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Personally, I’ve long ago wizened to the point where I answer either “it doesn’t matter” or “it’s not that many”. Gone are the days where immediately afterwards, I’d rush to tell. Then I’d lay there smugly and wait for her answer. On the occasions that her number was higher than mine, I’d be devastated.

What kind of monstrosity am I laying next to?

Her number could have been “2″ and I’d still have been horrified.

Numbers were the topic the other night at my Factotum-like night gig. The guys, fresh off their internet mini-celebrity from having starred in the Presidential Monogamy or Platinum Player blog weighed in on the two numbers that always come up at the onset of any relationship.

“Just call me baby-Wilt!” joked our 22 year-old cat, referencing NBA Hall of Famer Wilt Chamberlain’s claim to have bedded more than 20,000 women. His number was actually 15 “hoping to make it 16 this weekend” and he wouldn’t want a girl with numbers “in double digits”.

Our 35 year-old Spanish cat’s number was 25 and a girl that had bedded more than 5 guys was “too much”.

Our 39 year-old Haitian “freak”, who was bathed in champagne at birth by his father and uncles, had a number of 25 and “wouldn’t touch” a girl with more than 10.

Subbing in for 55 year-old married Ghanaian shift supervisor was a 21 year-old Czech who’s number was 7 and “couldn’t deal” with a girl once she hit 2 or 3.

Our 29 year-old married cat’s number was in the 40s and he thought the limit for a woman should be 5, “unless they’re not all in the same place. If they live in other places, she could have had more.”

“300″, said our 26 year-old brother. He said it matter-of-factly, without a trace of either pride or braggadocio. He said it, in fact, as if he were responding to my asking the time of day. He was also pretty liberal in terms of women, allowing a potential wifey to have had up to 75 former lovers.

Our 25 year-old Italian cat’s number was “unknown”, but certainly less than 25. How many dudes could his potential wife have slept with? “Zero. She’d hafta be a virgin.”

Our 20 year-old cat’s number was 13. His limit for a woman was 8 “if she’s my age. She can add 2 a year as she gets older.”

What’s your number(s)?

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SimplePleasure09/ SimplePleasure09

    This is the dumbest post yet. I knew I had little respect for men for a reason. So for all you ridiculous men who make stupid statements like that, I hope you stop talking to your mother because Im sure that hoe has been around.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/it_iz_what_it_is/ it_iz_what_it_is

    There really shouldn’t be some arbitrary number because when you think about it, all it takes is one partner to pass on an STD or HIV/AIDS. I am guilty of lust and have been with women at given times who have had more sexual partners than me and they were younger than me. Women are fast these days and we live in an age where the word “friend” is used casually. I try to deal with women with low mileage, no kids, hell if they’re a virgin that’s even better.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/ChocolateEskimo/ ChocolateEskimo

    this has double standard written all over this post.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Moscova89/ Moscova89

    Meh…
    Wear protection
    And If a girl has over 7 at one time…
    (more than the days in the week)
    run away.
    The same goes for the women
    more than seven at one time
    run away.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SUNSHINE7878/ SUNSHINE7878

    i mean we should consider the std’s and aids factor of it all….but this sounds like a double standard thing goin on….it aint rite to say if me and one dude have the same amount of sex partners…im the one whose considered a hoe..and he’s a player….that aint rite…i f**k who i want when i want….i dont f**k random ppl at all….but it is my choice and i do practice safe sex…and its my f**king business!!!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CaliBreeze15/ CaliBreeze15

    Obviously some females aren’t going to like this article cuz they’re the skanks in double/triple digits that the article is reffering to. They’re the ones lying to their man ’bout how many dudes they’ve w***ed themselves out to so he won’t leave their nasty asses. Embrace your inner w***e n don’t get upset skanks. If it wasn’t for skanks like ya’ll, this article wouldn’t have ever been written! hahahaha

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/TchMeThere/ TchMeThere

    Using terms like w***es and skanks is real mature…Bottom line is people go through life living, and where is it written that women should enjoy life any less than men do? I’m not saying go out and screw everything moving like they do, but the number will increase even if you just count the so called serious relationships that end and begin. This is a question that I would never answer, not because my number is high but just because what good can come from it? It doesn’t matter what the number is men don’t like to think of other men being inside of what they consider to be theirs. Yes ladies, to them we are possessions….lol

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/D_vinesoul09/ D_vinesoul09

    I think this article is very inaccurate. How many women do I see with men with multiple baby daddies?? C’mon people. And I agree with everyone that mentions the fact that it only takes ONE to give you HIV or AIDS. In Western Society’s culture sex is treated to liberal for this article to even exists…let’s be realistic people. Especially all these men with double standards. They may not wife a chic with a couple priors, but they sure won’t mind being another number to add on her list.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/sex_appeal820/ sex_appeal820

    I say get real men and women lie about the number of people they’ve slept with so you will never know. And there is a double standard here. And I don’t care to to me men can be just as big as a HOE as a girl can dong get it confused! And I don’t think anybody is mad I just think this article is ridiculous because you will never know unless you hooking people up to lie detectors. And even the goodest girl has slept with over 2 men. Most girls I know are in the double digits or damn close and they are not hoes!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/kain1984/ kain1984

    b***hes aint s**t

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/PrettyBoyJarome/ PrettyBoyJarome

    Women need to stop justifying their HOEING with the lame logic “well if men can do it, why not women?” Two wrongs don’t make a right and men who are out f**king everything with a v****a are irresponsible to say the least. I’m tired of my tax dollars going to welfare and food stamps because some hoe think it’s ok to f**k like a man and have dozens of kids. Men don’t get pregnant and that’s a fact. So you want to f**k like a man and plunge yourself into this new era of so called “MS independent” and “ladies are pimpz too” mantras, well just be prepared to deal with the consequences.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/echoe63/ echoe63

    you know what bullsh!t… men have at least 2 different “numbers” – the one they tell a woman and they one they tell “the guys”

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SWANKness/ SWANKness

    its YOUR sex life, so it depends on the person..as long as their sex life is healthy, it’s none of your business..but ive been wit 3 dudes, and i told my current dude that && he liked to had a tittie attack right there..it dont matter what the number is, it’s too high lol..and YOUR money isnt just going to the females who have hella baby daddy’s..some of the people on wel fare && food stamps NEED that extra help, dont give the rod to the child for what the mother did..

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/LadyB70/ LadyB70

    Well this post is silly i think. I agree that either partner could lie about how many ppl they’ve slept with so you will never really know. And just because women may have numbers in the double digits doesnt means she’s a hoe. I mean she could have known each of her partners for years. Most men just f**k anybody they just meet. So at least some women are being safe and choosing their partners wisely no matter how many it is. I think the question should be not how many partners you’ve had but do you have any diseases from them? Because that’s what you really wanna know honestly.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DSPENCE86/ DSPENCE86

    F**K NIGGA I GLAD I’M PROND OF BEING GAY STUDLIFE BABY

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DSD_WriteorWrong/ DSD_WriteorWrong

    Number doesnt matter as long as you are clean. I prefer experience, smart experience.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/WestsideCartelAtl85/ WestsideCartelAtl85

    SMFH. A h/oe is h/oe whether it’s a man or woman. I haven’t been with that many females and get looked at crazy by both men and women. I have respect for myself and my body. Some people are insecure and have no self respect. That’s why they sleep around with alotta people.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/_silentstare_/ _silentstare_

    It’s one thing to sleep around with numerous partners but that article is just a prime example of the so called “double standard” seen in situation with both genders.

    If someone sleeps with several partners, then they have to face the eventuality that they might end up someone who has slept with as many people as them. It’s unrealistic for a person that has slept with 20-50 ladies or more to want to marry someone who slept with only 2-3 partners or even a virgin. It could happen but how does that virgin or person that only had 2-3 partner would feel knowing that thei husband or spouse has slept with that many people? There’s only so many men or women in a given area for several men to sleep around…

    Sleep around if you want to but protect yourself in the meantime (the quest for pleasure should not result in babies or STD’s) and don’t be surprised if the girl or guy you end up marriyng has numbers that could either match or beat yours.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SEDUCTIVE-ANGEL/ SEDUCTIVE-ANGEL

    Being a w***e is nothing to brag about. TO me this just shows the lack of respect that these men have for themselves as well as women. I don’t care if it is male or female, just sexing everything in sight is not cool, it is dirty. I have met guys who just like these in the article, slept with 20 plus women and if the woman that they were with slept with more than 5 they had an issue. I find it very hypocritical of men, but that is the way that they are anyways. another simple fact is that men can not handle if a woman has had more sex partners than they have, it makes them feel like they are less in bed. But to me less is better especailly once you find that special person in your life and ya can explore together. It’s the quality not the quantity.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/nedcutbbuddy/ nedcutbbuddy

    the numbers dont really matter as long as u do it safely.. ive known some women that told me they been with a lot of men and that stuff was still TIGHT

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/QT_PIE85/ QT_PIE85

    Who cares? I swear the topics here get worse and worse. As long as they are safe do what works for you, its not me nor anyone else that you have to answer to. Thats between you and whoever you call GOD.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MsSatisfactory2009/ MsSatisfactory2009

    If this article isn’t bulls**t, then it’s super bulls**t. Men are ridiculous. Stupid ass Hell. SOME women aren’t any better. If I had sex with 5 guys or 50 guys, whose business is it besides mines?
    For the men who thinks it’s okay to sleep with a billion females but it’s not okay for a female to sleep with a billion men, please grow up. I’m not tryin to defend woman who are actual “hoes” but just as quickly and male can be a HO to. Just because you have a wee wee doesn’t justify you being “hump a trick” happy. You’re just as nasty. Sorry Asses.

    *MsSatisfactory2009*

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CaramelLuv4U25/ CaramelLuv4U25

    The only sex partner I need is my husband. We can do all those things the freaky people do in the privacy of our own home.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/0VancouverHurts/ 0VancouverHurts

    the definition of hoe or pimp is one who has unprotected sex!!!!!!!!! u can sleep with any amount u choose as long as u do it safely!!!!!!! condoms!!!!!!!! the number doesnt matter…its the way u go about it. like weezy could be forming some kinda std within himself for having unprotected sex with countless women thats how it starts! i wonder if any of them got tested or if they already have it yikes!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MsRain_/ MsRain_

    ned they lied to you j/k dont know them women…

    but any who anyone outside the 3 limit is at risk in my opinion condoms don’t protect you from everything folks should start reading books before they make statements like “you can sleep with as many as you want long as you wrap up” you can wrap up and still catch an std genius there is still some skin contact involved… condoms protect you 99.9% from get pregnant the hell made you think it’s gone protect you 100% from catching something geniuses

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Chi--guy/ Chi–guy

    what good is it to ask a woman how many people she slept with she will only lie when it comes down to it so it’s best a woman just keep them bones in the closet like the saying goes men tell more lies but women tell the best ones…like..”it’s your baby”

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Sternie/ Sternie

    yeap,and the right number is how ever many you can bang.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/official_girl02/ official_girl02

    wow is all i can say to this …its amazing how it fine for men do whatever they want and sleep with as many people as they want and nothing is wrong with it …but if a women does similar things its like hell freezes over and she’s just every name in the book i personally don’t care whats your number you can’t help who and how many people someone slept with before you met them. And people can lie about how many people they slept with in the past so you never know unless their just open and comfortable with what they do.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Reality_Check21/ Reality_Check21

    All i have to say is that your body is special and you should not have lots of sex partners, thats just nasty!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/_FOO_FOO_/ _FOO_FOO_

    to each their own
    men need to snap back into reality…
    if its ok for u to have sex, its ok for us to have sex too

    deal with it

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/RastaGirl7/ RastaGirl7

    It may seem like the thing to do now…but at the end of the day…all of those numbers won’t even matter…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/soveu34/ soveu34

    Some men are fkn hypocrits if your gurl has to be a virgin so should yo azz. Or if your gurl cant have double digits than yo azz shouldnt have dbl digits take your own advice.

    And for me personally I rather my future man have had very few because I only have (secrect) by choice and im dont plan on adding any more.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/_chiick/ _chiick

    really? its okay for you to screw as many women as you want, but not the other way around? i mean, who the f**k are you screwing, other men?!?! your screwing women, and if your not willing to have a woman with many partners, or hell even one partner, then you should be willing to be the same. if she has to be pure as snow, yo ass should be too, cause screwing unknown amounts of women makes you a hoe too, society just accepts your h@e-ishness more than a female.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Fantasi77/ Fantasi77

    guys try to and are expected to have sex with all these females and then expect them to be conservative? how does that work?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/wundawuman/ wundawuman

    These b***hes are going to lie to you anyway so you f-in hypocrites will never know! You damn men are so confused you want a freak in the bed but then you want her to be a virgin! Tough luck losers it will never happen. You men are sooo insecure that you cant handle the thought of a more experienced woman knowing that your ass is tired in the bedroom. You all want to be the best b***h slayers out there and when you find out that your s**t is not the best your little egos get bruised. Grow up!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CandiceCLC/ CandiceCLC

    There is no way all these guys can have sex with 25 women, then expect the girl of there dreams to have a number of 2. Its impossible..and selfish.
    GIRLZ GOT NEEDS TOO.. and it does not necesarily mean we are a hoe.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/msmary_stv1/ msmary_stv1

    SOMETIMES I FIND IT HARD TO BELIEVE THE TYPE OF TOPICS YOU GUYS COME UP WITH…EITHER YOU GONNA BELIEVE IT OR YOU NOT GONNA BELIEVE IT…WHAT DIFFERENCE DOES IT MAKE…AND FOR TO ASK A QUESTION LIKE THAT SEEMS TO BE INSECURE IN YOURSELVES…U THE TYPE OF GUY THAT WANTS TO HEAR WHAT MAKES YOU FEEL GOOD…TRUST AND BELIEVE THAT THERE ARE PLENTY OF WOMEN OUT HERE TO DO JUST THAT ESPECIALLY IF YOU ARE AN INVESTMENT…THEN YOU WONDER WHY YOU GET ABUSED AND USED…..MAN UP AND GROW UP…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/exquisitebeauti/ exquisitebeauti

    i believe wundawuman took the words right out of my mouth.

    seriously guys. if you’re sleepin wit a woman and u leave to go to the next one, what do you think all these women are doing? they’re definitely not waiting around for u to find time to come and handle business.. they’re callin boyfriend #2, 3, 4 or 5.. whoever is avaiable. and if you really make her feel uncomfortable about her number, then get ready for a relationship full of lies just to please ur sad sad ego. she’ll tell you everything you wanna hear. and get this.. we’re so much better at BSin than you guys are so you will never know.

    and to reiterate the absolutely nonsensical hypocrisy mentioned by wundawuman. how do u expect to get a woman that knows how do to it all if she’s never done anything? YOU GUYS MAKE NO SENSE!!!!! grow up.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/mrvintage30535/ mrvintage30535

    lol..dspence86 I never knew gay keeps you from being out there

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/ms_real2008/ ms_real2008

    Who cares how many partners a person has. Its their business, not mine. I feel to each his or her own. Get tested and use protection if a person wants to sleep with multiple partners. What i don’t understand is how can a man expect to want a girl to be a freak with no experience? She’s going to have to sleep with someone to know what’s what because pornos are not the way to learn, experience needs to be used as well.

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