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Gender warfare: women outside the offices of Kembatti Mentti Gezzima-Tope, or KMG,which means Kembatta Women Standing Together

Gender warfare: women outside the offices of Kembatti Mentti Gezzima-Tope, or KMG,which means Kembatta Women Standing Together

From Independent.co.uk:

Every woman remembers her wedding day with a tear in her eye – but, here in Ethiopia, the tears are different, and darker, and do not stop. Nurame Abedo is sitting in her hut high in the clouds, remembering the day she became a wife. She lives hundreds of miles into the countryside, thousands of feet above sea-level, in the hills of the bridal-kidnapping capital of the world. For 40 years, she didn’t talk about her wedding, or how it came to happen. If she tried, she was beaten by her captor, who said good women never speak of such things. So she tells her story slowly, haltingly, her sentences punctuated by sudden high-pitched laughs that seem to erupt involuntarily from her gut.

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Nurame was in her bed when she was woken by an angry mêlée. In her family’s hut there were grown men – an incredible number, 10 or more, all in their 30s, all standing over her father, shouting. They reached for her. At night here, where there is no electricity, perfect darkness falls, and everything becomes a shadow-play of barely visible flickers. But even though she was eight years old, she suspected at once what was happening. She had heard whispers that, when a girl is considered ready for marriage, a man will seize her, and rape her, and then she must serve him for the rest of her life. “That was the culture,” she says. But it wasn’t her culture: like all the other little girls, she didn’t want it. “I started screaming and tried to run out of the hut,” she says. “I hid in the trees – hah! – but one of the men found me.”

She was taken back to his home, held down in front of his family, raped, and taken to be married the next morning. Dazed, she signed the papers, and waited for a moment when she could flee.

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SoularFlarez/ SoularFlarez

    please DO NOT think this is normal for our Ethiop family…

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    Wow that is so sad.

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/marina24/ marina24

    this is fu–k up nasty grown men having there way with lil kids so tired of this -bs i need a knife to chop all all yall shi–t off

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/marina24/ marina24

    who gives a dam about them selling there people into slavey you dont know what them sick white b—ches did to their families you think we cam over here happly

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/ihateinteracial/ ihateinteracial

    im positive it is the habesha half breed mixed type who is up to this no good they are not the real ehtiopians neway

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/OrbitalFlow/ OrbitalFlow

    Everyone has experienced pain, some worse then others. Either way, we all know what it feels like. Learn how to have compassion for other people’s tragedies. Ethiopia is located in Africa, these are still our people. Stop stereotyping them as a whole.

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Black_Queen09/ Black_Queen09

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Kashi101/ Kashi101

    oh god help these people please. savages pure savages and isn’t this part of what muslims practice? marrying little girls?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/doing_me74/ doing_me74

    an Ethiopians be thinking their better then African Americans.Now tell me who’s better.

  • Nazneen Patel

    @Kashi101: this practice, in & of itself, may be barbaric and cruel, but it really has nothing to do with islam. first of all, NO, it is NOT “part of what muslims do” to marry young girls, let alone kidnap & rape them. this is a cultural issue, NOT a religious issue.

    if you read the article in its entirety, you will see that, in fact, this bridal-kidnapping is practiced equally among protestants, catholics and muslims in ethiopia. again, it’s not about religion, it’s about CULTURE.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/keeny4real02/ keeny4real02

    is just too absurd and pathetic, cos i can’t imagine such thing happening to me.God knows i might do stupid and that culture of their’s is nothing to write home about.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/NYCsmoove/ NYCsmoove

    Here comes the ignorant posts. The talks about the villages not the entire Ethiopia. It doesn’t happen everywhere in Ethiopia. Ethiopia has different tribes for the record.

    @doing_me74

    Did you even read the article? If this makes you feel better than Ethiopians you got issues bro.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/odoggz/ odoggz

    My homegirl told me that YEMEN is the jumpoint point for this stuff, so every time you turn around, it’s a new location. I’m not sure I believe it, but I’m sure the issue itself is happening. It is, however, interesting that I’ve never met one Ethiopian who felt comfortable being in the same room with an African American. I’ve not met one who felt she/she wasn’t superior to an African American, and I don’t know where the fuk that comes from, but I’m sure it’s more from the Muslim ones than the non-muslim, but because of those attitudes, don’t expect many African Americans to care.

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/roni_rones/ roni_rones

    @ odoggz How are you so “sure it’s more from the Muslim ones..”? Did your “homegirl” tell you that too? Niccas be saying some dumb a$$ $h!t

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/odoggz/ odoggz

    @Roni_rones
    I wish more people, mainly you, would learn to read English, properly. I met/know many Ethiopians, and since I met many, part of conversation leads people to know who they’re talking to. Part of conversation might lead you to discover what faith they are of. You ever think about that, or if your conversation limited to 40oz, weed and boning w***es? Just because you’re limited ass can’t understand what conversation involves, don’t limit me to your limited world. So using what I know, I know many of the Muslim ones hold a standard about themselves, which they feel African Americans don’t match. Thus my statement. You dumb ass, call yourself the “nicca”, not me.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/cestleon/ cestleon

    I dated an Ethiopian girl when I was in high school. She was two years older and in college already and she never came off as being arrogant, but it’s all on the individual. I only heard about the whole kidnapping thing being staged and it being a “traditional” thing. Then again I also recall that happening in another part of Africa. I didn’t know that the Ethiopians sold us into slavery. I always thought it would have been some people from WESTERN Africa. Oh well, I’m going to read a book…….

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SoularFlarez/ SoularFlarez

    da east AND west afrikans ive talked to …. 80-90% of them were very down to earth & friendly :)

    in MY experience with foriegners, wether from Afrika, South America, CARIBean, Asia, Arabia etc……. they dont trip when you carry yaself a certain way and KNOW who you are… its the B.E.T. type of negros they dont like.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/symphonee/ symphonee

    The devil is alive and working because so many people here are just talking some insane crap. It DOES NOT MATTER if they are half breed or not. It DOES NOT MATTER if they are Muslim or not. What matters is that there is still a practice in some places of abducting young sometimes prepubescent young girls for sexual and domestic servitude in the form of marriage. NO CHILD should EVER have to go through this.

    We African Americans spend so much time defending the small things that make us different, while those in power just continue to group us together and laugh at us. The conversation got stuck on name calling and bashing instead of what can be done to HELP CHILDREN. Read the rest of the article and look for the organization that is established there to help women recover their lives and freedom. Help instead of complaining and dividing

    http://www.kmgselfhelp.org/ <===That is the org right there

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/PRINCE_DEJOUR/ PRINCE_DEJOUR

    In college I wrote three papers about AIDS and the social and economical conditions that are destroying people lives in Africa.
    Kidnapping and raping women is also a cultural problem in Rwanda, Kenya and Central Asia.

    You also have militias/army’s and men/villagers that would kidnap females especially young girls and rape them because some believe this would prevent them from catching AIDS. I watched Night Line years ago when the anchor was speaking with the ladies. They told him that their husband and families shunned or disowned them because everyone would know, where ashamed of them and they could be infected with AIDS. Some families where forced to watch their mother or wife being raped by multiple men. A large number of females did contract AIDS because they were raped.
    Just look at the genocide that occurred or is going on in Darfur/Sudan and Rwanda
    The life expectancy of a few countries in Africa will drop to 30 years of age unless the people change. I want comment on that half breed nonsense. The men need to start respecting, protecting, treating and supporting the women and kids.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Gatekeepa/ Gatekeepa

    @ symphonee…my sentiments exactly.

    We are so concern about what white people do in regard to africa..africans are doing it to themselves based on some horrendous traditons..and we co-sign to it for the simple fact as african americans and take homeage to africa..

    ..alot of african traditons are harmful to the africans’ welfare and sanity with regard to its very existence today.. rape is tradition in parts of africa..and I mean raping little african girls by old azz african men.. and young tribe warlords.. tradition also is cutting young african female’s citorus to stop females from the desire of a man before marriage and after marriage..such traditions is SENSELESS-ignorance..and creates insane dysfunctional relationships for african women to ever trust african men to protect and provide for them..

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Esoteric_Dredz/ Esoteric_Dredz

    @ Symphonee, bravo, excellent comment.

    This is a horrible barbaric practice and stories like this are absolutely heartbreaking.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Ramses_NY/ Ramses_NY

    Some of the responses, really show how ignorent and lost we are…..This is a major tragedy, and definitely isnt limited to Ethiopia, or Africa in general. Religion, and the lack of humanity has played a major role in why this kind of madness goes on. What shocks me, is how so many remain silent about these things. Im reading Infidal by Ayaan Hirsi Ali now, which speaks on the situation not only in Africa but also through the world. Women are looked at as second class, much like African Americans once, and still are in some circles.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/momono3/ momono3

    Correct me if I am wrong, but it looks like Africans in general go bananas over a piece of azz. Everything they do, getting some azz is the core reason for it. They cut a little girl’s privates and sew them up at a young age, why, so another man cant get at their piece of azz. They marry various women, more azz. Take over another tribe or their country, get some azz first.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/nettty4/ nettty4

    Ethiopia is not the bridal kidnapping capital of the world and I think black people need to do research before they comment. When you do that research check the older history books because the newer ones tend to change and rewrite history just to have blacks at odds with one another.

    Many of you should ask yourself this: why is it that were just now learning if the exclusively outrageous things that black people do but yet half the time do not know of any blacks personally who have done this. Oh we know what we do but its easy to confuse us on things like these that we read about and judge with out knowing the full facts or details.

    I know that many blacks do not know ethiopians and seem distanced from the ones that come here to the states, why is that? Its because the same way that we are learning about them is the same things that they learn about us…the negative and blown up things and most of the time way out of porportion that groups blacks as a whole and not individuals or even a certian areas or locations.

    ..In all my life ive never even heard of such things happening in ethiopia…and maybe it does happen if so it is tradgic cruel and backwards thinking for sure…maybe these are isolated cases I dont know but the first time i heard of something like this happening was about a story in some asian country infact I think lisa lee did a story on it.. but many cases like this happens in India at least thats what theyve been telling us all these years and to my last knowledge “Yemen” was the place where men bought little girls as young as eight from thier parents and then raped them and abused them forced them to sign marriage papers to legally become their wife.

    Yall remember the story of the eight year old in the news a few years ago right that ran away from her husband by this time she was ten though she was eight when her father sold her and she manage to divorce him because she said he abused her…google it it was in the head line news. But if ethiopians act superior to us it is perhaps because all they see of us over their is what he media shows of us to them the negative baby mamma drama part where they tell them that black women dont get married and that we have lots of children by many different men and are on welfare and hookers and that a lot of our men were baggy saggy clothes and are dope dealers pimps and druggies with prison records and most are on the down low which of course mean they mostly are all gay drunkards and murderers.

    ..so when we see stories about them like this we are suppose to raise our noses in the air at them as well its a simple game that so many will fall for…half of the things we hear like this will we check it out for ourselves … what will we do about them when we learn about them, again go to the older books that tended to be a little more precise or accurate…and also know that sometimes the message seems clear to you but in reality it is a different message all together. I know we’ve all heard of sub bliminal communication by now.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/nettty4/ nettty4

    by the way did yall know that ethiopians were children of king soloman and the queen of sheba …therefore making them real jews…direct decendants of king david and the house of judah…yes and they still celebrate their jewish roots and heritage…how do I know these things? because I’m passionate about what I want to know and learn so I read and I study and I listen, I have been accused also of thinking to much…now you may ask what does this have to do with everything…just because you may hear someone mentioning something a plan a thought or an idea doesnt exactly mean that they are the originator of that thought…Im just saying most people are just a product of something that they stolen from you or someone else but they will market it as their own original idea but God knows.. anyways

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/DameDivalicious/ DameDivalicious

    Netty4, I know about that too and learn that while living in Europe going to school there. Plenty black people there know that unlike here where I am living now.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/greywolf5/ greywolf5

    Some of the things that happen in the motherland are truly heartbreaking. The good news is that more and more of it is being brought to the light and that usually equals change. Ummmm Netty4…Are you saying that the Ethiopians are descendants of Solomom and Sheba as if to say that those two are the mother and father of the Ethiopian people? If so, I ask you to consider that the 1st time Ethiopia is mentioned in the Bible is in Gen 2:13, then in Num 12:1, and in 2Kings 19:9…All of which occurs before Solomon was conceived by David and Bathsheba. Now, I was under the impression that tha Queen of Sheba was/is recognized as the Queen of Ethiopia but if she were wouldn’t that also mean that Ethiopia and Ethiopians existed before Solomon met her and got busy?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Crystal_Blaze/ Crystal_Blaze

    Ethiopians did not sell US into slavery. They sold other Ethiopians and East Africans into slavery in the EAST(India,Middle East,East Africa).

    As far as people getting mad because they dont want to be talk to us, how many Africans do? Almost all of them think we are ignorant and dont want their kids around us, because we act ignorant on television.

    For the most part, they understand the struggle and are a part of it, but Africans (like Obama) will never fully realize our experience because they know where they come from and their ancestors were not slaves here. If Africans and African Americans were separated in the census, they would surpass Whites/Asians in all the POSITIVE statistics.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/unknown108/ unknown108

    Pray for our distant sistahs.

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