Singer Fantasia was on “The Breakfast Club” this week and the she is getting some serious side-eye for her relationship advice. The 35-year-old said women need to “submit” to their man among other things.
“Most women are trying to be a leader, that’s why you can’t find a man. You can’t be the king in the house. Fall back and be the queen and let your man lead the way,” she told “The Breakfast Club.”
She also said, “It’s a generational curse, and how society [has] placed our men. And how women have to stand up to be the mother, and the father and the provider. So now you are so bad that you can’t be told nothing. That when the right man come, you lose him because you’re trying to be the man.”
Fantasia continued, “At the end of the day, I’m the neck, my man’s the head. He can’t make any moves without his wife, you know what I mean? It all works together.”
She stressed, “You have to learn how to submit.” Watch below:
After getting backlash on social media, Fantasia, who married Kendall Taylor in 2011, posted a video with her husband about the “science” of submission.
She also posted a video about how her husband survived life out of prison:
See the mixed reactions below:
Last thing about #Fantasia - since she the breadwinner, shouldn’t he submit to her ?!?— Beta Ray Krills (@DanTresOmi) September 19, 2019
Fantasia is a wonderful woman.— Musevini must FALL (@obaa_boni) September 18, 2019
And the fact that she's more famous, more wealthy, has more social currency than her partner but can be convinced to submit to him simply because she's a woman
Is the work of Black Cishet patriarchal and religious indoctrination.
I think we should relinquish this thought of women having to “submit” to let their male counter part shine. How about we dismantle fragile masculinity & reform what a man’s role is in a relationship. Equals act as such in every aspect. Society taught Fantasia to think like this. https://t.co/GMoWeQEXI3— primo pisces (@theicypisces) September 16, 2019
I actually have no interest in convincing fantasia or other Black women (particularly those from the south) not to "submit" to their man— LaMariposaNegra🦋 (@lex_kenney) September 19, 2019
This why some females be used and abused. Be “submitting” to the wrong mf. https://t.co/e4LJ8odiZl— Daj 💙 (@dajaiscooler) September 18, 2019
Fantasia submitting to a felon while she’s a successful black woman is mind blowing. Look for an equal, not a submitter. Black women, you are worthy. You don’t need to submit to anyone. Be equals! @TasiasWord— AE (@shitwethinking) September 19, 2019
Yall taking relationships advice from Fantasia— christopher marshall (@superchrismarsh) September 19, 2019
She had a whole show where she snuck around with a married man who couldnt show his face for like 4 seasons
Damn even side chicks gotta submit pic.twitter.com/7gdIhk7tQg
Fantasia was just on the radio talking about we need to learn to submit 🥴.... Chyyyyy— 🤍 (@Daisyy_Nicole) September 16, 2019