE MY BLaCK QUEENS.

I don’t give 2cents s**ts over a black woman that wants to date/marry a white man. I do not plan on EVER getting married anyway. Each person is their own. It works out best for me anyway.I will always date WOMEN anyway..black,white,red,brown,yellow.orange and even green if possible..lol bring them Martian women on..lol

@jwright5,
No one forces a black woman to have babies. How about a little responsibility on the womans part? Also there is no country on the face of the earth where all the black women are queens, especially when they are living off welfare>

To Azrael3 i wanted to comment on what you said,but then i checkout your profile and i see that there is no picture of you, that combined with your comment i consider you a white person acting if he or she is black. Your agenda is not well sealed.This is an old trick try something new.

I hear you Azrael3 on your comments @ 5:21pm.

@ joshua
first off hun i dont live off welfar.. I go my own .. IM A FULL TIME STUDENT, MOTHER, AND WORKER , I DO THIS BY MYSELF . AND YES HOMIE IM A QUEEN F**K WHAT CHA SAY OR ANYONE AT THAT . STAY IN YA LANE HONEY CUZ UR COMIN UP A TREE THAT YA DONT WANT TO B ON. GET UR SELF TOGETHER , U SOUND REALLY BITTER…. MAYBE IF U GET UR SELF RIGHT ULL HAVE A LIL HAPPINESS IN UR LIFE :-)

Dang, I’m glad I found the sister I’m dating hasn’t given me the “all the good Black men are gone” speech. I hate to be told that I’m dead or non-existent.

to jwright5 I hope your white boyfriends family accept as equal and don’t treat you as their maid or to take care for his sick family members.But by judging upon your comments i see that your willing to do what ever it takes to carry the title “i have a white boyfriend”. Anyway a lot of you are allready white inside and outside with your bleaching of skin and straightaning of your hair,eventhough you know the bad consequences for your health, so go on take your white boyfriend,you wont be missed by true Black Brothers and BLACK QUEENS.

ITS ALL BRAIN WASHING,THERE ARE GOOD BROWN BROTHAS OUT HERE, THESE WITCHES JUST WANT A MILLIONAIRE EVERY TIME THEY GO OUT TO THE CLUB OR DINNER SORRY IT AINT HAPPENING YOU NOT GONNA FIND A MILLIONAIRE EVERY TIME GOLD DIGGERS, FIND ALL THE WHITE MEN YOU WANT TOO, WHEN HE CALL YOU A NUGGA IN YOUR FACE AND SPITS IN YOUR FACE THEN WHAT, YOU MODERN DAY SLAVE MASTER KISSER UPPER, LISTEN COLOR IS SO HYPED UP BUT, MIX ALL YOUR BLOOD YOU WANT CONTINUE TOO BREED WITH THE CORRUPT SEED OF LIGHT, AND MORE POWER TOO YOU ALL YOU BLACK B***HESS THEN KISS MY BROWN, BLACK AZZ BYE FOOLS… I DON’T BITE MY TONGUE I HEAL ON HERE, I LOVE, AND I GET OUT RAGED TO WHO EVER DON’T LIKE ME OR WHAT I SAY THEY CAN KISS MY BLACK AZZ TOO YEA LATER FOOLS..

What does a college degree have to do with being EQUAL? Last time I checked a college degree was useful in finding a job, not a mate. This is a sad article, and anyone who takes these statements seriously is SERIOUSLY out of touch with reality.

bostonslvboy, “To all the brutha’s out there… don’t fret, there are plenty of fat white trash women you can get with. LOL”

Maaannn! You dont even know! That is EXACTLY what black men go out and find and turn right back around and complain about a black woman who doesnt work out or look like a barbie…The thing about black men is..They DO go for the picks of the litter (yes litter as in DOGS!) that white men dont want…BUT on the other hand i can give the white guys credit..They tend to go after the best of the BEST of black women…Maybe while you black men THINK black women need to learn a thing or two from white women, maybe yall should take a pen and note pad and follow a white boy around…take some notes..

To me personally it doesnt matter what race u are. Everyone acts the same. Im tired of hearing black women say they are tired of being with a black man because they act a certain way. I have dated black, white, asian, and so forth and honestly its not the race its the person. I have dated a few white guys who have done me wrong the same as black men. Its all the same to me. Currently I am with a guy who is from El Salvador and I dont look at it as race its just thats what Im attracted to.

And as for welfare, there are more WHITE women on welfare than black, so check your facts. But welfare is what? Some people need government assistance. Last time I checked, unemployment was at 10%, thats 30 million people without jobs.

and to you bostonloveboys,the only reason i visite your page is to see who you are,Judging by your page i see why you are on blackplanet.The hatred is all over your face.I think you would be better off on a KKK site or on a man to boy site(judging by your own words).

napata-amanra,

You wrote me: “Azrael3 i wanted to comment on what you said,but then i checkout your profile and i see that there is no picture of you, that combined with your comment i consider you a white person acting…Your agenda is not well sealed.This is an old trick try something new.”

My response: (dripping with sarcasm)…What tipped you off that I am white? Wow, you’re so smart (rolling my eyes).

Napata, to enlighten you, the reason that I do not have my photos posted is because of the nature of the job that I have and the volunteer work that I do.

BTW, I AM a black female. Would you like for me to “snail mail” you a skin sample?

…Napata Amanra: I checked out YOUR webpage. Since you’re so pro-black, why don’t you move out of the Netherlands and back to the Motherland?

Im tired of seeing this study everytime you look around someone is telling the black woman to try dating a white man.Lets start there is there only white guys in the world. Last time I checked there were many cultures and races in the world.Another thing I realize is that the black male has to be the problem for single black woman espacially a educated black woman being single. There is nothing wrong with a black woman dating a white man or any man but the problem I have is that the black man has to be the scapegoat for a single educated black woman not being married.There are many black educated man out there single black ladies or just ladies in general.The real problem is “THE BLACK MAN WHO ARE EDUCATED MAY NOT MAKE AS MUCH AS A ENTERTAINER WOULD, BUT YOU HAVE TO LOOK WITHIN THE INDIVIDUAL TO SEE THE QUALITY THAT YOU WANT.” Prime example look at Obama he finish from Harvard worked aa a Law Professor many very little money and when his wife first met him she thought he was a little weird.

manofsteel35 : Did she come from a privilege background? I bet she wasn’t that!Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. From what I see, many of you are getting the “leftovers”. If a well to do, beautiful White woman has a choice of Michael Jordan — one generation wealth — and a Rockefeller or Kennedy,who do you REALLY think she is choosing? In fact, I know of no White, “beautiful” woman from a wealthy family hooked up with a Black pro athlete, entertainer, etc. Do you?

Brayn804:

Having a college degree doesn’t necessarily mean that a person will be a better mate or is even smarter. However, studies have shown that people that have similar backgrounds–education levels being a part of them–are more often compatible than two people who do not have the same education level. Obviously, there are exceptions to the rule, but it’s just like any other factor; people who have different religious beliefs are more likely to break up.

cnote34: I don’t think you are being fair in your comments. If First Lady Michelle Obama thought President Obama was weird, why did she marry him looooooong before he became President? Like most Sistahs, she dated then married Barak Obama when he did not make as much money as she nor had her professional status.

Let me finish my last thought because my computer ended up posting the last blog with out me sorry for some of the misspelled words but I am pretty sure you understand my ideals. But now look at Obama he is the the first Black President. So you do the math who ever wrote and did studies on this ” death of a educated black single woman” need to stop putting this Willie Lynch lynching of a black man in the media and on the internet.

Let me answer you question Pink. Like I said my computer put half of my blog on. But let me explain Obama wife thought he was weird, but when she started dating him she realized that some was special about him. Like I said look within the individual ladies.

Something was special about him “sorry spelling”

EVERY BLACK PERSON READING THE ABOVE ARTICLE SHOULD BE SEEING RED DANGER!! FLAGS…

WHY are there SO many newspapers, magazines, interviews, articles, TV shows, and movies coming out encouraging BW to date outside their race? WHY are BM and BW being encouraged to FIGHT and SEPARATE from each other?

WHY are BM who only date white or Asian women OR BM who bash BW for profit –being rewarded with book deals, interviews, TV shows, movies, and endorsements that bash and degrade BW?

WHY ARE BM AND BW BEING MANIPULATED TO TURN AGAINST EACH OTHER?

BECAUSE IT IS EASIER TO TAKE DOWN AN ENTIRE HERD IF YOU SCATTER THE PREY

Don’t be fooled by the black “authors” and “directors” and “black media folk” whose faces are on this NONSENSE of encouraging us to DIVIDE and CONQUER ourselves. There will always be those black folks who will work against our interests…

Think about this…

There are more BM and BW engaged in IR relationships today than any other time in history — YET

racism is on the rise

black unemployment is on the rise and is HIGHER than any other group in America — including illegal immigrants (!)

the civil rights clock is turning backwards on us

Almost all the gains that blacks have made in the last 30 years have been wiped out (if you don’t believe this, you haven’t been paying attention)

black folks have the highest foreclosure rate in the nation

the highest incarceration rate in the nation

the highest police brutality/murder rate in the nation

70% of black children are living with single mothers

And more than 50% of black children live in poverty

And we STILL don’t get it.

The most affluent and educated black generation in American history — that descended from slaves (who owned and controlled NOTHING) — we will be leaving behind another black generation that will own and control NOTHING, and will have to go to the WM begging for an education, a loan, a job, a house, the same way most of us did…because it was more important for black folks to be assimilated and integrated with white folks instead than being LIBERATED and UNIFIED with black folks.

Well… black folks are about to find out (as the economy collapses) and as white anger and fear MUSHROOMS and RISES SHARPLY AGAINST US (because the President is a BLACK MAN who will be blamed for all the problems)

Black folks will find out we have NO ONE BUT EACH OTHER to turn to

And no matter how much sex, dates, and relationships we had with white folks, we will have NO CHOICE BUT to turn BACK to each other

only we’re going to find out that we — black folks — GOT NOTHING COMING because we didn’t BUILD UP anything but the males and females of other races…

In closing, how many white articles, interviews, books, magazines, etc. are directed at the white folks telling THEM to date US? How many WM are being rewarded for bashing AND abandoning WW and children?

If we don’t learn the MIND GAME that’s being played, we are gonna get PLAYED…

THATS THE PROBLEM RIGHT THEIR LOOKING FOR A MAN WITH THE SAME EDUCATION LEVEL…WHATEVER HAPPEN TO LOVE…I GUESS LEVEL LOVE YOU GET IS DETERMINE BY YOUR EDUCATION LEVEL OR MAYBE AMOUNT OF MONEY IN YOUR POCKETS………..

LET ME RE- ARRANGE A FEW THINGS, NUMBER ONE I THINK LOVE IS SPREAD THROUGH ALL HUMANS, AND IF YOU SEEK OUT OTHER RACES FOR LOVE THAT IS YOUR POWER, I CAN’T CONTROL THAT. IF YOU LOOK DOWN ON YOUR CULTURE THEN TURN YOUR BACK ON YOUR OWN CULTURE THEN YOU HAVE SUCCESSFULLY BREED YOUR SELF OUT AS A BLACK OR WHITE OR RED OR GREEN DEVIL.I DON’T THINK THE WHITE CULTURE IS EVIL BYE NECESSITY IT’S JUST THAT, THEY HAVE DISGRACED THERE OWN KIND BY HATING AND KILLING, MY BLACK PEOPLE MURDERING AND BOMBING THEM. I KNOW THIS STATEMENT THOSE NOT SPEAK FOR ALL EUROPEAN PEOPLE, BECAUSE THERE NOT LIKE THERE FORE FATHERS, MOST OF THEM ARE NOT, BUT IT’S EVEN DEEPER THAN JUST A SISTER FINDING A WHITE MAN. IT’S ALL MOST INHALATION SUBLIMINAL PREJUDICE OF ALL BLACK MEN WHO STRUGGLE TOO DO THE RIGHT THING, IT’S NOT OUR CALL TOO TELL YOU SISTER’S WHO TOO LOVE, BUT THERE COMES A TIME WHEN WILL MY CULTURE BENEFIT OF ANOTHER CONFUSED CHILD SEARCHING FOR HIS OR HER ID IN LIFE.I KNOW HERE WE GO AGAIN YEA I KNOW YOU BLACK WOMEN HATE ALL BLACK MALE EVEN YOUR DADDY AND GRAND- DADDY BUT LISTEN IT’S NOT OUR FAULT EVER PERSON ON EARTH WANT US BLACKEN OUT OR GONE FOREVER SO CONTINUE YOUR QUEST WITH YOUR EURO- BROTHER AND WE GONNA CONTINUE OUR QUEST FOR BRAZILIAN AND PURTORICAIN GIRLS AND SOUTH AMERICAN ONES HAHA SO KEEP ON HATING YOUR CULTURE AND GOD BLESS BYE FOOLS .

cnote304: Let’s say most Sistahs are guilty of superficial standards when looking for a mate — are you trying to insinuate that many if not most Brothas don’t do the same? I’m not condoning such practice but why isn’t what’s good for the goose not good for the gander? I see a lot of high browed comments from Brothas on this issue as if they are so available but we have the relation problems we have is exclusively on the backs of the Sistahs. Is this flipping the script or what?? We look inside as a group, (Sistahs), to a fault in many instances. Going to prisons to visit unavailable men, pretending like we do not see a little sugar inn the loafers, turning a blind eye to blatant and disrespectful cheating, taking care of Brothas like they are children. C’mon! Give us credit we deserve.

excuse u NAPATA-AMANRA
for ur information , im single and ur ass is lame . nigga this is a whole new time and i have white in my family for ur information, my mother is a mixed child, my daughter is a mixed child. i dont kiss ANYONES ass so before u go talkin about family , know ur history , in this case know ur own cuz i betcha u got some white in ur damn family. that u may not know about. but like i said before and im goin to say it again. IM PROUD OF WHO I AM AND WHAT THE HELL I DO !! ETHER IF IM WITH A WHITE MAN OR A BLACK MAN , I KNOW ME AND THATS ALL THAT MATTERS , UR THOUGHTS AND HOW U MAY FEEL U KNOW WHAT U CAN DO WITH THEM. YOUR INGNORANCE IS BEYOND THIS WORLD SON !! REAL TALK

why should black women go back to the slave Master (willie lynche letters) the black man isn’t shyte a dog good 4 nothing cann’t give u the high life but old Master now that a man kills everything he can and say it 4 ur own good see people forget that old Master made welfare and said to get it get the man out the house and like good slave u did it and the Master told u u was tried unfair by black man(womens liberation) bo how was that when he was the one come to the slave quaters and rappin u . Oh and did he teach ur sons to don’t do nothin that old Master didn’t tell u to do cause he can punish u like know other . so i say black women get back with master that way i will know i was sleppin with the enemy and to the true sisters of liberation i say stand stronge stand beside us HOEP and BLACK POWER SUCKERS

How bout we all just date who we’re attracted to regardless of skin color or ethnicity and STFU! Sheesz!

IM WITH YA JHOLLINS
EVEN GROWN ASS PEOPLE R F**KIN STUPID … UGH I HATE DUMB ASS PEOPLE

Hey Cali thats exactly my point…

I’ve seen more brutahs with fat ugly white chicks rather than respcting a sista.

Da Bruthas now want to hold black women in bondage and blame white guys for it!

My Brutha’s, it ain’t just white guys, it Asians, Latino’s, South Americans, Middle easten…

Black women have stepped up and come into their own!

Certainly they weren’t lifted up by Brutha’s!

Black women EARND THEIR self respect and we (we, meaning all men) should applaud that.

Bottom line is Sista’s can see with their own eyes what they like want, and wish to be with/part of.

… and there arent’ too many bruthas in the long-term plan.

Naw…I LOVE my SISTAZ and I will ONLY date them…this brotha here is not sick with jungle fever…i been immune to that.

Why are so many black guys blaming black women for seeking something other than them???

hmmmmm you treat black women worse than what you claim white slave owner treated you and you expect them to revel in your presence??

Damn…

To all the beautiful black women out there bored of the same ole tired brutha rap… get with a Asian dude, or a Middle easterner, Latino, European, whateva…

But thinking the whiny bruthas are gonna deliver a good life? You have a 1 in 500 chance of that happening.

If those odds are worth the emotional investment and waste of your youth, the go for it.

News Flash NO ONE CARES. We dont care if black date outside thier race. They care more bout blk men dating outside our the race, than we care about them dating outside the race. Lets keep it funky. Most blk women wouldn’t date outside their race, they want us! And another thing, THE BLK MAN IS THE MOST DESIRED MAN ON EARTH

Thank you @ Bostonslvboy. I agree with every word.

LOL cool D_Sean…

I think there are a lot of intelligent black women in this thread alone who would beg to differ.

POWER TO THE PEOPLE HAHAH

Blk women dont choose white men, THEY SETTLE 4 WHITE MEN. So white guys, yall can have our left overs

@Boston look at me, and look at u, lets b 4real, no women in here right mind, no matter what race she is would choose u over me. Me n u aint even a comparison

Cool I’ll take a proud left over black queen. Because when she’s ready to be with me it means here eyes are open and she is enlightened.

No longer held in te bondage of men who use them and cast them as, how did you refer to it Mr D_sean? “leftovers”?

I’m not the one making the comparison or calling sista’s leftovers…

You the “black dude” are the one doing that :)

@Boston, I dont argue with clowns. U can have em all, if they actually want cha busted azz

Don’t want them all, just the good one…

THIS IS 4 THE BLACK WOMEN. If u really want an old, busted, funny lookin, clown azz dudes like BOSTONSLVBOY, then GO AHEAD. Even his name boston-love-boy adds up 2 CORNY. So if yall want clown ass white boys like him, GO AHEAD, WE DONT CARE.

A real black women recognizes a real black man, and likewise a real black man recognizes a real black women. And when he sees her, he praises her 2 her queen status. But the birds, smuts, gold diggers, and ducks, are treated like leftovers, and dudes like BOSTONSLVBOY, picks him up

Hey D_Sean… I’m sure all the Black Queens are feeling the love and “worship: emanating from your eloquent posts.

I would suspect any “Black Queen” is a woman who starts that way but when you’re done using her up, she suddenly becomes a gold digger, smut, bird, and “leftovers”…

Hey if you can convince Black women to continue to buy that tired old rap… more power to you.

Because for guys like you it’s all about power over a sista.

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NOW BOSTONSLCBOY
has a point… i have even seen black guys with big white women. I have come to realize that some black men are NOT on our level . and its funny how black guys can try to dis a white guy but the point in fact is that they have YA QUEENS …LMFAO… D-Sean its ok hun..lol cuz i bet someone may look at u an find u NOT SO ATTRACTIVE … but hey ur funny homie

Of course I prefer to marry a black man, but there is a shortage. Therefore I love who I want to love, and don’t worry about what anyone else has to say about it. My parents know I have common sense and are accepting of the choices I make.

D Sean = > Yes, black men are the most desired men on earth, but you wouldn’t be here stating your case if you didn’t care. It’s okay to admit it’s a little hurtful when you see a fly black woman with a white man. Keep in mind that personal attacks on others invalidates your argument and causes people to fail to take you seriously. Others take you seriously when you RESPECTFULLY disagree with them. That applies to anything in life.

Date whomever you desire but non-black males do NOT make “BLACK” off-spring.

The struggle continues! These are the things that make you go hmmm?

For every euro-clown, both male and female that claim, “I’m not racist, biased, prejudiced, liberal, etc?

Ask them to “assemble” and then march throughout the U.S. proclaiming the injustices of racism and that it is legally and morally wrong.

Still waiting…I’ve got my Amerikkan flag in my hand at curb-side. WHERE ar the parade participants?

“There is NO education in being kicked by a mule TWICE and STILL believing that the mule LOVES you?”

Stockholm Syndrome, pure and simple.

black men need to step up and handle business yes we have had a lot against us but it’s time to what we need. And thats step up but a man is a man no matter the race. If that man fits u then do what makes you happy thats what matters. I was bornin the Ghetto and raised in the hood but i more things going for me then most have ever had. But i know if i want a real women in my life i must first be real my self an if i want something good then i must be that or better. Understand?

why do they keep posting these same type of articles up? over and over again.. Uugh! how annoying.

Hell i’m Black but my daddy is white… and I have only dated one white man in my life.. – and I had to end it simply because we weren’t compatiable enough.. He said I was bi-racial.. and as a 40 yr old woman.. I’ve been black all my life..

And what I find important.. (black issues in my community) isn’t something he really is interested in. His comment is hell you work.. why dont they just get off their azz and get a job. . (sometimes things are so much more complicated than that.).. SO I had to say peace and blessing and good luck with that.

Now i’m with a really nice black man.. he’s not so tall 5’7 (and yes ladies we give the short guys complexes) and he wears glasses.. He is forgetful as hell.. But he’s a good guy. He’s not great yet, but that’s something we are building together.. It’s really not about color.. it’s about compatiblity!

Both people working together and building a relationship and foundation. Hate to tell you no matter what his career is.. Anything can happen he can become ill and never work again.. — Only someone you truly love you will be there through thick and thin!

Jimielsmith, well said.

My point is that women you seek should be just that.. the woman YOU Seek.

Her race color, age, etc should be a deciding factor in your feelings and acceptance of her.

The corniness of Black dudes being the most desired anything is retarded, just as retarded as White dudes saying they are genetically more intelligent…

Some people here are taking (plain old stupidity) and making that a race issue…

No matter what anyone argues its an undeniable fact that the world has changed and black women have options, and they ARE CHASING THOSE OPTIONS.

Brutha’s have had those options for years and have only flown them in the face of dissapointed black women… (so much for all the desire)

Hey Fnyclightskin…
Best post I’e read on this thread yet!

Hey Jimielsmith pardon my typo’s my post should have read:

Her race color, age, shouldn’t be…

@ Bostonslyboy Yes ur right race should not be a factor it’s about what makes you happy. And if there wasn’t so many men giving up and throwing away there lives there would be more black women wanting more black men. But it seems we dont want anything in life. If ur going to say ur a real man then be just that follow ur word because a mans word is his life. what is any person without there word. And if u r a real man then u should have no reason to be on this page mad

Me as a youn g black women has had some hard times with black guy … its hard to be happy when all you get is disrespect, dissapointments, being lied to. not being treasure like the Diamonds thats we are, the queens that we are. and we tend to look for those things. if we r not getting it then u best believe we are moving on to the next one. beauty doesnt have a color, love doesnt have a color, people should remember that.

good point

Happens all the time. a black woman pops out of no where to agree with her WHITE Master that’s lusting after black women. Black men and women bicker amongst them self’s and some white guy pops up to agree with the women, and he plays off of that to get you in the sack. WAKE UP WOMEN!!!!. I don’t hear anyone one talking about the ratio between WHITE MEN AND WHITE WOMEN when it comes to dating. These idiot’s can come out with articles,book,movies all they want but no one wants to talk about “The Standards issue”. If you as a women have a Master’s degree, do I have to have one? the other way around, I’m a man that has accomplished a lot with degrees up the ASS but I date a women that didn’t even finish college, that happens everyday. I see women shoot brotha’s down just because they spelled a word wrong, COME ON!!!!!!!!!! AND TO THE BLACKS that say who cares who some one Else’s date, CONGRATS your officially excepted into white bread AMERICA and forgetting about struggles of blacks in this country (gotta make whites comfortable)

@ Jwright5: You said “White guys have your queens”…. No they dont, they have self-hating coons like you and our leftovers. And you said ” u have seen black guys with big white women” ….I have seen Black women with fat white men and ugly azz white dudes like “Bostonslvboy”, for instance.

yea so how we got lost but for us that do have sense we need to stand up and show that theres still good men out there. Life is to short for games be real and up front if you have to lie to get a women then you r not being true to ur self. happiness keeps good health

WOW yaw going in on BostonIvboy, BostonIvboy you better head over to http://WWW.EHARMONY.COM where it’s safe lol

LMFAO .. @ holdyaheadhigh… nigga u just made my night… if ya ass was doin what ya need to be doing u wouldnt have to worrie about a “WHITE” guy having ur ” QUEENS” i think i touched a soar spot with u cuz u actually tried to come at me hard… WOW . get a damn life , mayb u LOST UR QUEEN TO A WHITE MAN… BAHAHAHA , there is a life lesson in all of this son, im NEVER A SELF HATING COON :-) so stop tryin to make people out to be like ur b***h ass cuz u cant hold ya own s**t together :-) so pick ya face and ur pride and and k.i.m ( keep it movin )

Hey Success and Holdya…

You are a perfect example of why Black women are moving away from black men.

Let’s break it down a moment:

1.) African women are enslave by white Europeans and brought to the Americans… Black men fail to protect them from this fate.

2.) While slaves they are abused and treated as chattel by evil whites…
Black men again fail to prevent this.

3.) Intelligent white people wake up to the evil being committed by such acts and inevitable go to war over the matter.

Black Americans win freedom but live the next hundred years as second class citizens… Black men begin to step it up a little and regain self respect.

4.) Civil rights movement begins, blacks no longer wish to live as second class citizens, and a BLACK WOMAN steps up and refuses to sit on the back of the bus, brining pride to blacks world wide.

5.) Civil rights is won! Black men begin to act like the former white slave owners they despise so much

5.) Black women are treated again like second class citizens this time by black men.

6.) Black women educate themselves and begin to earning more money than black males…. Black men begin to abuse and malign black women

Black women are treated like Hoes, byatches, but conned into thinking all this foul treatement is because of da white man…

My Bruthas… who has committed the graver sin……….

I luv me some chocolates lol

http://join.crazyfruits.net

Please pardon my typo’s…having a dyslexia attack over here:

and SUCCESSONMYMIND
keep havin success on ya mind NOT stupid s**t !! its not goin to get u far in life. and its NOT a good look… women dont find that attractive .. o im a realist :-) i dont suck up to anyone. if what someone says is true im goin to agree with it no matter if that person is BLACK OR WHITE
retarded ass

The Queen of England–now that’s a real queen. You are not a queen when you have to go kiss up to that white man to get your job. That’s why so many black women are intrigued about white men (money). That’s all a great many black women are after. They know nothing about love and family. So go on to your thin lipped white men. Maybe then black men with integrity will be able to identify the truly righteous black women from all those ho’s.

LOL if brutha’s are so convinced Black women aren’t really into white guys or other race types, they why be so worried :)

cause we all know the only reason white men sign up for this website,is to find a black woman. When it comes to black women (black men to), the truth is, if your not what they consider attractive, you don’t matter!!!!!!! If i say hello,open up the door for you, I don’t matter because I don’t fit your idea of attractiveness , even though I would treat you like a queen but you’ll show a token white guy all the luv in the world because he’s something different.

Another form of “Genicide”… with in the next 100 years pure black skin will make up about 1 percent of the world population. Everything that the enemy do works to keep us black people in fear and hate one another. Another reason why God is going to “burn the earth”….. -blkntelligent

*insignificant* I luve chocolatesss

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no no no don’t let my words be took’n wrong i remember our history and yes we have it hard like i stated before. but that is what makes us strong if ur not changing it then be quiet. i haven’t went to college i had the chance an i turned it down why? because i had a dream an now that dream is turn in to millions $$$$ i left to run after what makes me happy! i wrote three books! i have my own online company six web sites an one book out an two more on the way! i’m doing something with my life at a young age an reason for all this was to get my family out the city out the ghetto no more being poor!! i did something and now im help others get jobs an help others like them. so if ur not with the change then dont speak on what black men and women should do! race shouldn’t matter stay real and be true to self! o an i can’t forget the big house on the hill and the jaguar i drive at a young age i bought one when i was 19 being black is not a hold back it’s a strong point if u want a real black women then be a real man no ones perfect but u got to step up before u get mad that there someone else doing what u need to be doing.

@Brandidip77 and Jwright5, This is ma last statement on this article. After this, I will not respond, send me a note if u gotta prob about what Im saying. Let me make this clear. Imma speak for myself, and not all black men. I DONT CARE IF BLK WOMNEN MESS WITH WHITE MEN, ASIAN MEN, SPANISH MEN, IDIAN MEN, NATIVE AMERICAN MEN, OR WHOEVER ELSE IS OUT THERE.

Oh yea @jwright5, the feelin is def mutual. Just as all women dont find me attractive, I feel the same way about u. And where is it written, that blk men, have to be with blk women, or vice versa. We both can date whoever we want. So go ahead. 2 Be honest with u, I would care more, if spanish women, dated outside of black and Spanish men, rather than if blk women did. Like I previously said, if u want 2 mess with white guys or whoever I DONT CARE.

@brandidip77 The only reason why I made a comment, was 2 just make ma point. And that point is, that alotta of blk women settle 4 white men, because they would rather have BLACK MEN. I see beautiful women with ugly dudes all the time, so no, it does not bother me, if a fly black chick is witta white guy. But I bet it bothers u more 2 c a good black man, with a fly white gurl witta fat azz. But thanks 4 confirming ma point tho

Hey Success… I absolutely come here to meet black women 100%

Because when I get here I and chat with black women they open up, learn about me and I learn more about them.

As two adults shareing expereinces… They tell me about their experiencs with black men and sorry to say they are ALL bad.

Hey Black Fabio I don’t think god is going to burn the earth because White and Black will eventually breed the hatred out.

@ blackfabio29
shut yo ass up
y would God burn something he created …ugh stupid

@jwright5

What took you so long I was waiting for you to pop up. you and boston should hook up and make slow babies.

Hey Success whomever I “end up with” will be a queen regardless of race.

@jwright5

Your showing your age, with all the name calling, Internet Gang-stress

i must be one of few where race isn’t a deal breaker

@ D_SEAN & BOSTONSLVBOY : CEASE FIRE

First of all D_Sean, I can’t believe you have the audacity to say that YOU are in a group of most desired (there are must-have qualities needed to fit that bill). Second, BLACK WOMEN ARE JUST AS DESIRED BY EVERYONE ON THIS PLANET AS BLACK MEN. That may be a strong reason why we SEEK OPTIONS. WE DO NOT SETTLE. AND AS A MATTER OF FACT, LET’S BE TRUTHFUL, Ladies, how many black men match your fly (degree, career, stability, intellectual conversation, goals besides getting to the next level on ps3)?

No sir, Mr. D_Sean, we do not settle. And how dare you call the black women you ‘pick over’ scrubs, leftovers, busted, etc. All this yack about loving your black women and you blatantly opt for SPANISH women in addition to black women? What’s up, we can’t have the right to choose? But you can? Looking at the photo gallery I would say those women made wise choices. I don’t hear you disrespecting any black men for dating outside the lines at all. I mean I’m just saying.

THANK YOU BOSTONSLVBOY FOR STEPPING UP EVEN THOUGH YOU DIDN’T HAVE TO.
THANK YOU JWRIGHT5 FOR GIVING SOME OF THESE PEOPLE SOME REALITY.

ok d-sean
if u dont care then y r u makin a fuss about it? i mean u must do care . to me i dont see color , yes its a factor but i look at the personality , what they are about. so what of his race. if he makes me or any other black women happy , THATS ALL THAT MATTER ! POINT BLACK

mrenaj

I respectfully bow to your wishes

Boston your a funny guy, I really don’t see any hate here, I’m not hating at all. I’ll let you be the mighty savior to black women, since you think that’s what you are. Keep sharing experiences.

To each its own. Do what ever makes you happy.

I hate it when people say they don’t see color, that’s bull, the same people that say that, are the same people that belong to interracial groups and choose to only date a certain person.

wow
I THOUGHT UR NAME WAS SUCCESS , B***H YA ASS IS JUST ALL AROUND F**KING DUMB… SORRY HUN I HAVE A SMART CHILD, IM VERY SMART , I ACTUALLY USE MY BRAIN. HOW ABOUT THIS , WHEN U GET UP ON THAT MASTORS IN PSYCHOLOGY , COME HOLLA AT ME , B/C THERE IS NOTHING SUCCESSFUL ABOUT WHAT U JUST SAID
@ MRENAYJ : NO PROB … WE HAVE SO MANY PEOPLE IN THIS WORLD WHO HAVE A BRAIN BUT ONLY USE IT FOR STUPID S**T

no no no don’t let my words be took’n wrong i remember our history and yes we have it hard like i stated before. but that is what makes us strong if ur not changing it then be quiet. i haven’t went to college i had the chance an i turned it down why? because i had a dream an now that dream is turn in to millions $$$$ i left to run after what makes me happy! i wrote three books! i have my own online company six web sites an one book out an two more on the way! i’m doing something with my life at a young age an reason for all this was to get my family out the city out the ghetto no more being poor!! i did something and now im help others get jobs an help others like them. so if ur not with the change then dont speak on what black men and women should do! race shouldn’t matter stay real and be true to self! o an i can’t forget the big house on the hill and the jaguar i drive at a young age i bought one when i was 19 being black is not a hold back it’s a strong point if u want a real black women then be a real man no ones perfect but u got to step up before u get mad that there someone else doing what u need to be doing. feel me

@ convice
im glad to see that there is a black man who doesnt care :-) big ups to ya

I’m out, I’m done with this topic, see you later boston, I bet your in box will be full of love from black now.

Hey Success…
I’m hardly a saviour to anyone… (black or white) still making my way in life and trying to better myself.

However any man who loves a woman properly will be her personal saviour.

I think the sad point is that its so very rare to hear a black women say that about a black man and I don’t think the reason is because a black woman wouldn’t like too…

Its because black men do so little to make it so.

thank you for allowing me to share :)

jwright5 come holla at me, when you take your head out your ass.What i look like arguing with a 21 year old?

boston you really dropping bombs right now

Success…
Right now you look like a bitter dude arguing with a 21 year old and not doing so well at it.

MY BUDDY ASKED WHERE I GOT HER AND I STILL DON’T KNOW
I FOOLED AROUND BUT I NEVER DID PLAY IN THE SNOW
SHE WAS JUST A GOOD FRIEND WHO UNDERSTOOD MY GRIEF
WHAT I GO THROUGH AT WORK AND WITH THE PUNK POLICE
I DEAL WITH WHITES ALL THE TIME AND THEY AIN’T ALL BEASTS
SOME EVEN KNOW HOW TO LAUGH AND NOT JUST SHOW THEIR TEETH
THE MORE SHE STARTED FEELIN ME THE MORE WERE NOT AT PEACE
SOME RACIAL SLURS CAME FROM THOSE WHO DIDN’T WEAR WHITE SHEETS
HER FAMILY MEMBERS WORE A MASK THAT UNCOVERED ITSELF
TALKS OF DISOWNING HER FROM ALL THE FAMILY WEALTH
IT WAS GETTIN DEEP, BUT THE BOND WE HAD WAS BUILDIN
SHE KNOW I GOT A KID AND ALWAYS TALKS OF HAVING SOME CHILDREN
TOLD HER THIS COULD BE DANGEROUS FOR HER AND MYSELF
BUT SHE DIDN’T CARE,SO THAT’S HOW MUCH I WAS FELT
AND SHE KEPT BEGGING ME TO INTRODUCE HER TO KIN
WHEN I DID IT WASN’T A PROBLEM LETTING HER IN
UNLIKE THE BACKYARD BARBECUE I DID WITH HER RACE
I CAUGHT HEAT FOR THE MELANIN DISPLAYED IN MY FACE
IT WAS SO DAMN BLATANT HOW THEY SHOWED THEIR DISGRACE
FROM WHAT THEY PUT ON THE GRILL TO WHAT THEY THOUGHT I WOULD TASTE!
THE STEREOTYPES MADE IT NOT A PURSE IN SIGHT
IT WAS OBVIOUS HER UNCLE WAS PROVOKING A FIGHT
TALKIN POLITICS AND MATTERS I DON’T CARE MUCH ABOUT
IF HE WASN’T DRUNK HE MIGHT HAVE GOTTEN PUNCHED IN THE MOUTH
I SWALLOWED MY PRIDE AND ATE IT TILL WHEN WE GOT IN THE RIDE
BUT SHE HELPED ME DIGEST IT FROM A SPIRITUAL SIDE
TOLD ME SHE WAS IMPRESSED, BUT STILL SO SORRY
HER MOTHER KEPT HER DISTRACTED FROM MOST OF THE PARTY
I KNEW THAT SHE WAS SINCERE THOUGH I ALMOST LOST IT!
SAID TOMORROW MORNING THIS IS WHAT YOU DO TO THE OFFICE
DISCARD THE PHOTOS OF US THAT YOU HAVE AT THE JOB
DON’T LET ME STAND BETWEEN YOUR PROMOTION AND YOU BEING ROBBED
OUR RELATIONSHIP IS VIEWED WITH A BIAS APPROACH
THEY DON’T CARE WHO MAKES YOU HAPPY OR WHO LOVES YOU THE MOST!
WHOSE SOUL MATE HAS A COLOR?
WHO CAN SEE ONES SOUL?
ALL THIS DIVIDE AND CONQUER GIVING SOMEONE TOTAL CONTROL

truly if you like white men that’s your business and your consequence.

is this how adults act? (sad) If you knew better you would do better

Joshua

I think your correct in your one liner… but I think its actually more like

“your business and sucess”

i might b 21 success but i know what im talkin about but trust nigga im not tryin to argue with ya lame ass. ur not even worth my time.. like i said get on my level , go on and work for that mastors and then we can talk boo boo but until .. keep it movin.

Hey Success…

looks to me like Jwright just told one of the worlds most desired men to step :)

ur not to successful to me hun :-)

Oh i already got mine, you keep working on yours sweety. lol you talk as if you know my personal life, What’s wrong, You want a hug?

Hey Success, you already got yours… what happened to her then?

She one of the “leftovers now” as described by D_Sean earlier in the thread?

lmfao a hug from u, smd thats y i got my child … you know whats so damn sad, that my child has t grow up in this world around stupid ass people like u seccess .. i truly do feel sad for my daughter but u know what . ima teacher her to tell stupid f**ks like you to f**k off b/c ur so damn simple minded, and ull never truly b happy in life b/c ur like that. I guess u really should have payed attention to your parents whenthey was tryin to school ya lil black ass… but head a hard head makes a soft ass

I love black women, i don’t know anything about Left overs and what d_sean was talking about.I’m my own man

Jwright

success is the poster child for this thread

Success…

Yea we can see that. We can see all the love for Black women too

I love my black men and there are many good ones like any other race.. i cant give up the swag, the walk, the look and the hot sweats at night. when we do bad we in it together. No body perfect but who ever you feel connected to is you. But me im connected to my roots and my black brothers who feels me on a differnt level i can be myself and talk how i want to talk,walk like i want to walk, act like i want and him the same. Cause we fighting the same struggle no matter where you are it is a struggle. Please believe.

As a black men that has dated outside my race many a times, i say go ahead to the black women doing the same thing that being said….. If u have 5 kids with 5 diffent baby daddys, no good man of any race is going to tolerate that (unless he is a fat looser)! If u are over 35 and cant find a good men, the problem might be u, so it dosent matter who u date u will get the same result. Black men, we shoudent get mad, we should encourage it, we know how good it felt being with diffent races, especially white women, so if the sister want to try it let them, There are plent of available women of diffrent races that loves to date black men, so dont get upset!! To sisters a good black men dosent care, because if u have a dominant personality, a real man is not going to tolerate that of any race, and remember there are loosers of every race, just because he is white dosent mean he is not a looser!!

i feel ya solivert
but i explore different races, i loved black men but damn , there r more bad ones then good ones.

Solivert.

Your comment rings true. But I think some women want more out of life than struggle.

They seek peace, love and tranquility. Now why your desire for your roots may be stronger than that of sista’s just desiring enduring love, it might simply because they don’t feel the “struggle” the way you do.

Also some women just arent motivated by the swag… Some prefer the charm :)

Panther… I can’t argue with your comment

Also no women understands the black man and his struggle like the black women, and no black women understands her struggle, like the black man, if u date outside your race that will be an issue.

Don’t Generalize Boston, You see what you want to see.
That’s exactly what I’m talking about Solivert, words like that warms my heart. I want to move on from this topic lol but i can’t help addressing haters and self haters.

Panther… thats where I disagree with you.

Black men have dishonored black women over the past 50 years. Treating them as second class citizens, being the new Massa over them even after civil rights was enacted.

There are many Sista’s who know thier struggle! Struggle enduring a bad life with a brutha… I don’t know too many sista’s who can recall what its like to be a slave on a plantation.

I wouldn’t be so quick to equate a black womans struggle with that of a brutha.

wow success ur truly a nigga
u come to me on my inbox … go kill ya self i feel sorry for ur black ass

Success? Don’t generalize? LOL

In your mind all white guys are here to fulfil a jungle fever :)

Strictly the facts my brutha… strictly the facts…

We both know black men have done black women a worse disservice over the last 50 years than slavery ever could.

Too thine own self be true

Swag is charm!!! And it will always be a struggle life is not as sweet. Money or None at all its a struggle. I have money and a good job but i struggle in many ways not always financial. You dont feel me please dont read between the lines it is what it is and i cant change the color of my skin i have to embrace it……

Why not embrace all peoples Solivert… Why self segregate?

the woman in the article is none other then a pig nose half breed trying to create divivdes within our race this is excatly why im against mating outside of our race because of h.e.p.h.e.r.s like this one here,str8 disgusting that any afrakan sisters whos not a half breed would listen to this.

bottom line there is no real power found in race mixing

i repeate there is no real power to be found in race mixing

i repeate if you want power and glory to not mix ur race

when u want to accomplish something great u succeed in working with members of ur own race so when the glory is gotten ur race will be looked at with the credit for u belong to that race.

having a strong afrakan family that is worth of having statues built for is the afrakan family who is against ouracial dating and is abot owning thre own and not having there kids work for europeans,asians,or arabs

this woman is a half breeds and most half breeds have no loyalty

I think what it is, is that majority of black women mainly just see themselves with black men and with nothing more then probably a Latino. But us black men don’t have a problem with our sistas dating white men. We applaud it,lol. Me and my niggaz if we see a black woman with a white man. We all give the white bull his props for getting one. Lol. We really do especially if she’s nice. But i’ve dated spanish, white, asian, and sistas HATE IT. Lol. I live in Philly one of the top 3 populated areas when it comes to blacks in the U.S. Majority of black women hate it, and give dirty looks. And even my black female friends say they can’t stand it. But love has no color. More black women should open their options up and give others a chance. Me personally I love my sistas. I like chocolate, light, brown. All shades of my black people.

I concur Panterg and not to rewrite your words but I simply want to add on to it, not only will it be an issue but it’s almost like one is saying that i no longer want to be part of this culture and it’s history, but let’s be honest i don’t think people care about the struggles these day (that’s a problem)

Hey Solivert…

Why self segregate or embrace segregation of any kind?

Please remember that the notion of segregation is something that Rosa Parks fought so hard against back in the day.

Don’t be conned by what da brutha’s want you to believe.

I’m advocating embracing all peoples. Free your mind of the chains.

it’s not self segregating BOSTON, it’s no different than you choosing to date black women? What’s wrong with white women but you obviously choose black women over them.

I embrace me and my skin in my skin. I have dated outside my race. like i said who ever u feeling. But there is no other like a brother lol…Boston. And that slavery bit was harsh. i can feel the whip on my back. Its good brothers and good others.

no Success not the same.

People can find people attractive and be drawn to them, but to exclude others that you might be attracted too simply because they are different is WRONG and goes against the “STRUGGLE”

You prefer black women to be with black men… It’s a control thing. I get it.
But again… the facts show black women are moving on, like it or not

Solivert

It is what it is…

If you are fine with the way black men have treated black women as worse than slaves and the way the vast majority mistreat blackwomen in the here and now then so be it.

Young black women who didn’t grow up under white oppression don’t want to live under black male oppession (aka disrespect)

But with us black men also. Alot of women say they like our style, we tend to have a much funnier sense of humor, we are know by society and the media to be cool, dangerous, athletic, smooth, funny, talented, have nice sized dicks(i aint wanna say that but im keepin it real), and all those things women like about us, which isn’t true about all of and can be taken out of context. Whites are viewed as rich or having a nice amount money,corny, pale, lacking in size, unathletic, racist, and not really smooth and if u compare the strong white body to a strong black body like myself. Lol just playin. U will see what most women would rather choose. U can say that we have positive things that attract women, but there are negatives. But the way the black man is viewed by the media and society also brings us down as black people, and us black men especially in philly and everywhere we go through alot. But to me the black body and color is beautiful, black is beautiful. But u should always be free to date whomever you want. God created us to love one another and everyone. Race should never be a factor

Your talking about forced segregation boston , you know “get your ass up and go to the back of the bus” She’s talking about “I much rather eat chocolate cake, My grandmother use to make it for me as a child, ahhh memories. Other cakes are alright” lol

Pantherg08, “Black men, we shoudent get mad, we should encourage it, we know how good it felt being with diffent races, especially white women”

lmao…Pantherg08, youre such a blatant sellout its funny..why do you even SOIL black women by dating them when white women ‘feel so good’??? Ladies, the kitteng08 has exposed himself..Please take heed….When a black man claims that a white woman feels oh so good…keep clear of his azz…

I cant even really be upset ‘hearing’ this from you pantherg08, especially being is that I’ve seen some of your white women….;-) HAHAHAH!

@boston
I agree with some of your comments, but this is where u are wrong about black women being victims. When u grom up in the ghetto, are anything close to that, black women are generally attracted to the thug type, selling drugs, getting into fights, breaking the law, u get more respect for that than for education and doing right. Alot of black women dosent respect a black men that works hard and treats her right, they are looked upon as soft, Alot of black women are not attracted to that. They will say they want the good guy, but they choose the thug type. Thats on the black women, so dont act like they are victims, they are equally if not more to blame because they choose that kind of men. No disrespect but u have never walked in a black mans shoes, it dosent matter how many black women u have dated, every real man knows that women lie, so they may complain about no good black men, but they also sleep with these kind of men behing good black mens backs!! If u want testimate to this go to utube and type in black wome wanting thugs, u will see what i mean. So while i agree with u on some points, u should stay in your lane, black women are not innocent, they are the main cause of them being single!!

bostonslvboy

you son of a rapist you son of th first theifes th greeks
you son of men who r into men,you son of child molestors,you son of the murderous foolish underdeveloped british,germans,european american anglo saxonxs,the son of the french ,the son of the mot disgsting people on the planet

the son of those who take and lie and say they create something but in reality id not

the son of those who were slaves to africans and arabs long before u people enslaved anyone else

the son of those who will pay fo there crimes

the son of those who just barely came out the dark ages in the 1400s and that was only because the sellout afrakan moors helped u sc**.

the son of those who will not be able to help the inevtiable

russia and america are the last world european powers and like russia america is going threw the phase where they are following out of there former selfs and becoming more vurnable to be ate by the sons of africa,asia and everyone else.

the son of th natrually weakest man on the planet

you may be thee most aggresive since the 1400s but ur time is up wolf man

no that it is the afrakan man who has stuck by the afrakan woman and the afrakan woman who has stuck by her man(us afrakan males)

i am not upset at ur lies because the european regardless of the money he may or may not have behind him is always a dirty pirat and the afrakan man wether a sellout or not is the equivlent of as ur people say gods.

afrakan women in genearal are more loyal then afrakan men and guess what?

us loyal afrakan men are still here

and the war between the our two races will wage on intill one of us is completly subduded and thus wiped out.

Hey Classic

Rather than cry about how you are portrayed, change the way you are percieved.

No one can do that but YOU.

It starts with treating black women and each other with full respect.

But its a losing game my friend. The world isn’t about blacks and whites any more.

Its about blacks, whites, asians, europeans, middle easterns etc.

That combined with the fact that black women aren’t living in a world of white oppression they dont share the same struggle.

Other guys from different cultural backgrounds are becoming more and more appealing than the same ole neighborhood rap and big dik LOL

Success segregation is segregation… Don’t spin it.

Hey Shango my strong african brutha :)

My family comes from a s**tty live olive growing village in southern italy, we came to the USA after civil rights. No one one in my family owned any slaves or even knew one. :)

In fact my peeps are just a short boat ride from your peeps :)

We’re practically cousins! MY BRUTHA!!!!!!!!!!!!

@solivert

what you know about carami? I think that’s carami

Thanks Success i just love to give the brothers a boost up. Believe it or not its some good Brothers and others out there doing thier thing. Why is so hard to believe Boston.

I am one of those people who just doesn’t see color anymore. My children are mixed, they are beautiful. One is darker than the other but they are twins! It’s just that they are “people” and so are we! If we all got burned in a fire then what?? It’s your SOUL that matters! p.s. exactly how many shades of black and white are there? Exactly how “light skinned” can a black person be before they are white? I just don’t understand the bulls**t lingo! Perhaps that is because I am more concerned with starving children (OF EVERY COLOR) global warming and genocide…aka..real world issues!

Solivert

There are good people of all races out there doing there thing. Bruthas among them.

Taken individually as success pointed out about himself its easy to see the good and the bad. Speaking culturally is where the strokes become broader.

boston your so perfect and know it all, are you married, locked down by a woman? if not and your still looking, something must still be wrong, ever thought about that

Success
Why the angst? I am not perfect or anywhere near it, nor do I make such claims.

Just sharing the world the way I see it… you can certainly see it the way you wish. No one stopping you.

lol what about me boston, what perception have i put out there about myself? some one you know nothing about but you know his views one topic.

Again back at Boston you have no clue what Success just got at me. you lost and will always be. Your no Dr. Phil start to listen, feel, understand, not everyone is against interacial. Does who are thats their opionion not ours or yours but thiers.
Success Sak Passe what u know but that??? You like that Carami

@califemme

Im just responding to the article that seems to be bashing black men, like were to blame, saying that there is no good black men out there dont get mad at me! And for the record the last 4 women i have dated have been black just because i date outside of my race sometimes, dosent mean i dont like sisters and u should know that!! Dont get so upset, but im not going to let people bash the black men without saying the whole story relax!!

@ 2bUt i feel u on your angle. i know you get the struggle cause you living it it is a black and white world your kids are a blessing but the world is a beast you know this good luck on that.

@the whole entire european race

you people have shown to the whole entire globe what u can offer to the world

death,materialism,child molestors,rapist,europe and america have the highest rate of serial killers,u have shown the world what christianity can to and has done,cause more death and suffering.

you have shown to the world that u r not fit to be in ur position and even if it will take 1000 years one day you children will suffer for the crimes u commit ona daily basis.

your children will be the ones that will wake to the foot stomping of the angrey afrakan war eleaphant knocking down there homes and crushing there little bikes and sisters and brothers as they play in the streets

your sky scappers will be knocked down by the angrey afrakan gorrillia u like threats but thse are promisis.

you people claim to be the most civilized yet under ur rule the world suffers,even ur own suffer ona daily basis.

europeans thee onl half way civilized bunch were the greeks and even they were into animals and canbalism and homosexuality and having sex with there relatives,so if they are ur most civilized then we see why ur most barbaric are ur norm.

europeans the day of afrakan judgment came long ago and the seeds of those who think like myself will in this genearation start to grow and come into thre own.

no longer do we accept we have to bow down and love ur gods,ur languages,ur corny sad hollywood movies which most have lost taste,we know

that the afrakan instituions that survived ur murderous onslaguths

are those of us to prepare and dont allow europans to come into our minds or homes

for instance the great afakan people he mossi had a prohecy

tha anytime a pale man was allowed into the society that would be the beggining of the nation!

and thus europeans

ur ideas i smite
ur languages i smite
ur women i smite
on he surface i seem freidnly butin all realtiy i am ur most dangerous enemy

I dont know what sort of black women you all are chatting bout, but neither me nor any of my family or relatives ever dated a black thug…..my ex boyfriend is black and a journalists

My sister is married to a male nurse, my aunt is married to a detective, my aunt who is a cop is married to a businessman…..my eldest sister’s husband straight after his studies fixes air condition and refridgeration….my father is a technician and he is a black man…..my grand dad owned a shop they all black…..my only aunt who married outside the race to a chiney man both owned a supermarket.

I have no problems with any men, i know who to talk to and who not to. I love my brothers and not going against them. they are me and i am them over and over. Love who you want im not stopping you do what you do. I have love for all but a little more for the brotherman

and i appreciate you SOLIVERT, thank you for the kind words, you still didn’t answer me, what do you know about CARAMI? I think in this superficial society we’re living in here and around the world, it makes it even harder to see a couple with your complexion. When was the last time you seen that. People are so stuck on the beyonce’s and Alicia’s of the world. Anybody can date who ever they want but let’s not act like there isn’t those who have self hate issues, which caused them to look for lighter skin Partners. This is something you can’t understand Boston, it happens.

alishakel they might b talkin about them chicks they use b to with

@ alishakel that is what i been saying. I wasnt trying to name what successes i know i have nothing to prove. its just alot of good black men out there it not a myth. Thanks for putting it out there..

this may be a chineese centruy

but the afrakan man and woman is up next to bat and we will hi homeruns working together

those who make us lag behind as a race will be punished isolated and thust we will continue to rise my people

the afrakan woman and man in bed the thunder which comes to this very day on this great earth was started by the first afrakan man and woman who were making love in the bedroom ,the pounding of the phat afrakan womans v.a.g.i.n.a created the loud crackling sound u know today as thunder

an anytime afrakan people wanna make thunder

the afrakan woman and man must unite together we have no equals.

afrakan women we brothers love you
we afakan men want you more then life itself
we will show you in this centruy
we will obey only one rule
that is prepeare for our woman and grandkids dammit even our grea grandkids

afrakan woman

i love you

i always have and always will and i will fight to the deah to keep u by my side

Shango is too deep for me. He getting you Boston. But for real dont speak for black women we have our on voice and have our own stories, we been through alot and will continue. All women All men

there are some really good men out there, but its hard find cuz u get hella bulls**t and u dont know whats true or not true.

@alishakel

well thats good for your family, but from what i have seen and many of my black brothers is alot of black women do want the thug type if u dont believe me go to utube and type in black women wanting thugs and u will hear from many of my brothers the same things i have posted on here, i talk from experience, im not just posting s**t to post it!!

@alishakel

SPEAK sista, you were raised the right way, with standards, a lot of women were not in our generation. A lot of women need to really sit down and reevaluate who they are choosing as their mates.I sometime look at certain women and say to “myself why is she dating him” because I know about him, but who am i to tell a woman “not to mess with that dude” unless it’s my sisters but also the media doesn’t help the image of black men, The bad is always put out in front.

One thing that I found in dating men from other races is that many of these men set a standard without even realizing it. These men courted me. They took their time getting to know me, opened the door for me,asked me on actual dates to engage in dialogue without worrying about how much money they were going to spend because they were focused on dating me and not twenty other women (in hopes of increasing their chances to get laid).

These men had given me their time and focused on me because they knew I was worth it. These men don’t have to worry about driving in the county that I live in because they are driving with a suspended license, don’t like or trust the police, etc.

They possess a confidence that I don’t always see in black men either because they don’t rely on a woman to take care of them or to “pick ‘em up from their knuckles”; these men are self-aware and very manly, but at the same time are not aggressive or confrontational.

Also, because their (relative) success is usually the rule and not the exception, they are not arrogant or feel like a woman should be pursuing them. They respect my opinion, even if they do not agree with it, which makes it easier for me to be “submissive”, even if I don’t always agree with what they say. When you find someone whom you know you can trust to make sound decisions, everything else falls into place.

I’m not saying that I will never date black men nor am I saying that I don’t love black men because I have had some enjoyable experiences with a few–and I be involved with whomever is the best fit for me (right now, I’m happily single and have my reasons for not being married, which is nobody’s business!). However, just as black men say black women have issues that make them look on the other side of the fence, black men have some issues that they need to get a handle on as well.

no boston, he’s busy putting you in your place.

Black women just have to put themselves in situations to meet good black men. Stop goin to these clubs in the hood and thinking you will find a good man there. Go to a more civilized, jazz, conversation calm section instead of the club. Lol. But us black men expand and have no problem dating outside our race. If i told my niggaz, “yo we goin to italy next weekend” they would oh yea im down, im ready for them italian jawns, lol, and we would enjoy it and talk to so many girls,i can see even one of us stayin and maybe wifin. Lol. But i cant say the same for black women. I feel sorry for white men and others that cannot get a black woman. I really do and the ones that do are the ones that mimick the typical black man. A white man has no idea what it feels like to be a black man in America. We are always for life going to be targets of society and the media regardless of anyhing. Its sad. But we the most desired men in the WORLD……

the afrakan woman

to this day in her blood has it ingraind in her to stick by her own man even if it means utter suacide in some cases or in better more practical cases str success

when the europeans after 1000s and 1000s and 1000s of years working with arabs and asians finally enslaved us

afrakan women commited suacide then rather being taken by filthy pale pink pigs

hail the afrakan woman

ur sacrafice is not unoticed and 22 year old afrakan men like me r ur rewards

classic089, you wrote, “But black women do come across good black men but they would rather prefer the thug, athlete, rapper, or pretty boy. They are stuck on the typical sterotyped black male.”

(shaking my head)…not true, not true…

@boston

so because she choose’s to view things her way, does that make it wrong because your calling it the way you see it, your not being as open minded as you say you are. my way is the right way, that’s what your yelling

Love it! I think that we can be more open and see what’s out there instead of setting limits for ourselves when it comes to dating.

Jwright i feel you just take your time.Azrael these are your experiences not ours.. it is some good brothers father lovers and friends that happen to be black. im not bring any of my baggage out because its my point of view. Let us teach and love instead.Happy to read your opinion

so success
tell me this. y is it that black guys give so much bs but claim to b a good man? i know that there are some good ones b/c i have 3 of them in my life , my father and brothers, but we as black women want a man to respect us and love us , made sure that we shouldnt need for anything.( im independent anyways so it will b a struggle for me to allow anyone but these 3 men in my life to do something for me) what happened to those kind of black men?? instead there are 29 year olds still living at home with there mom , with no job , no car, nothing to call there own. by 29 u should have ur own. so explain that to me. y do ya’ll come sideways, so u can get a lil fix and move on to the next one? your not real.. some black men cant even be real with there s**t, always dippin in and out .
explain this

i think the only reason why people date outside their race is because they can not handle being with their own. think about it, we all know two people of the same race equals alot of arguments, and alot of control issues people date outside their race so they can get control of what they want. look at this equation

black man + black women = to much control, somebody always wants to run the show

black man + white girl = black male dominance

black women + white man = black female dominance

the point im trying to make is people date out side their race is because some body wants to run the show so they date somebody of another race who they think is goin to submit to whatever the opposite race is

anybody who feels this is mean im sorry but thats just how i feel free to email me midwestkidd88@ yahoo

i meant to whatever the race says

Classic im feel you boo. Boston you too. this topic is so real so deep but i still got love for the brothers example “classic” do your thang..
@ Poisied i hear you too I have limits thanks to expericences Dating is new to me and fun no commitment

@Azrael3

But honestly can you tell me that you (or women you know) haven’t over looked men that tried to court you and had standards and were different but because they didn’t meet your idea of attractiveness, you passed them by and chose to entertain the one’s you did have a physical thing for? So of course your good experience’s with black men will be low. Women always go for the screwed guys.

screwed up

@ KB
im submissive to my man it all depends on the women no matter what color and man no matter what color. When you talk about control leave race out. its either or on that issue

I really don’t care about what race people date as long as they are treating that person with a lot of love and respect because there are dead beat men in every race

i concur boston, i expressed that already.

I’m not jaded at all boston, this is what I see.

so what i said was wrong

its funny how success can talk about me being 21 and not knowing anything but check this out, im 21 will be 22 next week , puttin myself through school , a junior in college , plainin on goin to grad school , a single mother and working my ass of to make sure i keep a roof over my childs head , so does that make a sad person like u said i was?? HELL MOTHER F**KIN NO !! this right here shows that im making it out here. how can a black man father a child and not take care of the child .. THATS NOT A TRUE MAN ! A TRUE MAN TAKES CARE OF HIS RESPONSIBLITYS , now success u tell me if thats a good black man??

puddingpie78

my great granddaddy always said

any afrakan who permits race mixig should not be trusted for if they cannot see race mixing produces half breeds then you have self hate and one who has self hate can be taken lightly for they r the ones who enslaved our kind

you have the wicked one in you my dear

half breeds have always caused us trouble and in anceint times we foght and murderd them and so did they to us so for u to say u dont have a prolbem with it means and can be translted to

i dont have a problem with the dying of my people

tratior

jwright5

forgive the weak modern day afrakan male who instead of speaking down to the european he ratther give the inpression of spreading his a.s.s cheeks to the man and have some dinner afterwards

success is not a real afrakan man nor brother he is the very kind that my granddaddy always told me to be weery of for they bring trouble for our people in fact most gangbangers r like success as well as preachers and can i ask the question to you

what help do they bring?

reggi bush is a perfect example a strong afrkan brother yet besides some handout band aid for a severd arm charitys for our people

what will he do for us?

when he cant even sleep with a damm sister and put a ring on that finger

sucess is a koon

Jwright i feel you on your life do whats good for you i have a child her daddy dont take care of her but i knew the kind of person he was. Thats my bad but i dont let my expericence blurr the vision of that good black man passing me by.Speak up and be heard from all the angles you want to show. Big up to you ma.. do your thang

At Azrael3. That is true. Cause if the typical black males tries to talk to a very beautiful, attractive woman they might not have a high success rate. But if Trey Songz, Chris Brown, the drug dealer who got money,Lil Wayne, 50 cent, Lebron James or Kobe tries to talk to them they would automatically give them play and say he real cute(towards lil wayne. Hahaha). But Im an athlete and do music. You cant tell me thats not true because i used to get so many girls just because i played football and track and was good at it. And others dont. Just look at the star basketball player at any school, he usually has the best looking black girl in the school cause thats the only one who that black girl may.. Like i say MAY give a chance. If i make it anywhere and im already headed on making it big,id rather choose the around the way girl. But there are so many groupies that are black women. Men aren’t groupies at all

@boston lol you tickle my funny bone boston

@jwright

no one claimed that black men were perfect, black men and women have issues. You just got to weed the bad one’s out, you can’t generalize a group of people, unless you’ve dated every last one. a lot of black men were not taught how to be men, because their fathers weren’t in the picture. When you seek out to date a man, it’s important that you ask if he grew up with his father. Same thing with women, I’ve notice that women who didn’t have father figures are messed up. Men and women have issues, My own experience: How are you going to TELL ME what to do for you for Valentines day, after Knowing you for a WEEK and then when I don’t do it, You cut out, Now i got a bad perception of you, Let a man be a man.

THE NAZIS FOR THE MOSTPART WERE GOOD FATHERS AND SELF PROCLAIMED PROTECTORS OF THERE RACE UR RACE AND IF IT WASENT FOR THE ATTACK ON RUSSIA AND TAKING POLAND THEY PERHAPS WOULD OF BEEN A WORLD SUPER POWER TILL THIS VERY DAY

THE NAZIS WERE NOT BAD MEN NO MORE THEN THE UNITED STAES SOLIDERS WHO ARE IN IRAQ AND AFGHANISTANT AND PAKISTAN MURDERING WOMEN MEN CHILDREN AND BABYS ALL IN THE NAME OF PROTECTING THERE COUNTRY.

SO I WILL NOT SAY THE NAZIS WERE GOOD MEN OR BAD MEN BUT THEY WERE MEN

FOR THEY WERE WILLING TO FIGHT FOR THE PROTECTION A ND SURVIVAL OF THERE RACE UR RACE

THE SAMETHING MY ANSCETORS DID IN 634 A.D VS AN ARAB ARMY IN WHICH THE MIGHTY NEGROID ETHIOPIANS DESTROYED AN ENTIRE ARMY OF MAD RAPE INFESTED MINDED ARABS.

SO THERE U HAVE IT

RACE MIXING IN AFRAKA SHOULD BANNED AND MET WITH DEPORTATION OUT OF AFRAKA AND IF THEY CAN IMPLEMNT LAW

WHERE THOSE AFRAKAN PERSONS WHO ARE CAUGHT RACE MIXING SHOULD BE SHOT

AN SINCE THE UNITED STATES OF COURSE WOULD BE APPALED WE WILL DO IT IN SECRECT INTILL ARE TECHNOLGY IS AT LEAST UP TO PART WITH IRAN AND KOREA AND THE OTHER DEFIANT NATIONS OF THE UNITED STATES AND EUROPE.

DO I SUPPORT THE NAZIS?

I RESPECT ANY MAN WILLING TO KILL FOR HIS GREAT GREAT GRANDCHILDREN AND SET IN PLACE LAWS TO ASURE ONLY A CERTAIN TYPE OF HUMAN BEING FROM THERE RACE IS BORN.

well thank you Azrael3 and Solivert, and success if you want me to VIEW U A A GOOD BLACK MAN OR ANY BLACK MAN AT THAT ……… ACT LIKE YOU GOT SOME DAMN SENSE ! AND ONCE YA START DOING THAT THEN ILL LOOK AT CHA DIFFERENTLY BUT UNTIL THEN SHOW ME

Classic cant disagree the truth hurts some people on this page done seem to unterstand that. Why arent there any men groupie. Thats because there men and real men stand on the feet but why to do go for groupies who is will do do it all so quick and the good girls are left in the dust.Why must you look for trash and the class is right in front of your face.
@Boston
this is for all races not a black and whit issue.

This is @ jwright5, I hear you but yo, you are doing alot with ya self and i applaud that. Your a very strong black woman. But even through this blog the way ur talkin at times shows a little bit of how u may come off. I don’t know you, but im guessin u from the hood. There are so many women i run into from my hood or around philly in general that would say the same thing your sayin, and act the same way ur actin on here. But u have the right tho. But yo if u wanna meet a good man, put yourself in a situation to meet a good man. Not the club or at a party, or dont just judge on looks. Like where did u meet your baby father and what does he do??

@shango

LMAO WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT? I ONLY DATE SISTA’S AND IF I FIND THE RIGHT ONE,I WILL PUT A RING ON IT. YOU GOT ME MISCONSTRUED BUDDY BUT THANKS FOR THE ATTENTION

@JWRIGHT

DAMN! you want me to show you, I’m already doing it, I’m talking about other black men

classic089

FROM ONE BROTHER TO ANOTHER U ARE A I.D.I.O.T!!!!!!!!!!!!
A MORON

NOT A REAL AFRAKAN WARRIOR

U ARE A WATERD DOWN VERSION OF UR FORMER SELF

AFRAKAN MEN WE NEVER USE TO BE SO STUPID AND WEAK

MEN WANT POWER(AT LEAST REAL MEN DO) REAL MEN WANT INDPENDENCY

AFRAKAN WOMEN WANT MEN WHO ARE POWERFUL OR INDEPENDT AND AT LEAST ARE SHOWING THE FFORT TO GET THOSE TWO IMPORTANT MAKE UPS OF A MAN,SO FOR U TO LOOK AT A AFRAKAN BAD FOR WANTING THESE THINGS AFTER WE HAVE BEEN ENSLAVED BECAUSE OF MEN MORE SO LIKE YOU THEN OPPOSSED TO ME,WHO ALLOWED OUR WOMEN TO BE RAPED AND TAKEN AWAY BECASE AT THAT TIME INSTEAD OF WANTING TO BE INDEPENDENT OF THE WHOLE WORLD AND POWERFUL LIKE OUR ANSCETORS WE

INSTEAD WANTED TO FIGHT MAONGST OURSELVES AND THEN EUROPE CAME IN

SO WHY WOULD SHE NOT WANT A MAN WHO CAN OFFER SECURITY AND PROTECTION AND KNOWLEDGE?

AFTER ALL IT IS MEN LIKE THAT WHO IS THE GREAT WR BETWEEN THE ARABS AND ETHIOPIANS US AFRAKAN MEN FOUGHT AND BEAT THEM THUS ARE WOMEN WERE NOT RAPED LIKE LATER ON IN WEST AFRICA.

ALSO MEN ARE THE BIGGEST GROUPIES

WALKING HOW MANY MEN

READ MAGAZINES ONLY TO SEE XXL’S EYE CANDY OF THE MONTH?

HOW MANY BROTHERS GO TO STRIP CLUBS?

HOW MANY MEN ARE TIRCKS IN GENEARAL?

MEN R THEE BIGGEST GROUPIES WALKING

HOW MANY MEN WILL GIVE UP ANYTHING TO GET JUST THAT ONE WOMAN?

YOU MY DEAR BROTHER IF U ARE 22 LIKE I AM ARE A COMPLETE IDIOTIC PAMPUS FOOL

Solvert seems like a very cool, intelligent black woman who really understands whats goin on. And success is sayin some real things. But that angry s**t aint gonna get you nowhere. It already tells something about your personality too. Some of yall need to chill. But some of yall other ppl are sayin some real true things tho

@shango

Damn Shango I’m on your side and agreeing with you lol why you hating on me lmao

to be honest classic., i come from a military family so yes i was tought to be strong no matter what , and if i come off hoodish , my b , im feed up with the bs that black men bring , just any kind of man. my father doesnt treat me or any women the way half you black brutha’s treat us. as a lil girl i have always wanted someone life my father but i havent gotten it. i know that in the future i just might but this is crazy. i have dated white guys and they treated me better then my own kind , now thats a problem !!

@classic

What angry s**t?

Hahaha…Shango24 u talkin alot of s**t. Im tryna be civil, respectful and keep it real. But yo u gonna have to come holla at me and we can talk and you can say these things to me in person. Real talk. Please don’t get tough online, you talkin to the wrong mutherf**ker. Please chill out with that s**t

AND i met my childs father at church classic ,hahah becare of wolfs dressed in sheep clothing

@SHANGO

i feel all that your saying but your piling blame on one side of the spectrum and ignoring the faults of the other end. Black men need to get their s**t together and so do certain black women, I’m not talking about the ones with degrees, I’m talking about the ones on youtube shaking their ass.

And jwright u agree with you. Its a problem alot of black men have. Me personally i have no problem with fidelity or being in a committed relationship. Right now cause im doing so much in my life and working hard with my goals and dreams, i think a relationship is too much at this point. But i like what ur doing keep up the hard work, and sometimes u need to just do you and focus on you and the right man will come along. You deserve it also=)

classic i been doing me for 3 years (my daughter is 3 years old ) if ya get me

classic089

SPOKEN LIKE A TRUE SISSY
SPOKEN LIKE A TRUE WARRIOR OF THE BEND OVER GANG

ANGER IN A WOMAN IS ONE OF THE BEST SIGNS A MAN CAN FIND IN A WOMAN

WHY SHOULD AFRAKAN PEOPLE JUST CHILL?

DID THE SO CALLED KAZARIAN JEWS JUST CHILL AFTER THE NAZIS?

OR DID THEY GET ANGREY AND SWEAR TO THERE CHILDREN IN ANGER AND SINCERITY THAT THEY WOLD NEVER ALLOW SOMETHING LIKE THE SO CALLED HOLOCOST TO EVER HAPPEN AGAIN?

DID THE CHINEESE GET ANGREY AND FULED WITH PASSION WITH MAO SE TUNG THAT WOULD LATER ON GO DOWN TO PRODUCE THE GREAT CHINA OF MODERN TIMES?

WHO THE HELL THAT WANTS TO BECOME A FORCE IN THIS WORLD JUST CHILLS?

ONLY COWARDS AND MEN WHO LAY IN BED AND SAY JUST CHILL ARE THE ONES WHOS WOMEN R RAPED AND KID S ARE TAKEN OFF AND FORCED TO WORK FOR OTHER RACES OF MENS SONS.

BROTHERS LIKE U WANT A SISSY WOMAN TO HAVE SISSY KIDS WITH

I WANT A WARRIOR WOMAN

A THUNDER QUEEN
A CHAMPION

I HAVE WOMEN BY MY SIDE NOW WHO ARE ANGREY AS HELL AND SO THE GET MONEY WITH ME,PLAN WITH ME AND I ASSURE U THERE ANGREY LITTLE A.S.S.S.E.S WILL BE WITH ME THE WHOLE ENTIRE WAY AND EVEN IN OUR GOOD TIMES WE WILL REMAIN ANGREY AND SO THE AFRAKAN WAR ELAPHANTS MARCH ON AND ON .

ANGER AND BEING FED UP=PASSION UNBREAKABLE PASSION AND HUNGER FOR SUCESS

AND WITH THE RIGHT CONTROLL OF THAT ANGER AN ANGREY AFRAKAN MAN AND WOMAN CAN BECOME TOGETHER CAN MAKE MILLIONS AND THERE CHILDREN WILL NEVER HAVE TO BE HUMILIATED AND GO TO JOB INTERVIEWS AND BE AT THE MERCY OF OTHER RACES OF WOMEN AND HOMOSEXAL MEN.

JUST CHILL

WTF

THIS AINT NO DAMM XSCAPE SONG JUST KICKEN
IT

WE WANNA CONQEUR BE ANGREY BE PASSIONIT AND BE SMART

BOTTOM LIINE

ANYTHANG ELSE FOR OUR PEOPLE IS SLAVERY WATING TO HAPPEN

Damn Shango
i was scared to come at you but know i have to.. you seem smart and all know your facts and are a deep brother filling this post up and all. But why must you attack your own brothers on this post share your blessings teach the young but dont break your brothers down. If your african like you said your ancesters and our ancesters did help the white man bring us into slavery you doing it all over agian. Peace to you my brother

Hey i’ve been doin me for periods longer than that. Lol. But how old are you

ill be 22 next sunday classic

Yo shango24 u know nothing about me, i struggled, was poor, and i worked hard to get where i am. I am working on a masters, and my dream is to educate and help children from my area and places around the world in general. My father is african and my mom is african and dominican. I come from a strong family and have strong values. When it pertains to a woman everyone wants a strong woman, especially me. But yo talkin s**t tryna sound all intellectual. I know ppl like you. But if u wanna talk s**t, like i said, u can come talk it in front of my face. Im not an angry man im one of the coolest, nicest, respectful ppl u will ever meet. Hahaha.. Ur funny, i like how ppl talk like this online but if we had the convo in person u wouldn’t talk this s**t. Believe Me=)

classic089

U ARE A CALM PEACEFUL LAKE WITH LILLYS THAT R PINK FLOATING ON TOP OF THE WATER WITH PINK RIBONS THROWN INA CEROMONY FLOATING IN THE WATER WHILE A BUNCH OF HOMOSEXUAL PATRONS OF THE PARK ARE HAVING A GAY PRIDE CEROMONY DANCING NAKED OLD FAT EUROPEAN AMERICAN MEN HUGGING AND KISSING ONE ANOTHER SINGING AND SKIPPING AND SAYING PRAISES TO THE LAKE JUST CHILL.

UR THREATS TO ME R LIKE WHAT SPEARS BEING THROWN AT A HUGE WAR AIR CRAFT CARRING SHIP.

YOU HAVE ALREADY SHOWN THE WOMEN ON THIS BOARD THAT R IDEA OF A MAN

IS TO JUST CHILL

NOT HAVE FIRE IN HIS BELLY TO BE PROPELLED TO WORK AND BECOME POWERFUL

LET ME GO FURTHER

UR GRANDFATHER WAS THE KIND WHO WAS SCRUBBING FLOORS INTILL THE DAY HE PASSED AWAY RIGHT ON THE FLOORS IN WHICH HE SCRUBED.

INSTEAD OF BEING LIKE MY GRANDFATHER A PRIDEFUL AFRAKAN MAN WHO STARTED HIS OWN SHOE SHINNING BUSINESS TO THEN SELL IT FOR AN UNDISCLOSED AMOUNT THAT HAS SET ME WITH MONEY TO START M OWN BIZNESSES.

COWARD

HOW DARE U

NOW GO BE A GOOD SISSY BOYFIREND AND GO CHILL WITH UR BOYFRIEND AND LEAVE THE CONDITION OF AFRAKAN MEN AND WOMEN TO US REAL AFRAKAN MEN AND WOMEN WARRIORS

SISSY

AND TAKE THOSE SUN GLASSES OFF YOU REMIND ME

OF THIS MAN

Mark Morrison Return Of The Mack (original)

SING ALONG SISSY

RETURN OF THE MACK

SISSY

oh ok jwright ur young, so you should just do you right now. Your definitely a beautiful woman with alot to offer. But yo, lol, u peep this bull shango. Hahaha… Yo me and my boys are all here crackin up at this nigga. Hahaha…

AZRAEL YOU LIE!!!! TELL THE TRUTH. THERE ARE Negroid DOGS,Caucasoid DOGS ,AND Mongoloid DOGS. DONT MAKE IT SEEM AS IF THESE OTHER RACES OF MEN ARE PRINCE CHARMINGS. TELL THE TRUTH .

classic089

MY BROTHA TAKE THOSE SHADES OFF U LOOK LIKE THIS MAN
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=twgArtVqMlM

BWHAHAHAHAAHA

I DONT WANNA HERE ABOUT U SPEAKING OF WHAT UR GOING TO DO BECAUSE ALL U WANNA DO AND FOR A WOMAN TO DO IS JUST CHILL

OUR RACE NEEDS

BUILDERS,INVENTORS,WARRIORS,PRESIDENTS OF AFRAKAN COUNTRYS WHO WILL HELP THE PEOPLE RISE INSTEAD OF STEAL FROM THEM,WE NEED AGGRESSIVE ANGREY CONTROLLED MEN TO PUT BUSINESS AND RACE FIRST

NOT SOME PUNK LIKE YOU

WHO WANTS TO KICK IT WITH OLD FAT BALDING EUROPEAN MEN HOLDING HANDS,SINGING AND DANCING AND SKIPPING AND HUGGING NEXT TO APEACEFUL LAKE WITH PINK LILLYS FLOATING ON TOP OF THE WATER,WE

NEED AGGRESSIVE BROTHERS WHO WANNA OWN AND CREATE SHET AND NOT DANCE WITH FAT BALDING KISSING AND SKIPPING ND HOLDING HANDS EUROPEAN FAT OLD MEN NEXT TO PEACEFUL LAKE WITH PINK LILLYS FLOATING ON TOP OF THE WATER.

IF IT AINT ABOUT RACE AND MONEY AND BUSINESS THEN YOU AINT A REAL AFRAKAN BROTHA IN MY MIND

OH AND MAMA AFRAKA DONT NEED SISSY’S LIKE U EITHER

shango is on another level with his insults

shango,
r u all there tonight? i mean really? ur tryin so hard to make ya self look good, speak from ya heart and let it go like k.cole said son :-)

Hahahaha.. I can tell shango is a loser. U a loser nigga. I give everyone respect but you a nut. U makin us all laugh. But yo can we please have this discussion in person. Please…=)

classic089

I KNOW ONE THING NO TWO THINGS ABOUT YOU

ONE UR A SISSY

TWO WITH THOSE GLASSES ON YOU LOOK LIKE THIS MAN MR TONY MORRIOS AKA RETURN OF THE MACK

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=twgArtVqMlM

ALSO

3RD ANY AND I MEAN ANY WOMAN WHO AGGREES WITH YOU IS A WEAK WOMAN AND U AND HER WILL HAVE KIDS WHO WILL SUFFER

WHILE MY CIRCLE OF PEEPS ARE KIDS WILL BE AGGRESSIVE ANGREY OWNING AFRAKAN MEN AND WOMEN WHO R PEOPLE WILL LOOK TO FOR HELP AND TEACHING AND EXAMPLES TO SHOW THERE KIDS.

U ARE A WEAK MAN MY BROTHA

I SENSE A SLAVE IN YOU

ADING AND HELPING THE ARAB WITH ISLAM
OR THE EUROPEAN WITH CHRISTIANITY

OR HELPING ANY EUROPEAN OR ASIAN OR ARAB MAN WITH MONEY

I MAY BE BEING TO HARSH BUT ITS AFRAKANS LIKE U WHO CAUSED US TO BE ENSLAVED

WITH THIS JUST CHILL ATTITUDE

ANGER,AGGRESSION,CONTROLL,SMARTS,STRONG HARD WORH ETHIC AND A WANT AND NEED TO BUILD AND OWN WITH OUR PEOPLES NAME ON THE FRONT. IS WHAT I WANNA SEE IN MY PEOPLE

NOT THIS JUST CHILLING ATTITUDE

WORK

This post went to a whole other level It was about black women dating outside if their race. But i still respect everyone and there point of views. then we start attacking each other this is just what Boston is laughing at.We as a people need to be more open minded and experience other things. i have and i still love the brothers and i love you all. Lets learn somrthing stop hating SHANGO. im disgusted. im out

How you gonna tell the man to take off his shades? it’s a picture lol

See the man!(boston) has gotten us fighting amongst our self’s and now has magically disappear. lol

where is BOSTON when ya need him … shango u r way off the charts son

Hahaha.. Shango seem like he wanna get f**ked up. Come to Philly say all that to me. U do not know me. This is a discussion and u talkin all this s**t. I can tell u a loser… Dont nobody on this post got any kind of respect for you. But yo like i said stop goin around the question, lets have this convo in person please=)

i think he found a sista to give him some luv, cyber sex.

jwright5
I GO HARD IN EVERYTHING I DO MAYB IF U WERNT SO IN LOVE WITH THESE SISSY JUST CHILL TYPE OF ONE MINUTE MEN LIKE CLASSIK

UD BE WITH A MAN LIKE ME TO GRIND YO SHET OUT EVERY OTHER DAY FOR HOURS AT A TIME AND MAKE U NUTT THEN SEND U IN THE SHOWER AND WIPE YO BUTT AND THEN GO DOWN AND CHECK ON HIS BUSINESS WHILE U PREPARE A NICE FINE DINNER FOR WHEN HE GETS BACK INSTEAD OF BEING A SINGLE MOM CHATTING WITH SOME LOSER SISSY LIKE CLASSIK(WHO WE ALL KNOW U LOVE)

U HAVENT LEARND UR LESSON YET HAVE U?

WEAK AFRAKAN SISTA U ARE

YOU DESERVE TO BE A SINGLE MOM YOU DONT DESERVE A GOOD STRONG AFRAKAN KING U GET ONE AND THEN U FLIP OUT AND TELL HIM TO JUST CHILL

LOSER

AFRAKAN MEN WE DONT CHILL WE WORK AND WORK HELLA HARD TO OWN OUR OWN AND PROTECT OUR OWN

WE DO NOT JUST KICK IT LIKE WE R ON NO DAMM XSCAPE VIDEO

SO WHY DONT U AND ALL THE OTHER SISSY MEN JUST GO AND(SISSY VOICE) JUST KICK IT

AND PAINT EACH OTHERS NAILS

BWHAHAHAHA

Hahaha

Damn Shango time out, ww2 ended years ago brotha

yo son.. this not what u want , get ya s**t together son.. really im not ya adverage chick i will cut ya f**kin ego down so take ya cript keepin ass on somewhere, actually do this , take ya black ass back to where u came from and nigga just die .. just die the f**k off . o and dont worrie about me lets just home ur middle night blue lookin ass gets a strong women

classic089 AKA TONY MORRISON RETURN OF THE MACK HAHAA
BEHAVE AND DO WHAT U DO BEST ANC JUST CHILL LOL (MEYELLIN AT THE SCREEN)AND TAKE THOSE GLASSES OFF DAMMIT.

AS FAR AS UR BAND OF SISSY WOMEN WHO BCK U UP

THATS EXCATLY WHY SISTAS LIKE JWRITER ARE SINGLE NOW WITH THREE D.A.M.M KIDS NOT KWNOING WHO THE H.E.L.L THE DADDY IS AND CHATTING WITH A SISSY MON LIKE U!!!!!!!!

ARE RACE RESPONDS TO BROTHAS LIKE ME THE SAMEWAY THE CHINEESE DID TO MAO SE TUNG

THE SAME WAY THE CUBANS DID FIDEL CASTRO

THE SAME WAY THE ZULUS DID SHAKA ZULU

THE WAY THE NIGERIANS DID BABA FELA KUTI

THE SAME WAY AFRICAN AMERICANS EMBRACED TUPAC

I AM A REAL AFRAKA BROTHA A 22 YEAR OLD MAN

OWN PLACE ,OWN CAR
,OWN EVERY DAMM THANG
AND ABOUT TO BUILD SOME HOMES IN ST MARY JAMICA

U KNOW WHY

BECAUSE I DONT JUST CHILL OR JUST KICK IT

MY RACE AND M RACE OF WOMAN AND MY MONEY MOTIVATE ME

SISSY

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XpntYM4wcAo

HALA IF YA HEAR ME

AGGRESSIVE
MOTIVATED
CAPTIVATED BY MY OWN THOUGHT
LOVNG OF MY RACE OF WOMAN
MONEY MAKE
VISONORAY
LOVER
FIGHTER
PROTECTOR
MEN OF MEN

BOW DOWN TO LORD SHANGO U SLAVES

FOR I KNOW WHAT OUR RACE NEEDS(SMILES)

HAHAHAHAHA SLAVES MORE SLAVES HAHAHAHAHA

YOU CANT FADE ME NIGGAS/NAGAS

U CANT SEE ME

YEAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH WEST SIDE
BLACK AFRAKA

BLACK POWER HALLA AT ME

bubby need a hug

somebody give him a hug

this nigga needs something

Haha u dont know what i do. And i have my own place, car and no kids. But damn nigga, you got everybody tryin f**k you up. Lol. Me personally i just want you to meet me somewhere and just say all the things ur saying now or u want to say to me, thats all=) Im mad u really got ya page on private. I wanna see how this nigga look, i know we would all be surprised. Take ya page off private nigga

This article is obviously for the uppity sistas out there who are fed up with black men. Have fun with that.

I cant believe all these comments from black men, knowing good and damn well if a white women wanted to give it you would hit it in a heartbeat. All this brown nosing so called Im a strong black man and black women should go out their race makes me want to throw up.

Yo I think they should date white men. They are the only ones that are going to do what they say cause most of them are “Yes Dear” type guys. Plus they will put up with all the bull sh*t drama. lol

if we ignore him the Shango will go away.. i cant keep away this is wicked. Now yall talking but every other day you aint no real brother a real one put it down everyday..you fake or white get off or fall off

black men care

it makes me want to throw up when our black men are sitting on there ass and not giving to f**ks about us black women but when they see us with a white man who treats us better u wasnt to raise hell.. smdh. a damn trip

Must see My enemies defeated, i catch them why they coked and weeded , open fire now them COWARD SELLOT niggas DYIN BLEEDIN BACKS TO THE PAVEMENT ARMS AND LEGS OUT SPREAD ONE LAST SHOT IN THEY HEAD SEE EM DEAD.

solivert WITH UR ATTITUDE U DESERVED TO BE A SLAVE GETTING RAPED DAY IN AND DAY OUT FOR ATTACKING ME AND WHY ARE U WORRIED ABOUT SOME PALE MAN LAUGHING? U AND HIM CAN BOTH BE SLAVES TOGETHER AND GET WHIPPED ON UR BACK INTILL BOTH OF U DIE OF THE PAIN,HOW DARE U ATTACK ME A BROTHA WHO IS PROMOTING RACE,BUSINESS AND GETTING MONEY
THIS IS FOR U THO,U R A RACE TRAIOTR AND ARE PEOPLE DO NOT ALL NEED TO JUST GET ALONG THATS WHY THERE R THINGS CALLED CIVILI WARS,NOW ASK URSELF WHENS THE LAST TIME OUR RACE HAD A CIVIL WAR TO RID OURSELVES FROM THE SELLOUTS LIKE UR KIND?WHOM ATTACK BROTHAS LIKE ME.
NOW GO BOW DOWN TO BOSTON HIM ND LET HIM BEND U OVER AND CALL U A N.I.G.G.E.R BYTCH SINCE U SO WORRIED ABOUT HIM LAUGHING.

BOTTOM LINE EVERY RACE EVENTALLY GOTTA HAVE A CIVIL WAR AND DEAL WITH THE TRASH OF THERE RACE

PERIOD

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yVv4IdGtcNw&feature=related

Successonmymind THERE IS HOPE FOR U MY BROTHA STICK TO MY MATO

IF IT AINT ABOUT RACE MONEY OR BUSINESS IM NOT F.U.C.K.I.N.G WIT IT

solivert, he tried to pull that s**t on me. im like please like ill really let ur lepracon lookin ass near me

jwright5
2-25-2010 11:50 p

SHUT UP
,FOR ALL I CARE U CAN GO WITH A WOLF MAN I DO NO CARE YOU ARE WEAK NEWAY AND WANNA KICK IT WITH MEN WHO JUST WANNA CHILL,SO IM NOT WORRIED U AINT A REAL SISTER TO BEGIN WITH NO WAY.

REAL AFRAKAN WOMEN IS UNDERNEATHE ME IN THE BEDROOM AND STANDING WITH ME SIDE BY SIDE,SO IF U WANT A WOLF MAN.

IM AN AFRAKAN MAN

U KANT SEE ME

shango
go suck a dick i know u do that on the low , thats y u r puttin down ur own kind…. u dont got ya dick sucked by a white man….

you Promote hatered your tired and weak. Im a dark skin pretty sister from Haiti my ties are close to Africa you are sc** no one likes you worthless in my eyes. I have been raped and you want to raped with your words you coward.Fall off or fold back.You dont know sh*t all you been doing is filling this post up with nonsence.I bend over for my Black men never a piece of sh*t like you..disapper..

and its AFRICAN B***H .. DAMN SPELL THE WORD RIGHT IF UR GOIN TO US IT

jwright5
it makes me want to throw up when our black men are sitting on there ass and not giving to f**ks about us black women but when they see us with a white man who treats us better u wasnt to raise hell.. smdh. a damn trip

I can for one could less if a black women dates white,black, asian, latin or whatever. I keep it open. I dont discriminate. So seeing all these mad black men comments is kind of crazy, especially when alot have done outside race dating. Its not a one sided deal.

You just tried to get with my girl JW now she under you …you are mandingoless.You spend time on sites,your twisted and must be ugly ass hell no pic on your site you got so much to say but yet your page is blank..ha ha you a fool

solivert
LOL DID TUPAC WHEN HE DIE JUST GO AWAY
LOL DID MARCUS GARVEY WHEN HE DIED JUST GO AWAY
FOR THAT MATTER HAVE THE SELLOUT BROTHAS WHO SOLD US INOT SLAVERY DIE AND GO AWAY?

DUM WOMAN MY SPIRIT

OF RACIAL LOVE AND BETTERMENT AINT GOING NO D.A.M.M WHERE!

LOL U KOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOONS

I PUT MY PAGE ON PRIVATE ALONG TIME AGO BEKUZ U KOONS GOT MY PICS DELETED KUZ MY BODY ABNGING

BUT IF YALL PHAGGOTS AND MAMMY PALE MAN LIVING SINGLE MOMED H.O.E.S WANNA SEE THE GREAT AFRAKAN MANS PAGE WHICH I AM AND WHO I BE

THEN U JUST SIT YO BYTCH A.S.S.E.S TIGHT AND I WILL SHOW MYSELF AND ALL WHO GO TO MY PAGE BE PREPARED TO SEE THE D.Y.C.K THAT HAS GONE IN MANY OF YO MAMAS LOL ,YO SISTAS,YO COUSINS,YO AUNTYS AND I HAVE NO STOPIN IN SIGHT

http://WWW.adultspace.com/YOUNGHUNGC**

BYTCHES

BOW DOWN TO THE AFRAKAN WILL

wassup solivert, when are we going to a t-vice ball? lol

KoolGRap1
well i call it like i see it b/c thats whats been shown to me

I am a black man and i love my black women unconditionally no matter what they do or what we do i love black women EXCLUSIVELY. It hurts me to see them with a white man. I am not perfect and have done my share of foul and immature things in my day. But after it is all said and done I know who has been in our corner from day one. I dont think any white women were there healing our wounds after “massa” whipped us for whatever reason. I dont have access to any historical records of a white woman holding the black family together during segregation…I mean the white man has good taste but the black woman is sacred. Black love, black family is sacred. Nothing can ever replace the original it may do for a while but it is more harmful than helpful in the long run.

i can hook you up jwright

this nigga needS hooked on phonics like ASAP !! SPELLIN S**T ALL WRONG LIKE ITS CUTE, DAMN MY DAUGHTER IS ABOUT TO SIZE U UP IN SPELLING AND SHE IS ONLY 3

2 things: first: this post is new and it already has over 300 comments? whoa! Second, I think there are many, i mean MANY black women who like white men. This isn’t something new.

Shango needs to get f**ked up. You can tell its hard for him to get a woman. Lol. Typin all this s**t, like he has nothing better to do. I can tell u gets n p***y. Lol. This was supposed to be a general discussion and we were supposed to voice our opinions but its all corny now cause that nigga. Im out. But yo shango if u want u can come holla at me and we can finish this convo in person. I just wanna see what u have to say when ur in front of my face. And thats real. u don’t know who u f**kin with, nut ass nigga. But im out. The rest of yall were cool tho and seem like cool ppl. Hope yall find what ur looking for. But in all. Race and who u like should never be an issue. You like what u like and we are all equal as ppl and we should remain strong. My black people. Lol. I love yall.

HAHAHAHA

NINO BROWN BYTCH HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHA

ROCK A BALL BABY

IM GETTING MONEY

IM HAPPY

IM S**TTEN POOP POOP ON ALL U SLAVISH H.O.E.S

THIS IS MY WORLD

solivert
GET OFF THIS GOT DAMM THREAD U MORE WORRIED ABOUT SOME PALE MAN LAUGHFEN
YOU OLE SILCO AN EBERT ASS BYTCH TWO THUMBS FOR U WAY WAY WAY DOWN BYTCH LMAFO BWHAHAHAAHAHAHA

AF=FLESH
RA=AFRAKAN SUN DEITY
KA=A APRT OF THE OL

DAMM AFRAKA

I.D.I.O.T.S STDUY UR AFRAKAN KULTURE AND THEN YA JUST MIGHT FIND OUT WHY I SPELL IT THE WAY I DO.

IM BEING ATTACKED BY SOME WELFARE MAMAS AND THE LIKES

jwright5 WHO WAS A TEEN H.O.E LOL GETTING FLIPPED AND FD BY ALL KINDS OF NICCAS E\INCLUDING THE D.L ONES

DO U UNDERSTAND THAT SON(DUR ,DUR,DUR)

YALL CANT SEE ME

Success
yo im coming to miami tues for 20 days this fool here is white or lame he ugly now he wanna direct people to his porn site ..be for real get at me hit the page

WELL we both got something in commen WE WAS GETTIN DICK BAHAHAHAH

We all have ignorance people, i think ignorance can be negative and positive (i can explain). Some hide in the shadows and are afraid to state them and some could care less what people think about what they think (like me).

I_AM_BACK_4_MORE
2-26-2010 12:07 am

LOL LOOK AT THIS BYTCH BALD HEADED DOWN LOW LOOKIN NICCA HAHAHAHA DAMM THIS KOON MADE ME LAUGH

A NICCA

A NICCA

I_AM_BACK_4_MORE
2-26-2010 12:07 am

YOUR NAME SHOULD BE BIG A.S.S UGLY HEAD BWHAHAAHAHA

U BIG HEADED A.S.S NICCA U LOOK LIKE A DAMM MARTIAN

TAKE YO BIG A.S.S HVING HEAD SELF BACK TO THE SHELTER THAT HELPED GET U OFF SUCKING THAT GLASS DYCK

WEST SIDE
BLACK AFRAKA,NICCA

BUT THE ONLY THING IS THOUGH, I HAVE STANDEREDS , I JUST DONT LET ANYONE NEAR ME UNLIKE U . SO U CAN SHUT THE HELL UP U WALKIN STD . GO GET TESTED WHILE UR AT IT. I HOPE U GOT THE CLEAN BILL OF HEALTH LIKE ME SINCE U WANT TO TALK S**T

I don’t know who the author is from this article, but it must be a white guy who is tryna segregate black on black love. To say or assume the majority of black men are undergraduate is like saying we are not educated enough to date intelligent black women. It’s simply racist. If you ladies going to date a white dude let it be for the right reason, not to blame your problems or society attacking black men. Especially the Conspiracy Theorists behind these drama b.s. articles.

@solivert

you went completely into another topic….. Who is White and Lame… and who are you telling to get at you on your page?

NITRUX04
I think it was a women who wrote this

really?

Gotta watch these people they will stir alot of negative crap in yall heads. Simply just stay positve. It must be a black female author who have personal issues with black men from her experience or a ignorant white woman who know no better.

solivert

WOW! U HAVE QWHYTE THE LITTLE MOUTH ON YOU

I THINK U NEED A NICE FAT DYCK IN STR8 IN YO MUTA F.U.K.N MOUTH

AND STOP LYING U CANT EVEN AFFORD TO PAY RENT SO HOW U GOING TO MIAMI?

OH I KNOW U MET ONE OF THEE KRAKKAZ OFF ONE OF THESE BDSM SITES AND U AND HIM GOING TO BE ROLE PLAYING SLAVERY FETISHES

AND U GONNA BE THE SLAVE AND HE GONNA BEAT AND SPART ON U AND KALL U EVERY KIND OF ANTI AFRAKAN WOMAN NAME IN THE BOOK.

U R NOT EVEN TRASH TO ME

YOU CANT BE RECYCLED

YOU R ONE SORRY A.S.S WOMAN

LETTING PALE MEN CALL U THERE N.I.G.G.E.R BYTCH WHILE U BENDING OVER RENACTING UR SICK SLAVE FETISH OF HAVING OLD LOL FAT SLAVE OWNING PALE PINK MEN RAPING U.

EYES SHO AM SARRA MASA LOL

GET CHO PUNK A.S.S OFF MY THREAD I OWN THIS BYEOTCHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

Its just telling the black women she has a selection blk men have been doing it.. for me i love the blk man i have treid other races its kool im just more a peace with a broth

Nitrux04

I AGREE

BLACKPLANET SEEMS TO POST ONLY TOPICS THAT WILL CLASH US AFROCENTRIK AFRAKANS AGAINST THE SELLOUT PUPPITERS

THIS TOPIC IS DISGUSTING AND SLANDERESS TO POST ONA SIGHT SUPPOSE TO BE FOR AFRAKAN PEOPLE

BUT GUESS WHO OWNS BLACKPLANET?

THE DIRTY FILTHY CHINK EYED FATFLTTED FACED JAPS WHO ARE THE BIGGEST SELLOUTS OF ASIA

AND HAVE CLUBS WHERE MANY MEN RAPE JAPANEESE WOMEN LOOK HERE
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BTxZXKsJdGU

These black women and white men look good together. God bless them for getting over complexion.

“Single black women with college degrees outnumber single black men with college degrees almost 3 to 1 in major urban areas…”, If this does not sound pathetic or completely off the subject from her “interracial” dating topic then I don’t know what she was really trying to say beneath the surface and her demeanor is completely irrelevant. Real intelligent people think outside the box without following society’s made-up statistics. Most of them are inaccurate anyway. I am not racist just to let evberyone know, but when a so-called “author” starts downing our people just a slight bit…then that’s when it becomes a problem and the negativity redirects towards the main source…the author.

ONE LOVE

TO THE AFRAKAN WOMAN AND AFRAKAN MAN WHO WANNA MAKE PRETTY BROWN AND DARK BABYS AND NOT THOSE UGLY PRINCE AND WILL SMITH AND BARRACK OBAMA TYPE LOOKING ONES

AFRAKAN MEN AND AFRAKAN WOMEN TOGETHER CREATE DARK SKIN AND DARK BROWN SKIN AND BROWN SKIN BABYS

THIS MAYBE A CHINEESE CENTRUY

BUT THE AFRAKAN RACE IS UP NEXT

AND THE ANGREY AFRAKAN GORILLIA AND WAR ELAPHANT IS UPSET

AFRAKANS UNITE AGAINST THE SELLOUT TRAIOTR AFRAKANS THEY MUSIT NOT WIN

u r so damn stupid , everything that is comin out ya damn mouth means NOTHING… OBAMA IS UR PRESIDENT NIGGA, WOW ITS GOOD TO SEE BLACK MEN MAKING A DIFFERNCE BUT HEY UR NOT DOING A DAMN THING BUT SITTIN ON UR ASS TALKIN S**T… MAKE A DIFFERENCE IN THE WORLD THEN ULL HAVE THE RIGHT TO TALK S**T .. BUT UNTIL THEN GET THE F**K BACK AND SHUT THE F**K UP

Shango I heard about that too. Like I said I don’t have a problem with interracial dating to those who might’ve misunderstood me, just let it be a good reason than to listen to anothers distasteful experience of black men who probably dissed the author behind this blog post. It’s a shame that we got Barak in office and that should of made a statement that black men like Obama are many all over the states. In fact they always existed, but once again you have those who are “turn coats” simply out of resentment towards black men or the wrong type of brotha who might’ve dogged them out. Each experience of their own…I say. Stay Up and Stay POSITIVE!

jwright5

You are blind and obviously you are fckin stupid like most pigeojn heads like you who missed my point so think before you comment.

first of all I WASNT TALKIN ABOUT U I WAS TALKIN TO SHANGO

add the names plz jw

SO U THINK BEFORE U COMMENT NITRUX04 THANKS HAVE A GREAT NIGHT:-)

lol

IF U WOULD LOOK U WOULD SEE THAT MY COMMENT WENT RIGHT ABOUVE SHANGO’S …… PAY ATTENTION

I said my peace overall on this blog post in response to the “Author” of this article. On to the next one like your man Jay-Z said.

DITO

jwright5

LOL WHAT A D.A.M.M DUM A.S.S

THIS THREAD IS OVER IM GONE

I love that gallery but umm theres only like 2 cute white men in it lol. I will definitely try a different race but IDK about white men… I want me a Latino… HOLLA!! lol

I feel like the whole history of this nation has been to destroy black men. This author is just loading one more bullet into the chamber meant to destroy the black man and with it black America. College degrees are over rated I have one and I still have to be put up with being paid less than my white coworker for doing the same bs job. I think we need to take a good look at WHO IS WRITING THIS S**T. Their is a conspiracy going on behind the scenes to destroy the black man. Articles like this one are just evidence of it. Print ads, films media of all kind demonize the black man and try to convince black women not to date black men. As a blackman I have to say fuk BP.

god im so over this blk white s**t every single day i hear bout this s**t ..i dont F**KIN care who wanna date what date a damn monkey if u want .i aint gotta sleep next to it….HAve the time ppl get caught up in this bull ..white blk light dark my man is light my daughter father is dark, my highschool sweetheart was white.. who caresto much self hate that s**t is inbedded in us from slave day over 500 yr ago get over the s**t or you just be stuck and so will your kids with low self esteems and hating their selves and others because of the bull crapp yall send out there to them … man i sit a laugh at most of these comments because a few ppl are plain hopeless and helpless in their lifes…its much more to life then just color..

about white men? umm no i dont think so…. not to be mean, black men? uhhh time for a change…. asian men? ill snatch one up in a minute…

She wasn’t even attracted to him at first, but i guess being that he’s well traveled and cultured makes up for that. You gotta be honest there is a doubled standard when it comes to black women and white men, They get caught up because it’s something different, where if it was a black man, they would be nick picked about everything

to Azreal3 If you’d even read the first words of my page you,d see that i visite my (second) motherland frequently and also my first motherland ALKEBULAN(Africa).And if you were a true black wom(bm)an you would know why i’m here in Holland, but since you are the opposite you cannot grasp on that.It is not in your ablity to elaborate on that.
And your excuse of not putting your picture on your page is just an escape goat to say what ever you want for not to be able to be properly judge.
But anyway in my fury to expose you,i’ve made the mistake to comment on your nonsense, something i’m not gonna do anymore. I normally dont talk to people who have such a cowardly low selfesteem of themself that they hide themself in anonymity, and if your black that explain why you date only white men.

I think it would be such giant step if black women would expand their horizons when it came to dating. A man is a man & I understand that sometimes we as people are afraid of change, but sometimes you have to step outside of the box. Black men do it all the time with all races of women but then in the same breath call black women who do it sell outs. Please kill that noise its a bunch of blah blah blah. Speaking to all the African-American women especially please give it a try, & if its not for you atleast you wont have to wonder.

why are all the females who say they wanna date outside of the race ugly and fat combined or half breeds trying to act like we brothas view them as an afrakan sister?

let me prove my point

DESTINEE20 ugly and looks like shes an out of shape couch potato
Chocolate_Gul not even chocolate and over weight and out of shape

Brooklynn8701 fat out of shape with presed hair and bad facial features chunky fat fat face over weight out of shape and im sure has an odor to her v.a.g.i.n.a

yucky

for all i care i think what fidel did to the united states when he deported all the crazy and criminal cubans and child molestors and deported them to america

we should do the same

because crayz and fat and useless afrakan women should be given to any race of man so they can spread there bad genes to other races im saying we need to clean our gene pool afrakan people

are retarded,crazy,slow,homosexual ,bisexual people,those with diseases

we should tell them to only date non afrakan men because then we can begin to make our race free from vermon and sc**.

women as those i have listed above or below

ought to have as many mixed babys as they possibly can so we can assure that our race will be free from sc**.

I am sick of these types are articles. If you read the comments all it does is cause conflict…smh. I have dated outside of my race many times. I don’t pick people based on skin tone or background. If I meet a man and we click then I will give him a chance. I could careless about who approves or disapproves.

I t is a clear case of killing the males and sparing the female. It is the same as the story in the Bible were Pharaoh hade the Hebrews in slavery. The males were killed and the females were encouraged to Hebrew females to marry non Hebrews hoping to breed the out of existence. This is what the rich and powerful are trying to do. This is why they print stories like this. I am not saying that mixed couples don’t love each other or there is no attraction between the two, but when rich people start a campaign to encourage black females to date white men they not tiring to help anyone’s romance life.
There has always been a system to elevate the black woman over her male. Look at the distribution of scholar ships and grants. Most of them are given to females. If you don’t believe what I am saying is true go to a college and look in the scholarship books. Then look in the classroom. The ratio of black male to black female is a direct reflection of the financing .
Degrees are over rated they only put you in a position to ask for a job. A white man with a high school diploma has a better chance being successful than a black man with a degree. You cannot leave your degree to anyone. I have 3 years of college and most of what they taught me was BS. America ranks 50th in some areas of education. A degree did not stop the people in Detroit from losing there
That woman in the article is a old fool. Why would anyone listen to what she has to say. She is a old lady and trying to find a man. If she knew so much she would
There should be a campaign to stop black men from being incarcerated. That’s how you help the black female.

White men had ALWAYS dated Black women throughout history (Black men did too and got ridicueled, scorned and beaten and killed for it). They’re married, go to clubs, strip joints and on the streets, and thy have the nerve to b***h when their daughters find a Black man attractive SMH…Different strokes for different folks, but do it for LOVE, not hue…..

eye agree with SHANGO. i used to defend black women and tell them that there are brothers like me who cherish them and that there is no love like black love but……………im tired of all the fukcking complaining. if you want to do something go do it! you dont have to shout it out on top of the mountain that you are going to start dating white men. for every one of you that will date a white man there are TEN QUEENS that will not! bye. you will NOT be missed……………….oh,eye forgot,……….DONT come back!

to you jwright5 He Willy lynched daughter,You are blind with your eyes wide open, isn’t your daugter of mixed race.And 1 billion to one a white father.What happened? was the pressure of his family to much for him to stay with you,or no, i guess he did his part of the common white good to plant his seed in blackness.By your comment i see that you don’t have the ability to anylize the symplest mistreatment that is being done to you over and over again. You are being manipulated ,exploited and in your case willingly being raped over and over again by your slavemasters.
You know what HARRIET TUBMAN said(says in your case)If you knew you were a slave i’ve could have freed more of you. But i dont think you’ve heard of this true BLACK QUEEN, obviously your kind only here of Oprah(opera) Beyonce and Britney Spears(especially in your case).
He go and read a good book of self(if you still consider yourself to be black, which to me dont seems to be the case anymore reffeering to the joy you feel of having white in your family) and dont sit there and say amen whenever your white bdsm master says wipe yo face(his ass).
This is REAL TALK. And i also see that you have offered your services for a new master altough he himself is trying to make clear that he loves boys.

If your a black female that date white dudes, that’s your buisness. If your a black queen that only stand by your black king, you get all of my respect.

I sounds like the author is bascially saying since its more black women in college, that’s a reason to date outside your race cause its a less chance that you.ll find a black man that’s educated.

Truth is its more black men going to college than jail, also more is enrolling in community college and trade school. Of course white society aint gone tell you this because they want you to believe these fake stats.

Since blackplanet aint owned by a black person, I aint suprised to see bulls**t like this.

I will only be here for my black queens because 1 only a black woman can understand the everyday struggles of a black man and vice versa. 2 when s**t hit the fan, black women will be there for a black man and vise versa.

Read between the lines black people, its a reason they trying to push this interracial dating in the minds of black women. Its divide and conquer.

And I don’t wanna hear that s**t about we all the same hue-man race, cause just as long as these crackaz think their superior, race will always be an issue. So you mite as well let that kubaya and we shall overcome bulls**t go.

and to all you jwright5ers and azreal3ers like DARERECKLESS said, go you wont be missed becuase you wanted to be white since the day you’ve been born,and DO NOT DERE TO COME BACK.Because for you, there is no place left in the BLACK WO(MB)MAN.I guus your playing with your bdsm masters hair and saying i wish my hair was as beautyFOOL as yours.Sjiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiit

Why are people so negative about love and slavery. This is 2010 guys stop the petty, immature talk of the past and move on to date and love who you want. Its not about race, some men just know how to treat and sweep a women off her feet, even if you date someone that you are not used to dating we need to be open minded and if you click you click what culture and colour got to do with it we should be free to explore. Without thinking about anything but the two of you. I hate to hear these stupid conversations, a’nt people got anything better to talk about. Wake up people the slavemasters etc. Are dead.

i hate reading stuff like cause its all some double standard s**t. first we need to stop acting like a black women is some great mystery beyond male conception.women stop acting like you’re expempt from the bulls**t.main reason why most women are by themselves particurly black women is simple. depsite your many degrees or whatever acheivements. you’re still not ready yet. god will not send you apartner till you get your head right or you will mess that person’s head up. just to hear a black women feel that they need to stop dating outside there race is some double standard bulls**t cause they give a black man alot of beef about that all the time.personally i think thats just nasty to date a white dude.i’m not prejudice but white dudes are dirty as s**t. and when i see a black women with a white dude, i feel she dirty as s**t to. but i also feel that only reason why a black women dates a white dude is for control purposes.its not about education. thats a dam insult and if it is a black women that black men lack education is a f**kin sell out.and that is poor excuse to give .if yall want to bone and be with a white dude for control purposes and use like some black dudes who date white girls(particularly old school black men.) go ahead and do that but don’t sit there and diss and sellout all black men like we are some lost cause. its comments like that that make me say money over b***hes.

Another day, another interracial dating story about how we should pursue white people and this time again, Good black men are imaginary and white men are more realistic. And then they take these celebrities, to manipulate their minds further and from what i’ve read so far and around they’ve done the job.
Tsk….This country is so fracked up.

to CLASSIC089 I wanted to go against you for your comment on shango24,but after i visit your page i realize that you are in a growing process. Your comment conflicts your personal message on our page.You mention that you are a strong Black Brother,i’ve said it already i cOnsider you te be in growingproces, so am i,but i think that on that path i’m a little bit ahead of you. With that rsponsibility in mind i will not and cannot go against you. I rather encourage you to not only go after your dream, but also to do research, in his(our)story, economics(especially your situation in finding a good manager,so you won’t end up broke like many other blacks before) and learn to analize the daily events surrounding you and your environment.
This advice; Do not only listen or watch the mass media, but search for news and analize it with the love of self as reference, you will come to disturbing conclusions. For example when the earthquake hit Haiti i hear many people saying you see all that talk about africa blablabla(as jwright5 would),only european counrties came to the aid of Haiti,But do y’all know how much hell these same white nations gave haiti in the past 400 years? That exceeds this aid more than a 1000 times. Steeling children in the name of adoption,stealing organs in the name of medical help.What the mass media did’t tell you is that almost every African, Caribbean and South american coutries gave their support to Haiti, all of them did so according to their ability to share and to give.
It is remarkable that on every front there is this encouragement of interracial affairs with black people.Whites are being encourage to date blacks, Arabs are being encourage to date blacks(especially Black women from east Africa) and other races as well are being encourage to do so towards black.This event only has to at least ring a bell of asking WHY?
KNOWLEDGE , KNOWLEDGE, KNOWLEDGE……….BLACK PEOPLE PERISHED FOR LACK OF KNOWLEDGE……..

Successonmymind, you wrote: @Azrael3
But honestly can you tell me that you (or women you know) haven’t over looked men that tried to court you and had standards and were different but because they didn’t meet your idea of attractiveness, you passed them by and chose to entertain the one’s you did have a physical thing for? So of course your good experience’s with black men will be low. Women always go for the screwed guys.

My response: Of course, I have “overlooked” men that were not attractive to me. You were wise to add that they didn’t meet MY idea of attractiveness, as my idea of what is handsome and sexy may be entirely different from the next woman’s. How I determine what is attractive is not just based on an “at first glance” approach, but it’s also based on other factors. For me, it is chemistry…how me and that man mesh together. I have dated men who were not very attractive, but possessed a “j’ai ne ce quois” (“I don’t know what”). This is true for ALL men that I have dated.

Also, what makes you think that every experience that I have had with black men is low? I never claimed that. What I wrote is that it is very hard to find a black man who is compatible with ME. Perhaps it is because of the region I live in, which is the Detroit area. Most black men that I meet here do not share the same interests that I do. Even if they do, they have a tendency to be pretentious, and I am not like that.

This story sure did bring some things up. Interracial dating is nothing new. But For black women looking for their black king, the choices are slim. But black women have a part in the issue to. Take myself, I am a 38 year old college educated black man. No kids, never been to jail, and never been married. I’m a ok looking guy but most black women would pass me up to go with that thug brother. Cause his swagger was better. But where did that end. Heart broken. There are some good brothers still out here but get tired of getting pasted up for that brother that clearly has nothing going for himself. Maybe i’m not drive in a SUV with 24′s or act like i’m in a rap video, but at the end of the day i’m a black man looking for his black queen. We may not be on the same level as you but keep passing us by and someone will not.

Black women have always dated white men. This is not new. What I don’t understand is the recent push between Hollywood and other forms of media to push more sisters to date white men. Go on, date white men; just don’t act all uncomfortable when we are in the same setting like you don’t know how to act around a brother anymore.

napata-amanra:

Truth be known, I just looked at the location area to see where you are from and closed out. I don’t bother reading profiles too much…It’s not like I’m sniffing around for evidence against you (or anyone else for that matter).

And you are right on another point: I cannot elaborate. When people or issues bore me, I lose focus. You’re basically a speck of lint in my world. How can respond to lint, but to brush it away?

In the word of God he says the children will be your oppressors. White folks act like children, they cry when they want something, an act out when they can not have.They bully everyone they come in contact with. Who have they not bullied? Is this not the actions of a child?The system in which they have set up lets the woman be the man, an the black man worthless.That is why our numbers on everything is the lowest. Sisters, you are not that blind are you? You controll men, an the actions of men. We, the black man can not be what God made us to fully be with out the woman.This is why they want you all sooo bad, as they did in the time of slavery. They knew that if you take the woman, the man could not stand. The word booty, we use it to call out a curtain part of the body, but if you take the time to look it up booty was what was taken at the end of a war, or take over by other person, or people.It is what we call today the prize.The white men even back then knew the black women`s worth you are our God given PRIZE for us.But whites have always wanted what we have. The origin of man was not found in europ, it was in AFRICA with the wealth of the world, that God gave our people.Europ had nothing.Do not fall for yet another trick to bring our families apart, support our men out here, do not let money, or this degin. knowledge fool you into thinking you are becoming wise, that was the first mess up for EVE in the garden.

Eve thought she would become wise by eating of the fruit, not really a fruit, but that is another post. But Eve ended up being the biggest fool in history, so sisters please see through what this world has blinded you to. Only God can give you what you need, an it is the black man we need each other in this world. God`s design was not for us to be alone that is contrarry to nature. Ohh this picture is funny it don`t even look right, it looks like a lie, an guess what, it is.

I think it is crazy that such a controversial and heated debate was brought to us by The Walt Disney Company. The Walt Disney Company owns News One , ABC, and NBC. This explains why the story is so far out of reality. The same people who gave us peter pan, Cinderella , and wonderland are now creating a new fantasy for the black woman. To put that black woman in front of us is the same as putting Pinocchio in front of us, because they both puppets .

@03BrwnSugar— I am dating my first white guy and I am loving it. I love the way he makes me feel, i feel wanted and special when i am with him. I love spending time with him and I would do anything for him (almost anything, ex.cook, wash clothes, etc.) For some reason black successful men like white women so I have been forced to day white men and i love it.

CUT THAT F -UCKING S -HIT OUT! Nobody FORCED you to do anything. YOU MADE A CHOICE. OWN UP TO IT. Nobody FORCES YOU to sell out. I get tired of that lame excuse. There are alot more Black Men married/engaged/dating Black Women, than there are black men with with women and vice versa. You chose to follow the examples of the latter.

If and when your son grows up to marry and love a white woman… don’t get mad at him. Becasue he learned it from dear old mom. And if it did happen wouldn’t it be a kick in the head for you? Your son doing that very thing that forced you into the arms of a white man.

wow cnn says more women are choosing to be single and then they put a white face on it. But a black woman has to be with someone cause yall can’t make it on your own. You can’t believe anything liberal. The portrayal of ir dating is false anyway cuz more people prefer their own rac and if the numbers were true then I would have some black friends dating or married ir. But they are all married or engaged to college educated beautiful black women. Don’t fall for the hype sistas. The sellouts don’t want to be alone that’s all

@Godsbeloved2009: There are going for the white men because the black men have not hit maturity yet they still playing games and going to the club and stupid stuff like that lmbo go for it if he make you happy shoot lol.

If YOU were “mature” enough in your mindset, you would recognize the irony in your statement, especially at the beginning of your sentence. It’s “they’re”, not there. LOL!!!

I personally don’t think race matters but the only issue I have with this article is that the census was taken in 2008. It’s 2010 now there could have been a TON of black men who have gotten associates since then in; computer science, dental assisting, medical billing and coding, mortuary science, etc. But most of the time in Ct I don’t even see SUCCESSFUL black women. They’re all C.N.A.’s but I can’t speak for the whole population of black men and women but from what I see around here black men who have graduated college outnumber black women that have graduated college.

I luvsssss me some BOSTONLVSBOY (LOL). You are speaking the truth and some of these black brothas cant stand it. You are stepping all over their shoes and its killing them (lol). Keep doing what youre doing man. Let them keep running after the white women they so love and you sweet..loving..considerate..romantic..respectful..thoughtful..kind..generous..white men keep coming after the BLACK QUEEN.. Lollllll.. I love it!

Black women are no better than anyone else. You need to come off of your ego trips, seriously. What most of you are saying, here, is that you’re so damn good, that no black men can match you- so you need to elevate yourself to white men. So not only did you try to emasculate black men with your move, but you’re also admitting that you believe white men are superior to blacks. You people are sc** of the earth. If you wish to date interracially, that’s all good, but when you say that white men are better than blacks, you’re just the worst thing that BLACK PEOPLE need, and I beg you to leave for white men NOW! We don’t need your brand of black! People like you just need an excuse to do what you always wanted, to date white men and use this drama as a cover story. So when someone asks you “why are you with that white man” you can answer “because there are no good black men!” and only an idiot will agree with you. It’s propaganda by self-hating black women. Date a white because you’re open, not because you’re close-minded!

Lol at some of these black men feeling offended because they have thrown the white woman in our face for years and now we are turning the tables on them. DEAL WITH IT CRY BABIES!!!!!! HAHA

You can’t control who you fall in love with. However before you do so you must take a look at who you are as a person.
The author of the article listed issues such as a lack of financial and educational equality amongst black men and women. Unfortunately this factor is true.
However we as a race must strive to improve those odds by fostering a new generation young black men that value education as much as they value rap music, sports and gaming systems.

Despite the inadequacies that plague our kind there are still good black men out there.
Black women are sometimes unrealistic in their expectations of black men.

As long as he loves you and treats yo with dignity and respect and “legally” contributes to your mutual household income,(if not equally then at least close to hers) I think that there are still “good” men out there.
I understand the romanticized version of what women want, but in this day and age, if the guy takes you out and pays for dinner then that’s romance!

If you want him to buy wardrobes and trips around the world then that’s gold digging.

As far as “intellect”, once again that’s become a generational issue that we all must focus our efforts towards in order to repair the damage before its too late and our male youth becomes an even more endangered species than it already is.

I never went to college nor did I garner any major success until I met my wife(a sister) who did have a B.A. and took a chance on me. She encouraged a long time passion of mine ,(writing) and ten years later I have a book and a “story by” screen credit.

Yes I’ve always been “articulate” and was ostracized by my peers because of it. (You talk like you’re white,nerd, etc,)
However, I never let it deter me, I also fortunate enough to have a mother and father that I loved feared and respected.

If we can recreate this type of atmosphere in our homes then perhaps we can create some “good black men” before we’re reduced to being placed on the endangered species list.

Yes I understand the plight of the intelligent black women, but please take into account that in the old days,as long as you had a job in a factory a man was considered decent.

That was the imagine that most black men grew up with. Now with the terrible economic disasters that have destroyed this country,
there are no factories thus more unemployment and fewer opportunities for the uneducated male.

Signed,

A non-degree holding but still charming, intelligent, and romantic Black Man.

Aaaw who cares. No dumb azz article is gonna make a woman decide what she wants. I know an ex of mine who went out and got a white man. Her azz went through more s**t with him then damn near all of the black men she has been with combined, Now her ass is back to square one. In most cases a man is a man he either has good intentions or bad intentions bottom line.

You know what, please for give me for what about to say, or if I sound ignorant. I’M DONE DEFENDING SISTERS cause time and time again black men seem to always be the butt of the topic, and most sisters seem to roll along and kick us down. To those few women who don’t do this I apologize but as a man that’s never done anything to damage a sister why the hell should I be a target. Why because I wear fitted hats or “urban” clothing? SMH please I have a job and a degree unlike some of my suit wearing counter parts who only dress up to go to a club. Point that I’m trying to make is, if you don’t like black men or you’re so happy with your white man, Skip your asses of Black planet. I’ve never felt like this until now and after reading some of the comments some of y’all new age black women are a disgrace, not all just some. You’re whole lives are lived thru what the white media tells you to do, get it together or you will continue to lose.

Please forgive the typos, I hadn’t had enough coffee before posting.

Black women with Degrees do out number black man with degrees . Im still working on mine . However I want to do it alone but I still would like to date an education black women . In the past I have noticed that a white woman would have patience and support her man while he is doing positive things . A black women wants hers NOW . I love everything about black women except that . If you have your degree and you know Im a good man be more understanding to why I’m broke all the time . I dont care if they date white men . Look at how goofy those dudes look and guess what the kids are going to look the same ! Or you can wait until a dude comes along with the same credentials as you , he does not appreciate you because your not understand and he cheat on you with a white women . Im a strong , intelligent black man and i refuse to have any confused half breed kids . Do what ya’ll have to do for love and affection . There are good black man out here , Im one of them .

I have never posted anything to any article before…. but after reading all of these stupid comments people are making it makes me wanna comment… first of all am an arabic girl and im dating a black guy and am so glad that i dont get to see so much hate in Canada against interracial dating… second so many of you people bring up the past (slavery time) which u never experience… i mean i would understand and respect the once that did go thru it to be mad at white people but come on now where are you trying to get with this… your sitting here blaming every white person about the things that their grand grand parents did to your grand grand parents… so what now… i have to hate all Americans for what they are doing to my country, killing kids rapping young girls shooting civilians on the street… NO cuz in the end i no there are good Americans solders over there doing there job and there are bad solders there doing more then there job…. I mean come on people its 2010 and God put us all on earth for a reason n thats not to hate each other but instead to try n make it as human being cuz thats what we all are.. in the end we all bleed the same color (red), dont let color saperate us as people… I hate it when i see (white or black) being all negative when it comes to topic like this. Finally every race have good n bad in it

Classic089:

I don’t know how old you, but you appear to be in your 20′s. You are still young and at that age are dealing with young women who are running amuck. This is typical for people in your age group (although it can continue throughout some people’s lives!)

What you will find is that a mature-minded woman wants a man who can hold his own. Yes, there are gold-diggers out there, but not every woman who wants a guy to be financially secure is one. women need to know that a man will be able to provide for his family. Afterall, that is what the “head of the household” does. For many women, it’s not about how many carats are in my ring, it’s not about a man paying for trips to St. Bart’s or Fiji (although those things would be nice). What it is about is REAL financial security has more to do meeting critical needs and being able to save for the future. I’m speaking about having a joint retirement fund, having OUR house paid off by the time we retire, having enough money to support our children who go to university…And yah–I’m all for working because that just adds to our household income so if one of us gets sick or something happens, the money is there.

An understanding woman will date a man who is having a rough financial time (who isn’t nowadays?), but it depends on that man’s situation. I am all about giving a person the benefit of the doubt, but if I see that he is slackers and he does not have their priorities straight, I quickly bail. I don’t have time to deal with dead-beats. I actually dated a couple of guys (including black men) who had some serious financial setbacks due to mitigating circ**stances and it didn’t bother me because these guys were responsible and good men. Unfortunately, it didn’t work out with either guy for different reasons, but my point is that there are women out there who are not as superficial as the ones you have run into.

First of all SWEET_HONI..who gives a damn? And in the USA we dont like that ignorant statement..YOU PEOPLE! Im sure the black person youre dating is an AFRICAN. Just make sure he isnt NIGERIAN..one of those 419ers Lollllllll. I work with some Canadians and trust me.. you all arent as pure as the driven snow as you would like people to believe. And its our right to bring up what our ancestors endured if we like. Its NOT your place to tell us we cant or shouldnt. Now go check your bank account and make sure your 419er hasnt scammed you! Toodlessssssssss

If I could meet a white guy i would date him, hell every where you look in Colorado they have a white girl, so why can’t we. Black men do play games & are so much into the exterior then the interior of a person. I’m so over black men. I will probably never date or marry another one. Ok, yes I will be another single black womn but oh well, I WILL NOT SETTLE. Just like men are not going to. Yes i want a man with a job & yes I can be understand that he may be broke SOMETIME, but all the time has got to go. (SMILE)

Race and skin colors are but physical attributes of who we are. Having said that, I think you have to fall in love with whoever appeals to you the most without actively seeking out an interracial hook up as a response to not finding a black man. If a sista is gonna date a white man, be sure to understand what kind of white man you date, for they have many different nationalities (English, Irish, Welsh, Scotch, German, Italian (North and South), French, Israeli/Jewish, Russian, Swiss, Dutch, etc…). Knowing their cultural background can help you know where they are coming from, and make sure you can bridge the cultural gaps. Also, some white guys (but not all) may only be interested in the curiosity factor, having you believe otherwise to your own detriment. Some have weird urban fantasies of black women that, in a few cases I’ve heard of, are pretty sick. So know who you’re dealing with before falling head over heels blindly.

Who cares who dates who? This subject is old news. Antiquated information. But I do so enjoy when those who pretend to be experts on the subject matter, get rich from writing books containing incomplete research. Yes, it is true that Black women with degrees outnumber Black men with the same 3 to 1. But I notice that every time this information is cited, the reason why this disparity exists is never cited along with it. Have you all ever read the Willie Lynch letters in your lives? Get the real answers why don’t you?

They are right ladies it’s time to stop messing with these wanna be player niggas and BROTHERS now a days are an endangered species right or wrong? I am all for dating out my race cuz at the end of the day no matter what color you are you can’t deny the sexy mofo’s like me. White Dudes for the most part put they woman high on a petal stool n niggaz will bring you down.

SMH, my black people you all are falling for the media okie dok again. First let me say no I do not condone honor or believe in inter racial relationships. Now I am not going to attack anyone on here or anywhere else that is in an I.R.,(hell my cousin has a black and latino daughter, still non white though) but its my right to not agree with your choice. Love is blind true and can trump all things color, class, age, physical limitation, ect. But how many in I.R. can truly say that they never considered their partners color when first getting with them and then continuing to be with them(Be real with yourself)An let me say something to the brothers who have/are/or had dated white women, as well as the brothers who haven’t but are so angry at the sisters who do. We brothers do have to get ourselves together. The majority of you brothers that date white women, do it because the are quick to spend money on you, tend to be weak willed, because you have been subtly conditioned to find them more attractive than your beautiful sisters, or once in the realm of so-called elite social and economic circles you feel having a white woman is better than your African Queen’s. I’ve never met one brother who dated white women, that could sincerly say he chose this woman because of her heart and soul, and not because of her color. For the brothers on here who are going back and forth harshly debating this with the sisters on here. I understand brothers I too do take great offense when I see my sisters on the arms of these white men, but brothers I also take great offense when I see my brothers with white women on their arms, and when ever I get the chance I try to enlighten those brothers on why this is wrong. Sisters don’t get it twisted there are good brothers out there that match exactly up to what you are looking for, 1. you must be patient and ardent in your search 2. you must not let bad experiences with some brothers force you into seeking an alternative that is not even in your nature (this also applies to the majority of BW who are turning to lesbianism,that too is not the answer) Just because one or several brothers have broken your heart doesn’t mean that you give up on all brothers and go to a white man or to a woman. And my brothers same applies for you just because you have a bad experience or a few with sisters doesn’t mean you should go to white women or become a homosexual. That makes you weak, taking the easy way out, and also you missed out on the lesson and wisdom that person or persons brought to your life. People come into your life especially in relationships for a reason, if it doesn’t work the lesson and wisdom is now you know what you don’t want, it doesn’t mean give up on your own race and start dating outside, it doesn’t mean be a little more selective in what you want out of that brother or sister and be patient enough to find that right brother or sister that lives up to that! These types of articles are divide and conquor tactics, and it’s saddened me to see how on this forum my brothers and sisters have attacked one another with such anger and hatred (somewhere some racist white person is laughing their evil heart out seeing us carry on this way) My people we can disagree without all the derogatory name calling and that goes for both the brothers and sisters on here who’ve crossed the line(you know who you are) White people love when we go at each others throats like this, that’s why an article like this is always published, where as you’d have to really search to find an article telling white women or white men they should consider dating black people(if one even exists) Black people we are naturally strong willed and strong minded so why keep falling for this inane and illogical drivel, and I realize while on here debating some of you have felt personally attacked and came right became at your attacker with venom and anger. But no that just keeps the cycle of anger and misunderstanding going, be the bigger person and do not resort to name calling, it makes all our people look bad. Also It gives a clown like BostonLuverBoy the nerve to even chim in his opinion like it counts. And the reason I call him out his name and don’t respect him at all, is because I’ve seen him on numerous other forums, he always does the same thing, venomously attacks brothers and try to put us down. And while you think he is on your side sisters he is not, because i’ve read posts on other forums where he says some very derogatory things aimed at sisters as well. As some of the brothers suggested i think he on here trying to so-call side with the sisters just to get him some. And if you read all his posts, it will be apparent to anyone that he is just being an instrument of disorder and all of his post try to attack black-men, think about that. But enough of cornball wallace, his opinion doesn’t matter, this is an issue strictly concerning us, MY BEAUTIFUL BLACK PEOPLE! Brothers and Sisters our people are the original people, and our skin color is one of the many things that makes us so unique, we were designed from birth to be able to survive on this planet. Your color protects you from the harmful radiation from the sun, just think about that. We are meant to be with our own, and your soul mate is within your race, but you must be willing to be patient and seek them out and quit taking the easy way out. Let us quit letting white controlled media dictate to us what we should and shouldn’t do, and teach us self hatred. Like 2Pac say, “You Black Smile for me now” I love you all my BEAUTIFUL BLACK PEOPLE!!!! Please love yourselves and all our wonderful sisters and brothers

cultural assimilation

a process by which members of an ethnic minority group lose cultural characteristics that distinguish them from the dominant cultural group or take on the cultural characteristics of another group.

^^^You see that ABOVE BROTHERS AND SISTERS, this is what amerikkka is aiming for, they’re trying to genocide you off, isn’t it ironic that this is owned by walt disney corp, as one poster put it…..smh….they have been playing wioth you sisters minds for so long, and trying to keep dividing and destroying black love and unity, because they know without that there can be no reproductive progression, which in the end results in POWER~!

When will you sellout IR trash start realizing that you are being manipulated into hating your own brothers and sisters, to the point that you feel like you have no compatibility with them….

Brothers and sisters you must ignore this brainwashing that is taking place, who you will be assimilated out of existence, mentally, physically, and culturally……

This is nothing but white supremacy trying to survive, and they’re using weak minded desperate bougies in the mainstream media such as this karyn folan piece of s**t to manipulate you, and turn you away from your natural counterparts….

Wise up….

Black Love And Unity Is Whats Needed To Survive!

they just trying to get black people of the planet if they could and the way to start that is to that over the black women.black women r the one who have black kids and they know that so thats y u c all these movies with black women messing with white men.AT the end of the day love dont have color.BUT if any human listen to what thes pepole r saying the i guess u cant think for yourself.

@ KLR5000

No sweety he is not African… he is from the Carribean and its so funny how you just gonna jump at an African country… remember thats your mother land… As for people like you and yes i said it people like you (if your black or white) i dont care who makes this world f**k up… I never said forget what white people did to black people in the past cuz thats something hard to do n shouldnt do…. all i ever said y blam every white person in the present when they were not even boren in slavery time… dont get me wrong just explain to me why… and you now what gurl Canada or lets say Toronto does not have that much hatern comparing to the State…. every day i read about how white police/ people treat black people bad… I hate that 2 cuz those same white people that do these wrong thing to black people r f**ked up and deseve to go to hell

Here is the sad and pathetic thing about it all. Black women know this story all to well. You sisters are all degreed up and a bachelor or two, and you are working this job. White girl come in with a high school diploma or even a GED. You train her and whatnot, and eventually you come to find out that she is making as much money as you and maybe even more. Promotion time, guess who gets it? The white girl with the high school diploma/GED that YOU trained.

A kick in the head would be that white girl ends up spending her new income from said promotion, on a brotha that you passed over because he had an associates degree.

Now there can be various factors as to why you were passed over, but is it not oftentimes that racial discrimination is the culprit? YOU BETCHA! As they say up here in Minnesota.

It’s the same story heard over and over. A Black person’s bachelors degree is not as good as a white person dilpoma/GED; a Black person’s masters degree is still not as good as a white person’s associates degree or bachelors; a Black person’s doctorates degree is not as good as a white person’s masters or on some occasions bachelors.

Thing is black woman… you’re hurt—feeling betrayed; and to whom do you go home to share this with? A white man. But how can he understand? More than likely it was a white guy like him that signed off on it. So you have to convince yourself that he’s not like the rest. But as time goes by and you continue to deal with the racism on your job, and have to come home and seek consolement for your white man; after awhile he is going to get tired of it. He’s going to point out how “everything negative that happens at your job is not always racism”. Eventually he is going to resent you for it and see you as indicting him. And that is when things will really come to a head.

Bottomline is that clearly the author is a self-hating sellout—pardon the redundancy, and that she is trying to promote in order to feel better about herself and her choice—the more people that do it, the less likely she will feel some degree of shame. She failed at her relationships with Black man or men, and now she wants to paint all Black men with her broad brush, in other words, “simple people need simple answers.”

cultural assimilation

=DESTRUCTION OF AFRAKAN GENETICS AND CREATES A RACE A LEGION FOR WE ALL KNOW HALF BREEDS ARE ALWAYS USED BY ARABS AND EUROPEANS ND ASIANS AGAINST US AFRAKANS.

DONT MIX MY PEOPLE

BUTSAD THING ABOUT EVEN WHEN OUR WOMEN WERE RAPED MANY COMMITED SUACIDE OF KILLED THE HALF BREED BABY

AND EVEN THEN SHE LONGED FOR A DARK SKIN OR DARK BROWN BROTHA

I KEEP TELLIN YALL

OUR WOMEN AINT GOING NO WHERE

EVEN IF THEY FING KRAKKAZ FOR MONEY ITS JUST FOR THAT AND THATS DOWN RIGHT SAD WHICH MEANS THE MORE BROTHAS STEP UP THE MROE OUR WOMEN ARE SECURE AND DONT SUFFER AND THAT IS THE BOTTOM LINE AINTNO ONE PUSHING THE AFRAKAN WOMAN AWAY FROM THE AFRAKAN MAN WHATS SO EVER.

BOTTOM LINE ONE DAY THOSE WHO GET CAUGHT WALKING IN THE STREET WITH ANOTHER RACE OF PARTNER WILL BE ATTACKED JUST LIKE GAY BAHSING IN THE 90S

Wow, I am not sure dating a White man is the answer, unless he looks like Matthew Maconahay, LOL. I do not find White men appealing and have to say Brother trumps them all in my opinion, especially one that has it together. I will say this, my sista girl married a good old country boy from Oregon, his A@@ treated her worse then any brother she ever dated! I spend many hours counseling her and listening to the mess she went through. So Sistas you can go an a date a White man if you want to but you’ll be back….

DAREALRECKLESS
I AGREE MY BROTHA LET THE BAD AND DAMEGED GO TO OTHER RACES OF MEN WE DONT NEED THERE BAD BEHAVIORS AND BAD GENES.

napata-amanra

MY BROTHA U ARE RIGHT HER BDSM EUROPEAN MASTER,THESE FEMALES HAVE DAMEGED GENES THEY ARENT RIGHT IN THE HEAD SO FORGET THEM LET THEM GO,SHE IS PROABLY INTO PALE MEN S.H.I.T.T.I.N.G ON HER AS WELL ND EVEN VOMITTING.

LegendBlkOne

BROTHA EVEN IN ISREAL THEY ARE MAKING TO WHERE ETHIOPIAN JEWS CANT HAVE KIDS

THE ANSWER IS TO REJECT EVERYTHING EUROPEAN JUST LIKE THE CHINEEE DID AND ONLY TAKE FROM IT WHAT U CAN MAKE UR OWN THAT WORKS,EVERYTHING ELSE IS UNRECYABLE TRASH.

@SRSista.

Sometimes sistas cannot come back. There are not many Black men that will take a sista back after she went white. I know I wouldn’t.

Imma make somebody MAD when I do this….

REPOST!

Thank you rayskilla6..with much love and respect…Missstrings43
He said this:
SMH, my black people you all are falling for the media okie dok again. First let me say no I do not condone honor or believe in inter racial relationships. Now I am not going to attack anyone on here or anywhere else that is in an I.R.,(hell my cousin has a black and latino daughter, still non white though) but its my right to not agree with your choice. Love is blind true and can trump all things color, class, age, physical limitation, ect. But how many in I.R. can truly say that they never considered their partners color when first getting with them and then continuing to be with them(Be real with yourself)An let me say something to the brothers who have/are/or had dated white women, as well as the brothers who haven’t but are so angry at the sisters who do. We brothers do have to get ourselves together. The majority of you brothers that date white women, do it because the are quick to spend money on you, tend to be weak willed, because you have been subtly conditioned to find them more attractive than your beautiful sisters, or once in the realm of so-called elite social and economic circles you feel having a white woman is better than your African Queen’s. I’ve never met one brother who dated white women, that could sincerly say he chose this woman because of her heart and soul, and not because of her color. For the brothers on here who are going back and forth harshly debating this with the sisters on here. I understand brothers I too do take great offense when I see my sisters on the arms of these white men, but brothers I also take great offense when I see my brothers with white women on their arms, and when ever I get the chance I try to enlighten those brothers on why this is wrong. Sisters don’t get it twisted there are good brothers out there that match exactly up to what you are looking for, 1. you must be patient and ardent in your search 2. you must not let bad experiences with some brothers force you into seeking an alternative that is not even in your nature (this also applies to the majority of BW who are turning to lesbianism,that too is not the answer) Just because one or several brothers have broken your heart doesn’t mean that you give up on all brothers and go to a white man or to a woman. And my brothers same applies for you just because you have a bad experience or a few with sisters doesn’t mean you should go to white women or become a homosexual. That makes you weak, taking the easy way out, and also you missed out on the lesson and wisdom that person or persons brought to your life. People come into your life especially in relationships for a reason, if it doesn’t work the lesson and wisdom is now you know what you don’t want, it doesn’t mean give up on your own race and start dating outside, it doesn’t mean be a little more selective in what you want out of that brother or sister and be patient enough to find that right brother or sister that lives up to that! These types of articles are divide and conquor tactics, and it’s saddened me to see how on this forum my brothers and sisters have attacked one another with such anger and hatred (somewhere some racist white person is laughing their evil heart out seeing us carry on this way) My people we can disagree without all the derogatory name calling and that goes for both the brothers and sisters on here who’ve crossed the line(you know who you are) White people love when we go at each others throats like this, that’s why an article like this is always published, where as you’d have to really search to find an article telling white women or white men they should consider dating black people(if one even exists) Black people we are naturally strong willed and strong minded so why keep falling for this inane and illogical drivel, and I realize while on here debating some of you have felt personally attacked and came right became at your attacker with venom and anger. But no that just keeps the cycle of anger and misunderstanding going, be the bigger person and do not resort to name calling, it makes all our people look bad. Also It gives a clown like BostonLuverBoy the nerve to even chim in his opinion like it counts. And the reason I call him out his name and don’t respect him at all, is because I’ve seen him on numerous other forums, he always does the same thing, venomously attacks brothers and try to put us down. And while you think he is on your side sisters he is not, because i’ve read posts on other forums where he says some very derogatory things aimed at sisters as well. As some of the brothers suggested i think he on here trying to so-call side with the sisters just to get him some. And if you read all his posts, it will be apparent to anyone that he is just being an instrument of disorder and all of his post try to attack black-men, think about that. But enough of cornball wallace, his opinion doesn’t matter, this is an issue strictly concerning us, MY BEAUTIFUL BLACK PEOPLE! Brothers and Sisters our people are the original people, and our skin color is one of the many things that makes us so unique, we were designed from birth to be able to survive on this planet. Your color protects you from the harmful radiation from the sun, just think about that. We are meant to be with our own, and your soul mate is within your race, but you must be willing to be patient and seek them out and quit taking the easy way out. Let us quit letting white controlled media dictate to us what we should and shouldn’t do, and teach us self hatred. Like 2Pac say, “You Black Smile for me now” I love you all my BEAUTIFUL BLACK PEOPLE!!!! Please love yourselves and all our wonderful sisters and brothers

@MandingoX…I say the same about black males who date IR, but for some reason folks seem to think thats unreasonable.

@ Madingo_X…You said this…

@SRSista.

Sometimes sistas cannot come back. There are not many Black men that will take a sista back after she went white. I know I wouldn’t.

Now I am asking this question to anyone:
What would you think or feel if a black woman said that she would not take you back after you dated a white woman?

Me personally…I would look at how small and shallow your mind was. It definitely falls under the guidelines of ” Having your cake an EATING it too!”
What a hipocryte!
All of these years, I have watched black men put black woman down so badly and now that the tables are being turned, look at the attitudes in this forum. It hurts doesn’t it brothas? Well it hurt sistas’ too at one point and time. Some of us still hurt more than others. The other “some” don’t care anymore. I am that “some” one who simply does not care anymore.

I have decided to be patiently on my KING and to patiently protect and guard my heart just as the scriptures told me to do. It also told me not to throw my pearls amongst the swine.

Ladies it’s really pretty easy. Get intune with “YOU” first. That was my short coming when I angered so easily when I saw a white woman wrapped up with a white man in the past. It wasn’t her or him at all. It was “ME”. I had the issues within “ME”. I had to step back and search for that strong “ME” that needed me to love on her every being “FIRST”. That is what taught me that I was a QUEEN who was really ready for my King.

Slithering and toying with the RACE card is NOT the answer.
Some things that we TRY can BURN us ladies!
Take some “ME” time and get to really know who “YOU” are ladies.
If you are white bound, go for it….
But if your roots are calling you to remain “HOME”..do that too.

I wanna stay at home.

Strings43

typo:
Wrapped around a BLACK man…

@rayskilla

You need to reword that sentence and make SOME white women. Not all white women are easy or give up their $. I know plenty of my friends who are black and they are supporting their black husband or man as they bust their azz!

I say it like this do whats right for YOU! If a black woman wants to date a white man so be it, who are WE to judge SOMEONE else’s life? Don’t we have enough of our own life to worry about than what the next person dates. There is good and bad in all races and in all men and women! No one is perfect! I know for me i have had my good and bad moments with black men and white men!

I beleive one of the comments was about how her sister went and dated a white man and she had issues with him and she counsels her. Well hello it goes with white women dating black men too! It isn’t all peaches and cream on our end too! lol Just because you find one sour apple doesn’t mean they are all sour apples! You know! Dating in GENERAL isn’t easy and isn’t as fun as it used to be, folks all up in your biz worring about what you doing instead of attending to their own life, bettering themselves etc. I refuse to allow what other people do to be more important than trying to get ahead in this world.

WOW

IGNORANCE AND RACISM IS ALIVE IN THE BLACK COMMUNITY…

I submit, that those black folks who are against interracial relationships are indeed racists themselves. You people (yes, i said it) are as racist as when the KKK says the same thing as you do. That somehow IRR polutes the race. (I wouldn’t date a person who has dated white)

And to hear any sista or brotha fix their mouth to say some ignorant crap like (But how many in I.R. can truly say that they never considered their partners color when first getting with them and then continuing to be with them(Be real with yourself)

Or this (The majority of you brothers that date white women, do it because the are quick to spend money on you, tend to be weak willed, because you have been subtly conditioned to find them more attractive than your beautiful sisters, or once in the realm of so-called elite social and economic circles you feel having a white woman is better than your African Queen’s. I’ve never met one brother who dated white women, that could sincerly say he chose this woman because of her heart and soul, and not because of her color.)

Ignorance goes both ways. I could say that the reason soo many brothas date white is not because white women are easy, but because sistas are mean, nasty attitudes, and have chips on their shoulders and always acting like the world owes them something and we brothas are tired of putting up with their attitudes. And also because other races of women that date brothas don’t ! (Dont have unruly attitudes, chips on their shoulders, and are not nearly as materialistic, and are more sweet, loving, and understanding to their mate)

But again, the thing about stereotypes is, they don’t apply to everyone. Just a certain percentage of a group.

Take it frome me, a brotha who has dated probably every race on the planet. I don’t care if a woman is from mars ! I would never base my decision to date her on the color of her skin, or what country her ancestors came from. This is the ignorance we continue to perpetuate. I would base it on looks, personality, and how attracted to her I am. Color has nothing to do with that. I wouldn’t care if she was blue black or invisible !

Evolve black people !

I guess I’m still in the “Old Habits Never Change” category. I would always wonder if I were dating a WM what would his motives be? Would he be interested in me as a person, or just want to quinch his Jungle Fever? And the first time we had an agrument, would he call me a B.B.? Through my experiences, I haven’t meet many whites and nowadays many Black men or women that don’t have an agenda. Glad I ain’t looking for a mate. But to each their own. It’s your choice.

@ NAPATA
U CAN SHUT THE HELL UP CUZ WHAT IM MADE UP OF IS MY PARENTS DOING… LOVE MADE ME B***H , and how dare u talk about my child , go back to the f**kin cave ur black ass came out of , she is 3 and i b damned if i will allow stupid ass people like u tell her whats right and wrong when it comes to love and race.. UR ASS IS 35 YEARS OLD, F**KIN ACT LIKE IT YA BLACK BAT.
SO GET UR S**T TOGETHER B/C IGNORANCE DOESNT LOOK CUTE ON YA

More “Propaganda”,same stuff that broke up the “Black Panther Party”…The MAN aka:”The Power’s That Be”…Why the all of a sudden push,to get Black women away from Black men.If they,including this site…spent as much time trying to UNITE us as they do to pull us apart?Imagine how beautiful black love would once again be!…Not quite the same as before the first Ship’s,arrived at the “Mother Land”,but it would be a definite good start.Another thing I keep seeing Praise & Accolades,for the amount of Black men Incarcerated and/or without a proper education!…Who’s to say that so-called dream brotha won’t get his “Higher Learning” and not even look in a sista’s direction.Not saying that to deter you(Black women)away from a strong successful Black man.But don’t pass up the “Blue Collar” Garbage,Police,Fire,Landscape…Men etc;etc; That just might be your “Prince/Night In Shining Armour”…White men have been with Black women all to long…I don’t think I need to explain(MASSA)what I mean by that!..Let’s take a stand Black Man,me included.I remember as a young boy how much I loved my mom,a strong black woman.I didn’t want to see any one hurt her and I’d do anything to protect her.That’s the love and security we as Black men should have for our (Blk)woman/lover.Yah’I've had bad experiences with blk women,but I won’t stop at a few bad apples.We all no it’s not gonna happen on the first try.Don’t be so quick to turn your back.

I LOVE BEING A MIXED YOUNG WOMEN. point blank , my mother is white and black, my father is black and i also have some creole in my family but its funny how some people on here can call me all kinds of things b/c of what im made of … well if love wasnt a factor my mixed ass wouldnt be here but I am thankful and greatful to have life and for me to be able to give life. my child is of a mixed race as well and u cant call ur self a human being by bad mouthing a 3 year old.. no how does that make u look as a person?? its sad but im so glad that im teaching my child to love all kinds of people, b/c this world is full of s**t

The white man used to just take a black woman’s virtue during slavery. Now this a*****e writes a book eluding that some how being with a white man would some how be a solution. First, our freedom, then our culture, soon our music and slang, now our women. Back up or get smacked up with that bulls**t.

jwright5: regarding your post at 3:09 pm: ROTFLMAO.

It’s so easy for people to attack another person’s color and use history to attack our choices. Frankly, the White Master/black Slave argument is wearing thin…obviously, there are people who want to try something new for the sake of curiousity, but there are also those who genuinely appreciate and celebrate black women or whatever culture it is of the person they are dating.

In the grand scheme of things, what does my dating anyone have to do with you and your life?

SWEET_HONI.. I dont detect an attitude do I? (lol).. Calm down CANADIAN. Im sure he is still a 419er like I said (lol).. Just check your bank acct. NEXTTTTTTTT!!!

Azrael3
i was lmfao after i read what i put. i was just typing cuz that s**t that thing wrote about my child pissed me the hell off, but yes u r right … no one has the right to tell someone who they can b with

someone has accessed my account and is posting here in my name. i have reported this stupid idiot to BP. whomever you are if you want to argue with someone here dont hack someone elses account to do it. you know who you are KLR5000 and i have reported you. sweet honi what was said here was not by me. this pisses me off

jwright5…yah, it’s totally ridiculous. Kids are off limits. Once you start attacking children, it shows how much of a low-level monkey f uck you are.

@ Berry_Rn
Am guessing you came with a different account anways no honey he has his own job… he aint NO gold digger anyways you’r nobody to me to explain to you ma man’s life… but yeah i figured you will not have an answer to ma question…. am not trying to act like Canada is better then any country am just telling it like i see it the state has more racism then canada… specially when it comes to the black and white community…anyways i wish all of you IGNORED people (black, white, asian, idian or any other race) the best.

SWEET_HONI:

You mentioned that the States have more racism than Canada….In what part of Canada do you live and how long have you lived there? I’m very curious to know because because I have a lot of relatives who live in Canada and they always seem to say the opposite (despite the fact that many of them are mostly caucasian or Native American/Canadian and have the phenotypes of these groups). They live throughout Canada, mainly in the provinces of Ontario, Manitoba, BC…

@ Azrael3
I mentioned in ma second post Toronto… do forgive me for not mentioning it in ma last post… i did mean toronto and not all of canada (my mistake)… ur relatives are right there are rascim in canada 2 but not as much as the state… i also have friends that still live in the state and used to live in the state… the once that moved to canada told me the things they experience in the state is so much worst then what they experience in canada… i believe there are racism all over the world, if it was skin color, religion or culture…

@ sweethoni or whatever you call yourself. i dont get into spats here with anyone its not worth it. and no sweetie i did not come under another account. but you are welcome to believe what you want. i could care less if you date the devil thats between you and him. just keep me out of you and klr mess. and thats all im going to say on that. she has been reported and i will report you as well if need be.

i meant BerryRn. sorry

@ KLR5000…
lol ur not making any sense right about now… you’r coming at me with the page name KLR and telling me that a so called KLR has been reported by you and i should keep you out of ma mess and KLR…lol (whatever)
by the way i can care less if you wanna report me… anyways am not here to argue with you or anyone…

SweetHoni: Okay, got it. I believe you said that you are arabic and you’ve dated black men. It may not be as bad for you, especially since you live in a metropolis like Toronto, where it is a cultural melting pot.

I never understood why black women didnt/dont choose to date white men and/or not just white men but men of different races. Black men arent the only men to date.

As a black woman I never limited myself to only black guys. I love italian irish polish and russina men.

Once again, this confirms what I’ve known for a long time, I’m sad to say. If brothas can do it, sistas can do it, too. Why should they be alone? It bothers me to admit it because it says much about black men, but brothas do it all the time.

I had a brotha actually tell me he was done with sistas (after getting a divorce from one). His comment inspired me to write a story called “Sellout” (at http://www.pantheoncollective.com/?page_id=29).

At the same time, part of me doesn’t like it, because it implies to me the sista gave up on black men (which may not be the case at all). I hear my favorite actress Sanaa Lathan is dating a white man, now.

I see nothing wrong with it my self. I will just add if you want to destroy a race -then go to their women. The Willie Lynch letter said yrs ago -humiliate and destroy the black man in front of his family -and his woman will learn not to depend on him. Then she will be eating out of the master’s hand.
Well -we ourselves have done a disservice to our women as well. By not being there strong, giving them the respect they deserve.
Black people who have giving the world -civilization and built kingdoms -why we have such a disrespect for our race and our women is beyond me.
Don’t get me wrong -who you fall in love with -is who you fall in love with.
But it seems to me -that there has been a lot of attention put on the fact that black women can’t find available black men.
So they look to white men and i say why white men -why not Cuban brothers -Puerto Rican brothers -Jamaican brothers…etc..
Nearly all of the Anglo-Saxons played a part in slavery -i know it was a long time ago -but it still goes on mentally.
To each it own -the black men does the same thing when they get educated or get a little money. The black queen is no longer who they desire.
That strong black race from which we came out of is lost forever!!
So -love the one you’re with!!

BTW – I love black women -that white skin is not going to hold up well in their old age. Black women are naturally beautiful -it’s god giving!!

If a black woman finds a white man with family qualities, and respects her as a human being, I would say, “Go for it.” Life is too short and we all are social creatures. Why should a black woman or any woman of any race be alone if she finds an interesting man of another race? At the same time, I think a lot of black women might be jumping ship for all the wrong reasons. If a black woman dates a white man because she cannot find a good black man, what happens to her relationship when she finds a good, black man? Would it be right to date a white man for revenge against the black man? Black men do it, so I guess I should do it too kind of attitude might not be healthy. In addition, one of the major setbacks to interracial dating is this, “Who do you talk to when it comes to black issues?” I guess you can go to the gym, and punch the punching bag. Lol

All I can say is, I love my italian stallion.he’s the best thing that eva happened to me. I’ve never experienced such love and respect. But then again, I’ve been saying for ten yeafs that I don’t do nothing black unless it’s got a label on it, AND I MEAN IT.

The same reasons why these black women are dating white men are the same reasons u negro males do. So if some of you wonder why instead of white men these women aren’t going after cubans or jamaicans we could ask the same damn question to you negro men. You state nearly all anglo saxons played a role in slavery well that goes for the white b/itches that you black men date as well. Can’t despise black women seeking men of another race that treat them better but then it can be acceptable and okay for you males. If it’s wrong for those black women then it’s wrong for you brothas too!

To the Author;
Nope!!!!!I’m not dating anything but Black, Jamaican or African men!!!!!YOU DATE them!…Oh, YOU PROBABLY ARE! IS THAT WHY YOU ARE TRYING TO PROMOTE INTERACIAL DATING????????!!!!

Black kings-

Brave
Loving
Always
Competent
Kings

Keen
Invitingly
Naturally
Gorgeous

I’m thankful for men like Cltdale

To you black women who date white men;
First off, I want to say is whatever turns you on. But,when do you determine that moment right before he look at you the same way that his ancestors did, and hate you for the color of your skin? Black women slaves were both desired and hated all at the same time. They were treated as animals but, yet were raped and beaten. Another human never will know the deepest thoughts of every dark corner of another human being. Every man is capable of desiring a woman for his lusting purposes by thinking with the one-eyed head. But, the average black man is not gonna roll off of you, then despise you because you are black. So, how do you determine if
he’s with you out of a challenge, lust (for having somehing different) or out of revenge for the black man and thinking of you as just another nig…

Yep I am sure all those racist white tea party white men are getting inline to marry black women.White men and black women have always had a relationship based on sexual violence.All the stereotypes about black women were made my white men to cover his brutal sadist and sexual violent against black women.But yes the white man has change so black women should seek out the all mighty white man for her loving soul mate.

i see nothing wrong with it. i know several black men who date almost exclusively “others” – white, latino, asian, etc. I think more black women should do the same and not just limit ourselves to one race. Unfortunately, I personally have never been attracted to a white man, except a few who are stars/atheletes, so it just hasn’t been possible for me. But i say to any sista who is attracted to a white man to go for it!!

Eh… I’ve tried the white guy thing a couple times since I DO live in Arizona. But, I definitely didn’t like it. There’s just something about chocolate skin and black babies with nappy hair! I love me some black men! BUT… if yall keep acting up, I MIGHT have to try it out again. Just a fair warning!

Black women really should try and keep their options open. I seriously doubt at this point that there is a black man for every single black woman in this country. There’s just too many odds stacked against them. Its no secret for example that many brothers are dating, partnering and marrying outside their race and loving it. Many of our brothers are locked away in the system never to be free again. Then there are some brothers who are also looking for good black men. A lot of brothers may already be in committed relationships. This means that there are a lot of brothers who are simply not eligible bachelors. Next black women are earning higher degrees at a rate exponentially higher to that of black males. And as a result of this of course, black women are ‘flying’ up the corporate ladder in their respective fields. This means that if you’re looking for a partner who’s also your equal, this narrows the selective criteria even further. Or vice versa, brothers who are successful may have very very high standards for whom they would call potential mates. Then, unfortunately, every race of man has its share of losers to contend with as well. Everyone has their own idea of what a loser is, so need to elaborate. Point is there is always the chance you might find yourself a loser amongst this shallow pool or any pool for that matter. Word of advice: if experimenting outside your race is not your thing, think Africa. Africa has abundant doctors, lawyers, religious leaders, politicians, royalty, etc. I know that many of them would love to find themselves an adoring Black American wife. Black ladies, ‘Coming to America’ is NOT completely incredible and unjustified.

Nish83: You suggested that black women try men from other races and culture, not just white men. I could not agree with you more and I think the author should have touched on this. I dated quite a few Latin, Asian and semitic men and found them to be very caring and generous.

Also, because they are people of color, they can often relate to racism or dealing with stereotypes–and not just from whites, but from other races as well. Admittedly, many of asian groups are still very traditional and will marry their own kind. This is especially true if they come from a country with strong traditional customs or if they have not had exposure to people of african descent.

Still, there are quite a few who are open-minded and it’s not just to satisfy their curiousity about black women because that is not the general misconception that they have about us (vis-a-vis white men). They are a bit shyer, but if you show them that you are interested and are receptive to being approached, they will come around. I dated my boyfriend (who was from Andra Pradesh, India) for a year and a half. We had a great relationship, and remained friends even after we broke up.

I also want to mention that it has become more common for people to meet their partners on the job or in college because so much time is spent in these environments. Unfortunately, there are not many single black men at the company for which I work; therefore, it is only natural that if I am interacting with non-black men on a regular basis, the chances of me dating one will be higher. Just a thought…

Hellokitty111
2-26-2010 1:45 pm

@rayskilla
You need to reword that sentence and make SOME white women. Not all white women are easy or give up their $. I know plenty of my friends who are black and they are supporting their black husband or man as they bust their azz!

With respect no I do not need to reword my sentence, in my experience every I mean EVERY brother I’ve KNOWN that has dated a white woman, that white woman gave him money and was very weak willed compared to a sister. Black male rich elite who date and marry white women I don’t know so I can comment but every regular brother thats done it, that white chick was breaking bread and getting up and sitting down when ever they told them too. However I tried to school each of these brothers when ever I could that this is wrong and a poor excuse to date these women, or to think they are better than our beautiful sisters

Hellokitty111
2-26-2010 1:45 pm

I say it like this do whats right for YOU! If a black woman wants to date a white man so be it, who are WE to judge SOMEONE else’s life? Don’t we have enough of our own life to worry about than what the next person dates. There is good and bad in all races and in all men and women! No one is perfect! I know for me i have had my good and bad moments with black men and white men!

I beleive one of the comments was about how her sister went and dated a white man and she had issues with him and she counsels her. Well hello it goes with white women dating black men too! It isn’t all peaches and cream on our end too! lol Just because you find one sour apple doesn’t mean they are all sour apples! You know! Dating in GENERAL isn’t easy and isn’t as fun as it used to be, folks all up in your biz worring about what you doing instead of attending to their own life, bettering themselves etc. I refuse to allow what other people do to be more important than trying to get ahead in this world.

Once again I respond with no disrespect intended! No we don’t have the right to judge, that is The Most High’s right and The Most High alone. We do have a right to protect our culture, race and community, and have a right to share and discuss our opinions about the interbreeding of our race!

Well hello it goes with white women dating black men too! It isn’t all peaches and cream on our end too! lol

Ok, let me honestly ask you, and please be honest with your self when you contemplate this question, why did you date that black man or men, in the first place, what was it that drew you to him? Was it physical attraction? Do you feel you some how identify with Black People? You said you’ve dated white and black men, when things didn’t work out, did you have a negative feeling toward men in general, how did you feel about other white men, after it didn’t work with a white man you dated? Is that what made you try a black man? Or did you date a black man first and things didn’t work out so you dated white again? like I say not trying to offend just asking questions because I would like to know and also to make you think and analyze your own motivations. Also (an please know Im not attacking your family) I’ve checked your page and see that you have interracial kids, is the father in their life? If he is not in their life or is somehow incapable of passing on to them proper knowledge of their race, culture, and heritage, from the beginnings of this world to present, do you think you will be able to? Have you, would you will you seek help from other African descent people to help you properly instill in them their natural love and pride for themselves and our people? Also I agree with that dating in general is very hard, but also pose this thought to ponder for you. It is hard to find someone that is compatible with you on an emotional, sexual, financial, and moral level. Does not adding the factors of difference of race and culture make it damn near impossible? Why add problems, yes all people should use more patience and discretion when choosing a mate, but I do firmly believe staying within one’s own race eliminates so many unnecessary problems and differences.

And just to make another point, I’ve never been a brother who was attracted to or ever dated a white woman, but what is funny and something I always kept in the back of my mind if I were to ever one day even give the notion the slightest consideration, all those brothers I mentioned I knew that dated white women, who gave them money ect. every one of them either: at one point because she got too comfortable with him or was angry at him called the brother a n****r, he whups her ass, and lands his dumb ass in jail: or for whatever reason she gets mad at him or what ever and calls the police on him, and his dumb ass goes to jail(and yes from what I’ve seen the police always take a white woman’s word over a brother’s everytime)Plain and simple I think no brother should date or be with a white woman, and no sister should date be with a white man, period!!!!!

jwright5, NAPATA, and any other brother and sister disrespecting and calling one another out of their name, in regards to this subject, PLEASE STOP IT!!!!!!!!!!! STOP IT!!!!!!!! Do you not see that it is keeping the cycle of negativity going, and somewhere the white people that sanctioned this article to see print are laughing their ass off on a job well done! My beautiful intelligent Black People, we can disagree with out tearing each other down, and attacking one another personally. The main thing this subject should elicit from each and every one of you is a greater love and appreciation for yourselves and our Black People as a whole. We must come together, instead of keep finding ways to keep ourselves divided and apart. MY PEOPLE STOP TEARING EACH OTHER DOWN, AND STOP REPAYING IGNORANCE WITH IGNORANCE

mmmm…that’s kinda a one sided statement because according to statistics, there is an increase in black women are dating and marrying other races…unless you just mean exclusively to white men? why is it articles like this always drives a wedge between black men and black women? i mean date whoever you want to date…but i think a lot of people are reluctant to go outside of their race and date and marry because a white guy, although i love him can never know what it is like being black in america…so he wouldn’t understand my gripes, fears, and frustrations…vice versa for the black man that steps outside of his race…it’s not a tired old cliche it’s just the truth…it’s not you don’t like the other race…it’s just socially and politically you would have very little in common…

THEY ALREADY BEEN GETTING A CHANCE,THAT’S WHY THEY HOLDING EVEN IF KILLING FOR IT TO BE HEAD ONCHO OF JOBS,MUSIC INDUSTRIES,MOVIE ALSO SPORTS AND GOVERNMENT SYSTEM,DOING ALL THAT THEY SUPPOSE BE DOING BETTER,BUT REALLY WHITE FOLKS MARRYING BLACK FOLKS IS THEIR SMARTEST THING THEY THOUGHT FOR THEIR KIDS IF ANY,PLUS BLACK HAS MORE VITAMIN JUICES AND ELECTROLITES IN THEIR BODIES,HOW YOU THINK BLK HAIR GET SO COILLY AND CURLY

This post will never die
raykilla6 adviced me to take anotherlook
wherever i left off we are still hating each other i feel ashamed at my behavior as well. Peace be with all you choose who you want but know what you are.

@vasco5

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‘black has more vitamin juices and electrolytes in their bodies, how you think black hair get so coilly and curly’ what? i don’t get it? how do you mean? vitamins don’t cause your hair to be curly… ?

ray
its one thing to voice ur opinion but when u talk about my child JUST b/c she is of a mixed race ,nah u get what u get POINT BLANK … so u can keep that over there

bottom line

half breeds weaken any race that helps to produce them and they weigh the race that takes them on as equals down,half breeds are nothing more then products of rape and parents who are mentally ill.

i sya let all the afrakan women who wanna leave leave for they can go and spread there bad behaviors,mentall illnesses,diseases,bad choices and most of all weak bad genes,hopfully this will way the other races down.

please no one will take afrakan women but for sexx slaves just like in anceint times

the arabs did it
the asians did it
the europeans did it

know one wants afrakan women except just for sex but some of u bdsm loving afrakan women love race play and being made to be a slave to other races of men

but to stay on topic i feel we need to make a campaign that says the ill faded members of our race with bad genes,bad behaviors,criminal tendices,retardation etc should be shipped off and banned from any further contact with the rest of us.

also half breeds should be beat up on the play ground

half breeds re infeiior to us afrakans

barrack obama is a good example

the man has no guts
just takes orders

half breeds by virtue of there mixed gentics are on avrege weak

ever notice why the best fighters are brown and dark skin men?

why we are more intimiadating

why half breed niccas know there place around us? huh

i say let trash be trash be trash

because the real afrakan women will keep sexing,sucking,loving respecting fight with and for the love of us brothas and i know for a fact

as a proud afrakan amerikan man

i will never leve nor disrespect the afrakan woman

and i have never slept with nyother race but my own

halla if ya hear me

Someone should have skinned Shango24′s mother for giving birth to him.

Umm did Shang24 say that half breeds should be beat up on the playground? hotdamn! LMAO….

I don’t understand why it’s gotta be “Give White Guys A Try” i mean why can’t black women give Latinos a try r Asians a try maybe black women don’t have to step outside of race and just step outside of America. I mean, black men just don’t exist in America. Get ur groove back the Caribbean or something.

Shang24, WTH??? Were you smoking dope before you posted this? Seriously. Darker men are stronger, maybe so, but I guess you’ve never been to Fiji, Samoa, Russia or The Netherlands. I suppose you’ve never seen a Native American man either. Now those people are huge and strong and of a slighty lighter persuasion. You need to explore the world. And as a Black Woman, i’ll stick to exploring men of “all” persuasions.

Realistically, Black Women do need to date men outside of our race. If a man is good to me and loves me for being just who I am, his color is irrelavant. When you set yourself up with the “I gotta have a Black Man and only a Black Man” mentality you lose out. There are great people of all races on this earth not just the ones who share your racial background.

My number 1 requirement is, ‘Be a Male a/k/a 1 hanging/2 wanging,’ Race? Black and/or Black Mixed With? Must have SOME Brother in him! Not Addicted to Narcotics, then from there? It’s all depends because what I’ve been meeting lately is men, who likes to smoke newport’s can’t by them based on Not Having an ID to purchase any, nor the $Money$ either, so I back up quickly because if it’s like that for the brother? I’m sure his situation is prone to be much worst the more I’m close enough to breathe the same air Mr. Man does! So being single with a peace of mind is not so bad, instead of having a man in your life who could lead you to the gates of HELL!

@blknall
Good point, and that’s why I’m saying that these people are not trying to show they’re “open minded”, by dating whites, they’re trying to send a RACIAL message to black men! That’s the worst reason to go dating outside your race, just to prove to black men that you can get other men? Stupid and childish. You can see this kind of mentality by the posters who write “black men have been doing it forever!” Idiots. I support whatever love people want to make, with animals, homo or outside the race, whatever gets YOU OFF! But dating with a defective, close-minded” mentality is just childish and shows they are twisted individuals. I have a suggestion to these angry black women who use this as their hidden agenda, “WHY DON’T YOU TRY GOOD BLACK MEN?” or better yet, “why don’t you get the sticks out of your arses and try to be a nice person to a black first, before you rule out ALL GOOD BLACK MEN?” The only people successful in crossing over to other groups tend to be who are genuinely open, and pleasant people. These people with agendas are only acting, and I hate that kind of dating. They are acting nice, they are acting smart, they’re acting like they like the finest things in life, ONLY after they get with a white man. It’s like they become someone else after dating whites, which the psychosis tells them it’s because whites are better. The reality, however is these women get defensive, like mean dogs, barking at the sight of another dog, with that other dog being a black man. These chicks are mentally screwed, at just the thought of black men. I dated a few of these black chicks, and work with a hundred more of them. All actresses.

I believe anyone of any race should be able to fall in love/marry anyone of any race.. without the threat of opinion- of what some call being unloyal to one’s own race> ..is to be in love with or marry outside of ones race.

Love has no COLOR.. REAL Love is the only force on earth that changes everything it touches for the better.

As I’ve always stated..Blackmen as any men are visual creatures first.. and view women as beautiful attractions regardless of race.. many black women can’t even fathom the ideal of dating outside the race.. when other women of other races do.. blackmen has always dated outside the race.. regardless of what blackwomen say as to the reason which is insidious IMO..

I have never agreed too or thought the ideal of marrying a woman similar to ones mother is cool..the clash between both women ..the wife and her mother-in-law is historic in nature.. and so women in general who have sons need to get over it..

My ideal woman as my (marriage) spouse is not my mother.. for me this would be incest. No woman can replace or be like my mother..I have ONE mother and that is what she will remain as “my mother”.. .my wife is my wife as a good GIFT given to me as a man.. and to my mother I’m her SON..not her husband.

gapeaches26

you are a half breed you hve no say so in this matter and like i told the other half breeds if u dont like then go to http://www.mulatto.org where mixed breeds are pro mixed

the biggest most strongest men on the planet are afrakans

i myself am packing 9 inch something and a half p***s that is avrege for a brotha,when thee are brother 7,2 walking around in afraka with musscles that dont even come by weights but genetics.

please dont mnetion those filthy native americans who couldnt even hold down there own land so in there case,next.

russian men like fedor who is a strong european in mixed martial arts although bigger then anderson the spider silva who is an afrakan brother from brazil will wipe the floor with him with his supeior afrakan skill.

but since we are speaking on size

since when did size when fights or wars? or contribute to good sex or protection skills?

whens the last time u seen a samoan beat an afrakan on the world stage?

never!

even in the hood big o smoans ive seen get knocked out by brothas my size you pampus half breed!

fiji u mean the island that was started by us afrakans and then over time became an island of ur kind half breeds,are you krazy

by far afrakan men and women are thee most surpeior phsycial specimen on the entire planet lol i scoff at you for ur beligerance and ignorance and not knowing ur place,you witch you are mixeddddddddddddddddddddddd

a product of mentally ill parents ,bottom line.

this b.y.t.c.h brought up native americans lmafooooooooo and some big o fat pork eating samoans who by the way are loosing there island each year to the ocean because of global warming.

right now as i speak my next door neighbors son is 13 and already 6,4 250 and he is jet black as night and u have the nerve to bring up russians lol this is not the movie rocky this is real life.

mind you the tallest people are in sudan afraka and there genes are in many of thoe niccas u see in the NBA lol where r u samoans? ur russians? where are they

u dumb half breeded zebra note this is why half breeded or one of the reasons of why u things are infeior and stop using the word black my dad is black literally in color and u r far from black!!!!!!!!

half breeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeed!!!!!!!!!

so speak for mixed breeds because u are not an afrakan

u yellow half breeded mutttttttttttttttttt

ur comment holds no weight what so ever and time and time again afrakakns world wide have proven no race of man on equal fair footing can compete witht he afrakan man no mater how big or small,we once ruled the entire world and furnished it with knowledge!!!!!!!!!!!!

this half breed brought up the half breeded samoans lol

good one

mulatto.org for half breeds

gapeaches26

also not to mention the biggest p***s ever recorded was on an afrakan man

and the afrakan woman cleary has the biggest butt and thighs that r delicousy shapely.

also afrakan women dont need to date outside of our race ebcause our race spans all over the four corners of the globe half breed!!!!!!!

if an afrakan amerikan woman doenst want to date afrakan amerikan brothers great fine for she can go to the islands or afrakan or check out the brothers up north in canada or europe or parts of the so called middle east

as long as its an afrakan brotha im koo

i personaly sex and date afrakan women from comptoon to nigeria to the islands back to europe to sudan lamfo and they all aapart of my race.

you i.d.i.o.t

the afrakan race is huge and the vareity of dark skin and brown skin afrakans is enough to keep every afrakan happpy,so get real u half breeded witch my women aint going no where.

matter a fact i know of a sister who dates exclusivly continental afrakan men and good for her because at least she is keeping it in the race.

also to you i.d.i.o.ts talken about color

we aint talken about no got damm color we are talken about genetics

phenotype facial features blood

i.d.i.o.ts who think its about color u must be watching a skin cacner commerical

dum

f.u.ks

@rayskilla-
Well we are going to butt heads with the ALL white women thing…..i’ve had my share of bad black men but i don’t put ALL black men in that category or pot. Everyone is their own individual and everyone deals with things differently in life. Again for every 1 white woman you so called hear about there is 1 black woman or another woman of another race who does the same thing. Trust me i know, cause they my girls! I hear and see about the shyt they go through and stuff they experience, BUT i don’t assume ALL black men are the same. Yes they your friends, but i know your friends don’t add up to all the black men and white women in this world to say ALL.

In regards to your other response. No one has the right to judge, white or black or any other race. There is too much hurt and pain going on in this world, damn too many earthquakes happening and people dying to be worried about what the people next to me are doing. I mean my focus in life is to better myself, finish my school and raise my children to be good human beings and make sure they go down the right path in life. You say:
We do have a right to protect our culture, race and community, and have a right to share and discuss our opinions about the interbreeding of our race!
And you know what I’m fine with that and that doesn’t bother me one bit. I’m not here to promote interracial dating, i’m not standing on the side of the street holding a sign that says’ “interracial love is great, try it sometime” lol if it works for one great, if it’s not their cup of tea, i’m great with that too. The majority of my black friends don’t interracial date and it doesn’t bother me one bit, that’s their life and how they feel, where is it my place to judge them for not…..all i am saying DON”T judge me for my preference. We are more worried about our friendship rather than who i date or who they date….and yes we there for one another. My friendships are not based on the fact that they are black….they are based on that they are good people. When you say be honest with myself, why wouldnt i be honest with myself and why would it concern you or why wouldn’t you think that i am not being honest with myself when i choose to date a black man. You should already know a person will go after someone whom they are attracted to, whether they are attracted to their personality or their looks. I’m sure you’ve been attracted to a black woman without even meeting them…. well surprise it ain’t any different. Im attracted to a man for various reasons. What drew me to a black man? lol well it wasn’t cause he is “black” and i was curious, it was the person i met whom i had a connection with on a intellectual level, conversation was great and we clicked. I won’t lie back in 91, way before my kids, yeah white men were harder to approach because yes they like blonde barbies type of women, i was thicker in some areas and i had boobs (well still do lol), does that make me a reject of white men, hell no, i’m probably not their type and thats fine! I still was approached by white men but not by the white men i wanted lol As far as my kids, yes they know their history regardless if it’s told by their fathers, have they talked to them about it, i don’t know, but i know it’s my duty as a mother to educate them and i will do the best that i can. They have asked questions and i have answered them the best that i possibly can. I know i can’t rely on the school system to educate them the right way when it comes black history because from what i can remember from school it was always the positive stuff. Not that they shouldn’t know about slavery and the history behind it.
As far as IR dating adding more problems to dating, if two people unconditionally love one another then anything is possible, even two white people’s relationship isn’t easy, same with two black people. Relationships aren’t easy period, dating isn’t easy. Every relationship HAS problems, its how you handle it. If a couple can overcome the racial barriers then they can deal with the money, emotional and physical.
As far as your friends situation, that happens with same race relationships too. I’ve seen it myself first hand. But, you can’t just assume that there will always be problems like that due to IR dating. Well i hope that clears some answers for you. I’m all for love, black love, white love, interracial love and shyt sometimes gay love lol Go with what makes ONE happy!

LMAO @ SHANGO24!! You have a very direct and in your face approach( sorta like myself) which makes some people want to say your OFF THE WALL. But the REALITY is that alot of what ur saying actually has some TRUTH to it.

gapeaches26 i totally agree with you…I’m all for interracial dating…I’ve dated outside my race a few times and I will do it again..

I HAVE NEVER EVER DATED OUT SIDE OF MY RACE… I JUST LOVE THE BLACK KINGS ONLY… SO THE QUESTION THAT I AM ASKING BLACK KINGS AND BLACK QUEENS… WHO HAVE DATED THE WHITE RACE… TELL ME HOW DO YOU PUT UP WITH THAT SMELL? I MEAN THEY DON’T SMELL LIKE US…

Ya no self respectin black women gonna be hittin up da white trash. All women round the world want us black men fo one reason: cuz we got da biggest DIKS! That right girls, you know that make ya tremble in ya knees when ya see a black man. Its all about the DIKS! and we got em!

do it

just a thought…
certain people are saying things that could be construed as a ‘threat’ so if it’s meant to be a joke…IT’S NOT FUNNY!!! anything dealing with guns and ‘mass suicide’ and ‘die die die’ and what not..some people may not take that as a joke…and if your serious…yeah i agree maybe some psychiatric help is needed…fast…just be mindful of what you say

@black queen
wow….interesting last time i checked i don’t have a odor. lol but hey by the looks of that room it looks like it smells.

shango

for all the knowledge you kick its kinda remarkable you didnt learn how to spell better.

EVERYDAY IT’S SOMETHING NEW WRONG WITH US BUT THEY NEVER DO WRONG I FEEL SAD FOR THE PEOPLE THAT BUY INTO THIS MADNESS THERES NO COMPARISON WHO WOULD GO AS FAR TO SAY THERE IS

@Shango24, WOW! I had no idea I was a half-breed. The last time I checked both of my parents were Black. You don’t necessarily have to have dark-skin to be of African decent. Look at the Egyptians, Ethiopians and Morracans. They’re not dark and they are from Africa.And, I could safely say that close to 70% of the “Black” race is mixed with something if they grew up in the United States. Massa raping the slave girl producing mixed off-spring, Black men and women marrying and co-mingling with the Native Americans to produce mixed off-spring just to name a few.

Also, you don’t have to insult me. Like, wow, you really are mature. Fine if you prefer Black Women, good for you, that’s your choice. Don’t knock me for the decisions I make with my life or put everyone into your little box of thoughts and ideas.

black ppl get charge up by the sun wich make nueral cell stronger and melanin or carbon for the body the absorb electrolites and produce vitamin E or mineral,the same reason trees chlorophyll get stronger that helps make blk hair coilly or curly,white ppl dating blk is a plus for them if kids involve,that’s why they have sciencetist up to this day still try to put genetic frog cells into capsule from rainforest bc the frog turn jet blak when its touch by the sun,plus white been getting chance even if they have to kill for it that’s why they should’ve been doing better holding on to the top notch jods,music indus,movies,sports school,coledge,government, and weapon of mass ditruction.

you meant to say the egyptian,ethiopian and morrocians today or not populated anymore with mostly dark skin ppl

They are acting nice, they are acting smart, they’re acting like they like the finest things in life, ONLY after they get with a white woman. It’s like they become someone else after dating whites, which the psychosis tells them it’s because whites are better. The reality, however is these men get defensive, like mean dogs, barking at the sight of another dog, with that other dog being a white/spanish man. These negros are mentally screwed, at just the thought of white men. I dated a few of these black men, and work with a hundred more of them. All actors.

jwright5
2-27-2010 2:18 pm

ray
its one thing to voice ur opinion but when u talk about my child JUST b/c she is of a mixed race ,nah u get what u get POINT BLANK … so u can keep that over there

I understand Sister, and that brother is definitely wrong for even mentioning your child and I understand about the defense of your family, because anyone who threatens or disrespect my blood, is going to be leaking some of theirs. But honestly Sister before the brother ever said anything about your child you both were attacking each other. I can tell you are an intelligent young sister, so I’m just saying be the bigger person and disagree without disrespecting one another. Whether you believe so or not racism is still alive and articles such as these are put out be racists people who’s goal is to call disharmony in the Black community. I’m just simply saying don’t fall for the trap

Why does it always have to be a white guy? I mean there are races in this society besides blacks and whites! What about hispanics, or asians, or any other ethnicity?I mean white people make up 75% of the U.S., why give back to the majority? Don’t get me wrong, i find a lot of white females very attractive, but i’m not going to run to a white woman every time a black woman turns me off!I mean like i said there are other races besides black and white, keep it real!

“Hellokitty111 I DON’T KNOW WHY YOU GOT UPSET SWEETHEART… BECAUSE YOU KNOW WHAT I SAID WAS TRUE… AND THE TRUTH SETS US FREE… YOU ARE SO LAME SWEETHEART…”

@Shango24, I will not take anymore of your comments seriously until you learn how to form grammatically coherent sentences and learn how to spell. Till then, have a nice life, which you probably aren’t because you seem angry as hell. You are probably one of those men who likes to spew all of this knowledge yet live at home with your parents, off some woman, from pillar to post or anywhere that the wind may blow you. You probably don’t have a job, car or a High School Diploma for that matter. You probably think of yourself as highly intelligent as you sit and read one of your books as you ride the city bus with your life belonging’s in your back pack headed to the urban inner city where you sell bean pies, incense or some black political magazine to passerby’s who pay you no attention which pisses you off. You see the successful young white, black and hispanic men walking by in their nice business suits, shoes and ties and it makes you mad as hell because in your warped little mind the “man” has held your triffling, sorry ass down which is the reason why you have not amounted to much in your life.

You know what? You are pathetic. Pretty much everything you said pertained to sex or a person’s physical being. You are the true idiot and I feel sorry for you. People consist of so much more than their p***s, thighs, butts, hips and skin tone. But an idiot would not know that.

You can’t even carry on a debate or discussion without lashing out to insult someone. Are you that insecure? Maybe you need to seek professional help to get a hold on those psychological issues that you appear to have. You are by no means any type of African King. You are just an African Idiot with your ignorant ass. It’s people like you who hold the race back. Always talking about unity but finding ways to segregate us from each other i.e., your comment about me going to some Mulatto site because i’m “yella”. What’s wrong with being a light-skinned black person, huh? I will not and refuse to feel bad about myself because of the color of my skin. Sorry.

Non-spelling ass can’t even put an acronym together the correct way. It’s LMFAO! Damn dummy.

GApeaches26–PERFECTLY PUT about Shango24. I’ve seen his monkey-ass on other posts before, spewing the same non-sense (and some of his posts are copies–lack of creativity!). He reminds me of Damon Wyans’ character on “In Living Color”…you know, the prisoner who is self-educated and misuses words all the time…? LOL.

Also, LOVE the bean-pie reference! There are a lot of dudes on here who fit this description and will be forever prisons of their own devices.

WOWWWWWWWWWWWW this topic had maddddd posts got damn !!

LOL !!!

“The Family Thay Preys” was a good movie…..

for the record,

there are black folks from the Carribean & South America, Afrika and some in the Middle East, Australia and Europe as well as parts of Asia….. some were brought there and some black folks were ALWAYS in those lands indigenously…….

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2ESXGcw2In0#movie_player

@blackqueen
Who even said i was mad, did i say i was mad lol, and no it’s not true, but i do recommend you cleaning up that filthy room before you take a pic next time cause that room does look foul and stinky to me, maybe your smelling yourself . Just saying……don’t judge or make opinions when your shyt ain’t looking right. lol (thats a laugh not anger) lmao

@Azrael3, I know. He is super-stupid and lol@Damon Wayans character on In Living Color. I had totally forgot about that but yeah Shango24 fits the bill!

wow…This topic is like a small book…21 pages and 508 comments…Let me curl up by the fire place with a cup of hot cocoa and start back at page one…. :D

I think we should focus on healing the union between on race. You don’t hear white, asian, hispanic, Indian, or any other ethnicity telling their women or men to go and give another race a chance. Lets be certain there is there is nothing wrong with Interracial dating but there is something wrong when we try to heal things by outsourcing ourselves to the same race that separated us. If you go back in history you will find out that white men raped black women in front of black men as a means to destroy the trust and respect between our race One obvious side effect was that the woman felt her man could not protect her and turned to others. Years later its affects are still seen as we make ignorant suggestions like give a white man a try. And don’t act like it was innocent b/c are black women not already given people a try. Instead if Black Planet or other media really were responsible they would be posting info on how to save the black union. This is sad that we as black people cannot even have success in large in staying together. We need to teach our men and women that the best things in life are free and not things that money can buy you. Women many times don’t look for the right type of black man. I have seen it in college. Why is the Thug look such a popular fad. How can somenone that will be in jail in a few years the person for black women to go after. And why is it that Thugs are glorified among African American boys. Its a truly a shame.

I’m a single black woman and I love myself and love black men. I will be by myself if I date men of other races. I’m just not attracted to them, they don’t do anything for me. Kudos to the author who wrote that book, hope she’s happy with her white man. And to any black woman who wants to date, marry white men. I don’t think we black women should be urged to date out of our race, books and articles being written about that subject should not be. It’s a way of getting rid of the black race by having bi-racial kids and in the future there won’t be any black race. To my black brothers, I love you, have had some terrible expericences with a few but it does not turn me off, I will always love you. The author says we black woman are waiting for a good black man, Yes I will wait, I’m in no hurry, he is out there and I will ba awarded when he comes into my life.

“Hellokitty111 ANYONE CAN SEE THAT EVERYTHING IN MY PICTURE IS IN IT’S PLACE… YOU ARE SO SAD TO ME SWEETHEART… BECAUSE IT IS A KNOWN FACT THAT YA’LL… HAVE A STINKY DOG ODOR THAT YOU JUST CAN’T SEEM TO GET RID OF… ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU ARE WET… SO DON’T HATE JUST CONGRATULATE… MY HOME SMELLS AND LOOKS BETTER THAN YOU 24/7… ALL DAY AND EVERYDAY SWEETHEART…

Love whomever loves you. I’m sorry I refuse to put up with someone’s BS just because we are of the same race. You all have got to be kidding me. Yes, there are good Black men out there but there aregood me of other races as well. So what if a good white, hispanic or asian man comes along and loves me unconditionally, am I supposed to turn that down and wait for Mr. Ideal Black Man? I don’t think so. Like the author said, Black Women out number Black Men 3:1 so if you hold your breath till the right Black Man comes along you’re as well as dead already.

gapeaches26

you are a very ignorant half breed

fact
kmt later named Egypt by alexzander the homo in 3 something b.c did not change to half breeds intill after the last afrakan black dynasty which was the 24th dynasty

idiot all of north afraka usto be jet black negroid as dark as the sisters and brothers in southern sudan and because of weak leaders and half breeds starting wars with us and the arrival of islam and the breakown of the great afrkan black king who hated half breeds after the 24 th dynasty the weak leaders came in and eased the rac mixing restrictions which all the way up to the 24th dynasty kept us strong.

lmafo id spit in ur face and laugh at the same time

also

afrakan

means

ANY PERSON IN THE WORLD

WITH DARK SKIN,DARK BROWN SKIN,BROWN SKIN WITH KINKY COURSE NAPPY HAIR

AND U DONT FIT THAT BILL U HALF BREED!!!!!!!!!!

SORRY BLACK IS NOT A RACE IT IS A COLOR AND IM CERTAIN UR SKIN IS NOT BLACK YOU I.D.I.O.T!!!!!!!!!!!

D.U.M.M.Y DO SOME RESEARCH ALL OF NORTH AFRAKA USTO BE JET BLACK AFRAKAN I.D.I.O.T AND ETHIOPIANS USTO LOOK LIKE NEGROID AFRAKANS

PERSIANS,GREEKS,ARABS,ASIANS, ALSO I LISTED THOSE FOUR BUT NOT THE SPECIFC GROUPS WHICH FALL UNDER EACH SO AFTER ALL THESE INVASIONS OF COURSE NORTH AFRAKAN AND ETHIOPIA RACIALY WAS TRANSFORMD.

WOW WAT A D.U.M.M.Y YOU UNEDUCATED TYPICAL LOW LIFE S.C.U.M.I.SH OVER WEIGHT OUT OF SHAPE FAT HALF BREEDED HOG LOL

ALSO 80 PERCENT OF AFRAKAN AMERIKANS ARE SUB SAHARAN WEST AFRAKAN SO THIS ALONE THROWS UR WARPED FALSE WHACK THEORY OF US BEING MIXED RIGHT OUT OF THE WINDOW.

HEY EVERYBODY LOOK AT THIS R.E.T.A.R.D SHE SAYS US AFRAKAN AMERIKANS ALL LOOK LIKE BARRACK OBAMA WELL LAST TIME I CHECKED AFRICA AMERICA IS NOT LIKE BRAZIL WHERE 90 PERCENT OF OUR PEOPLE OVER THERE R VISBLY MIXED.

SO ANSWER THE QUESTION U HOG,WHY ISNT AFRICA AMERICA MIXED LIKE BRAZIL?

UR LIES HAVE JUST BEEN EXPOSED,I.D.I.O.T

vasco5

ASANTE SANA MY BROTHA THI D.U.M FAT SMITTY LOOKING HALF BREEDED ZEBRA DID NOT EVEN KNOW THAT ALL OF NORTH AFRAKA USTO BE POPULATED BY PEOPLE TUPAC SHAKURS COLOR TO THE COLOR OF SPACE LMAFO

THESE MIXED B.A.S.T.A.R.D.S TRULY MAKE ME SICK

I CANNOT WAIT INTILL WE BCOME POWERFUL ONCE AGAIN MY BROTHA

FOR ALL THESE MIXED YURUGU’S WILL BE SET ON FIRE AND THERE WOMEN RAPED AND THERE STOMACHS WITH THE CHILD IN THEM WILL BE FOOD FOR THE LIONS.

AFRAKAN POWER

I should have known people would have plenty to say on this topic….over 500 comments! Anyway, here’s how I see it. In 2010, grown people don’t need to be told who to date. You date who you want to date. If that’s somebody of the same race, that’s fine. If it’s somebody of another race, that’s quite alright too. My preference is for black men, but I’ll be damned if I am going to “wait” and be alone for the rest of my life if the “right” black man doesn’t come along but a great man does come along, and he happens to be non-black.

I love my asian men! Shouts out to all my fine banana brothas! Once you go yellow, it’s all mellow…

gapeaches26

EVERYONE PLEASE GO TO gapeaches26 PAGE IF SHE ISNT ONE OF THE MOST UGLIEST PUDGE FACE LOOKING HALF BREEDS ON ALL OF BLACKPLANET THANK GOODNESSS SHE AINT NO AFRAKAN SISTER FOR SHE IT TRULY WOULD OF BEEN TERRIBLE TO SEE A FELLOW AFRAKAN SISTER THAT D.A.M.M UGLY LOL

LOOK AT HER PUDGE FACE AND LACK OF ATTRACTIVE FACIAL FEATURES

CAN I GET A SERENA WILLAMS AND ERYKAH BADUH AND SOME BUFFY THE BODY ON ILE 9 PLEASE BECAUSE THIS H.E.P.H.E.R IS UGLY ,

I MEAN MY GOODNESS TALKEN ALL THAT HEAD AND UR FACE IS LOOKING STR8 JACKED NOSE ALL PUDGY LOOKEN U ALREADY LOOK LIKE U COULD BE D.A.M.M NEAR 40 SOMETHING YEAR OLD

FROM NOW ON IM CALLING U GRANDMA

I MEAN IF U WASENT ALWAYS THE LAST ONE TO CROSS THE FINISH LINE BACK IN HIGH SCHOOL DURING THE 1 MILE P.E RUNS WIT YO FAT a.s.s and stay up so d.a.m.m late and stuff yo fat u.g.l.y face for the past 10 years and made an effort to at least ride some damm d.y.c.k wit yo uncreative fat smitty looking m.u.t.a fukin ass mayb then just mayb u wouldnt look so d.a.m.m.

further more there is no way in h.e.l.l (if there ever was one)
ur dad is proud of how u came out looken! there is no way in h.e.l.l ur dad looks at u with pride and says to himself this is my daughter awwwwwww yes my sweet sweet daughter the one who i will show to the world,nah ur dad wish he could take u back kuz on some real talk

ur face is not easy on the eyes.

u wanna talk about my grammer and dismiss my facts well i will state some facts and the obvious

ur pudge face looks like shet

Azrael3

awwwwwwwwww the fat h.o.e with no picture lol who lust after asian men who we all know damm well wouldnt touch u with a ten foot samurai sword,half breeds you things are something else cursed do to the simple fact the majority of you will never be or feel complete so u wil always lust for other races of men

for we all know half breeds are the product of the mentally ill and rapist,thank goodness i made this one half breed bytch abort my kid for id kill myself seeing that little high yellow curly haird thing

yuck

gives me the shakes

shango

i love your posts, can i get some of that hate my way.

to each his/her own… but i’m good, i’d rather be with my black men anyday.

I have always given thought to this as an option. But I’ve always thought about non-blacks , not just white men.

522 comments on thiz bullshyt. Why iz it still on the main board?

Phuk all u women who would even let the thought pass threw yo mind of phukin wit this no gpood disead peckawood

The black woman iz god. I come from my momma and only deal wit women that LOOK like her.

The reason why we on the bottom of the damn totem poll iz cuz black men have allowed this beast to sleep wit our women.

Every kkkracka caught wit a black woman should be executed. There was a tyme when whyte men use to hang a naga for just glancing at a whyte woman

Get yall heads right QUEENS

shango24:

I was being cheeky–or humorous–but you’re too much of an idiot to get it.

And as far as not having any photos, why don’t YOU have the nuts to display a photo of YOURSELF? Talk about the pot calling the kettle black (pun very much intended).

You are such a f**king loser. Seriously. You should have been aborted. People like you are a waste of air and skin.

Why don’t you run back to the Motherland and go marry some chick from the bush? Mind you, you can’t redeem your incense and bean-pies for a ticket; you’ll actually have to work to earn real money. You jackass.

maatra@7:51am — what about the brothas?
“The reason why we on the bottom of the damn totem poll iz cuz black men have allowed this beast to sleep wit our women.”
Are you for real??? What about when you all sleep with the “beast”? You brothas are really killing me on this subject.

odoggz@2-27-2010 7:24 pm — So, when the current epidemic of brothas dating white women they are and have been doing so in the last strong 20 years because they are “genuinely open minded”? LMAO. I have to say, reading 90% of the comments made by brothas who appear to be angry or taken back by just the IDEA of sistahs seeing white males is hilarious to me. What hipocrisy! How selfish!!!Woooooow…

ebonybruh@2-27-2010 3:34 am
“White men and black women have always had a relationship based on sexual violence.”

When the “Master” went away on trips by horse that could take months at a time — what do you think “Miss SallY” was doing to young Black boys? Because this part of history wasn’t allowed to be told you can’t think of it on your own? Was that loving, consesual sex? Is that why you brothas at a phenomenal number rate run to Heidis today because of your sweet loving history?

“All the stereotypes about black women were made my white men to cover his brutal sadist and sexual violent against black women.”

Why do you think Miss Sally and Miss Ann was calling rape every chance she got — having your lives taken? To keep her reputaion “pristine” after she committed her foul acts.

Let’s not make this a one way commentary.

About the step off. Would it be racist if it were a black group winning a country music contest & not being given the prize because they were black? For all of you folk who have a problem with the white sorority winning, you need to get over yourself. Anyone who saw the tape saw that they clearly won. And you want to cry just because they were white??? As much as we have as a people have been discriminated against you want to blatently turn around & do the same thing? What happens when the next black candidate wants to run for president, or apply for a job & is discriminated because he/she is black. Racism is racism. It doesn’t just flow in one direction. The frats & sorors need to get off of their laurels & bring their A game cause whites are comming. Just like we did in football & basketball.there are black hockey players & there was even a black skater in the winter olympics. Wake up black people.

Claudex,

While your post was a bit off topic ( ;) ), I agree with your complaints about the double-standard.

Besides, people have borrowed or stolen (I’m sure you radicals prefer the latter term) from other cultures ever since the dawn of man. The biggest issue is making sure that people know the origin or root of a dance, a song or whatever that “thing” is so that the history is not forgotten, especially if it comes from a marginalized group.

Shango:

You wrote something very interesting in your latest post. You wrote, “..thank goodness i made this one half breed bytch abort my kid for id kill myself seeing that little high yellow curly haird thing”

if this was not a joke, I can see that you ARE seriously disturbed, lack mental clarity and are moraless….any man who is thankful that his seed is killed has to be. A real man doesn’t care about the color that his child looks-especially knowing that the mother is of a different race or skin tone. For you to be glad that YOUR OWN SEED is dead says volumes about how you feel about yourself.

Michael2477@2-26-2010 9:31 am — Amen, Brother Michael. {{Standing Ovation}}

@black queen
Is that what you call everything in order….um ok! Honey i’m not sad, i just recognize a mess when i see one and it does look stinky. Not you in particular but your place. Fold the clothes up that are thrown on the shelves, ur other pic has a corner full of crap. I’m not one to judge folks but geesh atleast come correct wit your shyt when you talk about others is all i am saying. It’s not attractive when your trying to lay all seductive on your bed and you have a pile of shyt in the back. Thats all i am saying, its not doing you justice. You said not to hate but congratulate? wtf, yeah right what is there to hate on? I certainly don’t live like that. And i will congratulate you when you pick that shyt up! And how can a home look better than a person lmao!

classic089@2-25-2010 10:28 pm — That’s a HUGE lie that Black men aren’t groupies at all. Huh??? What is it called something else. There is always a double standard. Girl sexes around she is a s**t — boy sexes around he’s a “lover”, a “player”. Girl looks for material comfort, she’s a golddigger, a groupie. Boy looks for material comfort he’s shrewd or smart? What is it called?

@Hellokitty111, Ok sweetheart I have some words for you. At first I wasn’t going to respond back to your last post directed at me, because I felt you had some somewhat valid opinions and with the questions that I posed to you I felt satisfied that I at least got you to think. But now you keep going back and forth with the sister BlackQueen trying to attack her and that is unacceptable. First of all why are you even on this forum in the first place, it does not pertain to you. The subject matter is clear, “Black women should consider dating white men” that is what the topics and post were originally about. And while many on here have gone off subject slightly, this is still the main point of the discussion and debate. You are neither a white man, and definitely not a Black Woman, so I ask you again why are you even on here in the first place? Now before you answer, i know the whole thing started because you responded to a general statement about white people having an odor, especially when wet. Now obviously you took offense to this and responded. 1. if you weren’t on a topic forum that didn’t concern you in the first place you would’ve have never seen the generalization comment in the first place. 2. Everyone hates to be generalized, but if YOU KNOW YOU DON’T HAVE A STRANGE ODOR, why are you upset? People can and have said black people are dumb, lazy, all black men are dogs thugs or losers, none of that applies to me so It doesn’t upset me nor do I get mad or even have to respond, because normally when I read or hear those generalizations they come from some idiotic racist white person in the first place, and I don’t stoop to their moronic level. 3. I don’t know if nor believe every white person has a weird odor especially when wet, but alot of you do, and I have white friends that joke about this!! My boy Ken(white guy and professional comedian) always jokes never have a water gun fight in a room full of white people, you’d drop dead from the smell lol, point is why does this offend you if its not true or not true for you! 4. How can you tell someone their place stinks from a picture? The only thing you showed is you can be petty, Miss who are we to judge, blah blah blah. Oh yeah I checked the Sister’s page as well as yours, both of you have pictures with your bedroom in the background as well as bathroom pics, there was nothing I saw in either of your pics that would make me think your place stinks, so that was a rather childish reply to the comment she made, it’s like a little kid who can’t think of anything better to say. And If you have so many black friends, why did this one Sister’s comment get you so angry, I’m sure if you are around black people like you say you are you’ve heard way worst, did you tell them their place stinks, hmmmmmm.

You see at first I believed your response to my post, and actually thought you were a secure, tolerant, and level headed person, whose dated black men but not just because they’re black. I think otherwise now though, I think you are like alot of other whites I see and know. You are attracted to the Black man, and have so many so called black friends, because you wish that you were Black! You make statements such as “I have big boobs and thick thighs, and while some white man are and have approached me, some passed me by because of this.” Because you feel like this was part of why brother’s were attracted to you, and inside you probably felt good because you thought that made you more like a Black Woman. Well I hope you know that there is far more than a big butt and thighs that makes a Black woman the QUEEN she is, and why in my book no white woman no matter how she looks could ever hold a candle to this! Also you referred to some of your so-called black friends who “support their black men” and I guess you were implying that the brothers didn’t have jobs and/or was sitting on their ass and letting their woman take care of them. Why was that statement relevant to the main topic or to what I posted. I know your point was that black men can take financial advantage of black women as well as white, but as you state you are not one of those type women, so again I ask you why would that warrant a response from you if it doesn’t apply to you? Maybe a black man has taken money from you or still is hmmmmmmmmm? Also how would your Black lady friends feel about you sharing what they do in their own homes, with strangers on the internet just to prove some feeble point.

Once again I ask you why are you on here? When there is a topic about white women who are attracted to Black Men, drop your comments and opinions on there. Quit attacking the Sister because you just sound petty and jealous!

@rayskilla
Well first off i have absolutely nothing to be jealous of that woman about….seriously! But again like i told her if she is going to make a statement atleast come correct with your ownself….or however i worded it. I personally could careless what anyone says how anyone stinks etc. It doesn’t apply to me and yes it’s a generalize statement AS USUAL! So what your saying is that i’m supposed to just sit back and laugh and say whatever….i responded actually how i felt and so did she…so be it. If your calling me petty then what you saying about her or are you only defending her cause she a black woman….i’m sure she could be a very nice person like myself. Generalizations in general are annoying and i called it how i see it simple as that. Doesn’t make me a bad person because i feel that if she gonna say we stink and she laying in a room full of clothes thrown on a self etc. And i am secure with myself and who i am as a person, i don’t need to be anything or anyone that i am not and if u knew me you would know. I don’t need anyone’s acceptance, either one likes me or don’t. I won’t die if the next person doesn’t care to be around me or deal with me. Personal appearance is what attracts the person in the first place, and of course there is more to a woman than butt and boobs. But humans are visual people and they go with what they see first sometimes. If you look at a woman without speaking to them, ONE will know whether or not they will proceed to speak with them and get to know them based on looks first. That is what i was saying about the white men, so don’t take what i said and run with it on how YOU feel it is……i didn’t answer all your ?s cause i didn’t want to fill this whole forum up, if you have any questions kindly send me a note, simple as that since your so interested in my thought process! I couldn’t possibly answer every single one having to go back and forth to see the next one. As far as my friends go, they ok with it as long as i am not giving out names, addresses phone numbers, pics etc. I’m not giving their whole life story and i know they have spoke about mine before. And are you crazy, no man is gonna get my money lol black or white. If a man and a woman is in a relationship they help each other out if needed which is understandable, but to completly live off of someone, hell no. I was just making a point to the 100 questions you asked can’t tell ya which one and i’m not going back to find it lol.
It shouldn’t really matter to you why i responded on here and yes i have responded on other forums that deals with black and white. I mean your not a white man nor a black woman so shouldn’t i be questioning you too on why your commenting on here when it doesn’t apply to you either. I beleieve it had to do with someone’s comment on here that wasn’t related to black queen’s comment. Who knows I’m not going back but it was pretty much the comments you were referring to before. I can’t help you aren’t satified with my comments back. You asked and i took the time to tell ya in which i didn’t really have to, but you came at me in a nice manner so why not. Your only making a judgement of me based on my answers that can be taken in any way, i think you would have a different perception of me if we were in person talking. But it is what it is i guess.

Azrael3

lets get one thing str8,having some high yellow curly hird mixed race b.a.s.t.a.r.d looking at me calling me daddy would be embraasing and damaging to my reputation and against everything im about for in my room as i speak i have a self made caste system showing the three main colors which we afrakans possess

DARK SKIN,DARK BROWN SKIN,BROWN SKIN

AND THERE HAIR TEXTURE IS COURSE AND NAPPY

SO WITH THAT BEING TYPED I KNOW U SURELY DONT THINK ID BE RUNNING OUT TO SMASH HALLY BERRY OVER SERENA WILLAMS OR A YOURBA OR SUDANEESE SISTA,NOW DO YOU?

LIKE I HAVE SAID I LOOK DOWN ON HALF BREEDS GENERALLY SPEAKING AND THOSE WOMEN OF MIXED BLOOD WHO I HAVE HAD SEXUAL RELATIONS WITH SHOWD TO ME LONG BEFORE MY SWANGA GOT HARD,THAT THEY INDEED HAD AN AFRAKAN HEART,THESE R THE KIND OF HALF BREEDS BROUGHT UP IN THE BOOK THE DESTRUCTION OF BLACK CIVILIZATION!

BUT NOT TO DWELL ON THESE HALF BREEDS ANY LONGER THEN I HAVE TO,SO IM GOING TO SAY DID I FORCE FEMALE WHO WAS MIXED TO ABORT MY CHILD?

YOU DAMM F.U.K.E.N RIGHT I DID AND I HAVE NO PROBLEM DOING IT AGAIN BECAUSE IN FACT THE ONLY WAY IT WOULD HAPPEN AGAIN IS IF THE CONDOM BROKE.

99 PERCENT OF ALL MY WOMEN IS DARK THE OTHER 1 PERCENT AND I SWEAR ON CHANGO AND ESHU IN THE LAND OF THE ANSCETORS I USE THEM IN BDSM MASTER SLAVE KINKY SEX FETISH ROLE PLAYING,I DONT BE ALL HUGGED UP ON MUTTS BECAUSE I LIVE THREW THE EYES OF AFRAKAN MEN WHO MADE OUR NATION AND COMMUNITES GREAT AND I CERTAINLY DONT SEE MYSELF AS SOME NEW KIND OF AFAKAN WHO WAS ENSLAVED FOR 500 YEARS LOL TO BE HONEST THT MEANS LITTLE TO ME BECAUSE OUR GREATNESS OUTNUMBERS ARE WOES SO I SEE MYSELF THREW THOSE EYES.

UNLIKE ALL YOU IGNORANT FOOLS WHO KEEP BRINGING UP SLAVERY IN THE UNITED STATES LIKE YOU DONT KNOW ANYTHANG ELSE TO TALK ABOUT REGARDING OUR PEOPLE YOU UNHISTORICAL UNREADING DUM DAMM BASTARDS.

ARE GREATNESS WAS NEVER EVEN RIVALD BY GREECE OR ROME OR CHINA OR THE MYANS WE WERE MORE ASTOUNDING THEN THEM ALL AND THERE WERE EVEN KINGDOMS IN THE INTERIOR OF AFRAKA THAT HAD JUST AS MUCH SUBSTANCE AS KMT.

ASIAN,ARAB,INDIAN HAVE ALL DONE AFRAKAN WOMEN WRONG SO THEY HAVE NO CHOICE BUT TO TURN TO US STRONG MANY AFRO CENTERD BROTHAS AND WE HAVE NO CHOICE BUT TO TURN TO THOSE WARRIOR QUEENS WHOM SHARE THE SAME RACE AS OUR MAMAS.

FURTHER MORE

ITS NOT ABOUT COLOR AS MUCH AS IT IS ABOUT PHENOTYPES(WANITNG UR CHILDREN TO LOOK LIKE YOU) AND HAIR TEXTURE SO AGAIN IF I LOVE MYSELF SO OR ANYMAN LOVES HIMSELF SO WHY IN THE H.E.L.L(IF THERE EVER WAS ONE) WOULD SOME DARK OR OR DARK BROWN SKIN MAN WANT TO HAVE SOME HIGH YELLOW PROABLY GONNA BE AHOMOSEXUAL HALF BREEDED CURLY HAIRD ZEBRA LOOKING UP HIM AND SAYING DA DA DA DA?

THATS SICK AND BEYOND GROSS TO HAVE ME EVEN ATTEMTP TO EXPRESS MY DISTATE WITH WORDS IT IS VERY DIFFICLT BUT I WILL SAY HAVING A MIXED CHILD IS THE EQULIVENT OF BEING A CANIBAL AND EATING UR KIND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hellokitty111

YOUR PINK UNDERDEVLOPED FLAT A.S.S STAIN ON THE PLANET SELF GOT THE WRONG ADDRESS ON UR BROWSER YOU WERE LOOKING FOR SOMETHING MORE LIKE THIS

http://www.xvideos.com/video217965/black_militant_s_a_young_white_girl

NOW GO AND FULFILL UR SICK TWISTED FANATASYS OF BEING DOMINATED BY THE REAL MAN THE AFRAKAN DOM AND TAKE UR FAT SMITTY BUSTED PINK FACE UNDERDEVELOPED MAGGOT INFESTED V.A.G.I.N.A SOMEWHERE AND STOP TYPING AS IF YOU HAVE BEEN INVIVTED TO THIS AFRAKAN CONVERSATION.

I TELL YA YOU HALF BREEDS AND PINK BEASTTHE SOONER WE CAN COME UP WITH A VIRUS TO ERASE YOU PEOPLE THE BETTER.

GOOD RIDANCE

Hellokitty111

JUST VIEWD UR PAGE AND I AM DOWN RIGHT DISGUSTED THAT YOU GAVE BIRTH TO THOSE TWO LITTLE BEAST!!!!!!!!!!

AND U DARE COME AS IF BECAUSE YOU GAVE BIRT TO TWO LITTLE HALF BREEDED ZEBRAS THAT U ARE WELCOMD AMONGST ANY KIND OF AFRAKAN IS A TRUE SIGN OF WHY OUTERACIAL DATING IS A BIG AND I MEAN HUGE NO NO.

BEHOLD

THE PALE WOMAN HAS A CHILD BY DARK OR BROWN BROTHA AND SHE NOW THINKS SHE HAS A SAY SO ON AFRAKAN RACIAL AFFAIRS ANYWHERE IN THE WORLD.

THIS IS THE SAME SCENRIO THAT CAUSED MANY GREAT AFRAKAN NATIONS TO FALL

THESE GOT D.A.M.M HALF BREEDS.

IF I HAD AN ARMY AND THERE WAS A PLACE CALLED HALF BREED LAND

ID MURDER EVERY WOMAN AND CHILD AND MAN IN SIGHT AND WE WOULD KEEP ONLY THE PRETTIEST HALF BREEDS TO BE OUR SEX SLAVES AND THEN AFTER WE ARE DONE WE SHALL KILL THEM.

IT MAKES NO SENSE IT BAFFELS MY MIND HOW THESE OTHER RACES THINK THEY CAN HAVE MIXED BREEDS WITH ONE OF OURS AND THEN THEY THE CHILDREN AND THE PARENTS THINK THEY ARE ENTILITED TO SPEAK ON OUR ISSUES OR CELEABRATE WITH US WHEN WE WIN.

HELLOKITTY IF IT WERE MY BROTHA WHO HAD ANOTHER RACE OF WOMAN PREGNET ID DISOWN HIM THE CHILD AND ANY OTHER FAMILY MEMBER WHO SUPPORTS THEN AND IF I CAME TO A FAMILY GATHERING AND U WERE THERE ID WALK RIGHT BACK OUT START MY ENGIN AND KICK UP DUST

OUTERACIAL DATING IS DISGUSTINGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG!!!!!!!!!!

GROSSSSSSSS

WE HAVE TO MANY FINE SISTERS FOR U BROTHAS TO BE SLEEPING WITH THESE PINK HOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOGSSSSSSSSSSS

ONK ONK

Shango:

You wrote, “YOU DAMM F.U.K.E.N RIGHT I DID AND I HAVE NO PROBLEM DOING IT AGAIN BECAUSE IN FACT THE ONLY WAY IT WOULD HAPPEN AGAIN IS IF THE CONDOM BROKE.”

…..So basically, you’re saying that you would screw the very type of person you claim to despise.

Okay, Shango. I’ve had enough of the banter with you–not because you are winning, but because you are just one of those dark-skinned folks who is bitter because they weren’t loved enough or maybe were teased when they were a kid about their color. Now that you and other marginalized, ignorant, taught from “the school of life” people like you found each other via some sort of cultish organization (a la The Nation or something a bit more subversive), you feel validated. You have been brainwashed by a bunch of jackasses who teach you to hate “whitey” but in the meantime are probably f**king white women (and a few men, at that). They have essentially pulled the biggest cloak of wool over your eyes by making you think you have power when, in fact, they are giving you the ultimate mind-f**k because you really have no control over your thoughts (by the way, I’m sure that this is the only form of screwing you’ve had in a long time).

I totally get it, Shango. And with that, your money is on the nightstand. I’m done with you.

Azrael3

having a sex slave and not deeming her worthy of birthing a child of mine says it all and speaks volumes so for any half breed who enjoys spit on her face and getting her throat f.u.c.k.e.d and her arms hog tied behind her back while i take my aggression out on her v****al hole while i stick a vibrating dildo up her a.s.s then so be it lol

but my afrakan queens are who can birth my child and recieve the sensual lover side of my very being and AZREAL3 i suggest you worry more about how ur goign to take ur own life for i know deep down in my heart that is the right thing for u to do so will not produced anymore mixed babys.

in fact if i could id have 1 million mixed babys dropped from the highest skyscrappers in afraka and that indeed would be there service to the afrakan race and there crying while falling in mid air would be there war chants lol bwhahahaahaha

imagine that a bunch of yellow kids fallng from the sky and that is there only contribution to our mighty afrakan race bwhahahahahaha

dont be alarmed for one day one of my great great grandsons or even son maybe do something remotly close perhaps making mixed women in some part of afraka steralize themselfs as the european karzarian jews in isreal r doing to our dear poor beloved sisters.’

anywho(sigh) i disgress

half breeds there population must be eliminated as far as us afrakans are concerd with our group.

Ihateinterracial:

You’re 22 years old. Enough said. Learn to love before the hate kills you at such an early age.

Azrael3

AGE MEANS NOTHING
IF ANYTHANG I WILL JUST BECOME MORE STUCK IN MY WAYS AS TIME GOES ON
AND SINCE YOU WANNA BRING UP AGE YOUR PERCEPTION OF 22 YEARS OLD IS THE VERY REASON WHY YOUR IGNORANCE AND STATUS IN SOCIETY AS BEING ONE OF THE POOR IS JUSTIFIED FOR ONE HAS TO START SOMEWHERE

YOU

I.D.I.O.T

Azrael3

LOL YOUR IM DONE WITH YOU PLEASED ME SO FOR IT MEANS I WONT HAVE TO PUT UP WITH SOME FAT NO PICTURE HAVING FETUS EATING OVER WEIGHT OUT OF SHAPE H.O.E

I HAVE MUCH LOVE FOR MY SISTERS AND BROTHERS WHO ARE LIKE ME FOR WE ARE THE ONES WHO MUST SURVIVE AND BE HEALTHY STRONG AND FINACIALLY STABLE TO MAKE A DECENT IMPACT.

AS FAR AS YOUR SILLY ACCUSATIONS THAT IM APART OF SOME CULT LOL ESPECIALLY THE NATION OF ISLAM.

ALL I WILL SAY IS THIS

IM APART OF THE NEW BREED OF OLD.

@Pinkii13
And you’re illiterate. I said I support interracial affairs, can’t you read? I said those doing it with an agenda are trash! So that flies in the face of your shotty logic that claims I’m angry at sistas who date whites. I could care less because they’re/you’re not the type of black chick I’d want anyway, which is why I’m happy you do look somewhere else. My point is doing it to make a social statement is not being pure in intention. That white man has feelings too, and you experimenting, stringing him along with your acting, is not cool. If someone is genuine, great.

Black men dating whites in the past 20 years? Excuse yourself, but it was a black WOMAN named Mildred Loving (aka Jeter), with a white man, that broke the case to allow interracial relationships officially, in USA. Their case vs Virginia was backed by the NAACP funding, of all groups! So don’t make it look like that’s a black man thing! Go do the knowledge before you gape please! :P

@shango
Yeah uh, real intelligent, learn to spell before speaking! You think i HONESTLY care what you think about me or my children? Do you think they even care what you think?….. It’s a fricken interracial forum dumbazz, geesh get over your damn self. You know how retarded you sound, take your energy and put it to good use rather than typing like you bout to explode popping some high blood pressure medicine, shyt! I mean find a damn hobby, tutor some kids, well wait, maybe not, lol your spelling sucks! There is nothing wrong with being passionate about a topic or how you feel about your race, your entitled to that, but your way of thinking is pure craziness! What is it that you give back to your own community? I mean where do you get telling someone else whom to date, who made you in charge? And you think i shed a tear over your comments on how i look please, take a damn look in the mirror sometime!

Hellokitty111

your weak ill reply means you got my point enough said

mulatto.org
or stormfront.com

either one but blackplanet is not for you and ur pressence alone is a huge insult.

but its all good tho im making a website and i will have full controll over whom i ban and allow access to it and i will have two two hackers who will keep my site nice and pretty on the up and up.

ive typed my last words to you

@Shango24, You are a waste of someone’s ejaculation. Where are your picture’s Boo? Don’t take your insecurities out on me because you were picked on because of your skin color as a child or maybe because you were ugly and your parents were too shallow to look beyond that and love you for who you were therefore making you feel unloved, unwanted and unimportant turning you into the bitter, no count, sorry excuse of man that you are today. I guess I was right on in my analysis of you because you couldn’t even counter attack me on any type of intellectual level, instead you stooped to attacking my appearance and my facial features. Guess what? I and plenty of other people off all races LOVE me!!! Sorry life has not worked out the same way for you.

BTW, don’t you have a bus to catch? No, No, wait a minute-go check and see if one of your bean pies are burning. I got it! I know what it is-bruh man has stopped by to deliver you your latest stash of incense! Quick! Rush to the door-he’s out there knocking!

@gapeaches26

yo are very unattractive if ur going to express a view you could at least not be so u.g.l.y.

thanks

@ihateinteracial, Nicca you look like the damn crypt-keeper! Why are your dreds so thin? Do you have Alopecia? What happened your suit? Looks like you stored it in a crumpled, brown, grocery bag. And why in the hell are you taking pictures of yourself in the mirror on your MetroPCS cell phone? LMFAO

@Claudex, HelloKitty1 and Azreal3-you ladies are amazing! I love the way you all think.

@i hate interracial
wtf when did you address me? UNLESS your Shango with another page? How can you say your done talking to me when your azz never said shyt to me till now? So what point did i SO called get from you when i haven’t even addressed your azz? ok thank you! Did ya forget to hit the “post” button? lol anyways…..you know i don’t care if folks have a problem with IR dating or its not for them, thats on them, i would never push my preference on anyone else. I don’t care if you hate it or your twin shango hates it, i’m ok at night knowing that, thats your opinion and your damn life. BUT don’t talk shyt about others or put others down for it. DO you actually think i am insulted by the fact that your making a website for only blacks? uh no! Good for you, i wish you the best with it cause i don’t have any ill feelings towards you, i think your a lil coo coo in the brain but hey whatever. Who even says a person is on here for dating, or looking for a man, see thats where you as a hateful, upset with your own life is more worried about when really i personally like the forums…big freaking deal!
And wtf is up with that pic, you say your 22 but you look 42? So why you have to talk about other folks looks etc when your shyt aint right. But yet thats my opinion. And again i will close with this……date whomever you want to date…….love is love baby! Appreciate who you are and embrace yourself and stop spreading hate. Find love and happiness with whomever and find happiness within yourself. It makes me lol when i see folks who preach this and that about IR and how its wrong…….couldn’t that time be used studying with your kids, helping the community, becoming a big brother or a sister, helping the old neighbor next door? I mean i understand one doesn’t agree or prefer but come on alot of unnecessary time is wasted, damn get a hobby instead do something to unite everyone, you can still unite as a whole and still not IR date. Geesh!

@interracial
how you gonna talk about gapepeaches when you ain’t even bringing it yourself. She is a beautiful woman. Have your shyt fly and looking good when you gonna talk about others. for real! Okkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk

@Hellokitty111, I was thinking the exact same thing. I beleive Shango24 and ihateinterracial are the same people.

@Hellokitty111. Well to explain my post and also answer one of your questions, yes I responded as such because of your back and forth with BlackQueen, and yes I’m defending her because she is BLACK damn right. And before you say I’ve already spoken on the issue of the brothers that are harshly attacking the sisters on here if they date white men or see nothing wrong with it. To reiterate I DO NOT BELIEVE IN NOR PREFER INTERRACIAL DATING, whether it’s white man black woman, black man white woman. But for the brothers that have attacked and totally disrespected the sisters on here they are wrong and for the sisters who’ve also participated in attacks and name calling they to are wrong. We can disagree without trying to belittle one another. Now granted Black Queen was wrong for making a sweeping generalization like that, but you are equally wrong for responding to her the way you did. And not condoning her behavior but her statement was something to the effect of some white people have an odor, she did not specifically say HelloKitty stinks. You however specifically said her place looks like it stinks. So I do think you were being more childish and I do think deep down you do care what people think and if they like you or not. If you truly don’t care, you wouldn’t have first been offended by that generalization and wouldn’t have felt the need to attack her, regardless of whether she came correct or not as you say. And your right, you have just as much right to be on here and express your opinions on the matter as I. But to be honest it gets to me when white people attack my people for whatever reason and I must say something. There was this other white guy Bostonluvboy or something, trying to so call share his opinions, but all he was doing was attacking the Black men on this forum and black men in general, saying its our fault, we’re losers and not properly handling our business. Being able to read between the lines as well as recalling other posts he’s made on other topics, the guy is racist and hates the black man, and has made derogatory comments about sisters, and plain and simple is an instrument of disorder and confusion. And for the sisters on here who initially agreed with that guy, I hope you’ve done your homework and see he’s not on your side he just saw another opportunity to degrade black men. Said all that to say, that when I saw your comment on BlackQueen I thought you were an instrument of discord just like bostonluvboy, you are not, however you do not have to disrespect anyone on here to make your point. And if you are as mature as you claim, just leave it alone, be the better person and do not resort to name calling.

THAT GOES FOR EVERYONE ON HERE, MY BEAUTIFUL SISTERS, AND MY STRONG BROTHERS. DEBATE DISAGREE BUT DO NOT DISRESPECT ONE ANOTHER, WE ALL ARE ADULTS AND CAN AND SHOULD BE ABLE TO SHARE COMMENTS AND OPINIONS WITHOUT HATRED AND NAME CALLING! And for my sisters who feel like they’ve been attacked, be the bigger person! LET IT GO

ALSO, to my sister’s whose reasoning for dating white men or seeing nothing wrong with it, is that there is a shortage of available black men, KNOW THAT THIS IS BY DESIGN. The goal is to get rid of the Black Man, please don’t help facilitate this plan. And for the lady who said black women shouldn’t wait and miss out on a good man, while waiting for the ideal black man, why not? “Good things come to those that are patient and wait”, is not just some old saying it is true. I prefer a woman, who is intelligent, has goals, and no kids(because I don’t have any, and if that bothers you lets save that for another debate another time lol) I’ve sold drugs, gangbanged and everything in between in the streets, and have been with my share of hood girls who didn’t want anything out of life just like I didn’t at the time. Thank The Most High, I survived and have become a little more wiser and hopefully more mature, so I definitely want to be with a woman on the same page. I run across sisters who got plenty of kids by different guys, stuck in the hood don’t want nothing out of life mentality, ect. It almost seems like its a shortage of good sisters, so why should I pass Ms. Right if she’s not a sister? I run across white women that fit my preferences perfectly to a Tee, except for ONE THING! THEY ARE NOT SISTERS!!!! SO yes you can and should wait for that right African Queen, or for the sisters King!!! However long it takes I know I’m going to find my African Queen, and I WON’T settle for an ok white woman!!!!

Yes, I said I will not miss out on a “Good” man waiting for the Ideal Black Man to come along. People love whose good to them. What is so wrong with that? Sure, if I wanted any old man at all Black, White or whatever I could get him but that’s not what I want. I want a real man. Someone who is responsible, intelligent, wise, good-natured and good hearted and the last time I checked those were not attributes or qualities possessed by just the Black Man. When you limit yourself, you lose out and that’s just the way that life is period.

Again, the odds are stacked agianst Black on Black love because the men out number women 3 to 1 so what do you do then? Sit around and wait for someone who may never come you way? Ent!!! Wrong answer. At that point you explore other avenues. A White man, Hispanic man, Indian man or Asian man are just as capable of loving you as a Black man. This is not 1955. Also, you shouldn’t just side with someone because of their race. Why? That’s not wise. So if you are told to jump off a bridge by a black person and urged not to by someone of another race, you’d risk your life and jump just because a Black person told you to do it. I don’t think you would. Sure we’ve had our struggles as Black people living in America but that does not negate the fact that people are individuals not a conglomoration.Heck, if were are so united and such an un-breakable force why does our race have the most inner conflict and are always looking to tear each down with violence, killing, drugs, health issues and so on. And you’re right we do need to love and uplift each other as humans first, individuals second and the rest falls in line.

gapeaches26

HEY YOUR STILL VISBLY UNATTRACTIVE YOUR FACIAL FEATURES COMPAERD TO MINE ALTHOUGH I AM A MAN ARE COMPLETLY NOT UP TO PAR WITH THE STANDARD OF ANY SANE MINUTLY SUCCESSFUL HUMAN BEING.

AS TO STAY ON TOPIC

DO YOU KNOW WHY I CALL YOUR FACE A PUDGE FACE?

WELL IT IS BECAUSE UR FACE IS VERY FAT AND IT HAS NO ANGLES TO IT WHATS SO EVER EVER AS FOR YOUR LIPS THEY ARE SMALL AND SHAPED WRONG AND THAT CHIN OF YOURS I MUST SAY CAN GIVE J LINO A RUN FOR HIS MONEY.

YOUR FACE IS UGLY AND THAT IS THE BOTTOM LINE
BUT AS I SHALL GO ON IT WILL CONTINUE TO BE REPEATED AND THOSE WHO HAVE WENT TO R PAGE IM SURE CLICKED RIGHT BACK OUT FOR PUDGE FACES ARE NEVER ATTRACTIVE AND AS I SIT ABOUT TO RESUME MY WORKOUT IM SATISFIED OTHERS FEEL THE SAME WAY I FEEL ABOUT UR HORRID LOOKING FACE AND AT THE END OF THE DAY IM STILL A HANSOME SMART MENTALLY AND PHSYCIALLY ENDOWNED AFRAKAN AMERIKAN MAN

BUT (ARM EXTENDS OUT) YOU ON THE OTHER HAND HAVE JUS RECIVED A NICK NAME

PUDGY THAT IS UR NAME FOR UR UNATTRACTIVE PUDGY FACE

HONESLTY UR FACIAL FEATURES UGLY

ALSO FOR ALL THE PINK PEOPLE ON THIS POST OR OTHER POST I WILL NOT SPEAK TO YOU BUT OF YOU IN A DEGRADING MATTER FROM NOW ON FOR YOU ARE NOT HUMAN ENOUGH FOR ME TO ADDRESS YOU DIRECTLY FURTHERMORE THE BEAST LEZBO BY THE NAME OF HELLOKITTY IS ONE OF THE PINK AWFUL DOG SMELLING SUB-HUMAN BEAST WHOM WE MY PEOPLE MUST WATCH OUT FOR.

THESE FAT OVER WEIGHT HONKEY TONKS ARE A FORMIDABLE ENEMY WHEN WE ARE OUTNUMBERD BUT WHEN WE STICK TOGETHER AND SHT OUR DOORS IN THE FACES OF THESE LEZBIAN AFRAKAN LUSTING FOR SMELLY DOG FUR HAIR HAVING BRUTES AS WE DO TO THE JEHOVA WITNESSES WHO KNOCK ON OUR DOOR,WE THEN SHALL RISE.

PINK PEOPLE TEND TO BE ATTRACTIVE
PINK PEOPLE TEND TO WHAT TO FEED OFF OUR ENERGY
PINK PEOPLE TEND TO WANT TO TRY AND BOSS US AROUND
PINK PEOPLE FEEEL THE EVER NEED TO WANT TO BE AROUND US

I SAY RIGHT NOW IF ANYONE HAS ANY PINK PERSON OR PALE PERSON IN UR FAMILY

DISOWN THEM BECAUSE THEY WERE NEVER UR FAMILY TO BEGIN WITH.

ALSO

LOOK AT WHAT HALF BREEDS AND PINK PEOPLE HAVE TO OFFER IN

gapeaches26 AND Hellokitty111 LOOK AT THEM LOOK AT THEM

FAT OVERWEIGHT OUT OF SHAPE BAD FACIAL FEATURE HAVING GROSSLY OBSENE LOOKING FAT SOW’S OF HALF WOMEN!!!!!!!!

LOOK AT THEM! THESE ARE THE TYPICAL FEMALES WHO GET WITH BROTHAS LOL AND WE ALL KNOW THIS TO BE TRUE,THEY ARE ALWAYS FAT ALWAYS UGLY IN THE FACE SKIN LOOKING LIKE BALONEY

I MEAN I REFUSE TO LET THESE PEOPLES GENES COME SEEPING INTO MY GENE POOL AND MESS IT UP

IM SORRY THAT IM THE ONLY ONE WITH THE GUTS TO SAY IT BUT IF THERE IS ANY REASON WHY WE SHOULDNT MIX OUR KIDDS

LOOK AT THESE WOMEN WHO I HAVE MENTIOND LOOK AT THEM

THEY ARE UGLYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY.

“ihateinteracial I AGREE WITH YOU BLACK KING…”

And with all that being said, you still look like the crypt-keeper, your suit still looks like it was pulled out of a brown, crumpled gocery bag, you still have Alopecia. End of discussion.

*grocery

@ihatealopecia, I mean’t, ihateinteracial, what’s up with all those brown spots in your face?

EVERYONE LOOK HOW DUM THIS HALF BREED IS

SHE CLAIMS IM WEARING A SUIT IN MY PICTURE

IT IS MERLY A COAT OVER A COLLER SHIRT WITH A TIE ON THIS DOES NOT EQUAL A SUIT AS MORE OF US INTTELIGENT PEOPLE SEE AND NOT TO MENTION THIS WOMANS FAT PUDGE FACE IS SO UNATTRACTIVE IM GOING TO DO A YOUTUBE VIDEO OF THIS WOMANS UGLY FACE FOR THE WORLD AND I MEAN THE WHOLE WIDE WORLD TO SEE.

MATTER A FACT IM GOING TO PUT HER PICTURE UP AND SAY BEHOLD THEE MOST ATTRACTIVE WOMAN ON THE INTERNET BWHAHAHAAHA AND WATCH THE RESPONSE

COMING SOON MY PEOPLE AND I WILL EVEN DEDICATE A BLOG TO THIS ATROCIOUS SUB-HUMAN BEAST.

THIS WOMAN IS ALSO TYPICAL HALF BREED NOT KNOWING ABOUT US AFRKANS SHE ASSUMES ALL MEN WIT LOCS HAVE TO HAVE THEM BIG AND THICK WHAT AN UTTER PUDGE FACE FATE FACE I.D.I.O.T!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

MY LOCS WERE STRICLY MADE TO BE SLIM AND NOT BIG

THESE HALF BREEDS JUST KEEP SHOWING THERE UTTER IGNORANCE THAT BY AFRAKAN STANDARDS WOULD BE APPALING IF SHE WERE AN AFRAKAN BUT SHE IS NOT SO THIS SI SOMETHING VERY NORMAL TO HALF BREEDS AND PINK PEOPLE.

LOL LSDH(LAUGHING SO D.A.M.M HARD)

Go ahead and post a Youtube video about me and see how quickly you are sued for defamation. As a matter of fact, I am about to report you to member services.

Damn people cant we keep this on a intelluctual level? why all the insults not a one of us is perfect on here, black, white mexican or whatever. And for the record my daugheter is mixed half black half mexican and she is very beautifull!

gapeaches26

GO AHEAD PUDGE FACE AND A VIDEO OF UR ATROCIOUS LOOKING PUDGE FACE WILL BE ALL OVER THE INTERNET FASTER THEN YOU CAN AFFORD TO GET A FACE LIFT AND AS FOR REPORTING ME BY ALL MEANS PLEASE DO FOR I HAVE 6 OTHER PROFILE LYING IN WAIT TO BE ACTIVATED ON HERE AND SURLY ITS NOT REASONABLE TO ASSUME YOU CAN DELETE AND BLOCK THEM ALL.

EVEN SERPENTS HAVE MORE ATTRACTIVE FACES YOU.

(OPEN ARMS)

pantherg08

MY DEAR BROTHA LOOK AT HER FACE AND BE HONEST IS THAT SOMETING YOU CAN BE PLEASED TO SEE AT UR FRONT DOOR LOL REPERSENTING ANY KIND OF COMPANY OR FRIEND OFFERING YOU A GIFT?

YOU KNOW AND I KNOW MISS PUDGE FACE IS DISGUSTING LOOKING IN THE FACE SO PLEASE MY DEAR BROTHA TO NOT ADVOCATE PEACE BETWEEN LIONS AND PUDGE FACE HIPPOS ACTULLY I TAKEE THAT BACK BECAUSE HIPOOS LOOK HOW THEY R SUPPOSE TO LOOK AND THAT IS AN INSULT

BUT NO HUMAN BEING SHOULD LOOK LIKE

gapeaches26

AND U KNOW IT

HER FACIAL FEATURES ARE BUSTED HER FACE IS FAT SHE HAS SMALL LIPS LIKE A LIZARD AND I WOULD NOT BE SURPRISED IF SHE WAS SOME TYPE OF GARGOYAL IN A PAST LIFE

NOW SHE THREANTENS TO REPORT ME AND I PROMIS TO MAKE A VIDEO OF HER ON YOUTUBE.

pantherg08

YOU THEN MY BROTHA ARE NOT WELCOMD IN MY HOME

BECAUSE YOU JUST UPHELD THE STREOTYPE THAT DARK SKIN AFRAKANS HATE THEMSELFS MORE THEN ANY OTHER AFRAKAN FOR U COULD EVEN DO A SIMPLE THING AS TO FIND A DARK OR BROWN WOMAN AND PENATRATE HER AND HAVE CHILD.

SHAME ON YOU

YOU ARE NOT WELCOM INTO THE BROTHA HOOD

SELLOUT

NOW GO DANCE AND PUT ON A SAMBREO

HOLMES LOL

i meant intellectual, i proably still spelled it wrong!!

And you still have Alopecia, your suit still looks like you pulled it out of a brown, crumpled, grocery bag, and you still look like the crypt-keeper.

I aint gay nigga why would i want to go to your home??? And how do u say i hate myself because my daughter is mixed, i date black women to, the last 4 women i dated was black!! And for the record i penetrate all races! i dont discriminate maybe if u got some u woudent be so uptight!! And if your going to tell me mexican people are all bad than u are beyond racist, your a bigot, some of the most good hearted people i have met have been mexican, my babymama is not one of them but thats a diffrent story!! I dont know u made u leader of this brotherhood, but if your in this club it cant be full of too many smart people. The real problems going on is not white vs black its rich vs poor and if your not smart enough to understand that, than anything u have to say is irrelavant! Read a book and eat a dick b***h!!!

gapeaches26

I SEE YOU TOOK UR UGLY A.S.S PUDGE FACE PICTURE OF UR FACE DOWN NOW DIDNT CHA

I SAVED UR PAGE JUST IN CASE IN THE FURTURE U DECIDE TO GET BOLD I WILL ASSURE YOU IF U DO EVER PUT UR PIC UP EVER AGAIN I WILL MAKE SURE THAT I PERSONALLY SET OUT ON A MISSION TO HUMILIATE YOU.

THANKS FOR TAKING UR UGLY PICTURE DOWN

SLAVE HALF BREEDS BY VIRTUE OF UR GENETICS WILL ALWAYS HAVE A NATRUAL TENDICY TO BE SLAVES AND INFEIOR AND THE WORLD U LIVE IN IS AN ILLUSION TO MAKE U FEEL LIKE U LOOK BETTER BECAUSE UR MIXED AND WE ALL KNOW THAT IS FALSE.

UGLY UVE BEEN PUNKED

And once more, you still look like the crypt-keeper, you still have Alopecia and you still pulled your suit out of a crumpled, brown grocery bag.

And whats wrong with Sambraros anyway??

pantherg08

AHHH MY OGOR SHREK LOOKING BROTHA I SEE YOU ARE AS S.T.U.P.I.D AS YOU LOOK

WHEN ME OR ANY OTHER BROTHA OR SISTER SAYS YOU ARE NOT ALLOWED IN MY HOME IT MEANS THAT YOU ARE NOT WORTHY TO COME INTO MY PRESSENCE OR MY PHSYCIAL HOME FOR YOU ARE NOT WORTHY WHICH LEADS ME TO GO DEEPR AND ASK THE SIMPLE QUESTION

NOW WHY WOULD HOMOSEXUALITY POP INTO UR MIND?

ARE YOU A HOMOSEXUAL?

IF NOT THEN WHY DID YOU FEEL THE NEED TO TELL ME AND EVERYONE ELSE IN UR WORDS

I aint gay nigga why would i want to go to your home???

UR IDIOCY BRINGS TO MIND THE CLIP WHERE BABA DR KHALID MUHAMMAD HAD TO CORRECT PHILL DANHUE WHEN PHILL DANAHUE EXCUSED HIM OF CHILDISH COMMENTS WHEN BROTHA KHALID MADE A COMMENT ABOUT PULLING UP THE POPES SKIRT OR SOMETHING ON THOSE LINES AND HE INDEED MEAN PULL UP HIS SKIRT TO REVEALE HIS SECRECTS AND THAT OF THE CATHOLIC CHURCH.

NOW WOULDNT YOU AGREE THAT WHEN SOMEONE WONT ALLOW YOU TO COME TO THERE HOME THAT IS A NEGATIVE REFLECTION ON YOU AND EVEN THE COMPANY U MAY KEEP?

(NOD UR HEAD)

HOMO ALERT HOMO ALERT HOMO ALERT

maybe if u got some u woudent be so uptight!!

NOW WHY ARE YOU WORRIED ABOUT ANOTHER MAN HAVING SEX?

AS THE KID SAID ON THE BUNDOCKS “NICCA U GAY) LOL

NOW THAT WOULD BE CHILDISH OF ME IF I HELD THAT HOMOSEXUAL COMMENT AGAINST NOW WOULDNT IT?

HOMO ALERT HOMO ALERT HOMO ALERT
ad a book and eat a dick b***h!!!

WHY ARE U TELLING ME TO EAT A ANOTHER MANS P***S?

VERY STRANGE AND VERY GAY!

I THINK I WILL LET THE SISTERS JUDGE YOU BUT FROM MY PERSPECTIVE YOU ARE FIT TO BE INBETWEEN ANY SISTERS LEGS SINCE U OVER THERE WONDERING ABOUT ME HAVING SEX AND THEN TELLING ME TO GO EAT ANOTHER MAN P***S.

YOU ARE A HOMO

NOT A HOMO THUG BUT A HOMO.

ANYTHANG ELSE U SAY TO ME I WILL BRING UR DAUGHTER AND UR BABY MAMA INTO THIS DISCUSSION KUZ WITH ME THERE IS NO OFF LIMITS.

Damn i must have hit a button with calling u out u seem to know alot about gay things dont u? and u can bring anybody u want up, u dont know me and i doubt u would attempt anything on me or my daughters well being, but go ahead if u want!! I thought a ogar or shrek was fat! im not that but ok!! And yeah when u were saying not invited to your home, i did think u was gay, i mean i dont invite random niggas to my home!!!! And your calling me a negative reflection, i work about to finish school and take care of my seed how is that negative? And if what is said makes u want to bring my kid in the mix what does that say about u? U are a coward, cant beat a man so u attack his kid? If your gonna check me, check me with something relevant, i can see why your racist, your not a very smart person! So i repeant go eat a dick, cause its obvious u aint eating no p***y! B***H!!!

pantherg08

LAST I CHECKED PANTHERS WERE GOING EXTINCT

I SHALL RETURN LATER BUT ASA PARTING GIFT

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XpntYM4wcAo

READ BETWEEN THE LINES

And i just noticed u addressed all the gay comments i made about u but nothing else why is that? I mean cant u address the issue or is it u dont have the mental capacity to express your opinion????

pantherg08

IM BACK YOU DUM OGOR

NOW YOU READ THIS AND READ THIS CARFLLY NOT ONLY HAVE YOU CONFIRMED YOU AINT CUT OUT TO BE WITH NO SISTA NOR BE DOWN WITH THE HOUSE OF SISTERS AND BROTHERS
LET ME STOP THERE.

WHAT KIND OF BROTHA WOULD ASSUME THAT THERE ACTIONS AND WHO THEY QURALL WITH WONT BRING THERE LOVED ONES INVOVLED AND ASSUME THEY WONT MAKE ANY ATTEMPTS ON THERE WELL BEING

YOU CALL ME A COWARD BECAUSE I BELEIVE IN WAR OR BATTLE KIDS AND FAMILY MEMBERS R NOT OFF LIMITS BUT IF I AM A COWARD FOR THAT THEN IT IS FAIR ENOUGH TO ASSUME THAT YOU THEN IN A BATTLE WOULD BE A DEAD MAN WITH A DEAD FAMILY OR A ALIVE CRIPPLED SADDEN DEPRESSED MAN WITH A DEAD FAMILY.

YOU NOT NO SOLIDER U NOT NO PORTECTOR OF CHILDREN AND OUR AFRAKAN WOMEN YOU ARE A BIG O SOFTY AND LET ME GIVE U SOME ADVICE WHEN IN A BATTLE THINK LESS ABOUT FORCE AND MORE ABOUT STRETEGY,YOU OVER SIZED OGOR.

YOU NOT CUT OUT FOR THIS BIZNESS AS THEY SAY IN NEW YORK SON AND AS THEY SAY DOWN SOUTH BOY,REALLY I FEEL SORRY FOR UR DAUGTHER DOUBLE 1 BECAUSE SHE IS A WRETCHED HALF BREED AND 2 BECAUSE SHE HAS A COWARDLY FATHER WHO IF SOMEONE WERE TO BRAKE IN YOU WOULD RUN AND CALL THE POLICE LOL BWHAHAAHAHA WHILE UR WOMAN IS SCREAMING AND YO BYTCH MADE SELF IS IN THE CORNER CALLING THE PALE MAN TO COME.

MEN LIKE YOU SHOULD DO UR BEST TO STAY OUT OF CONFLICT BECAUSE NOT ONLY ARE THERE AS YOU SAY COWARDS OUT HERE LIKE ME BUT THERE ARE MONSTERS OUT HERE LIKE ME AND IN A WAR NOTHING IS OFF LIMITS,NOTHING.

SINCE U FAIL TO REALIZE THIS FACT U HURT MY HEART AND I TRULY PITTY YOU EVEN UR AVATAR PICTURE SCREAMS

BIG O DUM NICCA

HEY NA BOYE GO A FETCH ME SOME WATA AND YOU OF COURSE REPLY YES SA.

(ME SHAKING MY HEAD)

YOU ARE A WEAK BROTHA WHICH IS WHY YOU MADE A WEAK DECSION TO PENATRATE SOME FAT MEXCIAN AND TWO WHEN U HAD THE CHANCE SHOULD OF KICKED HER FAT A.S.S IN HER STOMACH AND MAYB JUST MAYB U COULD REDEEM URSELF BUT AS OF NOW PORKY LOL YOU CANT BE REDEEMD UR WORSE THEN TRASH FOR TRASH CAN BE RECYCLED.

ON SOME REAL TALK

YOUR A DISGRACE

NOW GO ON PORKY WITH THE OTHR PIGS IN THE BARN

AND CHANGE THAT DOCILE WEAK LOOKING AVATAR PICTURE U GOT GOING ON AND TAKING OFF THE DU RAG

MIKE JONES ALREADY GOTS THE LOOK AHAHAHAHAA

“ihateinteracial WHY IS IT WHEN PEOPLE GET HIT WITH THE TRUTH… ARE SHOULD I SAY WITH THE REALITY OF THE SITUATION… THEY GET SO ANGRY.. AND STEP OUTSIDE OF THE RIM OF REALITY… EXCEPT FOR ME: WHAT I MEAN IS YOU GAVE ME A REAL WAKE UP CALL… BECAUSE THERE IS INTERACIAL BULL SHYT IN MY FAMILY… AND I DON’T APPROVE OF IT ONE D*MN BIT… I SEE THAT gapeaches26 HAS MADE HER PICTURE PRIVATE GO FIGURE… AND pantherg08 YOU SAID: And what’s wrong with sambraros… THAT IS NOT A WORD SO DID YOU MEAN: sombreros AND IF SO I DON’T KNOW… WHY DON’T YOU TELL US WHAT’S WRONG WITH A MEXICAN HAT… YOU DUMB AS HELL FOR THAT ONE…

@gapeaches
yeah looked like someone broke their cover, you think lol.

@ihate
What the f**k are u talking about? U cant get me on the issue so u go wayyyyyy of subject? And what is this war your talking about? Im not going to war with anybody, this is what im talking about u cant stick to the issue at hand, ur over there getting hot and bothered while im addressing the issue. And i do believe kids are off issue THERE KIDS STUPID! As far as isulting my babymama, i really dont care about that at all!! You have shown your mental colors am i am done with this subject since nobody wants to address the SUBJECT AT HAND!! and @blackdragqueen, it was just a joke lighten up!! Please if u want to address the issue im in if you want to yell out threats from 1,000 miles away i say grow up!!!

Black_Queen09

ITS BECAUSE WHEN ONE FEELS THEY ARE DEEPLY WRONG INSIDE IT PAINS THEM AND BECAUSE SOME R TO WEAK TO STEP UP AND TAKE RESPONSIBILITY AND ADMIT THERE WRONG DOING THEY INSTEAD TRY TO OVER RIDE THE FEELING OF VUNERABILITY THAT COMES WITH BEING WRONG.

SAD REALLY VERY FKN SAD.

PEOPLE LIKE ME AND U LOVED TO BE PROVEN WRONG FOR WE R RESPONISBLE AND OWNING UP TO SOMETHING GIVES US A GOOD AND I MEANT GREAT SENSE OF PRIDE FOR ONLY MEN AND WOMEN OWN UP.

ONE WHO IS WRONG AND SAYS I WAS WRONG CUT OFF MY HEAD

NOW HOW MANY PEOPLE WOULD DO THAT?

UR PLAY FIGHTTING AND U HIT THE PERSON ON ACCIDENT IN THE FACE AND SO U STOP AND TELL THE PERSON THEY 2 CAN HIT U IN UR FACE,WHO HOW MANY PEOPLE HAVE THE GUTS TO DO THAT?

NOT TO MANY

NOW “ihateinteracial YOU ARE DEFINITELY 100% RIGHT… AND I AGREE WITH YOU… I JUST WISH THEIR WAS MORE REAL BLACK KINGS LIKE YOU… YOU ARE DEFINITELY VERY RARE SWEETHEART…” “pantherg08 ARE YOU REALLY THAT SHADOW SWEETHEART… THAT YOU HAVE TO CALL ME BLACKDRAGQUEEN… LAST TIME I CHECK I WAS ALL FEMALE… IS THAT WHAT YOU WANT TO BE A DRAG QUEEN SWEETHEART… ANYWAY YOU ARE DEFINITELY BELOW MY LEVEL SO KEEP IT MOVING… YOU ARE SOUNDING DUMBER AND DUMBER EVERY SECOND THAT YOU OPEN YOUR MOUTH… BE GONE MISERABLE EXCUSE FOR A MAN… I NEVER THREATEN YOU ON NO LEVEL SO WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT… YOU SEE THE DEVIL IS FULL OF LIES AND DECEIVE… AND I CAN SEE THAT YOU ARE VERY BUSY DEVIL SEED…”

The authour is VERY BIASED!!!!!! just because the Black man may not have a Bachelor’s degree or even a Associate degree he is less eligiblre to love, date and marry???? I got a Assoicate Degree in Graphic Art, and I want a woman who not had kids and would like to have some (I’m old fashioned and want the kid to have my name). The author is implying that Black men are no good and they are blameless, innocent and can do no wrong in relationships with Black men;
I have no problem if they want to date White men; keep in mind that they had the world handed to them since day 1 and Blacks haven’t….they had dated, had kids out of wedlock like us, but had the resources to take care of them.while the Black men get rejected or just get bits and pieces of help…and they had TRAPS ready for us to fail, and unfortunately it’s working (jails, death, poverty)..but what about those who are doing their best NOW (like Me)??????? Some ladies rejects us because we don’t make enough money, look sexy like the movie star or we don’t agree with what they want and damn what we want in return…If a Black male author writes a book about dating White women, he would catch hell….they can go to others races if they want(better be for love) , but they’re no such thing as a PERFECT person in ANY race or either sex……..

I agree with brother Ihateinteracial 100%.

Posted by gapeaches26:Yes, I said I will not miss out on a “Good” man waiting for the Ideal Black Man to come along. People love whose good to them. What is so wrong with that? Sure, if I wanted any old man at all Black, White or whatever I could get him but that’s not what I want. I want a real man. Someone who is responsible, intelligent, wise, good-natured and good hearted and the last time I checked those were not attributes or qualities possessed by just the Black Man. When you limit yourself, you lose out and that’s just the way that life is period.

There are plenty of real black men, ideal black men all around, you just have to choose to open your eyes and see them. And I’m not limiting myself by choosing to only be with or wait for the right Black Queen. Like I say one of my major preferences is that my Black Queen have no kids(because I don’t have any and I would like us to share that first experience together) However if I met a Black Queen that had everything else I was looking for but had a child, HELL NO IM NOT PASSING HER BY, if I did THAT WOULD BE LIMITING MYSELF. I don’t understand how you think your limiting yourself if you wait on a GOOD BLACK KING! I know my Black Queen is out their I have faith in that as well as faith in my people period. Its so sad to me how you and many others on this forum have lost faith in our people and ultimately yourselves. You say you can get any old man, So then why don’t you have faith that YOU WILL GET THE GREAT BLACK KING!!!! I DON’T UNDERSTAND! And all those great attributes you named, yes they are possessed by other races of men, but guess what they were possessed by THE BLACK MAN FIRST. WE ARE THE ORIGINAL PEOPLE, but I’ll come back to that. Point is just because you’ve had bad experiences doesn’t mean give up on your own kind and look elsewhere, honestly plain simple period point blank that is weak to me. I’ve been through the ringer in my relationships with Black Women, and while I’ve made mistakes I’ve been with Black women that I did everything right with and they still were on total bullshyt. If anyone had an excuse to date outside my race it would be me, and I’ve ran across all types of white women that fit my criteria, and some that would have took care of my ass, I have white female friends that to this day tell me about good white women I should hook up with. And you know what my response has and will always be, HELL NO!!!!! I LOVE MY BEAUTIFUL BLACK SISTERS TOO MUCH, I LOVE MY PEOPLE AND RACE AS A WHOLE TOO MUCH, AND I LOVE MYSELF TOO MUCH, TO EVERY CHOOSE A WHITE WOMAN! Maybe that’s the problem you lost love for your people and maybe even yourself, and I think that is the true limitation. I’ll pray for ya sister and those that think like you, the brothers and sisters who would rather go to whites, than take the time to find their matching Black King or Queen! I hope you all start loving yourself and your people more

Well, well, well….@ihateinteracial and black queen bravo to you both. I loved reading it and I will read over it again when I take my lunch break. Maatra your comments always open my eyes along with CaliFemme. Rayskilla6 thank you, it was all well stated. I always knew that the majority of black men/women still are together, whether married or couples. Theres just a small percentage of those that are lost, believe the hype and mooch off of the pale pilgrims. That use them(craKKKas) for whatever they got, ebt cards or food stamps. You know a white bytch already thinks she has something to prove messing with a black man so they pull out all the stops. Those food stamp, tramp hoes break themselves believe that! And the ones you see with a steady black really haven’t came up on nothing for it’s a man “us” sistahs wouldn’t date. Truth of the matter is those of us that know our history, see the news and know how these pilgrims are don’t f/uck with them. You’d have your ancestors rolling in their graves at the sight of that shyt. I’m just too real, and well educated to stoop so low and deal with them quakers. And the wet dog and hot dog odor combination is unbearable….phewwwwwwwwww!!!!

Splash_Waters253…”I Love My Black Man!”

posted by gapeaches26: Again, the odds are stacked agianst Black on Black love because the men out number women 3 to 1 so what do you do then? Sit around and wait for someone who may never come you way? Ent!!! Wrong answer. At that point you explore other avenues. A White man, Hispanic man, Indian man or Asian man are just as capable of loving you as a Black man. This is not 1955. Also, you shouldn’t just side with someone because of their race. Why? That’s not wise. So if you are told to jump off a bridge by a black person and urged not to by someone of another race, you’d risk your life and jump just because a Black person told you to do it. I don’t think you would. Sure we’ve had our struggles as Black people living in America but that does not negate the fact that people are individuals not a conglomoration.

I do not understand your logic, you start off with a factual statement. Yes odds are stacked against black love black family, and not to be disrespectful BUT DAMNIT THINK ABOUT THAT! EVERY BLACK PERSON ON HERE THINK ABOUT THAT SHYT 4REAL! WAKE THE F**K UP PEOPLE!!!! Why is that? BECAUSE THE BLACK FAMILY(I.E. BLACK HUSBAND, BLACK, WIFE, BLACK CHILDREN) IS THE BACKBONE AND FOUNDATION OF OUR RACE AND CULTURE AND HAS BEEN SINCE THE BEGINNING OF TIME. DESTROY THAT and you destroy US!!!! AND I’M NOT JUST TARGETING THE WOMEN, ALL YOU BROTHERS THAT ARE WITH OR CHASE AFTER WHITE WOMEN ARE ALSO CONTRIBUTING TO THE DESTRUCTION OF OUR RACE!!!! KNOW THAT!!!!! When I was younger I use to make the foolish statement that “I’d f**k a white girl, but I’d neva been in a relationship with one”(and for the record i’ve never slept with a white woman) Now I would dare make that statement! Also the “if a black person told you to jump off a building” analogy was illogical and unnecessary. One thing that is common in all animals and humans is survival and self preservation, so no one would jump off a building because someone of the same race told them to and another race said don’t, come on now. However to turn you’re analogy on its ear, you and other brothers and sisters are allowing someone to tell you to jump off a bridge. The bridge of love, loyalty, and dedication to your own race.

posted by gapeaches26: “Heck, if were are so united and such an un-breakable force why does our race have the most inner conflict and are always looking to tear each down with violence, killing, drugs, health issues and so on. And you’re right we do need to love and uplift each other as humans first, individuals second and the rest falls in line.”

Because our race is the original race sweetheart! We were created first and were favored by THE MOST HIGH! What happened, well just like with a wayward hardheaded first born child, because they are the oldest the parent punishes them the harshest because they are supposed to know better. So when we lost our way, and got “too big for our breeches” as the saying goes, THE MOST HIGH spanked us and allowed other races to become dominate, and those races have done everything in their power to hold on to that dominance. THAT IS WHY THE BLACK FAMILY STRUCTURE HAS BEING ATTACKED AT EVERY OPPORTUNITY, THAT IS WHY WE’VE BEEN BRAINWASHED TO HATE OUR SELVES OUR IMAGE OUR CULTURE, CONDITIONED TO SEEK OUT OR BE ASSIMILATED INTO WHITE CULTURE, AND ERASE OUR OWN. THEY’VE PLANTED AND CONTINUE TO PLANT THE SEEDS OF DISHARMONY BETWEEN BLACKS, AND WE END UP PICKING THE BALL UP AND RUNNING WITH IT!!!!

Its a game sisters, here we go again. Many brothers have died because of the so called white women trying to be with a Moor. Now we see are sisters playing the game again. Have you ever read the BOOK, The destruction of Black civilization. Please, do. The white population can not survive without us, and our women are the fruits of life. So sisters if you chose to engage so called white men please for the benefit of our people.

We need to keep it black and keep the black nation strong A brother education or career should not matter.As long as he aint no thug in and out of jail get his ass up every work day for the 9-5 grind all that other s**t should not matter what the f**k happened to love that,s why divorce lawyers is making a killing everybody is focused on material s**t and not the man and how that man is going to treat you.There are plenty of young black men like myself out there that has never been jailed and is leading a positive life. and who would rather stay with my own then to go sleep with devils. w Splash_waters253 you are 100% right.

What are you black males complaining about??? LET THEM GO AND BE GLAD THEY SORTED THEMSELVES OUT. Those black females wont be having black males and mistreating them,teaching them self hate,to hate black males and see to it he is at the mercy of every other race, so she can sit back and watch him suffer.
She will terrorize and play them off each other with dehumanizing psy-ops everyday so much that he wont be able to think and be college material. Even if he does,he will be an educated enemy to his people.Through out history, the Black female IN GENERAL has done a piss poor job in bringing up strong Black males.

They love to blame the victimized black males,but for the most part through out history, the evidence shows what kind of men white women turn out. even when she marries psycho,self hating black males. look at Obama? Of course he will stab the race in the back,because that is what powerful black people do.No blacks on the planet with power have done anything,but Hurt people,So they have no role models.

LET THEM GO. YOU ARE BETTER OFF. TRY AND FIND A DECENT BLACK FEMALE,IF NOT YOU WILL BE BETTER OFF DATING OUTSIDE YOUR RACE.THE MOTHER WILL NOT NUKE YOUR BOY INTO OBLIVION B4 IT IS 10 YEARS OLD LIKE A BLACK FEMALE WOULD.

LET THEM GO GET WHITE A PERSON OR ANYONE OR ANYTHING ELSE. LEAVE THEM ALONE. YOUR YET UNBORN SONS WILL THANK YOU FOR IT AND THEY WILL BE ABLE TO COMPLETE AND LOVE THEMSELVES

interracial relationships and the offspring produced decrease the physical and social differences between humans which is a good thing in my opinion. the less different we are the more we will be able to get along. maybe one day in the distant future there will be no such thing as different races which will inevitably lead to less conflict around the world. im sure some will not agree with this.

Let me guess, the two commentators below me are bitter negro men that are also biased about the mutt loving hype thats been going on. One thing I notice about you hypocrites is that when a black woman does decide to date outside her race you all make a big issue about it. Making comments about these women being with the oppressor but those white hoes were also oppressors too. They were addimant on making black women feel as if they are the better race. Being pale and having the pale skin, stringy dog hair and devil blues was something to admire and be jealous of….and thats what these white folks wanted us to think and believe. They wanted “us” to feel as if it were a priviledge to be the house negro, while you served them and ‘waited on them hand and foot.’ You would like for all of us to believe that black women are engaging in this traitorous act but in all actuality you black men have been doing it for years. So just because you may see a few wm/bw couples don’t get that s/hit twisted because there are millions of us black women that know there are black men that desire ‘US’ and only us. Living here in Alaska, the only negros I see are the ones with no job, no high school diploma, were left by a black woman in a previous relationship and are bitter, and are with fat sloppy and eskimo b/itches. Cracked out, meth heads, talking as if smoking dro all day is cool and having welfare is like the thing to do up here. Thank God I know better, I’ve finished dental assisting school and have a wonderful BLACK MAN that loves me and vice versa!!! Wake up negros….or keep that bulls/hit on your side of the fence. DOn’t spread that nonsense thinking there’s truth behind it. You are weak and clueless and obviously didn’t have a strong black mother or father that raised you right, or you choose to rebel!

White man, black man, holla if you can, give a sistah what she really needs, that’s Benjamins.

Jahz_Lynx1
3-2-2010 4:06 pm

White man, black man, holla if you can, give a sistah what she really needs, that’s Benjamins.

Sister there is far more to life, yourself and your people money! You should never seek a man for strictly for that, and vice verse. And if you go seeking a white man just for money you truly will be lost. Love your self, your people, and your heritage

repost: meant to say “yourself and your people than money!” You get the point

I refuse to be the stereotype of the angry, bitter, Black woman with a chip on her shoulder, bad attitude and loves to thrive on confrontation and drama. My mother and father raised me to be a lady and I am ashamed to have stooped to such levels as to bicker back and forth with some of you all on here like an eight year old child. We are all adults and the one of the greatest life lesson’s you learn from that is that people will do, think and feel whatever and however they want regardless of what you say or do if they feel their views are right. With that being said, you all know my veiws on the matter and nothing that you say will change that. Sorry, I owe you nothing but common respect as a human being. You guys and gals have a nice day!

@Rayskilla, thanks for the prayer offering but pray for yourself first, not me. Ask God to continue guiding you in the path that you would like to go. PEACE OUT

*lessons

@jazzpast

I see your point all the way. I have said some of those things in past blog entries and people act like that dosent exist. Thanks for telling it like it is!!

this is also another reason why black men date outside there race!! so if your a women go ahead and do the same, but remember there are loosers in every race, just because he is white dosent mean he wont cheat on you, beat on you, or mistreat u!!

I posted this earlier;
When u grow up in the ghetto, are anything close to that, black women are generally attracted to the thug type, selling drugs, getting into fights, breaking the law, u get more respect for that than for education and doing right. Alot of black women dosent respect a black men that works hard and treats her right, they are looked upon as soft, Alot of black women are not attracted to that. They will say they want the good guy, but they choose the thug type. Thats on the black women, so dont act like they are victims, they are equally if not more to blame because they choose that kind of men. every real man knows that women lie, so they may complain about no good black men, but they also sleep with these kind of men behind good black mens backs!! If u want testimate to this go to utube and type in black women wanting thugs, u will see what i mean.

@Splash_Waters253
“Let me guess, the two commentators below me are bitter negro men that are also biased about the mutt loving hype that’s been going on.One thing I notice about you hypocrites is that when a black woman does decide to date outside her race you all make a big issue about it.”

No, I believe you want Black males to make a big issue out of it,because you want to get pleasure from watching them suffer…I also believe it is the only reason most black females get up in the morning. (and have these black males they mistreat so maybe they will have the chance to enjoy watching them live in hell and die a slow and painful death,or even better; kill and harm other black males in some way shape or form..There is is no sweeter sight To A black female than a black male being being beat down and made to kiss the feet of the white oppressor their whole lives. SHE RAISES THEM IN A MANNER SO THAT WILL ALWAYS BE THE CASE.) The historical condition of black males around the world proves that..Other than that,I agree with a good bit of what you say:

HISTORY SHOWS members of the white race do a better job not raising self hating,pitiful monsters that mostly HARM to their own kind to the point where EVEN WHEN THEY ARE EDUCATED, HAVE POWER AND MONEY AND RUN EVERYTHING,THEY ARE MOSTLY TOXIC TO THEIR OWN KIND, EVEN WHEN THEY MARRY OTHER RACES.THE ONLY WAY BLACK FEMALES DONT TURN OUT CRAZY,INSANE BLACK MALE WEAKLINGS IS WITH OUR WHITE MALE GOD;THE SAME WAY SHE MISTREATS AND DISRESPECTS BLACKS DOING BUSINESS THEN TURNS AROUND AND TREATS ANY WHITE GOD WITH DEEP RESPECT. THE SAME GOES FOR BLACK MALES BREEDED TO BE INSANE,SELF DESTURCTIVE AND SELF HATING BY THE BLACK FEMALE. WHO TURNS OUT THE MOST USELESS EATERS WHO WILL KILL ANOTHER BLACK PERSON OVER A LOOK,BUT WILL LAP DOG FOR A WHITE PERSON?? THE SINGLE/MARRIED WHITE MALE/FEMALE? OR THE THE SINGLE/MARRIED BLACK MALE/FEMALE.

AGAIN,I SAY TO THE BLACK MALES; LEAVE THE BLACK FEMALES THAT WANT TO GO MARRY WHITE MALES ALONE. QUIT COMPLAING,SHUT AND LET THEM GO AND BE GRATEFUL THAT THOSE PSYCO-MANIACS WILL NOT BE RAISING YOUR SONS TO BE PITIFUL,WEAK, SELF HATING ANIMALS WHO HAVE BEEN SO TRAMATIZED,MOST ARENT CAPABLE OF FUNCTIONING IN A WHITE SUPREAMACIST SOCIETY. IT IS A BLESSING AND BOTH WILL BENEFIT. SHE WILL NOT MISTREAT HER WHITE MAN’S MALES BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT BLACK AND HAVE NAPPY HAIR,DARK SKIN,BIG NOSES AND BIG LIPS.THE SAME GOES FOR BLACK MALES.

YOUR CHILDREN WILL NOT HAVE TO GO THRU THE DAILY HUMILIATION OF WATCHING CRAZY NO GOOD FILTHY BLACK RACISTS THAT BELIEVE IN WHITE SUPREMACY TREAT WHITE PEOPLE WITH RESPECT THEN TREAT THEM LIKE CRAP FOR NO OTHER REASON THAN BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT WHITE. THEN WATCH THEM DENY EVERY SINGLE BIT OF IT.

and another thing about this article they said give whites a try? there are other races, mexican, purtorican, asian, it dosent have to be just whites!!

such a double standard with these posts!!! i say people date whoever they want to date as long as you have a strong sense of identity of who you are…you can date whoever you want to…REAL TALK…as long as they treat you with respect…i don’t have a problem with it…but what pisses people off is when some of these articles say ‘what the black woman can learn from another group of women’ or ‘what the black man can learn from another group of men’..other than that bulls**t…DO YOU!!!!

If you just focus on one ethnic group you could still miss out. Not to mention that it’s as stupid as sticking to one ethnic group.

Did hello beautiful invade this segment as well?

Sure if they are your type! In life you should date who you like and who is your type, otherwise you will regret it. I have seen many black ladies marry outside their race only to see a Fine Azz Brother and regret it. Be careful is what I say to anyone listening to this!

odoggz@3-1-2010 4:01 pm – Clearly it shows you THINK you know what you are talking about. I addressed your previous post which had these comments: “…and that’s why I’m saying that these people are not trying to show they’re “open minded”, by dating whites, they’re trying to send a RACIAL message to black men! That’s the worst reason to go dating outside your race, just to prove to black men that you can get other men? Stupid and childish.
I asked you when Black men are dating outside the race is it because they are “open minded”? How does that deems me “illiterate”? Too heavy a question for you to answer so you had to b.s.?
Further, I do not see where the Loving case has to do with my point about Black men in recent years have been leaving the Black community in hordes to date, live with or marry Heidi. Interracial love has been going on since the arrival of Humans. It was outlawed by White men during slavery to control their “product” – slaves. But, since around the early 80′s Black men have lost their minds in droves over Heidi. I’m not writing about the few Black men who actually fall in love with her with a sincere heart. I’m talking about the ones who think the cash they have is too good for a woman that look like he does when he looks in the mirror, the one who doesn’t want his babies to look like him because he hates how he looks, the ones who if they’re dealing with women in the Black community they put those women on a subpar standard yet get him next to Heidi — even one from the trailer park — he is on his best behavior for years. Do you know those types odoggz? Sure you do. They are most of the Black men dating Heidi. She knows it, she doesn’t care because she is so competitive, just the idea of “taking” the Black woman’s man makes her feel superior to the Queen of Humans. And, guess who helped make her feel that way in the last 20 years? She have sat down and lecture Queens on how to get and treat their Black “princes” with them kneeling at her feet nodding their heads with fiery agreement. And, if you can’t see that you are in denial and i can’t say I blame you on any other Brotha connected with such mental disturbance.
Is that literate enough for ya?

cestleon, HA! good point!

@Pinkii13
OH…

White girls just a sex thing to me fuk white people.Because in this country whites still run America wither you believe it or not.An I couldn’t work for no whites no matter how much they pay fuk this country.So I hope all these black broads that want to be white have fun an all the black men trying to be a white man have fun

the amount of energy people put into worrying about what others choose to do such as dating/relationships amazes me. Does it really matter? If YOU’RE not down with it then KEEP IT MOVING…all that bytching and complaining about black men/women and white people is pointless but also VVVEEERRRRYYYYY annoying.

YAWN

Being that most of the black male genetic material is locked up in prison by design. 3 out of 4 black men in big cities are in prison for even for petty crimes. This is by design by white supremacists who run the judicial and prison system and privately owned prisons are big business today.

I can’t blame black women for dating out of their race because most of us are locked up.

Splash_Waters253

indeed we aint never went know where we have always be here but like water we will find a way on some real and this time around we gonna be more stealth then the black planethers

more buisness minded more professinal more in touch with afraka

dont trip we living in some good times shet is heating up

shippper2009

trust me there will be someone like u in the future and what u just said will get u killed.

yall betta wake up this race shet aint no joke

pantherg08

u just a big o phaggot a big o bytch for nothen

we have no respect for you holmes since u wanna kick it around mexcians so damm much.

get on nergo and go to mexcio wit u ugly lil mixed kid and see how they accept yo fat afrakan self.

u a disgrace

got a baby by a mexcian

ehhhhhhhhhhh yuck

u are a weaklin

doing_me74

good brotha pass this and a business on to ur kids and u will do urself and our race a favor

respect

You know what I don’t like about this site – the way the news stories get truncated. Why can’t they post the whole thing? Half the time when I follow the read more link a whole different picture emerges of what the story is about.

Oh, I have dated white men in droves. I am still open to dating them but I really want a good black man. If I fell in love with someone white I’d marry him, but what a headache for me, him, our families, kids on down the line. I want my children to be the same dark chocolate I am. Is that so wrong? My best friend from college was a white guy with blonde hair and blue eyes and always said that he wanted a daughter with the same features. Now he has her and he’s happy. I just want to be the same kind of happy with my mini-me’s and no white guy can give me that.

FUK A BUSINESS IF THE BUSINESS AINT SEPARATED FROM WHITES THEN WHITE PEOPLE STILL RUN THAT SHYT.ALSO TO BLACK WOMEN IF YOU DATE WHITE MEN HOW IS THAT HELPING THE BLACK RACE BECAUSE IF ALOT OF BLACK MEN ARE IN JAIL ETC.THEN GOING TO THE WHITE MAN MAKING MORE WHITE BABIES HOW DOES THAT HELP BLACK MEN BECAUSE REMEMBER THE CHILD TAKES ON THE SEED OF THE FATHER.SO IF A BLACK WOMEN HAVE SEX WITH A WHITE DUDE THE CHILD IS WHITE NOT BLACK.I FEEL SINCE BLACK WOMEN ARE SO EDUCATED THEN WHY NOT TAKE ALL THAT EDUCATION AN BENEFIT THE YOUNG BLACK MALES INSTEAD OF BEING SELFISH JUST SO YOU CAN BE WITH THAT WHITE DUDE AN LOOK DOWN ON BLACK MEN BECAUSE YOUR a TRADER AS FAR AS IM CONCERN.AN TO THE PEOPLE WHO CLAIM RACE DOESN’T MATTER THEN WHY THE BLACK POPULATION IS NOW LIKE AT 9 OR 7 PERCENT FROM A 16 PERCENT RATE THAT IT USE TO BE.SINCE SO MANY BLACK MEN ARE IN JAIL ETC.I FEEL THESE TYPE OF WOMEN ARE UNCLE TOMS BECAUSE THEIR CONTRIBUTING TO THE WHITE RACE AN NOT CARING WHAT HAPPENS TO A BLACK MAN.I GOT NO RESPECT FOR a BLACK WOMEN WITH A WHITE MAN BECAUSE SHE IS SAYING SHE’LL LET A BLACK MAN DIE WHILE SHE FURTHER THE AGENDA OF WHITES FUKKING TRADER

IF I WAS TO START A BUSINESS I WONT HIRE NOBODY BUT BLACKS BUT SINCE WERE IN AMERICA IT GOT TO BE EVERYBODY THATS THE TRICK THEY PLAY IN AMERICA I BELIEVE IN SEPARATION NOT INTEGRATION.INTEGRATION DIDN’T HELP SHYT IT ONLY MADE BLACKS HASTE MORE ON EACH OTHER OVER MONEY AN POWER.

Doing_me74 you are so full of bs. You get your @ss on here constantly downing black women. Now these same black women you talk about are dating those same white people you claimed you adore, oh wait you only adore the white women oops my bad. Now you got your @ss on here talking about you can’t respect black women for having a relationship with a white man. Nigg@ please! You were over at Hb a couple of weeks ago talking about you don’t date black women. You prefer white women. Well guest what a lot of us black women prefer white men. Boy I tell you some of y’all nigg@s are never happy. The black man is the most selfish creatures on earth! Not all but most. It amaze me how it’s ok for you all(that do) to have children and relationships with white women but then get upset when you see a black woman do the same. Look you do you and let black women do them. So stop hating. H.e.l.l. it shouldn’t matter anyways you don’t date us(black women), so live on brother live on. SMDH nigg@ actually called black women traders. Too funny.

@doin_me74

DOING_ME DO YOU GIVE THAT SAME SPEECH TO THE BLACKMAN THAT DO IT? Theres more blackmen that is with nonblack women than black women with non black men. AND WITH WHAT THEY DOING IS NOT BENEFITING THE BLACK COMMUNITY EITHER!

And all this IR stuff is not helping not one bit!! STILL BLACKMEN HAVE THE HIGHS UNEMPLOYMENT, THE PRISON IS FULL OF BLACKMEN AND ALL KIND OFF INJUSTIES TO BLACK PEOPLE PERIOD!! SO WHATS THE POINT OF GOING OUT SIDE OF YOUR RACE!! You say love dont have no color, it do when its time to look for a job or to try to get a loan, or when you walk in to a store an all eyes is on you. so any way the black men need the same speech!!

@ sophinal40 girl he is a fraud he was just on hb talking about he don’t date black women so u are wasting your time with that. He don’t date black women so his speech is artificial!

I’m still not changing my opinion at all.

Oh yea I say that because sometimes black women piss me off so its my right to say what I want even if I’m hating because people can’t tell me to feel the way I feel fuk that.I can hate whenever I feel like cant nobody tell me what to fell who the hell are you people.You aint shyt to me I can do what I want.So if I say I don’t date black women I mean it as a insult to make black women mad an if I cause confusing that’s what I want to stir up peoples emotions because if I can do that then I can control people the way I want.So I’m going to hate to make anybody mad just so I can poison people mind an I still aint changing my opinion.So go date the white man trader.And just like today I call a black dude in a guard uniform a trader in his face so that’s what it is.

@doing_me74

ITS like that you dont date the brown sugas; that ok cuss theres so many that do!!!!!!!!

ROTFLMAO @ doing_me74 good save, not! You sicken me with your bs post about black women. Because you are upset with a few black women you don’t have to blame the whole race. You are a sicko seeking attention. SMDH.

Im not seeking no attention.I meant what I said but check this since black men is the problem like its seem what solution do ya have at the end of the dAY?Thats my thing because its easy to talk bad about us with no problem

lmao @ you all going back and forth with all that dogging black women and black men. Solution: Keep it moving

YAWN

I’m not dogging shyt Im asking for a solution since you know so much I bet you don’t have one

@ doing_me74, if you aren’t “dogging shyt” why respond to a comment not directed towards you? LMAO

silliness

This is all too funny doing_me74 since you are the one with the “black women issues”. You have a lot of hate against black women as if they(we) are your enemy. And it’s a shame since a black woman decide to keep you and bring you into this world. And what appreciation do she get from you “black man”, betrayal yes when you talk about black women and belittle and degrade us you are talking about us as a whole. There is no separation from “black women” an black women in your family(it kills me when a lot of you black women bashers like to separate us from the women in your family). So the next time you want to piss off “black women” by demeaning and degrading us, just know that you are talking about the black women that “you do” respect and love. And for the record I’m not a anti “black man” hater. So your question do not apply to me. You should reverse your question and add w-o to the m-e-n(you will then get women) and ask yourself “since black women is “my” problem what is “my” solution? Since you are the one that prefer non black women. Seems like you contradicted yourself fella.

@doing_me74, since you want one of us “black women” to give you a solution. My first solution is communication! And that’s not black men only that’s both black men and women. We need to learn how to communicate instead of lashing out with rage and anger towards each other. I always tell myself that arguments are useless and pointless. Because one is never heard. However if you have a “conversation” you can be heard. Once you have agreed to have a conversation and or discussion then you can be heard! And then you will know why this man or woman is feeling this way. And if you care for that person enough you will come to a conclusion on how to come to a mutual agreement. So my solution is communication because a lot of black relationships(not all) do lack this because both black male’s and female’s have dominate and strong personality. And running off to another race because the “black woman” or the black man has pissed you off is not the answer. However if you are attracted and you connect with someone of another race that’s fine. But don’t subject yourself to another race because you allowed a few women or men in your race to so call “push you” to that limit.

jazzylicious2006
3-4-2010 10:46 pm

@doing_me74, since you want one of us “black women” to give you a solution. My first solution is communication! And that’s not black men only that’s both black men and women. We need to learn how to communicate instead of lashing out with rage and anger towards each other. I always tell myself that arguments are useless and pointless. Because one is never heard. However if you have a “conversation” you can be heard. Once you have agreed to have a conversation and or discussion then you can be heard! And then you will know why this man or woman is feeling this way. And if you care for that person enough you will come to a conclusion on how to come to a mutual agreement. So my solution is communication because a lot of black relationships(not all) do lack this because both black male’s and female’s have dominate and strong personality. And running off to another race because the “black woman” or the black man has pissed you off is not the answer. However if you are attracted and you connect with someone of another race that’s fine. But don’t subject yourself to another race because you allowed a few women or men in your race to so call “push you” to that limit.

HAD TO REPOST THIS SISTER BECAUSE I DEFINITELY AGREE WITH YOU!!!!! COMMUNICATION COMMUNICATION. You know honestly, you doing_me74, and alot of other people had me SMH, because all I kept reading and seeing was my people bickering with each other, but you turned it around sister and I applaud you.

Also let me see if I can open the dialog between one another(an if ya’ll choose to respond please no attacking one another)

For those that do or have dated whites, what was your initial attraction to that white woman or white man?

For those that oppose Black Men/Women dating or being with white men/women, what is your reason for being against it?

And I’ll go first, one of the main reasons I oppose dating whites is because we are not the same equality, and financial level as they because of their systematic damaging of our communities through out the years. Also so many Black men were put to death because a white woman lied, and so many Black women were raped by evil white men during and after slavery. Also I personally want the genetic purity of my seed intact and refuse to mingle it with that of a white woman

@ rayskilla have we met? Lol I love positive blackmen like yourself.You show good character. It’s really a shame how our community plays the blame game.We really need to stop blameing eachother for our reasons to seek out and union with race’s.

@jazzylicious2006. I definitely agree, and that is my other main problem with inter-racial dating, most that do it, do it for the wrong reasons. As much as they try to justify it, deep down they know their motivations are tainted. They don’t truly see that white woman or white man as a pure individual, are drawn to their personality and good qualities. Through social conditioning they equate that white skin with the different is better mentality. Oh yeah for the black men that think they are sticking it to the white man by having sex with his prized white women, and for the black women who think that they are getting back at all the trifling black men that has did them wrong by going to a white man; STOP IT!!! You are not fooling us(us meaning the rest of intelligent, proud of their race Black folk) You are just fooling YA DAMN SELF

I have a problem with interracial dating for many of the reasons you listed below. It also bothers me because we have fought so hard to gain independence and now I feel like were giving it all back somehow in a weird sense to the white man. I wonder why so many black men in the entertainment and sports fields gravitate towards interracial dating and marriage when there so many beautiful black women out there. We as a black people are already becoming a minority in regards to race size. Due to Hispanics and Asians migrating legally and illegally into the country. I’m opposed to it altogether,the children who are born into an interracial relationship many times go through a lot mentally to figure out who they are,I would never want that for a child. I believe it is selfish in a way for people to think that no one suffers.

I continued my research and noticed that areas like California,Georgia,Chicago and New York are really into it. As you mentioned raskilla6,many people do it for the wrong reasons,bad experiences in relationships so as a result they write-off there entire race thinking that everyone is bad. Many times we consciously,or subconsciously choose the wrong people to date,due to being raised in the wrong circ**stances or just plain stupidity. I also discovered many black date out of there race because there is a quote “shortage of black men”and many have said that “black men don’t want anything out of life”. In my opinion,that is a cope out,an excuse for someone to justify there own means. These people are sell outs and it pains whenever I see a mixed couple together.

I would never have expected this in the south of all places due to its history. I LOVE MY SISTAS AND WILL NEVER FORSAKE THEM FOR ANY REASON. No other woman of any race will understand why a white cope keeps pulling me over for no reason or how I raise my kids,or why I’m so high strung at times like a black stallion running wild and free.

Lets not give up on each other,let us learn from those who have come here and excelled. Ex…Arabs and Asians

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Im so done with blackmen cause they all they do is lie, cheat, dont have it together and confused.Each one I stood by did nothing but give me grief and their ass to kiss. well nomore, I have dated whitemen and love it. and will continue to do so. Im all for dating outside the blackrace. don’t knock it until you try it. there’s plenty of goodmen out there besides blackmen.

@creativonee1 You shouldn’t comment on the thoughts of interacial children. Obviously you never were one. Interacial children seem to do quite well for them if not better. We just dip our feet into both pools and enjoy the warms and colds each provides. Love is blind so we shouldn’t go around pointing fingers saying oh well I can’t go out with him because he’s not a part of my community. At the same time I agree with you about the people who abandon their whole race because of a couple bad relationships. Men of all races can be s**theads.

I agree with the author…white guys are the best.

Oh yeah I also hate when others who are not biracial speak for others who are….you never walked a mile in their shoes so STFU!

IR relationships will happen, whether people like it or not. No need to justify anything….do you.

I am a WM married to a BF. She is not light skinned she is dark she has curves and a beautiful shape. After 7 years of marriage I can only say that a successful relationship takes work no matter what race you chose. If both partners are not willing to commit to the relationship then it will never work. If you are a black woman looking for a white guy do not be shy about it. White guys like all men often do not know what they are looking for until it hits them in the head. I had not dated a BF before I met my wife however, after a week of being around my wife I called my mom and said I had met the woman of my dreams; true story. I will admit that my family being a bunch of Hippy’s and hers being Country “and yes i mean COUNTRY” has been interesting at times but thoughts aspects of our relationship have made it even more fun. I love spending time with her family and her mother loves me as well and we even take the time to talk to each other on the phone. I will temper this post by saying we have had our share of broken dishes, clothes thrown out of the house, bleach dumped on a pile of cloths, couches thrown across the room, and any other typical hot blooded fights but through it all we have remained together. I know we will stay together for ever and it is because of thouse early fighting years that our relationship is were it is today. Like I said no matter what the color hard work is required to keep a relationship strong.

Side note: I am no longer attracted to WF at all only dark skinned black women will due. I suppose that is a factor of who my wife is and what her sexuality means to mine. I have often joked with my wife that if she ever divorces me I will go right to the hood pick up the darkest thickest youngest woman I can find and bring her to all the family functions. Of course she does not like that one bit. HA.

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