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By Marcus A. Scott

A Southhampton, New York, man is being held without bail after beating his girlfriend’s 17-month-old son to death on the Shinnecock Indian Reservation outside of the Riverside area in Long Island, NY. He is being charged with first-degree manslaughter.

Pedro Jones pleaded not guilty on Monday afternoon in Southampton Town Justice Court after he was accused of striking the toddler Sunday night while babysitting, according to the website for radio station WCAX.com in Vermont.

The child went into cardiac arrest, police said. According to WABC in New York, Jones punched toddler Roy A. Jones to death, noting that he was “trying to make him act like a boy instead of a little girl.” Police were alerted and called to the scene at Old Point Road East in Southampton around 8:25 p.m.

Jones allegedly admitted to the crime while being handcuffed and led away from the New York State police barracks, noting that he loved the tiny tot and “never struck that kid that hard before. A one-time mistake and I am going to do 20 years,” said Jones.

Jones who claimed he planned to marry the toddler’s mother, a member of the Shinnecock Indian Nation, lived at the house with the child. At dusk, early Sunday night, the child had already gone into cardiac arrest before another source dialed 911 according WABC-TV in New York. The child was limp by the time the flash of crimson and blue police lights flashed outside of his Southampton home.

According to ABC news in New York, Jones was not related to the child that shared his surname. Police reports claim he struck the child with a closed fist and grabbed the toddler by the neck, in an effort to “toughen” him up.

Like many in his situation, Jones noted he did not mean to do the crime, however many aren’t buying the act.

On the reservation, many appeared at Jones’ arraignment. A person spit at him. The victim’s grandmother lashed out at Jones and told him, “I hope you rot in hell.”

According to WABC-TV, authorities said that Jones may face additional charges, possibly a hate crime charge.

These kinds of acts involving hyper-masculinity have many critics and pundits talking lately. Hate crimes against homosexuals are on the rise. According to FBI hate crime statistics, several law enforcement agencies noted that there was a hike in hate crime offenses on the foundation of sexual-orientation partiality in 2007. Outlets reported that over 1,460 hate crime offenses were reported, an increase from 1,415 the previous year. Among them, there was a 58.6 percent predisposition for anti-male homosexual transgressions, even in minority communities.

Why are these types of murders, prompted by the promotion of machismo, becoming a growing trend among young black and Latino men?

In November, 19-year-old Jorge Steven López’s gruesome fatality—that included decapitation, dismemberment and burning —wasn’t a wake up call for the general public. CNN reported that 26-year-old Juan A. Martínez Matos killed López in a “gay panic” on Nov. 13, dumping the teen’s body roadside. Martinez said he was looking for a prostitute and that the teen had presented himself as female at the time of the murder.

Vigils followed the discovery of his body which was found outside of a Ponce, Puerto Rico motel and Martinez confessed to the crime and was sentenced to 99 years in a prison psychiatric ward.

According to the Massachusetts 2006 Youth Risk Survey, bisexual, gay, lesbian, transgender and questioning youth are up to four times more prone to attempt suicide than their heterosexual age group.

“Family Rejection as a Predictor of Negative Health Outcomes,” a 2009 study, noted that the 2006 statistic doubles with adolescents who were discarded and abandoned by their families. These adolescents were 8.4 times more likely to attempt suicide.

Jaheem Herrera, 11, of DeKalb County, was the victim of anti-gay bullying and committed suicide in April 2009. His death occurred around the same time as another young boy, Carl Joseph Walker-Hoover, 11, of Springfield, Massachusetts, who committed suicide not long after intense anti-gay taunting every day at school.

WAMC reports that the victim’s grandfather, Daniel Collins Sr., blames Pedro Jones for the crime that resulted in the death of the 17-month-old toddler.

“An idiot infiltrated my family, grew our trust, through the heart of a child. And I hope the justice system turns around and steals his,” said Collins.

What can we do to stop these acts before it becomes a paint-by-numbers hazing game?

Maybe we should implement classes in public schools that showcase men and women who have gone above and beyond in advancing civil rights for oppressed groups–including those who suffer discrimination from gender bias? Maybe we should encourage our male youth to embrace differences instead of machismo?

That is, unless we’re content with the murders of several innocents.

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/blackbizman2008/ blackbizman2008

    Well, Mr. Scott, the first part of your article is cool, but the second half did not transition well: “…Hate crimes against homosexuals are on the rise. ” How did we go from a 17 month old toddler being beaten to death by a deranged live-in boyfriend to hate crimes against homosexuals? Your opinion would suggest the toddler was a homosexual. I am against violence against homosexuals, but perhaps you may want to chill with the leap in subject matters. It forces the reader to draw the wrong conclusion about the victim. This sick violence is a crime, but not a crime against homosexuals.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/lexistyles/ lexistyles

    I agree blackbizman.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/r_j_c_bubbles/ r_j_c_bubbles

    This crime was not about gay or straight it was plain and simple alot of these so called “men” really dont know what it means to be men. They are good at pretending and doing what they think men should but but they are just a bunch of grown boys. They are making real men out there look back. Big ups to the real black and latino men out there, teach these boys you cant just go punching a little kid in the chest.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CAROLINAGIRLSRDABEST/ CAROLINAGIRLSRDABEST

    @blackbizman2008-I agree with you as well. When I started reading the article it was as if they was calling a toddler gay. And just for the record re-write this article to clear this childs name out of any gay rumors. This gay looking man hisself killed this baby and prison is not where he need to be…more like his victim.(LIFE TOOK FROM HIM)JMO

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/sbufford/ sbufford

    he cannot talk look at his hair

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/mj1973/ mj1973

    THERE IS NO JUSTICE FOR HIM BUT STREET JUSTICE…HOW DARE HE TAKE A LIFE BECAUSE OF THE WAY A CHILD ACTS…LET THAT WASTE OF SKIN LOOSE AND LET THE STREETS HANDLE THAT ASS…ASAP

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/1914quetip/ 1914quetip

    He is good as dead when he gets to prison!!!! The prison cats will turn him into a girl!!!

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CaliFemme23/ CaliFemme23

    Who the hell does he think he is trying to teach masculinity WITH A HEAD FULL OF BRAIDS?!! I hope this guy gets everything under the law that’s coming to him…

    And on another note, THIS world is TOO accepting of our young MALES being feminine..Boys these days do need to be a bit tougher, it just doesn’t take murder or abuse to do it…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/NunyaBidniz/ NunyaBidniz

    Blackbizman2008….wouldn’t his anger over the child acting like a girl lead one to think his fear was that his “acting” could lead to homosexuality? Homophobia isn’t really a stretch with this one. And its not like it isn’t rampant in our communities.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/2good2bsingle/ 2good2bsingle

    SMH @ article.. :-(

    I’ll wait until AFTER I hear the ‘magic words’ to say what I wanna say in here. ;-)

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CaliFemme23/ CaliFemme23

    NunyaBidniz, Well said…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Tyelisha2/ Tyelisha2

    That’s a shame…it really is. I’m sorry, but if I have any children i will not be bringing no men around my children…he got to have his head on straight. Real talk!!!! He got to have love for my child as much as he got love for me. And he can’t be a violent man whatsoever.

    @Blackbizman2008…i get what you’re saying, but in a way it does relate to gay bashing because some men lash out when they think their son is gay or going to be gay and that is because the child might be acting a certain way or as they would put it…”acting like a girl.” I’ve seen it too many times with men who gets pissed off when their son is crying and they be like: ” shut up with all that crying and man-up….stop with all that SISSY shyt or i’ll give something to cry for.” Now if he’s playing with dolls, then yes, you have to get him out of that, but being violent and saying hateful things to him in order to get him out of that habit is not the way to go. Gay bashing is physicially and mentally…so for example, say if your son is acting feminine and you say stop that sissy stuff and then hit him. To a point it is gay bashing because you have this fear and dislike of gay men towards the point where you think your child might become one simply due to an innocent act. Kids are impressionable and they do things, but calling them names and fighting them like you’re fighting somebody out on the street….is sick. There’s a difference between discipline, knowledge, and down right hatefulness when you think your child is going to become that very thing that you despise.

    And in this case, the boy ain’t even his son, but he still made it his business to teach him…”HOW TO BE A MAN.” Sick Bastard.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/faithfulsoldier777/ faithfulsoldier777

    HAS HE EVER HEARD OF HOMOTHUG…A MAN WILL BE GAY NO MATTER HOW OR WHAT HE SEEMINGLY ACTS LIKE…THIS IS A FOOLISH BLACK MYTH…AND SHOWS HOW MUCH IGNORANCE IS DEEP IN OUR CULTURE…BUT DON’T WORRY BROTHA’ THEY WILL TEACH YOU HOW TO WALK AND SIT LIKE A MAN..COUCH…I MEAN WO-MAN IN PRISON…

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Toni_Anthony/ Toni_Anthony

    Wow! I got the SAME treatment from my Father when I was a Little Boy, a Fem-Little Boy, man, did I get my A** Beat but I saw my Mother get Beat, my half-brother & sisters mother’s get beat as well! An Abuser Does NOT discriminate, “Belileve me.” I HOPE the Lifers in the Joint Know this dude beat a baby, for Acting like a Girl.! I can’t wait to hear how Mr. Bad A** cry’s when KARMA come back and beat’s his a** to the grave!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/iamwoman/ iamwoman

    My God,

    Abba, Abba help our children all over the world, cover them from the hand of the enmy.

    In Jesus Name I pray. Amen.

    I’ve learned over the years why God says in the Bible that children are a blessing.

    Did you know that all souls before coming through the womb of a woman originate
    in heaven?

    They look down in earth and with all innocence only see a world filled with more souls, that failed to please the heart of God. They then look back at God and beg to be sent promising God that they won’t fail to please Him in the earth with what ever life assingment He will for there life. God looks upon them as only God can being all knowing. Yet send them anyway!
    Due to the love in them for Him.

    Some are aborted and return to God in horror. Warning other souls of the treatment they seem to think is awaiting many a souls. Some are born and then taken as this precious little one..I can’t help but to cry as I type this out. God sits high yet looks low. Yes a God of Love He is that too. A God who said vengence is mine. God is forgiving and a mender of broken spirits, hearts and minds.

    A God of strenght when we are weak. To all victims past and present and the love ones left behind, May God flood your hearts with His Loving peace and fill your hurt as only He can. May God cause you to feel His warm embrace even now and hold you close to His heart, giving you wholeness in every area of you. Selah

    Amen. Be Blessed.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/iamwoman/ iamwoman

    My God,

    Abba, Abba help our children all over the world, cover them from the hand of the enmy.

    In Jesus Name I pray. Amen.

    I’ve learned over the years why God says in the Bible that children are a blessing

    Did you know that all souls before coming through the womb of a woman originate
    in heaven?

    They look down in earth and with all innocence only see a world filled with more souls, that failed to please the heart of God. They then look back at God and beg to be sent promising God that they won’t fail to please Him in the earth with what ever life assingment He will for there life. God looks upon them as only God can being all knowing. Yet send them anyway!
    Due to the love in them for Him.

    Some are aborted and return to God in horror. Warning other souls of the treatment they seem to think is awaiting many a souls. Some are born and then taken as this precious little one..I can’t help but to cry as I type this out. Some come and grow in corruption, as we are born into sin. God sits high yet looks low. Yes a God of Love He is that too. A God who said vengeance is mine. God is forgiving and a mender of broken spirits, hearts and minds.

    A God of strenght when we are weak. To all victims past and present and the love ones left behind, May God flood your hearts with His Loving peace and fill your hurt as only He can. May God cause you to feel His warm embrace even now and hold you close to His heart, giving you wholeness in every area of you. Selah

    Amen. Be Blessed.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/sexycristal31_family/ sexycristal31_family

    what he mean not guilty
    he should pick on someone his own size!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/registheone/ registheone

    He will get his for sure…this is a very sickening story. The world will continue to be full of evil people.

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/BlkSuperHero928/ BlkSuperHero928

    should put that woman on blast for letting that a*****e be around her son. Some of yall piss me the Hell off letting any fool who likes you be around your children. I was that woman’s brother you would be hearing about 2 more news stories, one for beating her ass and 2 for putting that fool in the ground. Why do single mommies let any fool be around their kids? My sister made the same mistake with my niece by leaving her alone with her ghetto ass roommate’s children. All grown boys and they took advantage of her. Now she’s grown and her head aint right cuz of it, and does my sis take responsibility for her? No because she too busy trying to find a %^&*ing man!!!!!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/jazzwatch/ jazzwatch

    Wait till his ass gets into the pokey and ther willl be muscular 400 pound MUSCULAR men who will make him wash their drawers, make their cheese sandwhiches with an iron and a paper bag and will teach this child murderer how to BE feminine. with his doo doo braids…..

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Hellokitty111/ Hellokitty111

    How you going to so called toughen up a 17 month old? Hello they still a baby/toddler. geesh some folks are stupid and i hope he gets what he deserves!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Beautii_421/ Beautii_421

    Look at the big tits on that mf he’ll be dudes b***h in prison. I hope they beat his ass to death!!!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/SuperGenius01/ SuperGenius01

    @Tyelisha2
    I hope that if you have children you’re married to the father of those children so you won’t even have to worry about bringing other men around.
    Can you dig that?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/judojerry/ judojerry

    MAN……THIS WAS A SHAME. POOR KID .

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Tyelisha2/ Tyelisha2

    @SuperGenius01

    Being as though I’m aiming for that…i can dig it. Otherwise, I could of been a single mother (ain’t nothing wrong with that). However, I was placing myself in her situation and millions like her and the steps i would take to protect my kids, especially when you’re with somebody who isn’t the father of your kid/s.

    So i’m a leave you with this….if you do or plainning on having children and your son is acting a certain way that you don’t like…before you react… find a way to handle him without acting hateful. Now, can you dig that.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/jazzwatch/ jazzwatch

    q 6 foot 7, 300 pound lifer named Sobo , a lifer for murder, will have HIS with this child killer, with doo doo braids that almost look like Buckwheat…….

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/TMAC_35000/ TMAC_35000

    Time for him to be somebody’s “Cell Wife”

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/big_peaches/ big_peaches

    Oh wow…. What is it with all the abuse to these children lately!!!? Just read about a guy in Miami who was teaching his son how to box and beat him to death.

    http://www.cnn.com/2010/CRIME/08/05/florida.boxing.baby/index.html?hpt=T2

    Why won’t these losers let a kid be a kid? Why do these children have to grow up so fast!!!?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MZ_KNIGHTOWL/ MZ_KNIGHTOWL

    i dont know bout some of these comments,,,some of u r acting as if u wouldnt hurt a child(mainly a boy) if he was “acting” in a feminine way, but some ppl talk bout tryna change that kid without violence,,,LOL,,,regardless of anyway that u try to handle that situation,,,ur setting a child(maybe ur own) up for a long road of not knowing who they really are. Like the article said, KIDS,,,not grown folk,,,but KIDS,,,get dis-owned by their own families, They end up homeless (thats whats in the real HOLLYWOOD,,alot of teenage runaways) or kill themselves ,,,they go thru torture in life from strangers, and now they gotta deal with their own family?? I dont know, i guess some of u have ur own views on how to “not let” ur kids be gay,,,lol,,,playing with a doll doesnt mean $hit but ok. As for this lame in the article killing that baby, u cant blame the mother, there are alot of step fathers that step into the picture and care for that child better than the biological mother & father,,,some even end up with custody of a child that isnt theirs because nobody cares for that child like that person who stepped in. It even says that the victims grandfather said this man grew their trust. So nobody knew this man was gonna do this dirty $hit, dont nobody know how anyone is gonna turn out,,,u get into relationships and think this man or woman is acting all sweet,,their so perfect, and sometimes they end up being the ones to take ur a$$ out,,,
    I dont have no kids by choice at the moment, but when i decide to, ima let them be kids, i had male friends that played with my dolls with me, and all of them grew up having their own families and they allow their children to be kids as well. I played sports with my bros and other kids on our block who were tough with me and the other females, we love sports now, grew up tom boys, but that dont mean were gay. I can stay talkin bout this topic bout the child who was killed, but id rather take this time to get to some of u with narrow minds, u cant predict $hit or change anyone from who they really wanna be, dont be a sad example for a parent!

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/VishouzK/ VishouzK

    r_j_c_bubbles – I agree with you completely!

    And the cycle continues… a generation of father-less boys have grown and are now trying to instill the traits they were never given. How can a man who has never known a father be a father?? So now there is this growing trend…”tough love” by “no love” to try and thwart what these individuals believe to be homosexual characteristics…

    “I was trying to get him to act like a boy instead of a little girl…” (?!)

    It amazes me how this idiot (because I cannot in good conscience call him a man) truly believed he had the right to discipline this child in any way. He was not his father.
    How does a one year old act like a little girl any damn way? ALL CHILDREN at that age whine and cry so exactly what behavior was he referring to? And then he admits he punched this baby in the chest and grabbed him by the neck???!! Are you serious?!… This story is infuriating.

    Women/Men – both as single parents have a DUTY to protect their children from these so called significant others… don’t give them clearance to SIGNIFICANTLY alter your life forever… not everyone can be trusted to be a parent… if you love your children you better act like it.
    It’s standard to complete a check on daycare facilities, and nannies… people drop the ball on girl/boy friends? Why?!! Put a background check on these mates… if they NEVER had ANY positive role model during their formative years… you don’t ask these people to babysit your child…WTF

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/mallyG69/ mallyG69

    SHM! The victims grandfather says an idiot “infiltrated” my family…; This creep didn’t infiltrate he was let in through the poor judgement of his mother. This is all too common. Women choose losers to be a daddy for their kids and leave them alone with them. To desperate and hard up for a man. Granted, some chicks are not mind readers and can’t think any further than their clits but be a little more selective and don’t be so trusting right away. Poor babies have idiots for moms.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/lickemlow-luvr/ lickemlow-luvr

    Damn….. He had a beautiful baby boy too….(even if it wasnt his)…. that suks……I feel for him…… that Sh#$t is gonna haunt him for the rest of his life…….He killed a tiny baby ….I really feel for you bro.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Tyelisha2/ Tyelisha2

    @MZ_KNIGHTOWL

    I don’t know what your getting at, but what you said, makes no sense whatsoever…I’M NOT GOING TO punch my neices and nephews in the face like i’m fighting somebody out in the street. MY NEPHEW DO CERTAIN THINGS BUT IF I DON’T LIKE IT…I TELL HIM TO STOP…NOT JUMP UP AND SMACK HIM IN HIS FACE. I DON’T REACT VIOLENT WITH CHILDREN SO WHEN I SAY THAT HE SHOULD OF APPROACH THAT SITUATION WITHOUT BEING VIOLENT…I MEANT IT.

    So maybe just maybe when some of us say that we won’t ABUSE kids, WE ACTUALLY MEAN IT. If that’s what you like to do then that’s the hell on you…i guess i’ll be seeing you on the news. I’m a leave you with this…what this coward did was violent and vicious, so if somebody says: he should of approach this situation differently without being violent…THEY ARE TELLING THE TRUTH. BECAUSE IF THAT WAS THE CASE THIS WOULD OF NEVER HAPPEN. SO WHAT THE CHILD WAS ACTING “LIKE A GIRL”…AT THAT AGE, HE DOESN’T EVEN KNOW WHAT HE ‘S DOING.

    AS A MATTER OF FACT, PEDRO JONES, SHOULDN’T EVEN BE THINKING THAT WAY…THAT’S SICK.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/sexybrotha2k3/ sexybrotha2k3

    How many gay 17 month olds do you know? Was the baby giving this dude cruising eyes and grabbing his little baby package and inviting this grown man to it? Because if not I hope this son of a b***h gets anally raped repeatedly in prison so HE can man the f**k up.

    NOT EVERY FEMININE ACTING BOY IS GAY, AND WHO GIVES A F**K IF THEY ARE? WHY IS IT YOUR PLACE TO MAKE THEM FEEL LESS THAN? TO F**K UP THEIR CHILDHOOD WITH YOUR BULLS**T ASS PREJUDICE?

    Parents, stop making derogatory comments about homosexuals when your children are present. More than anything they see on TV or in a movie, children emulate their parents and what parents do and say. If your children see you calling an effeminate male a fag or a homo and laughing and pointing…what do you think they will do? What do you think they will LEARN is the right procedure when you see a boy that acts kinda like a girl? Now, what do you think they’ll do the first time they make the mistake of confusing a Tranny or drag queen for an actual female? I think the article said…decapitation, dismemberment and burning? And then you’ll be sitting in the gallery of the court room watching your little boy go to jail for the rest of his life for something that YOU could have helped prevent, but at the same time you’ll look across the aisle at the family of the deceased and realize that YOUR child killed THAT child and now it’s two mothers that will never see their babies again.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/sivira/ sivira

    This is terrible! He better hope that no Indians don’t get to him before the others do! He had a beautiful child, that was not even his… Shame on him!

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/fynelilmommi/ fynelilmommi

    If he wanted to do something he should have been trying to potty-train the tot or something not worrying about him acting like a girl, and how does a 17 month old “act” like a girl anyway..what a looser he will get his very soon

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/nikiip30/ nikiip30

    IT SEEMS AFRICA IS THE SAFEST PLACE TO RAISE KIDS. THE MOST VIOLENT ANIMALS ARE HERE I N THE U.S. WALKING ON EARTH. DAMN! AT LEAST U WOULD KNOW WHAT GOES THROUGH AN ANIMAL MINDS (FOOD). YOU CAN’T PREDICT WHAT GOES ON IN THE HUMAN BEING MIND. HUMANS ARE THE MOT DANGEROUS CREATURES. “THAT POOR BABY”

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/EricaAnn/ EricaAnn

    If I ever saw that monstrous pig anywhere in life I swear I’d be doing 20 years. It’s not safe in America anymore and that’s a shame. That little angel could have been the next President or CEO of a major company. This is a sign ladies that you need to pick better men and not settle just because you feel like you have no choice. My mother’s boyfriend now husband beat me on countless occasions for stupid reasons and sometimes

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/EricaAnn/ EricaAnn

    If I ever saw that monstrous pig anywhere in life I swear I’d be doing 20 years. It’s not safe in America anymore and that’s a shame. That little angel could have been the next President or CEO of a major company. This is a sign ladies that you need to pick better men and not settle just because you feel like you have no choice. My mother’s boyfriend now husband beat me on countless occasions for stupid reasons and sometimes I think to myself that he could’ve went too far and killed me and her stupidity and poor judgement would’ve cost me my life. I will never forget it and it will probably take a while for me to forgive her. RIP little angel, you didnt deserve that:*(

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/no_angel_photography/ no_angel_photography

    #1 why the fugg are u leaving ur kid home with someone u only known for a few months?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/BravoMarie/ BravoMarie

    I’m somewhat disappointed in the way a couple of you responded by blaming it on the baby’s mother… Yes, we as mothers need to be selective on whom we choose to leave our children with but, how was she to predict this unless there was some form of abuse prior to this incident or some other sign???
    I think what he did is absolutely disgusting, but he killed that child… not her.

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/blksouthern_belle/ blksouthern_belle

    This kind of news is worse than any-the abuse and murder of an innocent child.this is a disgrace to do that to our brothers and sisters..the First Americans. This man is a disgrace for disrespecting the nation and I hope someone beat his punkazz for doing something so Cowardly,or either he be someone’s HO in jail.He’s less than a man.. He was pent up with anger and shouldve took it out on someone his own size not a baby. What a shame, I don’t care what kind of mother the child had.. this is distrubing. that punk is the only one to blame unless the mother was also absive. May the Baby Rest In Peace like the beautiful Angel he is.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MsChocolateWasted/ MsChocolateWasted

    THIS WAS IN NO WAY THA MOTHER’S FAULT PPL ARE SO STUPID THESE DAYS TO JUST JUMP TO CONCLUSION WEN YALL MISSIN THA BIG POINT DIS BIG B***H ACTED ALONE KILLING THIS BABY WORDS CANNOT DESCRIBE MY FURY I HATE PPL LIKE HIM TO KILL AN INNOCENT CHILD HE WAS A GROWN ASS MAN PUNCHIN A BABY BOY HE DESERVES TO DIE THERE’S NO EXCUSE BECAUSE HE HAD TO PUNCH THA BABY HARD IF HE WENT INTO CARDIAC ARREST AND DEN GRABBIN HIS NECK LIKE HE’S A GROWN MAN HE’S A CHILD 17 MONTHS HE COULDNT BEEN ACTIN LIKE A GIRL THAT MUCH BECUZ HE DOESNT EVEN KNO ANY BETTER IF ANY OF YOU KNE WAT IT WAS LIKE TO BE A MOTHER DEN TO LOSE A CHILD YOU WOULD PROBABLY UNDERSTAND WAT SHE GOIN THRU INSTEAD OF BEIN SO QUICK TO POINT THA BLAME AT HER MY PRAYERS GO OUT TO THIS FAMILY AND THA MOTHER AND MAY GOD WATCH OVER THIS PRECIOUS BABY’S SOULD

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/FocusedIn07/ FocusedIn07

    “A one-time mistake and I am going to do 20 years,” said Jones.
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    How in the world is striking a child with your fist a “mistake”?! To have even made a fist towards the child must imply that the kid angered you enough to want to hit them that hard. Let’s see what happens when one of those inmates “mistakenly” hits you. SMH at this story.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/john_jetter/ john_jetter

    Lord knows people need to get educated before they ruin the lives of others. I will say without prejudice that he did a totally ignorant thing especially; no one probably hasn’t told him he’s the one with tits

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/john_jetter/ john_jetter

    Okay Men, Black and Hispanic men we have been targeted with some proof that we are homo-phobic. We need to evolve fellas. I will be 54 years old this month and to date no homosexual has ever harmed me in any way.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/2BAFRIEND/ 2BAFRIEND

    What a sick ass. First women have to stop having men around there children before really knowing them and that can take many many months. The ass that beat that child to death should look at himself first, hell he has breasts not pecks, what up with that?

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/rayskilla6/ rayskilla6

    OK this type of news reporting really pisses me OFF!!!! Now this is a tragic tale of a grown man doing a terrible thing to a child!!! Now I may be wrong, but I believe this brother and in my spirit I feel he’s sincere, in that he didn’t mean to kill the child! However he did, and should be punished! Ok, but how the f…k did this become some type of gay issue, and once again you have the media typecasting BLACK MEN AND LATINO MEN. Oh we’re hyper macho, and homophobic and its higher violence committed by us against gay people. GET DA FUKK OUT OF HERE WIT THAT SHYT!!!!!

    1. I’m against homosexuality, and I think its a detriment to OUR community, however I believe everyone has a right to live their life how they see fit, as long as it doesn’t harm anyone else. Besides we each have to answer for what we do alone.

    2. I’ve never harmed any gay person, and I feel that anyone who does harm someone gay just because they’re gay, should be punished accordingly, however everyone knows and should be man/woman enough to admit that you have some bogus gay people out here, that damn near try and force themselves on to people and then hide behind that whole hate crime shyt. I had a friend who was forcefully grabbed on his azz by a gay dude, he beat the dudes azz, and they charged him with a hate crime, took him two year to clear his name. I ask you is that shyt fair?

    3. Like I said in 1, live and let live. But people ask yourself this, why does it seem this gay thing is being forced upon us, particularly in the BLACK/LATINO communities. More and more you hear the homosexual lifestyle promoted, like its the thing to do. If you dare speak against it, you are deemed a demonic heartless bigot, and your even looked at funny if your not here just in celebration and support of it. An before some of you call me a hypocrite on your high horse, talking bout you should love who you love and being gay is no worse than all the ills in the heterosexual community. Well I not saying it is either, but think about this a person who stands up and speaks out that heterosexual couples shouldn’t have unprotected sex and should wait until marriage and its wrong to fornicate or have kids out of wedlock; well that person by society would be considered morally upstanding the majority and a stick in the mud by a few. But in this day and age if the same person speaks out against homosexuality the majority of society deems them a bigot

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/jayallday3/ jayallday3

    This is sad…he beat a lil baby b.c. he was “acting like a girl” its a sad event b.c. how the hell does a lil bab act like a girl and how the hell di u think by punchin him that was goin 2 tuffin him up….wat it appears 2 me is…some1 must has beat him 2 make him “a man” and its jus sad a baby was killed over his ignorance….ppl some us need 2 stop bein so close minded about sexuality….its 2010…GROW THE FUK UP….and also woman…quit havin ur kids around these strange ass men…im not buyin dis story…he jus did it 1nce….u dont jus do sum shid like dis 1nce..wat it was he’s done it b4 and this was the only time it was fatal…may God hav mercy on his soul…

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/gregory1965/ gregory1965

    blackbizman what made it a hate crime was that this douches bag thought that the little baby and he was a baby was acting like a girl I.E =GAY its his hatered of GAYS or those he thinks are GAY or might be GAY that made it a Hate crime he beat that child to stop him from acting like a girl and toughen him up his words not mine I have two children and I dont know how a baby of that age can act like any thing other than a baby they still cant talk there still learning to walk good and there not just yet ready to potty train yet so I say give him as many years as he be can be given under the law.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/jenlonte/ jenlonte

    Babies at that age acts the same. I hope that someone there will show him how a girl is suspposed to act. He has that long hair…looks like someone is going to jump on his back and ride him like a donkey.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Pray4kidsdaily/ Pray4kidsdaily

    How come we can’t just punish him like what we see in the movies like Saw and Hostel- a slow torturous death. Instead of him being put on death row to be injected by a FREAKIN’ NEEDLE and medicine. He need to feel and we need to see these wicked people suffer a slow painful death. They escape by going to prison, court dates, and then years (nearly 10 years) on death row before a family who has been hurt by what they done so quick and immediate to their loved one. The police should let that baby’s family at him while he’s in his cubicle cell room. They better not make a mistake and let him out too soon. A deathwish is waiting for him. That mickey fickey need a size 12 up his back side. I know I spoke out of rage, but I know yall feel me. People we need to raise the awareness with our own relatives and make sure they’re not around a no good guy or girl (also warn their behinds they better not mess with ya’ family) because this crime has been done by both sexes and they feel they’re justified to do this.

    Enough is enough!!! I saw a video dedicated to a 2 yr old and in that video she went from a
    happy child to a dead child. She had both legs broken, a clip showed her with a bruise that was fading away on the left side of her face and not only that a tear was in her left eye- a silent plea for help. We have to start with our family and friends some people are overwhelmed by parenting, some don’t have no business being a parent, and some are just plain evil not sick just evil and perverse.

    On facebook their is a site called I will not be silent created by a abuse survivor April J. Maley and if you see the photos on that site. If you have a heart you will shed tears and pray for all kids.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/leewilla35/ leewilla35

    this guy is pitiful and sad. he might have had something that happened to him in his past that made him want to lash out, but at a child. many children don’t know what they are doing at that young age. you have boys that will play with dolls and girls who play with trucks, that doesn’t mean that they will be gay when they grow up. you also have people who know at a very young age what their sexuality is, but a 17 month old, give me a break. this guy needed something to do with his time and something to keep his mind busy, rather then sitting around thinking that a 17 month old is gay; pitiful. and another thing it’s funny how he said that he never hit the child that hard before; meaning that he must of hit the child on several other occasions as well. like the old saying goes: “idle minds are the devils workshop” and he seems to have alot of people working overtime, like this fool!!

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/i_make_guys_kum/ i_make_guys_kum

    the mother is stupid you never suppose to leave your children with someone they dknt even know i think if the baby was a girl he probaly would of raped her. wht the hell was she doing so important she had to leave this poor little baby with this abusive man and a punch in the chest is not going to make boy act like a man .he needs to go to jail, and he better not cry when the judge sentence him n if he do the judge should slap him around and say ( why are you crying ? you better man up cause you about to be some bodys girl.) lol

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/1SexcellentGal/ 1SexcellentGal

    That poor child. Women need to stop leaving their child with their BF. Half the time they don’t even know these losers that they leave their child with. When he gets to jail he will be some dudes bytch. Just wait until big Bubba gets a hand on his azz. He will be running like a turkey before thanksgiving and squealing like a pig.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/MissLexiBaby/ MissLexiBaby

    just like i keep telling white ppl to get over our skin color, get over ppls sexual orientation….gays just like races have been around since the dawn of day. The men who created christanity were in fact gay. smh death because ppl aint all the same, like the odd shaped m&m u find in a bag and throw away.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Larosco/ Larosco

    whats what i called being influenced

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Larosco/ Larosco

    that’s*

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/tracybethlin/ tracybethlin

    please they should allow this mother f**ker rot in jail

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/CamuiMS/ CamuiMS

    Punching a 1 year old in the chance to man him up? A one year old who had no biological ties to him what-so-ever (not saying it would have been ok if he was the biological dad). Aren’t one year olds just learning to walk, say words, and still in diapers? *boohoo* I never hit him once and I did this time now I go to jail it’s soo unfair. Weelllll I hope he feels like a big man now.

    I hope the men in prison there find out what he did to that baby and beat him so bad he’d need a respirator, catheter, colostomy, and feeding tube for the pitiful duration of his life. Even criminals have standards. Lethal injection would be a mercy that he doesn’t deserve.

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/TarissaDGeo/ TarissaDGeo

    What the hell does a 1 and a half year old know about “acting like a girl” that he’s beat by a dude of that dimension in the first place. A boyfriend babysitting the kids. I’m not trying to dog the mother, she’s suffering enough I assume. But WTF!!! And then this gay hate crime thing. A man is actually showing weakness by being so intimidated by a gay person’s presence that he has to respond whether it’s verbally or violently. Too many people are taking lives into their own hands and God isn’t telling them to do this s**t. They will all suffer immensely for their lack of self control if they don’t snap out of it.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/shybyme91/ shybyme91

    Yeah u said it what is a 17 month baby know about acting like the opposite sex…..

    He dont know better yet and all he had to do is probably be a dad to the little boy and take him outside and play some touch football or let him hang around other little boys

    And to educate some people did u know that homosexuality is genetic……if u great great great grand daddy was a homo one day down the line someone in u family is going to be a homosexual.
    SO blame it on u GENES.

  • http://www.blackplanet.com/freelancepimp/ freelancepimp

    This has nothing to do with gays or homosexuality. This was just some idiot lowlife loser abusing and saying something stupid when they asked him why. 17 month old acting like a girl; whatever!

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  • http://www.blackplanet.com/Drop_Ded_Fred_Phelps/ Drop_Ded_Fred_Phelps

    I can understand people thinking that this is being used as some kind of sideline into the “gay rights” push, that this issue of a grown man beating a little bay to death ain’t got s**t to do with rights for gays. But still, this beat a little baby just to try and make him “man up.” What could have influenced him to do such a thing? Christianity? The prevalent mindset that gender is a binary, that you’re either 1 or 0, black or white and there are no inbetweens?

    What if, just for the sake of argument, instead of the dude beating his kid cuz he thought he might turn out “not masculine enough”, the dude beat him because he thought he might turn out “not black enough?” or if it was a white guy beating his mixed son cuz he wasn’t “acting white enough.” More of you would be on that, without this “well yeah, you need to get that outta him, but not THAT way” crap I see around here.

    Ray said: “I had a friend who was forcefully grabbed on his azz by a gay dude, he beat the dudes azz, and they charged him with a hate crime, took him two years to clear his name. I ask you is that shyt fair?”

    Like the Race Card doesn’t get used the same way sometimes? People using it to keep themselves from being the one at fault, like the gay dude who grabbed your friend’s azz?

    I always hear how “the gay rights thing ain’t nuthin like what the struggle for race rights was” but actually there are lots of similarities:

    Blacks: White kids being paranoid to be around blacks or drink from the same fountains cuz of imagined diseases.

    Gays: Kids being paranoid to be around kids they think are gay because of the mindset “all gays have Aids.”

    Blacks: White folk being paranoid that black men wanna rape their white women.
    Gays:Everybody being paranoid to let gays around their kids cuz “all gays are pedos.”

    Blacks: Laws like the “Racial Integrity Act of 1924″ that kept people of differing races from being able to get married based on the belief of white Bible-thumpers that “mixing the races is an abomination to God and allowed law enforcement the right to invade people’s homes like in 1967′s Loving v. Virgnia, the case that finally made everyone else take notice and nulled the anti-mixed marriage laws.

    Gays: Anti-Sodomy laws that made being gay a crime, gave excuse to homophobes to kill gays… did not get nulled until 2003′s “Lawrence v. Texas.”

    Hate for gays and hate for people of other races is a learned thing, from parents, tv, friends… but it can also be un-learned, through education, through debunking of myths. The same religious zealots who told mixed couples what they did was sick and a crime against God are the same ones now saying the same crap about gays. History repeats, but as the bad parts repeat, so will the good parts. In another 50 years or more, hate for Gays will be as palatable to the general public as racism today.

    Marriage between two males or two females will be as in-offensive to their “moral senses” as Interracial Marriage is now. And when that time comes, those who bashed gays like the Westboro Cult and the countless people who murdered gays will be looked down upon just as the general public looks down upon the ignorant redneck hicks of the KKK and the people who strung black youth from trees.

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